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I heard what happened but I still don't understand why though? Poor Kandi she is strong and she'll get over it.

Hello Lisa,

I like you, I think you are a good person. You stay out of the way and you don't caught up in the middle of all the drama. I can really respect that. I know you said you would flip Kim over the couch (I would have loved to see that), but you are much classier than that. How you have such unstable friends is beyond me? Please continue to stay the way you are, please don't let the fame of your clothing line or the show, change the person you are.

hello lisa I think your a very beautiful mother and wife and daughter I think you carry yourself like a lady should I so glad you dont get mixed up in the Kim drama because she needs help forreal ..I wish you and your family the best and tell your husband we could use him on the eagles we be glad to have your family there...love and kisses ....

Hola Lisa,
I agree this violence that is happen across America must stop, but how do you stop low income families trying to strive, and these cities that have no money to invest in our children.
How can these cities do anything when there is no money to give.
Growning up in the South Bronx in the 60's, and 70's was no picinic. I remember playing in empty lots, and the gangs in each corner selling drugs, and killing each other.
Now I read about this young man being beaten and killed by gang members just bring back sad memories about my youth.
As a Hispanic young lady and growing up in the projects, I almost join the Latin Queens, but God slap me in the head and I join the Navy instead ( Best thing I ever did).
It is hard growing up in poor areas and trying to belong, and when we get that one good kid, something like this happens.
All we can do is pray for Kandi and AJ's family, and ask God to help us find a away to stop these crimes agaisn't our children.

Adios
Yvette

my commen about AJ, IS THAT I AM SO TRULY SORRY FOR KANDI, I DIDNT BELEIVE IT UNTIL I SAE THE REST IN PEACE ONBRAVO.HOWEVER, IVE NEVER LOST ANYONE CLOSE TO ME.BUT I CAN ONLY IMAGINE HOW OAINFUL SHE FEELS. yOU GUYS NEED TO BE THERE FOR HER 4REAL. HELP HER GET THROUGH THIS THE BEST WAY YOU KNOW HOW! LOVE YOU GUYS BE SAFE!

hey Lisa, you are so beautiful, inside and out...i love you you are my fave, and you are strong, and strong minded.reminds me of my self wen it comes to my freinds.The peace maker, but dont cross your line!!! I WOULD SO LOVE TO MEET YOU!OR JUST TALK TO YOU.

YOU'RE A GREAT PERSON KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK YOU ARE ALSO THE PEACEMAKER. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR WONDERFUL HUSBAND.

i would like to say im sorry abut aj he was really cool. but lisa you are right all this negative actions need to stop. people are killing innocent people. everyone do not need to die from dumb and ignorant situations.

This message is for Mira! Girl, I am so saddened by your fate and the hand you have been dealt. After all you have been through you are still maintaining and wishing Lisa the best, but girl, somebody needs to send prayers and best wishes for you too! I am so sorry to hear about all of your bad luck. Just keep your faith in the lord and always pray about everything going on in your life and ask the lord to help guide you and build your strength. You will be a stronger person for this. You hang in there girl and Take care of yourself!!!

My sons father was killed 3 days after I had him in April outside a club celebrating the birth. I feel for her loss I don't know how I made it this far. Its been hard he spent 2 1/2 days with him. I went to the grave site 2 times I just cant take the thought of his body in the cold ground and I also have a son in that same cemetary. I feel Im gonna break my mom died when I was preg then my 9yr old had 4 brain operations now this. Every small thing adds up I got in my car to go buy a stroller and it would not start. All I can say is Whats next!!!

Hi Lisa - thanks for posting about the need for change. It is so sad when we watch our people being taken out of here for totally petty, senseless and unnecessary reasons. It's a shame what we are experiencing these days. Such little respect for one's own life so there is no respect at all for the next one's. This violence thing hit home for me as well, as I have an 11 year old step son who is now being taken out of the only school (private school at that) that he has ever known because the surrounding neighborhood is so bad that it is unsafe for him to continue to go there with the rest of the family having to work. All this senseless violence, crime and death makes it very discouraging for the future of our youth but we have to push on regardless and hope that the strong few can carry all the rest to the next level.

i love you MS.Lisa you are the one who tryies to stay out of the drama. I also love your fashion show with those pieces that were shown.

Hi Lisa,

I know u and Kandi was good friends and I'm glad she had u in her corner in her time of sorrow. I live in Chicago, and just last month they beat and killed a young man here at Fenger H.S. I don't know what this world is coming to but our youths need some kind of positive outlet and not negative. They must realize they will be the ones to take care of us when we get older. Hope u and Ed get the girl you two want.

Ona Forbes

HEY LISA
I HOPE YOU AND ED GET THAT LITTLE GIRL

Thank you for being you and love that you are so real. I am a realtor in California. But I am moving to the ATL and want to sell out there hope to be like you........

Thank you

Lisa u are so right about this whole thing it does need to stop, i pray for peace and happiness.

Lisa,

I respect you tremendously! Amen! IT HAS TO STOP...the human race is it's own worst enemy. You are such a positive inspiration.

Good luck on "making more babies"! Little AJ is precious.

I agree the violence have to stop. We are living in our last days and its time for every believer to pray for our young people. its a void in there life somewhere but with the help of the good LORD they can make it. My heart goes out to Kandi in her loss , but God knows best. I just wonder how her mom feel about all of this.

I thank you and your family are sweet and humble people.

Hey Lisa,

Girl I love you and Ed. Looking at the two of you together shows what real love is. I pray that the next test you take will be positive in the very very near future. Keeping doing you and keep separating yourself from the drama.

Dear Lisa.
god bless you for being a true friend to Kandi in her time of need, please continue , my church and i keep you on our payer list every week, we can not not wait for a new baby, good luck, the Pittston Congregational church are trying are best to make your dreams come true. you deserve it, all our love, Maine

Hello, Lisa

Just wanted to say the last time I viewed an airing of you an Ed, was so special to me, my husband of 32 years as had a career change, which was hard to handle because of an injury because of his line of work. We now face a lower income, and it seems I maybe the bread winner, I have always depended on him to provide for ower family of 8 and he is depressed. Could you and with Ed (allowing) bring out a journey of such. I believe love is stronger than we believe and you could show mem like Ed that together you are strong to over come anything. I mean, I am a mother of 5 son's 3 that have served our country proud, but that there are other options to persue, I mean that my sons have said that if they would listen to anyone on EN SPORTS CENTER ED, would be who they would want to see play by play, or giving a TRUE story about up coming athletes in their teen years and would be a GREAT role model in getting them there. Thanks for reading, GO ED

Hi Lisa - I just love you girl! You seem to be as beautiful on the inside as you definitely are on the outside. Your fine husband is very fortunate to have you and you have him as well. You 2 could be voted the "cutest couple". I borrowed your motto, "if it don't make me no money, I don't do it". Why waste time! Your comment is so very true. I pray constantly for some peace in our citys and neighborhoods. One day - One day...Let's keep praying. Power in Prayer. Keep up the good work. Stay beautiful, with a name like Lisa, you can't go wrong.
Lisa

Lisa, I have much respect for you and the way you handle your business. My girlfriends and I have the same qualities about life as well, but yet we keep it real too. Living here in Montgomery alone is keeping it real,Real Boring that is. I would like to meet you guys in person one day... so look me up. We are not in celebrity stats, but we do have it going on.

Lisa,

You are wonderful. Continue being the positive woman and wife that God has designed you to be. You as well as Candi are the only two on the show that is worth anything (it is very sad to say). I sincerely pray for the others and you as well. Keep God first. Be Blessed!!!

i love the strong independent person you are, but when you around nene you stand in the background like a scared child...be you own self, its very becoming

Lisa girl you keep it real at all times I love it. You’re a beautiful person with a bubbly personality.….. Love the way you stay natural through all the drama. You remind me so much of myself. On the business tip you are a go-getter. If your not to busy I have some questions I need some serious business tips. I want to open up a Non-Profit organization which provides seven outreach and support programs targeted to serve and assist low-income, troubled teens, students, and students with disabilities.
I would greatly appreciated it.....
Yours Truly
Ms. Beautiful

Agreed! The senseless violence has to end........

NEXTA!!! Now don't go and make a single and release it on ITunes like Kim did. You just keep on with all that other stuff you're doing. Please dont release a single (or that will definitely prove that you are a copy cat). We can do most things but when we're trying to run a clothing line, real estate line, this line and that line, that's attention deficit disorder not being a 'go-getter'. You can lose yourself when you're trying to run around doing what other people do. Just do you.

HEY LISA,
MY HEART GOE'S OUT TO A.J. AND KANDI FAMILY. TELL HER TO KEEP HER HEAD UP AND KNOW THAT HE'S IN A BETTER PLACE NOW TO BE ABSENT FROM THE BODY IS TO BE PRESCENT WITH THE LORD. ABOUT YOU NOW GIRL YOU AND NENE IS MY FAVORITE TWO ON THE SHOW YALL DON'T TALK ABOUT NO ONE WHATEVER YALL HAVE TO SAY YALL TELL TO THEIR FACE THAT'S THE WAY IT SHOULD BE MUCH LOVE TO YOU TWO GOD BLESS YALL AND THE FAMILY'S.

LISA GIRL YOU ARE BAD I LIKE THE WAY U DO THINGS.AND YOUR ALWAYS THANKING MONEY AND THAT IS A GOOD THING BECAUES U HAVE A FAMILY TO TAKE CARE OF.I LOVE LOOKING AT U ON THE SHOW AND I HOPE YOU NEVER GET LIKE NENE . LOVE U KEEP DOING THE THINGS YOUR DOING.

I think your the most real on the show! You are by far my favorite, you tell it like it is and you dont take no crap so on that note keep doing what your doing!!

Love the Housewives of ATL!! Dwight Eubanks RULES!!!

Where can i find closet freak t-shirts at. I have a few friends that would like some.

Lisa, I like you better this season. You're still slick with the instigating but not as bad as last season. Nene wouldn't have known what you and Kandi were talking about had you not told her when she walked over during Sheree's party. That got the argument started. Then you left. However, you and Sheree know that Nene is a mess but you never call her on it. In other interviews (Ryan Seacrest, ex.), you and Sheree just looked like you were so sick of hearing the same argument between Nene and Kim. You need to pretend that "Kim" is not in your vocabulary and continue to do you. I would buy Closet Freak. Good luck with all of your endeavors.

Lisa you are a beautiful person. Your light just shines through. I love you Girl. You and Nene are my favorite housewives. Stay positive.

True, so true

I JUST LOVE YOU I THINK YOUR FAMILY IS BEAUTIFUL AND I LOVE THE WAY YOU JUST DO THING. I LOVE THE WAY YOU CARE FOR PEOPLE.

Hello Lisa. You are such a beautiful person,and I truly agree with you about the all this useless death in this world. If people would just learn to love a little more and be a little more patient with each other, things like this can all be avoided. Your family is beautiful and I feel like God is blessing you. As I said on NeNe's page you have been good for her. Continue to be the woman you are and don't let anyone take that from you. God bless your heart.

lisa, your so right!!! AS A PARENT OF ONE SON, IHAVE TRIED TO RAISE HIM THE CORRECT WAY.BUUT YOU KNOW THEY HAVE A MIND OF THERE OWN AT A 18. BUT I DO THANK GOD THAT HE IS DOING WELL IN SCHOOL HE IS ASENIOR.BUT WITH PRAYER AND GOD'S HELP WE AS WOMEN CAN CHANGE ANYTHING.BE BLESSED!

Whats up Lisa I would like to thank you for being a real good friend to NeNe and the crew. You are so friendly and kind, Lisa to me when I watch you on the show everybody likes you. You a peace maker. I like the way you handle things ,your husband has a smart lady. that knows how to handle business. But you know what Sheera be hatting on you, I dont know what it is but she wish she were you sometimes. But you bigger than that you dont let no one timidate you at all.

Finally, Lisa the leader and not the follower was back at Kandi's engagement party. You looked relaxed, lighter (about 230 lbs) it was so good to see you restored and calm.

hey lisa, hope all is well with you and your family.

Lisa I totally agree with your statement about this useless violence. It does have to stop the gangs, drugs selling to kids and i thought it would be great if yall dedicated a show to stop the violence and how important it is for kids to know that there is another way, a positive reinforcement that they can go to. At this time yall might want to reach out to the children in your show that watch. Many older men and woman watch the show that are affliated with gangs and I think that it would be something positive if Candi talks about the violence they occured and find out a number for parents to call when they need to make an intervention with their children, teenagers or family members that are going through this. I live in South Carolina where gangs are every where and there is always something on the news how someone got killed over domestic violence or gangs. With your show being national I believe that people would get the message that there is help out there for the mothers, sister, cousins, etc that see that thier family members are making the mistakes of thier lives. I know yall do alot for the women that had suffered through domestic violence but since this hit so close to home I would like to see some type of intervention for those that suffer from the gangs. Our help is needed but silence never helps. You are a great person and one of my favorites If I know if something wants to be done you would be the one to run too! I have a four year old baby girl and I can only imagine what the world, the community is going to be like when they get to highschool. Here it has been known for it to start at age 9. Please look into this and maybe we can start an orginazation for those that need the support like mothers, etc that see their children making the wrong mistakes. I wish your family well. Allison s.c.

HI LISA...IAM SO DIGGIN UR SWAGG,,I SEE ALOT OF MI PERONALITY IN U,,,MI OPINION,,U R THA REALIST ON THA SHOW...AND I LIKE THAT IN A WOMAN.ITS SO HARD TO FIND AND ENJOY GOOD,HONEST AND TRUE FRIENDS,,REAL FRIENDS,,YA KNOW,PPL ARENT ALWAYS WAT THEY APPEAR TO BE AND I LIKE THAT U TEACH US THAT U CAN STILL BE U AND NOT SUBJECT UR SELF TO DRAMA,,,UNLESS U WANT TO BE INVOLVED.U NEVER GOT ENVOLVED IN THA DRAMA UNLESS ITS WAS TO MEDIATE,,,PUT A STOP TO OR BRING TOGETHER AND THATS A TRU FREIND AND PERSON,,,I COMEND U FOR STAYING JUS WHO U R.MMWAH~

Lisa, I do agree with u there is to much violence in Atlanta and everywhere and my heart goes out to Kandi and AJ's family we need prayer lets keep praying! I love u and NeNe so much on the show keep up the good work.

Lisa - you are fabulous. I also think you a wonderful and loyal friend. Kkeep up the good work. You and Kandi and the true Atlanta housewives.

Hi Lisa,

You rock this episode. very touching with your husband.You realy showed forth that kind person you really are. With your bussy schedule you can really do with 2 more children?
Anyways you are energetic, young and beautiful stay sweet.

Hey girl! I just want to say that I love you and Nene. you girls are my favorite on the show. you keep it real and I love that about you. plus you are absolutely georgous. I recently lost my husband and it was like losing a part of my soul. you and Ed remind me of our relationship. you two are perfect for each other and I love watching you two. it's beautiful. I hope that I can find that special someone again. keep up the good work. my sister says that someone needs to pull kim's hair off! lol. love you guys.

I just thought I would mention this, did you notice how nice and smooth and drama free (besides the obvious Kandi's mom and AJ)everything was when NE NE wasn't at the engagement party. Think about it? No one was there to be all loud and disrespectful talking about peoples clothes or hair or music. Ne Ne keeps up most of the drama and that's where the problem is.

It is my belief is that the "knowing of self" is important. If an individual does not believe that he/she is not important than the value off life and the life of others is not important. Education is the key. Having a positive outlook on yourself ther is nothing that you would do to throw away the potential for a successfull life for no one. Also to i think that our Elders need to step up instead of give up on the younger generation. If we knew where we came from then maybe we as individuals will appreciate where we are going. Lisa it would be a pleasure to cross paths with you God willing one day. I am a single mother of 2 boys 4 and 13 i am currently pursuing my bachelors in Information Technology/Software Engineer. I have a goal in life to become a successfull level headed black woman like you. Thank You for showing that there is nothing wrong with women standing by there man, not just for money but pure LOVE. May God bless you in your endeavors and bless your friends and family...Salaam

Hi Lisa!

You are a great friend for Kandi and the cast to have during this time because you are very caring and always there for your friends. You are a favorite of my friends and I, and I agree completely with what you stated about this violence. You have a great energy on the show and are so understanding of the people in your life. I think it was great that you spoke up about domestic violence too. I believe it will help so many many women out there to make a change.
Thank you for everything you bring to the show! You are awesome and beautiful! I will keep all of you in my thoughts during this time.

Love the show!

Lisa, have you and your hubby ever heard of cross-fiber friction? I recommend that you research cross-fiber friction and then look for a local licensed massage therapist in your area and try this on your hubby's knee I believe that this would really make a difference and he may even not have to say good bye to his career you never know its worth a try. good luck.

Hey lisa, you are truly the bomb! you always keep a level head, and know how to be above all the drama. one thing I must admit to, I'm a tad bit jealous, Ed looks like my highschool sweetheart, who I regret letting go. But it's a humbling jealousy. LOL. You keep on staying out of the middle, unless it's to keep my girl NeNe from bustin' some heads. LOL. I Love my first ladies of ATL. Zai jian! (Do you even speak Mandrin)?

Thank you so uch for your inspiration to all of us. All of you are most certainly in my prayers. I wish i was there to just give all of you a Big Hug and thank you for letting us into your lives. My love and prayers go out to all of you.

I am watching the reruns from 1st season, and when I saw Shawnnie I was elated.I hope that they removed her due to her wishes, and not because she didn't bring drama. I love her for the peacemaker, churchwoman, mother, friend, and wife that she is. I would like to see her at least visit.

The violence does need to stop being a young mom i grew up with violence my cousin was beaten to death for his jacket and shoes and this behavior is still on going on. The Problem lies sometimes with the lack of interest in your childrens lives be involved ask questions and show them that you care. Every parent is busy but make time for your children they are the future.

Hi Lisa, sorry to see that Ed will be hanging up his cleats. I was hoping he'd play another year or two first but got to protect his knees, no use blowing those out for some money. HEALTH BEFORE WEALTH. You're a beauty inside and out, always loving and kind to everyone else. What a calming force in the midst of all that drama. Ed's a lucky man!

Lisa, you are supportive and caring and independent woman. Your man really needs your support. HE states he will quit to please you. Check into some other therapy and things for his knee and check out other options for career choices or workout somethign together. He really is not happy with the decisions and screaming for your attention for some new exciting ideas and support from you. You have a great realtionship with him and marriage. Take Care.

Lisa I'm in Chicago where the 16 year old Honor student was beaten to death..stop the violence is echoed throughout the Universe. How do we stop it,where do we begin...God is no short of his WORD..It starts in the home,there are so many broken families every where.Chicago has it's share of senseless killings too often. we as mankind have left GOD. We have been too Blessed ,we need to go back and re-do our first works over and tell GOD thanks.Man has forgotten his duties as a man a GOD man..meaning what is required from GOD. Be Blessed and assure Kandi that God has her back... Elder

very well spoken ms lisa.your friend needs you now be there for her.she is going to need it.we love you all/let ed know its not over yet get another doctor to look at that knee,dont just let it go at that believe me its not over,its not over listen to me okay ck it out dont give up hugs and prayers ms will-i-am

Lisa i keep them in my prayers to.Is it true that you and ed are done?You guys make a couple a would be crazy.Good luck.

My condolences to you and the cast. Must commend your plea, enough is enough............I
moved back to chicago for a fresh start over Iam a victim of domestic violence and I am also a professional counselor. After college I never dreamed of so called makin it only to see the under side of life. Then to top that off my job restricts the contact you have with the community after they leave your chair. therefore we are all forced to engage the clients in as must common knowlege and hope they "get it" so please help us by speaking positively about ending the ever increasing violence in all communities because negative behavior like all behavior is ofen learned.it can and one day will change because all things are possible thru him. Peace and much love to all of you. P.s. Zee Phi...

I want to first say my prayers go out to Kandi & the family of AJ. I was very saddened by the news I watch the sho faithfully and I felt like I knew him personally. Lisa you are a very strong woman & you are a great inspiration to all woman... love you all and god bless.

Lisa, thanks for your mature thoughts about teenagers and violence. Further to those thoughts; Lisa, you spend a huge amount of time & hundreds of thousands of dollars on frivolity - designer clothing, bling, fancy house, cars, parties- frivolity! Are you ready forego some of these frivolous excesses of yours, in order to devote your time and dollars to help eradicate violence among teenagers in Atlanta? If so, please step up to the plate now !!

Lisa I think you are a very humble and blessed person and I just want to thank you for your presence on the show. I send my prayers out ot Aj's family and Kandi she also seems to be humble and for her to have to go thru this much hurt and pain is really bad but please tell her to keep her mind on Jesus and everything will play out. I pray for you all and I will always love your show and what you all stand for. god Bless Mary

Hi Lisa, u truly r inspirational & i admire your ambition & maturiy. good luck with everything.

I got hooked on you ladies. You are all great. Today was my 1st day hearing about AJ. How and when did this happen? Kandi GOD IS HOLDING YOU AND THOSE BABIES IN HIS ARMS. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

Hi Miss Lisa: I really think you are the most classiest "housewife" on all of the shows!! I am so very sad for Kandi and A.J's family. On a brighter note, my husband and I are about to purchase our first home and I just love your leather sofa sectional with the big pillows. The one your husband interviewed you on, Is it customed made or can I purchase one like it?? I love your taste and your style. You are a true class act and I really appreciate that you make real housewives like me look good.

LISA YOU ARE THU BEST!!!I LOVE YOU AND NENE!!!KEEP DOING WHT YOU DO!!!!

Hi Lisa!
I love you!! I just wanted to tell you how proud I am of you for not going to that "intervention" luncheon and being part of that gang mentality. I wasn't sure about you until then because of how violent you seemed during the reunion show but you've been a lady all year, redeemed yourself. You stayed away and proved you have class! Love your baby boy, what a charmer he is!

TEAM LISA! Thank you for always keeping it classy:)

Were I live the voilence is taking over in the last 5 years there have been at least 50 murdered children 9years. Its been relentless. I have a 2 year old son and I fear for what can happen. I personally think parents have the responsibility to take care of your child. Keep them home with you where you can be in control. If its happening around you MOVE!!!! Im tired of living hoping nothing happens.

hi Lisa first of i want to say your such a beautiful,strong &awesome role model to me. i am 20 yrs old with 2 kids having my first at 15 wasn't easy but now knowing you having a 14 year old makes me feel i could one day achieve what i want in live and hopefully some day be like you. dont get me wrong you look fabulous and not older then 25 im just saying you've reached so much in life even with children.your awesome :]

Lisa,
Love you girl...You and Ed look so good together.That baby will come when God thinks the time is right so keep trying.Love your clothing line.Thanks for being so positive and supportive to your husband.Looks like you have a wonderful husband.I just love your attitude and the way you handle things.keep up the good work. Love ya!

Sarah

Greenville SC

Lisa, lovely blog. So glad you kept it compassionate. I heard that you are getting closer to God and to your faith again. I am so proud of you for that! There needs to be more peace in this world and it could start with you making true peace with Kim and the other girls on RHOA. Peace in Christ, God bless you Lisa!

Hi Lisa,
I
agree that this violence must stop, but we as adults need to step in and volunteer our time. I would love to get involved. Is there a group that stands up to violence, and embraces freedom to be who we are without fear? If so, count me in and let me know. Time is marching, and our kids are seeing the wrong role models. I will do what I can. God Bless Ed and your little one.
Sincerely,
Elizabeth
San Diego

HI LISA,
VERY SADDEN ABOUT AJ DEATH, I ALWAYS THINK ABOUT YOU AND I MISS HANGING OUT TOGETHER, WHEN WE WERE YOUNG.

LOVE YA ALWAYS, CHANEL

Sorry about AJ. It's very sad and tragic. My prayers are with all families that had a loved one killed do to violence. It's all so senseless.

Sheree you have been outstanding and understanding to everyone on the show. I think its great that kandi has your support in all what she has been going through. Keep up the good work and God bless.Good luck on getting pregant.

Lisa, Im getting off track, but Ive have a great idea for a clothing line. You Atlanta Girls know how to get the ball rolling about your ideas. Can you shed some Atlanta Light to a New Jersey Girl. Thanks

HI LISA, MY PRAYERS ARE OUT FOR ALL OF YOU GUYS. YOU ARE A VERY GOOD PERSON. I KNOW WHAT IT IS TO LOSE SOMEBODY I LOST MY LITTLE BROTHER 4 YEARS AGO IN A CAR ACCIDENT AND I KNOW THAT IN THOSE HARD MOMENTS WE NEED GOOD PEOPLE AROUND US. SO KANDI IS VERY LUKE TO HAVE YOU.

Violence in any shape or form is destroying our society and it's making it impossible for decent people to enjoy the littlest things in life. Even just walking down the street has become a big deal because you never know who's around and if you'll get robbed or beaten . i don't know what the solution is, maybe a panel can be formed somewhere so we all as a country can figure out what to do.I think as parents we have to teach our children how to be tolerant of others and teach them self control. i too feel for Kandi and A.J.'s family. What a tragedy!

Lisa,

I am so glad that you are speaking out the violence that is invading our culture... You are abosolute that we all must pray for change....we are losing our brothers, fathers, cousins, uncles and friends at a rapid pace...and it most defiently needs to stop...AJ seemed to be nice guy with alot of potential,he and Kandi looked good together and I was looking forward for the wedding...I it is terrible that he was cut down in the prime of his life....he will not be forgotten because is going to live on in our hearts always. I am praying for peace and strength for Kandi and AJ's family during this trying time.... also I would like to pay my condolences to Kandi's family for the lose of her Uncle Ralph.....I really like how you portray yourself on the show...you are a lady of dignity and grace and that is very rare these days.. and Ed is "FINE" girl....also, I like to thank you for sharing your family and friends with us and most of all for bringing Kandi to the show was a blessing...she is a strong, independent woman who also carry herself with dignity and grace.... who brings alot realness to the show...and at this time she needs all of you all for support prayerfully, the cast can set aside their diffrences and be a comforter for Kandi...Thanks

Marie Hawkins
Wilmington, Delaware

I am sorry to hear about aj him and kandi were a beautiful couple my condolences and prayers are with her and the Jewell family also i agree with you the violence must stop. i was very deeply sadden and my heart is heavy about the tragic death of the beautiful 16 year old honor student Derrion Albert that was killed in chicago by the want to be thuggs and gangs this beautiful teenager should not have lost his life . i saw the horrfic video and i couldnt stop crying and i felt so much anger about his death and the way that he was done . and so many adults and teenagers stood by and watch and passed by and did nothing i am still outraged about the fact that noone came to rescue him or to help him or to even call 911 is totally unexceptable noone did anything until it was to late this tradgey has really weighed heavy on my heart. any i hope and pray that all the thugs who did this to Derrion Albert be punished to the fullest extent of the law .because they robbed this beautiful teenager Derrion of his beautiful bright, promising life he had so much going for himself and was a good kid who loved school and very well liked and loved . he didnt deserve to be killed i will continue to pray for the Albert family because they lost a beautiful son, brother, garndson,and cousin, and other relatives i will also continue to keep Kandi and AJ childrens and the Jewell family uplifted in prayer.

Your blog was very well thought out and a true statement. You are such a delightful person and classy very good qualities to have. I have to say there has to be an end to all of this maddness and it appears that its only be in our community. We must come together as a whole and take a stand so you and NeNe get some organization togehter like the heels project.

i am sorry to hear about aj passing him and kandi made a beautiful couple you could see the love they shared when they were together my prayers are with kandi and the jewell family. also i agree this viloence has to stop i was very sadden and heart is heavy about the sudden tradgey of the beautiful 16 year old honor student Derrion Albert he didnt deserve to die and i feel that something has to be done about theses gangs and viloence

iam sorry to hear about AJ .

Lisa keep the peace, with all, and hopefully you and Kim can work it out.My prayers are with Kandi's and AJ's family. Lisa you and your husband seem to have a wonderful relationship. I like to see that, keep up the good work, and keep your clothing line going, don't let Sheree worrry you girl. Love you.

Hi Lisa, You are truly a real housewife. Your warm sentiments sent to Kandi at the passing of A.J. were really sincere. My heart goes out to your Ed, having to give up his football dream. He appeared laying across the bed so "depressed". Finding out that you are no longer are a real estate broker saddens my heart. I also am an agent and feel depressed in this meltdown economy. Stay inspired to do the right things. My blessing to you and Ed and your families.