Let’s break out the water works this week, eh? The two times that I cried this year happened to make it into one episode. That’s OK - the first with Kandi was purely emotional.
Most people who actually know me know that I am a huge believer in the teachings of The Secret. The basic tenets of the secret are ASK, BELIEVE, and RECEIVE. I’ve always been a girl with lofty dreams ... BIG dreams. I don’t have any limits in my life. So when I said that I wanted to make a song, it was me asking the universe for it. I tried last year and was COMPLETELY broken down, embarrassed and humiliated by what ran.
Can you imagine a dream of yours going down the toilet like that? And then I met Kandi and spoke with her a few times about BELIEVING in myself and learning that I didn’t have to be Whitney Houston to make a record, all I had to do was be open to RECEIVING the blessing. When I heard the play back and realized that I wasn’t the WORST SINGER alive, I got emotional. It was one of the hardest things for ME to walk back into the studio, and I can honestly say I am proud I did it!!! I really did!!! It was so emotional and a true milestone for me.
People have made fun of me all year long and some people still do and that’s fine. I have my song; I accomplished a goal that I set for myself. It inspires me to set larger goals because I know I can do it.
Now let’s talk about me falling at the party. First let me tell you, I had a reading two weeks before the fall and her exact words were, "Kim be careful in heels I see you tripping and falling." Crazy huh? Now back to the story – imagine yourself at a party with over 300 people and you fall and bite the dust and you just knew you were the cutest thing walking! :) You’re going to get up and dust yourself off and say you’re fine because you don’t want anyone to see you sweat. And then the pain starts to set in. It’s like being in a car accident and being fine on the scene but getting home, letting the shock wear off and now you’re in PAIN and need a neck brace – it happens all the time. Not to mention, I injured my ankle further when I tried to get out of the car to view my alter ego photo after I fell. You didn’t get to see that. So that’s why I was moaning and in such pain at one point.
NeNe seems to forget how she treats people. She came to my house and made an ass out of me and she made fun of my singing in the limo last year, yet she can’t wait to sing a song with me? Those things were some of the things going through my head at the studio. It was hard for me personally to walk through those doors and record, and after I did it, I just had to call my best friend Cori just to share with her how hard yet rewarding it was. Cori has always been so supportive. No one has walked a mile in my shoes, and no one will truly understand what a triumph that first day back in the studio was for me. I want to thank Kandi for her support, encouragement, and reinforcement. I truly will be forever grateful for the life changing experience that it was.
Everyone seems to be upset about the dress that I wore to the studio. I had a meeting with a matchmaker (the footage is below) before I went to the studio and Kandi and I live SO far away from each other that I wasn’t going home to change. I love that dress. It makes me feel like the princess. I don’t dress for other people - I dress for myself. Though I must admit, sundresses are my favorite
"Tardy For The Party" IS on iTunes RIGHT NOW and is currently at #3 on Top Dance Tracks Chart. Thanks to everyone who downloaded the song! I’ll be back here next week to chat with you all. ;)
xoxo
Kim Z
Hello Kim
You may fine this hard to belive but you have a large falling from the male side & I had to write to say you are thee one of two hottest women on this show. I am a very big fan & please kep it up... Thanks & good luck
Kim, I'm interested in having a reading done by your psychic Anna can i get her information to contact her .
Kim is definitely my favorite housewife. I got a chance to meet her and Kandi on April 17th, 2010 at the Tyler Perry show "Madeas Big Happy Family" at the Fox Theater. Kim and Kandy are extremely down to earth in person, regardless to what anyone else may say and she tips well. I'd love to be Kim's Personal Assistant any day.
Hi Kim:
You are our favourite "housewife" out of ALL the other shows/stars. I'm trying to buy your CD. Your voice sounded wonderful in the car and I'm sure the CD is fantastic.
Keep singing and being beautiful.
From your Canadian fans,
Anne and Graham
I am curious Kim always has a glass of white wine in her hand, how much does she drink on a daily basis!! I ask cause I love wine!!
Please let Kim alone. I am so tired of everyone leaning on her for everything she is. At least she doesn't hide much. AND I do not believe that she tells as much to other as people think she does. The others in the group, except Kandi seems to talk about her more. Get off her back. She know she does not sing well. But Kandi is not a super voice and and yet she does well. NENE thinks she is great and she is not. In fact, I certainly think she is awful most all of the time. She is not kind. She thinks she is to be the DIRECTOR to all of those around her or have been or is to be. Becareful NENE you are going to meet the one to knock yourself off YOUR PEDESTAL!! Just you and Kim to put this on the shelf is great but you are still full of trash in your mind and heart........such jealousy. I know Kim as I have been her...........she is putting it aside, but YOU cannot. Kim, keep your mouth shut except to Kandi. The others want to just stab you in the back so many times.!!! Ruthie Craig Retired Evansville,, Indiana
Hi Kim,
I'm not a negative person but all that Kandi did for you, and you not showing your support for her on a night that was much more important then you realize shows that maybe everything the other girls are saying maybe true. I will also say this if it had not been for Kandi helping you in the studio you would have truely sounded like pure pure crap!!!!! I hope to hell you never have to go on tour, people will want their money back plus some. I hope you have a good excuse for ditching your friend on her important night, that was truely low down.
Kim that was not cool when youu failed Kandi as a friend and did not support her first comeback show when she supported you and helped you record the song. You know you cant sing a lick and this is how you repay her. Kandi is a good person and a loyal friend to have Big Poppa's money can't buy that!
Kimmy, I'm a big fan of yours. Just heard about A.J. and I wanted to remind you to put all the superficial stuff on hold for a minute and be there for Candi. Go stay with her tonite - bring the girls - and cheer her up. Please be there for your ONLY TRUE friend on the show. Good luck, Lisa
Sorry....no excuse for you missing Kandi's debut.
are you just all about yourself? After all Kandi did for you... it just confirms you're just a user.
Kim, hope you read this one. I think the song is great and you owe Kandi a great deal for her work. She is your friend and you should have gone to the party by not going you give credence to NeNe's remarks.
I wish the best for your wig line, I started to lose my hair in my 30's and am now looking for hair pieces that won't give away my embarrasing secret. It is very painful for me when the other "ladies" make nasty remarks. Loosing my hair is horrible and I would not wish that on anyone.
Why did you miss Kandis performance? Why? We all want to know...
Kim you are not a real friend to anyone. Kandi bent over backward to help you and then when she needs your support your know where to be found. I guess you were with Big Papa which is someone else husband and father you bald headed tramp. All of these people on here that say they love you are homewreckers too.
Well you proved you CAN cut a record WITHOUT NeNe but why did you dis Khandi and her special night after she went way out of her way and took you in her home recording studio, personally helped you face your demons, singing fears, etc... and handed you your 'Tardy for the Party' success on a platinum friendship platter??? Whatever the excuse, there should have at least, the very least been flowers or something sent to her venue to be handed to her when she was finished with the set with a note of apology. You may have just gotten Big Poppa back, but don't turn out to be her 'NeNe'. Khandi is special. Don't prove everyone right with what they are saying about you. If you stick with Khandi, you two could be unstoppable. K and K could be a really good singing team.
Kim,
You always said "That money and class give you power" What class are you talking about?
After Kandi did a gret job producing "TARDY FOR THE PARTY" Why didn't you show for her performance?
Hi Kim,
Please let your friend Cori know that I have picked up on her one liner and now it's my favortie line I use with friends and family....
"SHUT THE FRONT DOOR" Now everytime I use that line people laugh their asses off; guess it's also the way I fit it in at the right time....
Dear Kim, a strong and very smart women once said, haters are motivators. girl we love you. even though you are an 80% NASA creation,:) you are beautiful, stick with Kandi, she is a true friend. look forward to more great kim...
Kim I would like too congrats you on making your dreams come true because we all have them. Kandi after all is your true friend and she made you face your fears.NeNe that relationship you and her had is over with and done. I like NeNe too, but too many people got in the way of ya relationship. It's sad that it is over with because your daughter love her to death.Why didn't you go too Kandi big night out when she was promoting her new album? Kandi was so hurt you could see it in her face?
Hey Kim, "Tardy for the Party" is off the hook...I'm glad your rose above those hater ATL housewives, but just a lil disappointed you were not there for Kandi's debut... What happened? Congrats on the engagement...Stay Strong!!!
Hou Tx
Kim i think that you are great on the show everyone has there on unique personality,,,, Nene will just need to know how to respect your ways and understand that we all have our way of living our life......Kepp up the great work on Tardy for the party it sounds great watching the show an blogging at the same time........Sharee Louisiana
Hi Kim:
Good for you for following through with your dream to sing. Regarding getting readings from a psychic - beware Kim, this information is not from God. It is a dangerous thing to search for the future in this way because like with seances, ouigy boards, horoscopes, Tarrot readings and psychics, this information is from the enemy. Don't open yourself and your family up to that evil stuff. It's bad news, and there is always a price to pay when the enemy is involved. He never really helps you.
Trust God with your future. Just be the best person you can be by following Jesus, and you will find great peace and let go of the need to try (which you never can anyway) to control every facet of your future.
By the way, your wigs look amazing on you, best of luck with your business.
my comment is on your fall. in the episode after you fell, you were at the swimming pool with your girlfriend walking like normal, and at sheree's "independence party" you were on crutches!!! was the pool scene and the party on different days???
KIM! I WANNA BE LIKE YOU WHEN I GROW UP, HA HA! I LOVE YOUR STYLE, YOUR ATTITUDE, AND I CAN'T WAIT FOR MY LITTLE GIRL TO GO SHOPPING WITH ME AND SAY "THAT'S FABULOUS" AND IF YOU EVER WANT TO CLEAN OUT YOUR CLOSET AND "DONATE" SOME OF YOUR AMAZING BAGS FEEL FREE TO SEND THEM TO ME ON THE EAST COAST! I'LL SHOW THEM A GOOD TIME! PS - THAT WAS YOUR SONG FIRST, AND IT SHOULD BE YOUR SONG LAST! :-)
I know it's obvious Nene is not your friend. Move forward, I wish you much success.
ms."D"
I really like you and NeNe as friends, and good friends are hard to come by. Keep her as a friend she will always have your back, and be funny doing it.
Kim,
Good job on the song. I'm glad you faced your fears alone. Only you can deal with your own fears. People should be more understanding because you do have a right to change your mind. What is meant for you is yours and the same for the other ladies.
I think Kim should have talked to NeNe about the song and her wanting to do it by herself, NeNe was looking forward to doing it, and them Kim breaks the news to her in front of others. Also NeNe should think before she opens her mouth, It gets her in alot of trouble...
Kim,
I love you on the show and do not allow NeNe to come between you and Kandi she will find a way because she is a very jealous person and it shows she is always making those disparaging remarks she needs to (grow up) and raise her kids.
i love the song i downloaded it off itunes me n my friend were dancin n singin when we heard it n very impressed from ur change from last year good job to you
I don't blame Kim for wanting to exclude NeNe from the song. This was something she had been wanting for a long time. NeNe has done nothing but make fun of Kim and her singing ability. Along comes Kandi, who really made the song 100% better and gave Kim encouragement.
Kim i like u but i just can't c u doin tardy for the party by urself. Your not an entertainer like dat. Kandi i hope will have someone else on it too.And that song wil be number because I cant get it outta my dam head
Girl let the haters hate! U just keep standing up to those who think they can walk over you(NeNe,an u stay close to Kandi she is trully the realest person on the show
Kim, I love reading your blogs. They are hilarious!! You are the only one smart enough to become close friends with Kandi. She is a genuine person and she's not out to betray you... she's not out to betray any of the other girls either. Nene is hurt and that's why she behaved the way she did but at the end of the day it's your song and you have the right to exclude her if that's what you choose. After all, she hasn't been a very good friend to you these days and I'm sure she has her own good reasons for that but it's still no excuse for her to behave the way she did. Be a good friend to Kandi and remain loyal to her. I think she could teach you a lot about the music world and even more about being humble and happy in life.
Hey Kim whats up?I love you on the show.Last season I really loved you and NeNe.But this season NeNe is really getting on my nerve.
What is NeNe's problem you all use to be the best of friends.I like you and NeNe as friends it makes good TV.The song is great without her on it.
Hi Kim,
I have been watching the show and was very happy to see you overcome your fears and get back into the studio. I was also proud of you for making the decision to do the song alone.
My advice to you is to surround yourself with people that really care for you and tried to find people with positive energy
I wish you success with your wig line. I find it very touching to help women with hair loss issues.
Good Luck!
Kim stay strong. You definately don't need Nene to sell "don't be tardy for the party" coz this song is getting so much publicity on the Radio,TMZ etc.. & it aint even out yet. Love the song, confident you & Kandi can get the job done.
Oh Kim, you are a sweet caring loving person, that shows on every episode!! I truly wish everyone on your show would see Nene for what she really is. My mama called women like her a chit stirrer. She starts all the drama, then sets back and watches while her "friends" make fools of themselves. I see that this season she is really watching what she says on camera, makes me wonder what she is truly like....oh wait, we saw some of that on the first season. I also love The Secret. Now would ya take that believe and work on the smokin hun? Be a role model for you girls. Stay close to Kandi, she is a wonderful caring person as you are. You need to make up with Lisa. Try to point out to her and the others what Nene really is, boy talk about judging others wow, Nene does it all the time.
Kim,
Don't let Nene bully you. Tell her to take a long hike off a short pier.
Kim we here in Kingston Jamaica in the West Indies love you!!!!!!! Forget Nene We think your gorgeous and the best housewife of ATLANTA!!!!!
Why haven't you ever given Nene credit for selecting the Tardy for the Party song out of the batch of songs that the guy gave you? She was the one who said that was the best one and her singing it convinced you that that was the main one you should do.
Kim, song is great. You are saying "don't be tardy for the party" several times and that's it. Have confidence in yourself. I would like to see you rise above and have your own success and cut Big Papa loose if he doesn't commit. You can go it alone. Many women are doing it, with more kids and more responsibilities. Jewelry and clothes doesn't bring happiness and I think you would feel better about yourself if you were able to buy those things with your own money sometimes. I would like to see you donating clothes of yours or the clothes your kids can no longer wear to those in need. I want to see all the "housewives" making a difference at some point that just focusing on themselves, jewelry, cars, parties when so many people are suffering during these difficult economic times. In the last episode, you showed how vulnerable you are and how with all the glitz and glamour, you have not had faith in yourself, clearly showing that what's on the outside is not as important as what is on the inside. I think you should have included NeNe on the song as you had said that you would. I really don't think a couple of "ah-has" would have had an impact one way or the other.
Kim, I send a blog to nene but She probably did not like it because she takes the negative blogs and keeps the not to bad ones. I also heard that nene writes to her own bloc lots of "I love you nene" and "you are the best girl" HOW DREDFUL!!!!!! Love you kim
Hi Kim, Do you read all these? Anyway, the trap with these psychics is that they keep you coming back and paying money to find out if anything else bad is going to happen (like falling in heels) Get in touch with Jesus. He'll give you info for free! This might sound crazy to you, but it is true. There is a devil in this world and he has a counterfeit of every good thing of God, for instance his counterfeit of true prophets of God are psychics. You are in Atlanta, check out T.D.Jakes at The Potters House church, then make your own decision on what is true. I pray you will find the Truth. with love in Jesus, Susan
Kim I understand that you really enjoy your new song but NeNe was the one who really brought it to your attention abiut the song so with out her you wouldn't never took it to Kandi so you should really thyink about it how would you feel?
Hey Girl, Love the song!
I am so glad you decided not to let Nene be on the song. I think she would of just messed it up. Besides why should you of let her be on it? All year long she was horrible to you. So why give her the spot light. Remember girl keep your head up high. Don't let anyone break your spirit.
Kim,
All the girls say that you talk crap behind their backs but it seems like all the girls have to talk about is you. You come off classy and secure and the rest of 'em (aside from Kandy) come off as a bunch of hypocrites. I cannot stand NeNe this season...you were right about peoples true colors coming out this season..I am on Team Kim!!!
Kim,
I love you on the show. You and Kandi seem to be the most real of all the housewives. NeNe is just loud.. I have to turn down the sounds on my TV when she on.. There's a song for you "turn down the sound of your voice NeNe".. LOL!!
Hey kim i think u are doing a god job and i really love the song it still doesnt make since why nene wus so mad juss like kandi said fist she said she didn want to be on the song now she does and she gets mad when you tell her you will just do it by your self And i think the song will sell good without her in it i think u kandi and lisa are the realest of the show for wat i see.
KIM,
LOOOVE LOOVE LOOVE YOUR GOLD WATCH AND YOUR BLACK WATCH!!! WHO ARE THEY BY??
kim, i heard you were from Connecticut, I am from CT as well. Where did you go to High school and where did you go to Nursing School??
thanks, jen
ps I always wanted to start a wig line after my battle with cancer at 32. *11 years ago.
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