Cynthia Bailey

Cynthia explains the reason NeNe and Peter butted heads. 

on Dec 6, 20100

Things that made me giggle, cringe or just left me confused:

1. Who races a Bentley? Hmm. Nobody that I can think of.

2. I'm not trying to be a model, I'm trying to be an actress. And I'm trying to stop drinking sodas.

3. Kim saying, she doesn't like the word THING. She doesn't like the word THING on anything thing she does. I can totally see how the word THING can be a real pain in the a--!

4. Jump, b----! Do a flip, do something! Now how much fun would that be to see?

5. Do you have your own brain? Yes, and some people actually think I am smart.

6. Do you know what the word pretentious means? Is that a rhetorical question? 

7. Are you wearing red shoes? Both of us wearing red shoes is a sign. Okay...

8. Be her sounding board when I'm at work. I thought this was actually funny.

9. There are a lot of things that annoy Peter, and my talking on the phone A LOT is one of them. Again, did I really say this? It's 2010, please. Even if it was 1957, please.

10. I didn't want to get Cynthia in trouble. Huh? Hilarious. 

248 comments
PiperProsperous
PiperProsperous

Pulllease! You should not have to explain anything to Nene about your man. She is so jealous of you and Peter.

  butterfly
butterfly

i looked into this peter needs a woman who can handle the pressure

ottie washington
ottie washington

OMG!!! Sister to Sister. I think you have jumped out of the frying pan & into a life unhappiness, disappointment, and problems. My thing is. Peter knew, long before he told you the business was going under. Why did he wait until a few weeks before the wedding to tell you there was no money to complete the prep for the wedding? And, I understand you wanted to get married after the announcement was made and invitations sent. But, after finding out there was not enough money on Peter's part, I would not have gone through with it until he got his finances straight. You will forever be in your purse, trying to support his failures. And we're not going to even talk about that raging angry streak he has. Girl, it's never to late to RUN GIRL RUN!!! You are to beautiul to put youself through

Bella_hart
Bella_hart

Is it me or does Ne-Ne has more chemistry with Peter, then Cynthia, the woman his suppose to be marrying have. Crazy?

Ward
Ward

Ok, finally, I got to the end of the other comments! Think about it this way Cynthia . . . . if Gregg's failed businesses has got him to the point of borrowing money from Nene's friends, and this was done behind Nene's back, what do you think will happen when Peter's failed businesses come to end? He has 5 children to support, pay for what I see is going to be a very expensive wedding, bills to pay because life goes on . . . be prepared for more tension in your marriage at the beginning because it's all starting to unfold. I did write you earlier in another blog, but as time goes on, I began thinking "maybe Peter is not going to work out for you"! You've been engaged a few times . . . . . it's not too late to correct something that might not be right. You, as a model and RHOA will be supporting you, Peter, your daughter and Peter's 5 other kids because that is what spouses do for each other. Peter's bills and responsibilities are now going to be both of yours. I'm not saying make him sign a prenup, but financial stress is sometimes the worse. Being po myself is no picnic, but at least both me and my spouse is po and we only have 1 child together. Sorry to sound negative, but I'm just looking out for you because I really like you a lot! Good luck on whatever decision you make.

aRealBlackWoman
aRealBlackWoman

ADD TO MY SUBMITTED POST-BRAVO HAS SERIious TECHINICAL PROBLEMS!!! Now I can't remember what I said! Cynthia - you're latching on to the wrong person - NENE- FOR FAME - she will turn on you soon simply from jealousy! Dont you see that? You're sucessful and smart - do you really need Nene to elevate your fame? We ge the "joke" friend contract but that was a bit far fetched - not you! Are you OK pretending like you don't care about Nene and Peter's relationship? Will you be ok when they start sleeping together? Nene's a former stripper! get real! I admired you until you actually said it's OK for thIS down and out woman to hang with your man - SICK! I'm afraid you're seeking a sick fame - like you want us to feel sorry for you once Nene sleeps with your man! Starting to think you're sick and we don't see your game plan to put you on top, starting to think you want Peter ane Nene to sleep with each other for some type of sick fame for you - YOU'RE SMART - not sure what your goals are but I definintly see you ahead once Peterr sleep with Nene. I don't believe you want this hoodrat to be friends with your husband - I'M PRAYING YOU'RE THE RHOA to bring that disgusting Nene down permantly - keep tricking us girl! Can't wait to see what you have up ur sleeve but I KNOW it's nothing Nene will see coming. REMOVE NENE FROM THE SHOW in your elegant, classy, don't see it coming way. Keep kissing or pretend to kiss Nene's ass. Sorry girl - I SEE YOU - you would never hang with Nene in real life. Continue using Nene to escalate Cynthia! Go girl! You "aint" tricking me Cynthia, LOL! Luv your classy azz - holla at me for idea! LOL

AnneSch
AnneSch

@MA

Your comments are (almost) racist.

Human beings are able to make all kinds of sounds!

"Sheree and Peter are pronouncing "asked" perfectly, as the African tongue usually changes it to an "X" sound, as the "sk'd" sound does NOT exist in African languages and is very difficult for someone of African descent."

What is "the african tongue"? Keep in mind that Africa is not a country but a continent! A continent with lots of different cultures and languages. So please, there is no "african tongue"!!

My father, who happens to be Ghanaian speaks 5 languages (English, German, Ga, Fante, Twi) and speaks all of them well.

"Germans find it nearly impossible to make the "TH" sound that English speakers make, because that sound does not exist in their culture"

This is simply not true! I happen to be "Afrodeutsch" (= German and African) and I do know how to make the "TH" sound, as do most of the German people I know! Also, I never say "axed"!

In my opinion, the pronunciation of asked as "axed" has nothing to do with being African, it has to do with the culture in that particular region!!

Google "ask etymology":

" The word 'ask' stems from the Old English 'ascian' (about 885). 'Ascian' is a descendant of the Old Frisian word 'askia' meaning to request, demand,ask. ... Barnhart's Dictionary of Etymology tells us that "The Old English variant, acsian, became 'axen' in Middle English and later 'ax', which was an accepted literary form of the verb until about 1600 and survives to this day in dialectal speech. Forms of 'asken' are frequent in literary Middle English beside 'axen' and 'ask' occurs in the late 1500's especially in Shakespeare."

http://pandora.cii.wwu.edu/vajda/ling201/test3materials/AmericanDialects.htm

Please do not link (the ability of right) pronuncation to race.

Anne

Edinaroxy
Edinaroxy

I absolutely agree with this viewer. If talking to the phone sets him off. Next he will isolate you from your family, friends, etc., etc., etc. Cynthia dump Peter he is NOT in your league. Five kids is four too many when you only have one to bring to the table. Let him party with the has been club and move on...PLEASE!

treciaw
treciaw

Hey Cynthia love you guys when are you and Peter coming to Jamaica

MonieB
MonieB

Cynthia, your best friend is your sister...right now she is all you need to converse your feelings, and futures plans with Peter. NeNe is a woman who is stuck on stupid...not in an ignorance sense but on the sense of "it's all about NeNe and how NeNe feels and what NeNe needs....shut up NeNe...just like another viewer stated, everyone betrays her but has she ever thought about her own self betrayal? She's not loyal to anyone, not even her husband. If you plan to leave him, then leave, it was never anyone's business, but she need a co-signer on it because she's so unsure of herself. You seem like a woman of strength, of course strong women fall weak to but that's why we "PRAY" to our Lord and strength, to lift us, give us understanding, guidance knowledge and the ability to stand! Find a home church, Christian based, and get more understanding of who you are bcuz u truly don't need a woman that's unsure of herself to give you ideas and opinions about anything in your life, especially when your life is glowing and her life is unfolding! But this is MonieB and it's only my opinion...but a true woman is one who is true to herself, not allowing others to guide her into uncertainty. Luv u all, stay and be blessed!

Frankie Hampton
Frankie Hampton

I agree with everything you said about the situation. Cynthia is a class act and should always keep her girls in front of her. I am not ready to kick NeNe to the curb but I will say I am very disappointed. I hope Cynthia move slow meaning take her time and digest who is really her friend and marriage, is it the right time. Much love!

Salma Cigaal
Salma Cigaal

Cynthia you are a class act, Nene cannot be a h=freind to trust she is two faced....don't get me wrong i like her cause she makes me laugh but she reminds me of a mean girl. She had no business telling Kim your "contract".

Hung in there and mary Peter he loves UUUUUUUUUUUUUU

ONLY ONE LIFE
ONLY ONE LIFE

As for Peter, you know what you want and what you don't want. I just think nothing good comes out of letting the world in your home- Reality T.V.?? No, no.. becasue viewers take things personal AND IF YOU ARE ONE to listen or worry what people say you have alot of decisions to make-- i was always told you never should eat from to many tables. We as women second guess ourselves all the time-- Just pray and trust god Cynthia. NeNe... lord have mercy you can still be there for her.. but to me WATCH HER.. she always did strike me as a unhappy person.. and she longs for the companionship you have with Peter.. SHE IS A WOMAN that I FOR ONE WOULD handle with a 10FT. Pole.. but she has been disrespectful in more ways than one.. i think she want your man.. lol.. People like that you laugh at cause she like i alfy in a brown paper bag.. god bless Cynthia!!

Tyni$ha
Tyni$ha

Cindy, Nene showed her real colors on last night's episode and it is my hope that you opened your eyes long enough to see that. The friend contract doesn't make you pshycho. I found it to be very thoughtful and it showed your creative side. It actually made me realize how much you really valued Nene as a friend and as a person. But she turned around and made a joke out of it with the main two backstabbers (Kim and Sheree). Nene had everyone feeling sorry for her on previous episodes saying Kim betrayed her, Sheree betrayed her, Dwight betrayed her and Greg. She finally found a genuine friend (you) who had no intentions of betraying her, talking behind her back or hurting her feelings and look at what she did in return! I respect you because I think you are a sincere and genuine, decent human being with good intentions but you deserve a much better person to be friends with that someone like Nene. I hope you paid attention to the way she damn near refused to reconcile with you saying she didnt want any drama (when everyone knows she's full of drama) but when Peter wanted to pull her to the side to reconcile she was all smiles and giggles. Keep the grass low Cindy so you can see the snakes! Peter made up with Nene off the strength of you, not any other reason. He's not interested in her but she is clearly overly interested in him. Keep being yourself Cynthia. You are too classy for most of the women on this show.

MA
MA

"But Cynthia clearly states in her blog that Peter is Jamaican. Why on earth are you making the assumption that Peter is of African ancestry??"

Anyone who has taken a basic history course knows the obvious embarrassing flaw in your question. And anyone who knows the history of Africa and the Americas/Antilles, including Jamaica, is cognizant of why your question sounds so nonsensical.

It's not even worth answering (I'm going to assume you're not seriously asking that question, it just can't be).

Love the show!
Love the show!

I got the "friend contract!" I don't understand why everyone made it so serious. I totally saw what you were trying to do...break the ice over something that you didn't want to ruin what you perceived to be a great friendship. You seem like a genuine person who likes to laugh. Please continue to stay true to yourself and classy move not throwing Kim under the bus. The funny thing is that she would have totally correct Phaedra on the "alien baby" statement if it were the other way around. Then again, she's isn't classy.

Snoopy0809
Snoopy0809

Cynthia, I posted a reply to a comment and I am going to say this hopefully you read it I do understand. My bestfriend is a model/actress and its hard to hold to the few relationships you have period. My bestfriend is married so the times they are home together its hard for her because there are times I really need her because I have an illness that i'm battling so I call her when I have a crisis and it has come between me and her husband. They have had arguments because she had to leave him to help me but I don't trust everybody so the friends I do have I cherish and she says the same. Peter loves you and he needs to be understanding sometimes people just need an ear, NeNe life is falling apart or have fallen apart and you guys have to put on a front just for the camera damn! We don't as viewer know all or see all that goes on before, after or during taping I watch the show because I am happy to see successful, confident black women on t.v.

Snoopy0809
Snoopy0809

Personally, I agree with some of the things that were said but honestly we don't know whats the real deal because they edit a lot during taping. But, from what I see is Peter is stressed out about something and so is NeNe. Cynthia is a model and its hard for them to keep friendships as well as relationships trust me my bestfriend is a model and it drives me crazy just dealing with it period so when she finds someone she feels close to its hard to let go. I know Cynthia has confidence or she wouldn't be a model/actress but its more internal people have a heart. She is just trying to please everyone so that she can be okay.

Cashmonet
Cashmonet

Cyn Is an AQUARIUS.... They don't have it in thier dna to get jealous. i just learned that now I understand why she isn't worried. Ur also a big freak on the low. I do think nene is to flirty with peter she is a Sag. you to are a good match as friends though.

jamercian2010
jamercian2010

Im not going to say hes not the one but they are very jealous men. Im married to one and that was our issue. Me and my bestfriend are in synch. We can just look at each other n hve a whole conversation without opening our mouths. U have to get it establish early and let him know that that is not negotible and hes over stepping his grounds. Cause when hes ready to talk or kick with his friends hes gonna do so weather u like it or not.

understanding island love
understanding island love

Im not going to say hes not the one but they are very jealous men. Im married to one and that was our issue. Me and my bestfriend are in synch. We can just look at each other n hve a whole conversation without opening our mouths. U have to get it establish early and let him know that that is not negotible and hes over stepping his grounds. Cause when hes ready to talk or kick with his friends hes gonna do so weather u like it or not.

freakquency
freakquency

People who see a power struggle between Peter and Cynthia obviously haven't had serious relationship issues. It shows emotional immaturity when people want to base everything on equality of sex and power struggle in a relationship. and that is exactly what Nene did. Peter concerns are very legitimate and his reaction was appropriate. From what I understood Cynthia, and that is one of the reason I felt like I could relate to you was that you had commitment issues. The way Peter proposed and the way he reacted to your relationship with Nene both show he has worked really hard to make you two work. it shows that he cares and he is very aware of what can make your relationship fail. You seem like a very smart woman, very independent, but maybe you are not realizing how much effort men spend just to keep you. Nene is your friend, but when it comes to being with someone, you have to be careful with your surroundings, make sure they don't influence you in a way that could threaten the stability of your marriage. You don''t tell someone who is trying to overcome fear of flying about plane crashes. NeNe should know better, but I guess she also was at a place where she could only feel her pain and didn't take time to see who she was running to vent to. Sheree would be a better ear than you IMO. that does not mean you cannot be friends.

in any case I wish you the best, I wish NeNe and the whole cast the best as well.

Moxy
Moxy

I wish you the best and I have to say that my daughter and I think you're the most beautiful woman that we've ever seen.

supergirl52
supergirl52

Rethink This!!! Cynthia, Please rethink if Peter is really someone that u want to marry. If being on the phone with a friend sets him off. What else can set him off? You have better really stand back and look at this man. Please!!!!!!!!!!!!! Supergirl52

Tenika
Tenika

Hello Cynthia, From the first time I watched you on the show, I thought that you were 100% sincere person. Your loyalty as a friend is so real and the way Ne-Ne put you out there was definitely wrong. I love Ne-Ne, but she could have kept that friendship letter between you and her. Just because you feel close to a female friend, doesn't mean you wanna sleep with her. Keep being you and never change. As far as Peter, only you will know what you need to do. Good Luck.

supergirl52
supergirl52

I agree with Latrina. Loose Cannon waiting to blow at any time!!!!!!!!!!!

supergirl52
supergirl52

First of all, NeNe did right by destroying that friendship with Dwight, Because he is nothing but a mess maker. No true friend does what Dwight has done to NeNe He should have came to NeNe in private and talk with her about it. And as far as Peter is concern, he is a loose cannon waiting to blow and Cynthia is too good to marry someone like that. I hope that she does not regret this marriage.

MsKJ
MsKJ

I don't think anyone should be telling you specifically what to do that is your decision and yours alone! You appear to be a very intelligent individual and regardless of Peter's age that should not be an issue. You're the one that has been with him for approximately 5 yrs or so. I think you know all of Peter's side which you actually commented on the two sides. We all have two sides and some more (LOL). However, stress is a powerful thing especially when there is a financial strain. My prayer for you both and you moreso is discernment.

KellyJ
KellyJ

Cynthia you're a beautiful lady and perhaps just misunderstood. Although I thought the "friend contract" was a bit much. I did see where you stated it was just a joke but I think you were serious. It's always a challenge for singles/or those that are going thru stuff to be friends with someone that is and/or appears to be in a healthy relationship. I am single and personally don't really bother my friends that are married/or in a relationship. I'm not saying that I don't have friends that are in relationships but for the most part, I allow them to contact me. For those that are true friends they do make it a point to make time for us to perhaps meet for lunch/or dinner. I don't over step my boundaries on those. I have one particular friend that will never do anything when her live-in is in town but yet expect me to drop everything if he's out of town and/or if they're having problems. I actually chose to just step away. I need people in my life that I can depend on for an emergency. I actually can honestly say I don't have anyone of those, at least I don't feel that way but have always been the one to help any/or everyone that I can when possible. Things are some what rough for me now so I choose to just pray and depend on the one and only that can get me thru this current storm. I know that this too shall pass. I wish you the best with you and Peter for whatever you decide to do. Just make sure it's your decision ONLY!

God Bless!

speechless
speechless

Cynthia, u seem like a very intelligent and classy woman. With everyone's opinion about Peter surfacing now, I truly believe that peter was not tryin' 2 be controlling with u, I believe what he is goin' thru is starting 2 bother him. Only u know Peter the way only u know him, so it's up to u. As for NeNe, I truly believe it should be about peter right now, not NeNe. It's okay to talk with her, but it should not be the "thing" that might break u and peter up. He needs u right now. For God's sake, you're about to marry this man.

Donetalle
Donetalle

Cynthia....if the restaurant is Peter's only source of income, I don't see the 2 of you making it down the aisle. His self-esteem will be impacted by the loss of a job & investments (as Gregg's is) & I can't see you marrying a man who cannot support you financially, not to mention not even able to pay for the wedding. Cut your losses & move on girl. He's a nice guy, but I don't see the potential. If you don't have the wealth or finances to keep you guys afloat until he hopefully lands back on his feet, this relationship will not work.

Nene is a very jealous woman.......so watch your back. If she gossips about you w/the likes of Kim, then girlfirend.....you need to pay attention.

addietodd
addietodd

Did Peter lose or sell? That episode I didn't see. Is it wrong for him to tire of this new development of cynthia to start to gawk and gossip? It is so not like her aura. And it makes Peter look like he ha control of his situation. Then he apologised to Ne-Ne. That felt good. But why tease with a married man and tell someone else not to be with a married man. Tell Gregg some of this sexy stuff. And stop getting wet when Peter comes around. He's not insecure. Flattery is fun but cut it out already. You both show that you have a good relationship. And Cynthia was right. It started when you started hollering at Ne-Ne. Now I may be responding in the wrong box. But that is the deal. And why doesn't Cynthia's sister get her own office? I love the idea that Cynthia wants a real friendship with her peers.

Tina"Cynthia #1 Fan"
Tina"Cynthia #1 Fan"

Cynthia, my sister and I think you're great! We would be happy to sign your friendship contract.

Continue to be the wonderful person that you are.

Best, Tina

Annette74
Annette74

I like you Cynthia, you got it going on. Friends are special and unique, and when your friend and your man is not getting along-that can be a problem. NeNe needs to take into consideration that you have a man, that happens to want all of your time to himself. Although you should not give him all of your time-remain the person you are. There is a way to balance it out. Your friend aint got no business calling you at one o'clock a.m. unless she is about to die. I thought the friend contract was cute, and NeNe was wrong to make fun of it. You were adding laughter to an awkward situation, I feel that. NeNe is no one friend, flat out. However, I do feel her pain-I can relate in a way. But being a married woman, rather it worked or not, she should know that she can't talk to you 24/7. Stand by your man girl! She is losing her husband for a reason, don't let her make you lose yours.

Docia Proctor
Docia Proctor

Hello Cynthia, I agree that Peter isn,t the man for you. He's beginning to show how he really is in a relationship and you seem to be a very sweet person. I also can't wait til you see how your so called friend Ne-Ne talk about you to kim.

Miss Kim
Miss Kim

I really think your a sweet heart. So please don't trust NeNe! Focus on you and your man. We see what you don't! May Jah continue to bless you and your fam.peace!

Tina "Cynthia #1 Fan"
Tina "Cynthia #1 Fan"

Hi Cynthia,

My sister and I think you're great! We would be happy to sign your friendship contract.

Continue to be the wonderful person that you are.

Best, Tina

ladydoll22
ladydoll22

HI CYNT. FIRST I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THAT I THOUGHT THE FRIENDSHIP LETTER THAT YOU GAVE NE NE WAS VERY SWEET. THE PROBLEM WAS YOU GAVE IT TO A PERSON WHO BETRAYED THE WHOLE THING AND MADE IT OUT OF A JOKE. NENE HAVE BEEN BETRAYED BY EVERY ONE ON THE SHOW SO SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN GRACEFUL TO YOU FOR WANTING TO BE HER REAL FRIEND. THATS WHAT SHE TOLD DWIGHT WHEN HE BETRAYED HER.THAT SHE WANTED A REAL FRIEND.NENE IS A JOKE SHE HAS BECOME AS FAKE AS HER NOSE!!!!!!. YOU STAY TRUE AND NO I AM YOUR FRIEND.

DarlingMickE
DarlingMickE

Cynthia, I can TRULY respect the woman that you have evolved into, and are continuing to mature to become ... as a new wife, TRUE friend, daughter (who witnessed unsuccessful marriages and abuse), and successful Black businesswoman in a predominately white woman's field of modeling. All the while, exuding class, glamour, professionalism and an OUTSTANDING role model that transcends ALL economic and racial boundaries.

And overlooking Ne Ne's obvious "homophobic" response to your BEAUTIFUL gesture tonight in presenting her with the "Friendship Contract", ANYONE with a clue who is real themselves, would be MOST proud to count YOU amongst their SMALL group of trusted friends.

May the Lord continue to anoint you with the spirit of discernment, protect you from the wolves dressed in sheep's clothing, and bless your union with Peter.

aRealBlackWoman
aRealBlackWoman

ok, I made need to stop watching RHOA - the show's only been on about 15 mins and Cynthia - you can't possibly think it's ok for Peter and Nene to remain friends? It's also not cool to put Nene before Peter. You really need to be careful with ANY woman going thru marital stress or a divorce while supporting your man. There really are women that want to break up your relationship - they have a hard time seeing a happy couple while going thru a divorce. I can't decipher if you're hanging with Nene for fame or what? She's clearly a very jealous woman just based on the behind the scenes comments she makes. She's butted heads with everyone on the show, later hides in a cave, then later comes out pretending like she's not jealous when she obviously is. I suspect you'll be her next victim because Peter obviously is tired of her flirting with him. She's not his type and she's having a hard time accepting this. Guess you've known Nene for a few years? I don't remember seeing you in previous seasons - it was always that other woman that's supporting her now. Also - how often do you, your sister and mom drink? It seems to be often with you and sis, was wondering if heredity? I've seriously turned the tv off tonight when you put Nene over Peter - disturbing!

monilove42
monilove42

Cynthia is stuck between two very domineering personalities and it's really not fair to her. Ne Ne is wrong and being very self centered. She tells Cynthia that they are not married but it's okay for Ne Ne to call her five times a day? That makes no sense.

ATL Viewer
ATL Viewer

Philly Viewer-

You are right on with this one. Nene is the one having problems in her marriage and its obvious from some of her and Greg's interactions that its probably because she is not letting him be the man of the house. Allowing a man be a man, doesn't mean a woman is a puppet. Cynthia did the right thing. Peter should be her number one priority and not Nene. She can still be there for Nene, but Peter is number one. Misery loves company. . . .Cynthia watch out for women who are not happy in their marriages, relationships or do not even have a man and then try to give you advice on how to handle yours.

Cynthia, keep doing what you're doing. Don't be ashamed of how you handled the situation and think its a 1950's thang. Too many of us women don't know how to let a man be a man and wonder why they are alone and when a man does leave or is totally checked out (i.e. Gregory Leakes) they are wondering why and "want to get their happy back". Watch Diary of a Tired Black Man to understand.

Just had to respond....
Just had to respond....

@MA, regarding your "advice" to and admonishment of Patricia123:

You said "Sheree and Peter are pronouncing 'asked' perfectly, as the African tongue usually changes it to an 'X' sound, as the 'sk'd' sound does NOT exist in African languages and is very difficult for someone of African descent."

But Cynthia clearly states in her blog that Peter is Jamaican. Why on earth are you making the assumption that Peter is of African ancestry??

It's pretty ironic that you tried to call out Patricia123 for being close-minded, yet you exhibited similar presumptuousness. Maybe you should get over yourself.

kb121
kb121

The reality is that Cynthia and Peter have enough going on. Girlfriends always take on too much. Nene is relying way too heavily on Cynthia. Sometimes we have to take the clue. Take it down a notch from time to time. Be yourself Nene, but, just take it down a notch or two. Then, what would we have to talk about????? Each of their personalities is the reason why we tune in to the show! Oh well.

Mrs.Watson
Mrs.Watson

They never lied about that saying, that's why I stay to myslf...Happy Holidays TOO you also.

LATRINA
LATRINA

HELLO CYNTHIA I TRULY THINK PETER IS NOT THEE MAN FOR YOU ALL ISLAND MEN ARE VERY OUT SPOKEN AND WANT TO RULE THERE WOMEN OR WIFE AND YOU SEEM TO BE VERY OUT GOING AND A FREE SPIRIT YOU'LL BE BETTER OFF SINGLE AND DOING YOUR THING

Jacqueline M.Turner
Jacqueline M.Turner

I'm not sure if Peter is trouble or not but I do believe that Cynthia is smart and confident enough to know if she is involved with a snake. With that being said I think that NeNe doesn't want a friend she needs one person to be her dog. Meaning that she wants complete loyality to the point that her "friend" can have no other companions, career, ideas, or relationships. NeNe has destroyed relationships with several people on the the show including Dwight. Although I think that Dwight was wrong is exposing the issue of the loan with Gregg to outsiders, she was also upset because he was not spending time with her, like he doesn't have the right to have other relationships. And let's not get into the way she talks to people, she is rude, abrasive and down right thuggish and Peter did not stand for it. He was right to "get with her" the way she gave to him, her tone was disrespectful. NeNe whined how Peter talked to her well she got it right back and I'm sure Kim, Dwight, Greg, and even "Dr." Tiye were jumping for joy.

T.W.LeesburgVA
T.W.LeesburgVA

You are so right!!!! That's one of the reason a lot of African American women are single. I know a lot of people are going to get mad at me for saying this but it's true. A lot of time we listen to bitter friends who are single and wish they had a man. They will tell you to leave your man in a heart beat for any and every little thing. Meanwhile, they would meet a man and kick you to the curb.

Jacqueline M.Turner
Jacqueline M.Turner

Carolyn,

Well said, I agree with you 100% about NeNe. NeNe must be the victim at all times and that's the reason we "only" hear her side of the story in she and Gregg's struggling marriage. Cynthia is sweet and very mature and I knew that NeNe will take that behavior as a sign of weakness.

NeNe is selfish and has destroyed several relationships on the the show due to her childess and ghetto behavior, for example, Dwight. Although I agree that Dwight never should have repeated the "agreement/loan" he had with Gregg, that was tacky; however, to humiliate him in public was totally out of order. She never really listened to Dwight's side, instead, he had to comfort her like a child who just fell of her bicycle and had a skinned knee. Further more, NeNe phone call with Peter, I think Peter should have put her in her place, her tone of voice was abrasive and rude. Peter is a man and it was totally inappropriate to speak to him the way she did, she started the whole think, no wonder Gregg doesn't want to talk to you.

Cynthia, NeNe is fun to hang out with but I wouldn't get to close to her she needs to grow up and stop thinking the world revolves and her. NeNe will treat you like she treats Greg, Dwight, and Kim and we continue to see that struggling saga. Girl, RUN!