Kandi Burruss

Kandi reacts to Sheree and Kim's fight, Kim's nanny nightmare, and NeNe drama!

on Aug 27, 20090

Ok, so it has taken me a week to finally sit down and write my blog. I had to perform this week and I had a million things going on leading up to the show. Needless to say, I got behind on my blogging duties. I found last week's episode to be very interesting. Well before I get on that episode should I comment about the extended director's cut of the Kim and Sheree fight? Hmmm ... not really. That was just a big mess. I did find the part about Lindsay Lohan's dad being there a little funny. By the way, who was that dude with his hands around Kim's hips? I asked her about it and she said it wasn't how it looked. Well it looked pretty incriminating ... I hope Big Poppa doesn't watch that.

Well back to last week's episode. Let's start with Kim's nanny. If she would have told my daughter, "You're going to hell," please believe ALL HELL WOULD HAVE BROKEN LOOSE on her ass! My mouth dropped open when she said that. What type of thing is that to say to a child? Especially in front of their mom who pays you! Kim seems to let a lot of things slide with a lot of people in her life. She definitely needed to fire her.

Like I told ya'll a couple a blogs ago I check my Twitter page often to see what people are thinking. On Twitter everybody had lots to say about NeNe and me. Well let me start with myself first. They made comments about the look I gave NeNe. To be honest I didn't even realize that I gave her that crazy look until I watched it. I really wasn't trying to be shady with her and we didn't have any problems that night so it didn't seem like she took offense to the way I looked at her, at least not that day. When she said "Would you like for me to serve you?" I thought she was trying to be funny. So that's why I was being sarcastic when I said, "Isn't that sweet, you offering to serve us." After that she started playing around singing "Tardy For The Party" all crazy sounding and I was thinking 'OK ... you're just gonna make fun of Kim's song while she's standing here ... alrighty then.' I didn't have an attitude. I just don't hide what I'm thinking very well. I've always been told I have that problem.

427 comments
robin e. crews
robin e. crews

Hi Kandi, I watch the show because of you. You a a good role model for women peroid. Young, old, or middle age. Keep being yourself and the Lord will continue to bless you. Your style, and presence is very stunning. You present your self well. Thanks, Robin I'm 57.

Antoinette from Belle Glade, Florida
Antoinette from Belle Glade, Florida

Kandi,

You are a beautiful African Queen doing her thing, "Flying Above" all the drama in the world. B. who L.O.G., God is watching Kandi's back because her feet are to the ground.

I, too, can't wait until November 10 to buy B.L.O.G! Keep dropping those lyrics! Much SUCCESS, Kandi.

PS. NeNe is JUST MUSUNDERSTOOD as you were in the past and presently by your haters. Support her! She means no harm. You and NeNe are the reasons why I watch "Housewives of Atlanta.

KJ
KJ

You are the only one on the show that is sane. You try help everyone out- but they can be haters. It is a nasty situation with NenE , Kim Sheree' and Lisa.Youare street smart,eerily intelligent, cofident and I can see bored with the drama-- so you don't get involved. many times I feel the others behavior is abusive and very low class. You are not. Plus you have a fantastic attitude-- that's why you are so sucessful- yet people will envy you for it as well.

cindyD
cindyD

Kandi, I love you on the show, I think you are the best housewife of the ATL. I love how you can give it right back to Ne Ne! " Bring it on down"! I love it!

Shante
Shante

Kandi i think that u r a good person. and keep doing what u r doing. And dont let nobody make you feel bad about nothing cause in the long run they go need you so hey keep doing you no matter what!!!!!!!!

christie robertsViewer
christie robertsViewer

kandi,my heart goes out to you and your family.ipray for god to keep you and yours in his saving grace. i don,t care what anyone says he loved you with all his heart that kind of love shines through and cannot be hidden or deminished.please stress to riley how much he loved her that kind of love and attention is very important to a young lady like that at that age.please tell your mother for me that she should trust in god,s love and protection and the great job that she did in raising a strong independent very-very beautiful black women and trust in that. GOD SPEED I,M PRAYING FOR ALL OF YOU THIS IS A TRAGIC LOSES OF A GREAT MAN-HUSBAND-FATHER-SON-LOVER+SON IN LAW TO BE. all my love and prayers christie..

Neau
Neau

First of all I am truly sorry for your loss, I have lost three really close relatives so I understand. I love you and I look up to you as a person, mother, and Real Woman, in the words of Maya Angelou you are, a "Phenomenal Woman." My prayers are with you and your entire family as well as A.J.'s family please take care.

tammy
tammy

kandi your sooo intreating love it when your on... you should have your own show... praying for your new record and your loss. you deserve the best you can see that you have that light god bless and good luck

ola
ola

Kandi, I love the way you are always, as for nene, she will always be there for any of her friends, but she must tone it down some, I am so sorry about AJ, God will take you to a better place in your life, please do not let kim put you in her drams, for she do have a lot of it witj all the members on the show. most of all be true to yourself, make the show , but rember who you are, be blessed.

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Viewer

Hi Kandi, My deepest sympathy on your loss of AJ. I was just watching the show and at the end it had *IN MEMORY* of AJ. and I was Shocked! I still don't know what happened to him. I just kept rewinding to see it. I could not believe it. I am so sorry from the bottom of my heart. Can someone please tell me what happened to him? I am in tears. I just can't believe it. SO SAD :(

Jim Texas
Jim Texas

Kandi, you are the only normal one on the show you know that right? I loved me some NeNe (UNTIL) she started hanging around that fake, classless Lisa and she changed her. NeNe has back stabbed Kim and this whole fight with Sheree and Kim. It's all BS. Stay away from NeNe and Lisa, honestly, their true colors are starting to show.

I think your album is going to be huge and I wish you all the luck in the world. Stay exactly the way you are, don't take any BS from any of those fake women ESPECIALLY Lisa. Lord she makes me want to vomit. NO CLASS! Love you.

Your man in Texas (Don't worry AJ, I'm no threat! LOL)

P.S. I would be so incredibly upset with Kim for her no show at Tongue and Groove. I like Kim but I'm starting to ride the fence on this one if she doesn't have a good valid reason (which I don't know yet, I guess I will find out tonight).

dana
dana

hi kandi

its me again listen lol do you know why when lisa came over to nene's house the day after sharee's party why when nene answered the door with a low voice instead of loud because you told that ass off and then stepped away from her dumb ass like she wasnt shit lol oh man nene is a negative dumb bitch lol anyway love ya girl wishing you nothing but the best! dana :) :)

Mary
Mary

Kandi, My deepesy sympathy on your loss. I''m so sorry. May your strong faith and family bring you through. He doesn't give us more than we can handle. You will come through with beauty and grace. You can do it.

I just hope Kim can get over herself for two minutes to extend a loving hand. The others will. I know they will be there for you. Bless you and love from Boston.

Sandi
Sandi

Kandi you are the only reason I watch this show,because I don't like a lot of chaos and confusion and looking in from the outside these women are too violital for me. They backstab and smile in one anothers face.They think of themselves as having class.I caught the act on the Ellen Show.She was basically calling Kim and Sheree out for acting like children,when she suggested musical chairs.(So sad) If you did not get my message on Twitter,my heart goes out to you,Riley,AJ's children amd his family.I feel like I knew AJ.and I really was hoping everything would work out for you two.Just remember AJ. truly wanted you to have the desires of your heart.So let your music and the memories of all the good times heal you.God bless you and his children.

Sharon
Sharon

Hey Kandi.Dont worry about Nene.Iam sure you was not looking at Nene crazy.If anything she was looking at you crazy cause she wish she had what you have. So dont worry about her just keep doing your thing like you been doing for years....When is your cd coming out? I can't wait to hear it..

babymamabda09
babymamabda09

Kandi, I'm from Bermuda and I LOVE watching the real housewives- especially you - I used to love NENE the best, until the fame got to her head and she started blowin up on TV. I think you're the most down to earth and real sista on the show and only look at it cause of you. I then realized your b-day is the same as my husband - I guess that's why I like how you dress, talk, deal with peeps etc. - he's very calm like you. Anyways, stay cool girl and away from all de drama. I can't wait for your CD to drop - I'll be buying it for sure!!

Tammy

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Viewer

Kandi, I just love what you did with that song "Tardy for the Party"! Wow, you are amazingly talented that you turned that song around like that! I love all of you on the show and I wish you guys would all get along because you are all a great group!

RHOAWatcher
RHOAWatcher

Does ANYONE know where Kandi got the brown leather corset belt which seemed to have connected and also been the straps from??? Who's the designer? I need it! lol Can't wait for the show tonight.

carolyn
carolyn

Kandi, you are doing a great job on the show. Keep up the good work with Kim. She need your support. About NeNe, she want the show to be all about her, she is not a diva, but the devil of the show.

Viewer
Viewer

Hi Kandi,

I know that you are on to BIGGER AND BETTER things, however, please dump AJ. You can do so much better. You are a REAL class act and you deserve the best in a man. One with no "baby mamma drama" attached to himself. What does that say about a man..... All of those children and not 1 committed relationship....That means MARRIAGE!

As for he-she...I mean NE-NE, ignore her, she is what they call a TRUE hater! Look at her??? She can't hold a candle to you!

Viewer
Viewer

i ONLY watch the show b/c Kandi rocks!!!! you saved the show, yayay!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Coco in Bham
Coco in Bham

Kandi, I have loved your voice since Xscape. (I grew up with you girl----same time frame) You have nothing but grown as a singer. i must say that you are a great addition to this show. you are so sweet and down to earth and have a really big, loving, genuine heart!!!! You are not messy and you speak your mind, but you keep it real; I like how you carry yourself----very classy! Nene is just jealous of you! Keep doing your thing, Kandi. You are an inspiration for a lot of black women. I can not wait to buy your album. p.s. I would love an Xscape reunion! :)

Yvonne
Yvonne

Hi Khandi,

I loved you in the "Pocketbook Monolouges". You are a natural. If I could afford you I would love to cast you in my stage production. Keep doing you...Be Blessed

Yvonne Miami, Florida

serendipity
serendipity

Kandi,

Who cares if NeNe doesn't like your natural reactions to her venom. NeNe thinks that she can say whatever she wants to people. She has made several off-the-cuff comments to you and about you.

The comment that she made to the alter ego photographer before the unveiling that 'if he didn't do a good job that she was going to tell him about it...' She looked at him crazy and then walked away. NeNe needs to wake up and smell the coffee. She can dish it out, but she can't take it in. Ppleeeasseee....

Viewer
Viewer

Kandi, I never comment on these message boards but, I just wanted to say how talented I think you are.I look forward to the music you create in the future. You have a kind heart and a lot of class. You have a fan for life.

Viewer
Viewer

you saved the Atlanta housewives show......you represent black women well on reality tv.......we've had omarossa,nene and etc...go kandi-represent

trudy
trudy

Kandi Glad to see your staying to who u really are. I do enjoy and am glad your being shown more on the show. Thanks for keeping me watching. I think you make the other gals look like bitter angry ppl. Sad really when they could be using the spot light to make us women look beautiful or at least learn to be better ppl. Im very down to earth, (wrong side of tracks so to speak or maybe just lower class?) If being high class is like these gals, I'll stay on my side of town, thank you. LOL

Bridget(Tuscaloosa, Alabama)
Bridget(Tuscaloosa, Alabama)

It is soooooooooooooooo great to see you again! What do i mean? Escape! Kandi, omg thank you for joining tha show, finally a true REAL person. It's great you have stayed grounded. And you look GREAT you really do. and thank you for not falling in the evil trap of the show. As far as your love life, well thats what it is,YOUR love life.---- I was married for 10 years and when i met him ,he had 3kids and 3 "Baby Mommas"! and truthfully i had no idea that once i said i do i really said i do to be in hell! like money, b mamas can break up a happy home! so i understand were ur mom comes from. but YOU live your life. You can only make YOU happy, not ur mom, ur man ,or this world we live in. p.s i had a son and we have 3 sons together so i have 4 sons and now im single and lovin life not try n to fake it like Sheree! married feb 97 div dec 06 so we almost made it 10!!!!!!

Viewer
Viewer

Kandi, Good for you for standing up to NeNe. She was my favorite last season, but now she's just a big bully that's full of herself.

Debbie in ACNJ
Debbie in ACNJ

Kandi,

I just want to say THANK YOU for being so real. The rest of the girls--they need to stay out of the sun---they might melt!! Nene is nothing but a trouble maker and likes to stir things up..."for the camera". But in reality she looks like a fool.

Kandi...continue to be you and thank you for your strength!!

xoxo Debbie

Nikki
Nikki

Kandi, I wanted to say that I think you are an AMAZING woman. You have it all and do it with class. You are very down to earth and I love that about you. You dont get caught up in all the other drama going on in Atlanta. I just saw this weeks episode and Im glad you were the bigger person and walked away from NeNe. That wasnt the time or the place to discuss any of that but I think you handled it like a woman. I admire your strength and confidence and being a successful woman and mother. Cant wait to hear your new album

phillydiva
phillydiva

kandi you are doing the darn thing on this show and this little fight with NeNe I see where it was going and i see where you could have taken it I saw myself in you i mean really i said how do I find this lady meet her and become her friend so i can be te one to go crazy on her she needs a beat down. i was so mad i could not take it anymore she getting all loud with my girl like that at party over a song look do yall need me to come down there and handle things hey just invite me to the next party Im in Augusta

chocolate
chocolate

Kandi u have such great personality ..*sweet heart* most and foremost u are the only one on the show that is independent u are where u are today b/c of u not on the count of a man expense and i truly admire u for that xoxo BTW nene is extremely jealous of u stay away from her she is very negative !

Julie
Julie

I just love you you are the best thing that happened to the show you make me want to watch it and I love your ring and your family you have a lot of class which some on this show do not thatnks for making the show real for me also love youhome stay as real as you are and do not tke any crap from any of them thy are just jealous of your kind un jaded personality

pearlie
pearlie

well first i like to start by saying i just love the show watch every thursday night,second i under stand your mom love you, but if it is a mistake to mary this man let you be the one to find that out.I think he is ok long as he take care of his responsibilty. and still do what it takes to keep you happy.i say you love him go for it.live your life girl. my mom has nine kids she don't get in our relationships she just pray for us.let God lead us and guide us.ow yea shake those haters off you know who im talking about.stay cool

SunnyT
SunnyT

BTW...Would hate to think that you think i am hating on you at all...you are a musical genious and I love what you did with Tardy for the party...but NeNe should have been on it!!!

antoinette
antoinette

Hey Kandi, I think that you are a beautiful person on the inside and the outside. First of all Kim should of fire her nanny when she made that comment. I am a mother of five and I would be damn if someone would of talked to my kids like that,and on the issue about NeNe I don't think that you gave her the dirty look on purpose, it was a look of shock.She suppose to be Kims friend and you are making fun of her. NeNE reminds me of a ex-friend i had a long time ago. She would tell me that she was happy for me, but deep down inside she wasn't. She was also jealous of anyone who would of gotten closer to me. NeNe is a two-faced person.She portrays as a person of being happy, but she isn't, "Misery loves Company", and that kind of person will make everyone around her miserable. I wish you the best with your wedding and don't worry about the BS around you.

sjstravel
sjstravel

Kandi I love your hair style and your color. Please let me know what color it is.

Thank you

Viewer
Viewer

Hey Kandi love you in the show nene is just a ghetto new york and the only way she know she can survive in Life is to try to steal all te camera action by being ghetto in yelling not being a real woman in talking behind people's back ugh i could go on forever... because your already famous in hello who is nene?! KEEP DOING U!! Love your fan

ViewerGwendolyn Hall
ViewerGwendolyn Hall

Kandi, you are the BOMB!!! you got where you are from hard work and dedication, unlike your costars. You are so Blessed to have such a supportive family and a beautiful mother. I simpley admire you for all you have accomplished so stay encouraged and keep showing those girls what a real woman(yourself)is made of, for you really have it going on. May God Continue Bless and Keep You Always..

MizzJ
MizzJ

Nene is hot one minute and cold the next as far as her "friendships" with people that she claims to have known for so long. Kandi, be careful with that one! I hate women who try to show up other women all the time when we should really be watching each others backs.

petbizlady
petbizlady

Kandi, so far, from what I have seen. I think you are a wonderful woman. Someone that values the opinion of her mother, respectfully, but let it go and live your life. Funny how we can carry that stuff through life, but I've been there. I respect you in that you hold out having an opinion on the "housewives" until you have spent time with them. You are talented and you seem like a great mom. Not sure why you are lumped with these women. I think you are in a class by yourself. Like Obama, let stuff roll off, not worth it. Those that are successful and doing well, people will try to find someone to hate on, even if it's a lie. I look forward to getting your CD. Great voice and great music! My mother told me I would never make it because I was black and no one would allow me into their homes to take care of their pets as a professional pet sitter. That was 12 years ago!

sljack
sljack

You are not ghetto!you are from atlanta--you're country!!!LOL!i don't know what the problem is w/nene--but the two of you can work on it.it is not that serious--you have not been on the show long enough to have burned bridges you can't mend.

Muriel
Muriel

Hey Kandi

You are the realist on the show and I admire your honesty. I'm glad that you can see right through Nene Fakeness. Honey when you said, "Hello Pot Meet Kettle," that was a mouth full!LOL She needs to sweep around her own front door before she tries to sweep around anyone else, Cause her Shit Stank too! Excuse my French. It is very obvious how jealous of a person Nene is, Just keep feeding with a long handle spoon, I can see she's your biggest Fan. Also, Your Mom is Fabulous I love how she was there for Kim the night she fell, exuding her Motherly Instincts. You are a great person and My Favorite on Real Housewives of ATL! Muah!!!

april
april

u gotta awsome voice don't worry bought blogs thatsay negetive stuff OMG u took that horrble when i say horrble i mean horrible song and make it a top single love the short hair my mom was an actress on the Lifetime Fantasia movie i know fantansia is your BFF AND ALL GOD BLESS AND KEEP U HAVE A GREAT WEDDING

Viewer
Viewer

I have to say if it were not for you I would not be watching. I really want to see how the wedding thing works out. I will keep my opinion on it to myself as this is your life that you have to live, not mine. All that other madness is getting old. Grown women fighting, really? This is a reality show? I have not seen a female pull someone's hair in years!! I also had to say that Nene called you ghetto, what?! Not to hate on Nene, but she has to take that title as she is over the top with some of the things she does. I like how you carry yourself and you are always smiling. God bless you and your family.

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Charlotte, MC

Kandi - I love how you keep true to yourself and your daughter. Always remember that no matter what anyone says about you - it's about what you think. One an earlier episode, when you were upset about what the bloggers were saying - I yelled at the screen - don't read that crazy stuff. No matter what you do not everyone will be satisfied. By the way I love your song "It must be good, good, good". Is that one that will be on your cd? I sing it all the time. You are so talented - to be able to just write a song just like that. I loved your old group Xscape. I also admire how you stay grounded, and don't need all that bling to survive.

Take care and continue to 'Fly above the Drama".

P.S. I do like NeNe but I do feel that for some reason and I don't know why - she is hating on you but who cares.

S. aNN
S. aNN

I have deemed you and Lisa the two Housewives that I am "Most Likely to Hang Out With." lol You two are ladies, you don't walk into drama, and you are not afraid to stand up for yourselves. Though, I have to admit, NENE is the most entertaining. I can't imagine associating myself with her though. Lucky for you they are cutting you a check to do so! LOL

TRAKELIA JIMERSON
TRAKELIA JIMERSON

Kandi,

I love you on the show!!! You stay neutral to all the mess that is going on on the show. You dont allow the HATERS to slow you down you just allow them to motivate you even more and that is what I admire most about you. Keep doing you girl!!!

Laurie
Laurie

Kandi, you are the only thing that makes that show worth watching. You are smart, sweet, beautiful and ridiculously talented. Keep up the good work, girl - let the others drink the Haterade. It seems to be the only talent they have.