Cast Blog: #RHOA

Out of Line

Sheree has a message for Kim: "Don't touch me boo."

 

Hey guys,
Week after week you express your support and again I say thank you so much. It's great to hear from all of you.

I'm at a lost for words at how upset Kim made me in the restaurant. It was a very nice restaurant and I apologize to all that had to witness that madness. I thought that we could be classy adults and just clear up some rumors we had been hearing from Kim about each other. Well, go figure!!! What was I thinking? Well of course, the habitual liar that is Kim, she would deny everything. We ALL knew this going in though. Prior to our meeting with Kim, NeNe mentioned to me on several occasions that Kim had been telling her negative things about me. Kim's behavior really didn't bother me, because Kim was never that important to me and she was never privy to my private affairs. Plus I knew how much of a liar she was and how badly she spoke of EVERYONE! It wasn't until she stood over me yelling, putting her fingers in my face while screaming like crazy, that I really began to feel that she was waaayyy out of line.

During the sit-down, Kim admitted that she and her ex-publicist (of course Kim said it was him, but she knew of it) were responsible for most of the negative things that came out about us (her cast mates) via the Internet. For Kim to go to such great lengths to try to bring me down while all the while smiling in my face was crazy!!! Kim is one of the worst types of people out there; she's a liar, a cheat, and a sneak!!! She then had the audacity to make the comment about striking her kids down. Who says that about their kids? That's a bona-fide psycho right there. Saying what she did about her kids while trying to convince others of her lies only made her appear like more of a lunatic than I ever thought she was! BTW, this is the first I'm hearing of Kim cutting herself or losing her bracelet. I would love to know how me "shifting" her wig cut her arm or made her bracelet fall off. Kim, please! Come again!? While we were outside the restaurant yelling, Kim stood on the other side of NeNe. She held her arm out and pushed her hand above my chest as if to keep me from coming closer and that's when it happened! Don't touch me, boo.

My house warming party was wonderful. I had a lovely time formally welcoming my friends into my new home. It was refreshing to finally host in a place where I felt at peace. It meant so much to me to have my friends there, because they are my true friends whom I can always fall back on and vice versa.

I thought everything was going well until I tried to introduce NeNe and Lisa to my girlfriend Tania. What happened? Everyone has mixed feelings on this one! I personally feel that they attacked her and she retaliated. You never know what someone is going through or what's sensitive to someone. Perhaps her being thin could be something she battles with, who knows? To me it's no different then saying something out of line to a person battling with weight loss. That's territory you don't cross with strangers. I feel jokingly or not, until you know someone or really know what may be sensitive to them, maybe you should just say "hi" and not throw jabs.

Lisa's embarking on a new business venture - a fashion line. It's a tough business and it takes a lot of hard work and dedication, which I have learned. I wish Lisa and her designer success. There is definitely room for all of us.

I like to remain positive, give people a fair chance and I don't prejudge them or feel the need to mention the negative things I have heard about them. Prime example, KIM! Well, Atlanta is very small and Kandi and my circle are not that far apart - in fact we know a lot of the same people.

While I have heard many very bad things about her, I didn't feel the need to mention that when I knew I would be seeing her at Dwight's party. I chose to genuinely give her a fresh start. So the statement she made in her interview about me really threw me back. If you're really planning to make your own assessment of someone no matter what rumors or truths have been told, then why in the same sentence bother to be negative? Other than that, I think Kandi is pretty cool so far.

Dwight, Dwight, Dwight! Enough said.

Til next time!
"I do my best at being me."
xoxo,
Sheree'

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Claudia: I Felt Good About the Reunion

Claudia Jordan shares her thoughts on NeNe Leakes' breakdown and the reunion as a whole.

Bravotv.com: What was going through your mind when NeNe walked off?
Claudia Jordan: Well the reunion was quite an experience. When NeNe walked off, initially I wasn't sure what was going on to be honest. But I did notice she seemed to be trembling, so I knew she was definitely feeling something very real to her. I just didn't know what set her off at that point. So at first I was a little taken back. I had never seen her cry, but we are all human and everyone has their breaking point.

Bravotv.com: Do you think NeNe had a real breakthrough?
CJ: I honestly did think at that moment she really did. Her demeanor was different afterwards. And I even heard from her after the show. That to me was a good sign that perhaps we could all really move forward and start fresh. I know I'm always open to squash some beef, especially if it's nothing deep rooted and something surface. I don't see why not. But like I said on the show, we all have a story and things that we have had to deal with and overcome. I think we need to not think our problems are bigger than the next woman's and respect one another's struggles -- whether we think they are major or minor. One woman's problems are not more important than the rest. And I think if we can all learn to be sensitive to the next woman, then we are on our way. Hopefully that moment was the catalyst for change in NeNe and in others as well.

Bravotv.com: Do you feel like everyone ended the reunion in a better place?
CJ: I'd like to think so. I do think some will probably never be open for change and are just stuck in their own way, while others really took advantage of the opportunity to take something from it all. I'm not going to worry about those that do not wish to grow and move forward. I will just focus and give energy to likeminded individuals that want to get along, move forward, grow, learn, and progress. I know I felt good about the reunion. I know I didn't chime in a whole lot. And I think I had good reason. You don’t get to see everything, but I felt it was important to let the people who had real issues with each other hash it out with no outside opinions, just like I said in the Philippines. When people interject their opinions and thoughts when it’s not their issue, it just adds confusion to the situation. One of the cast members in particular is good for that. Always adding "well I think..." when it has absolutely nothing to do with her, and I feel those extra unnecessary comments can potentially add fuel to the fire and then there is no coming back. So if my silence was going to help the progress of the group moving forward, then I will take that "L."

Yes, it's "cute" to "read" and get in an epic one liner or rant, but sometimes you just need to shut the hell up and let folks deal with each other and let them do them. I have no problems with that. Plus my opinion on everyone’s situation doesn't need to always be heard -- I wish more of us felt the same way. I will say that this seemed to be a great starting point for folks to move forward and put their money where their mouths are when it comes to being a grown ass woman. I really hope everyone wants to. It'd be great to see how things could go if we spent less time fussing and more time co-existing peacefully. #ThatIsAll

 

As the season has come to an end for me, I just wanted to say wow! What a roller coaster ride it has been! I had no idea getting into this that any of it would happen. I thought I'd come on board, have a little fun, bring a little light-hearted fun, and make some new acquaintances. This show is huge and everywhere I go people come up to me and say such amazingly sweet things, and I am truly humbled when they tell me how they can relate to me and appreciate my realness. I was particularly touched when a teenage boy who was gay and biracial that had always felt like an outsider reached out to me talking about suicidal thoughts he had. We spoke and I was beyond moved when he told me that he could relate to some of the things I spoke about and that I somehow inspired and encouraged him to keep going. Those are the moments that make all the drama and fussing and fighting truly worth it. I want to continue to use this amazing platform for important issues. Again I thank Andy, Carlos, Joy, Lauren, Stephen, the entire cast and crew for this amazing opportunity. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

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