I thought the goal for the matchmaker was for Patti to find a girl that is right for me. Instead, I feel Patti's goal was to change me to fit the type of relationship she thinks I should have.
My dream is to find a quality girl who loves me for who I am and enjoys my lifestyle. The stripper pole is not going in the basement and more importantly, I want a girlfriend who likes a pole in the living room. More conservative men looking for traditional relationships may find Patti very helpful, but for me, I found her advice somewhat insulting and not quite useful.
At first Brooke (the woman I selected) appeared to be a great girl for me. After going out a couple times though, it did not work out. Bottom line was that the show was a lot of fun and I would definitely do it again if I had the chance. The only thing I would change would be to make it clear to Patti that she has to find me a girl and relationship that I want rather than try to change me into a person with a lifestyle I am not interested in.
Fortunately, I never expected to find true love through the show. The search continues...