I was shocked by Gary's behavior and stunned that he continues to defend it. He still doesn't understand how incredibly inappropriate he was. He made three references to his date giving him twin girls. Does he really think that's appropriate first date conversation? And what man in his right mind would make a creepy reference to a woman's ovaries on a first date? But perhaps the worst part was that poem in which he talked about wanting her to give him twin girls so he could paint their toenails too. Talk about red flags and alarm bells!! This made him sound like a pedophile. How can someone be a life coach and yet be so utterly clueless about basic social interaction?