Sheree Whitfield

Sheree tells us what she's looking for in a relationship.

on Nov 9, 20100

 

On this week's episode, I couldn't attend Kim's sale because I was hosting a boot camp to raise money for a charity event that I was I involved with. I think it was a good idea to have the sale, since she has three storage units filled with things she doesn't need or use! I need to do the same!

When Kim came to my house, and I mentioned that Tye was staying at the Holiday Inn while in town visiting his kids, the part of the conversation that you didn't get was me telling her that he phoned me saying how hungry and tired he was. So I responded telling him to order room service and relax! He then replied that the hotel he was staying at didn't have room service, so he was out of luck. I then said he should go grab something and take it back to the room so he could get some rest. He then said he didn't have transportation, suggesting I come take him. He said he usually borrows one of his friend's cars when he comes to town, but he didn't this time! Okay, while that may work for some, it doesn't work for me! After driving around performing my daily errands, running to meetings and appointments, then running my kids to their everyday after school activities (football, soccer, acting, gymnastics, cross country), I'm beat! I think a grown man should not rely on others to transport him around ANY city! It would be different if we were in a serious relationship, but we're not! We are still in the learning stages. Through my years, say what you like, but I learned that I like my men to be independent in this area. So, it's not that the Holiday Inn is a bad place to be, I choose not to stay there because I like to eat when I want to, I like convenience, and I don't like to rely on others! But that's just me. 

During the conversation, Kim suggested that I leave him alone and move on, but at this point I'm trying to overlook some things that would normally be a turnoff to me. I really enjoy most of our conversations. I know communication, trust, and honesty are key to a successful relationship. Those are a few things that after time my past relationships began to lack. So this time around I want that, I need that. I'm not settling for anything less! That's not something I'm willing to compromise. So, I'm still open to getting to know who Tye is and learning more about him.  

I was happy to finally see this episode where Lawrence meets with Kandi. He has an amazing voice and is an exceptional performer. Can't wait for you guys to hear more from him.

Until next time.

Xoxo,

Sheree

 

235 comments
Shereeisawesome
Shereeisawesome

OKay, I'm not a fan of Kim at ALL! But, she did seem to be sincerely trying to give you some good advice on that guy. He was really a scammer, and it was good that you got far away from him as possible. He would have been trying to ask you for money and all sorts of things. Plus he lied about being a REAL doctor and everything...what else would he have lied about eventually? He was one sick dude!

aliedolphin
aliedolphin

The issue is that he says he has a PhD from Ashford. They do not have a doctorate program. The highest level of education they offer is a Master's Degree.

Walter.yolasite.com
Walter.yolasite.com

I think you are amazing for trying all sorts of ways to exploit your self. That is what people are not getting, in my opinion. In this life,of which we only have ONE to live, TRY IT ALL! I am with you 100 percent on that. You shoot for the stars and you land on top in whatever you do. However, I am curious what will happen if you were to stick to acting for the long haul. Go through the hurdles that actors must face to build character and individual substance that brings the power of life experience to any and every character they test our imaginations with; on the small and big screen. You have the ability and I see it in you. That acting coach you have there in Atlanta is not one to relate to the depths that you are able to reach. Just because its white and expensive doesn't mean its the best. Life is your true acting coach. The part of your brain that sees and observes is your most reliable source to pull from. If you need help with this call me. My number is on the site listed in title of my reply. I wish you all the luck in the world with your acting career. Stick with it and see it through. You'll be glad that you did.

Irish gal
Irish gal

Well, Sheree....your opener for the show displays you in a pretenious way..phoney!! Elogent and sophisticated? Hmmm, you bring new definitions to those words. I am really glad you had the experience with the "Doctor" that you did, does it show you exactly what you are? Did you see yourself in that brief relationship? It makes me wish I could see my friends on television...it has been a real eye opener to see what real witches all of you except NeNe and Cynthia really are...none of you has an ounce of loyalty. On national television you trash the very people that you then kiss twice and lie and say you are their biggest supporters...you sicken me

KellyJ
KellyJ

Sheree you really need to take a step back and figure out what you really want to do with your life. I with the other individual who commented on your previous endeavors, specifically "She by Sheree" what ever happened to it? Then you did the Dancing for Charity which was a big "Yawn" as so well demonstrated in the video playback of the girls. I do love your confidence and that is is awesome. However, tonight your comment after being in the Play tonight ... "Now I think I'm ready to do film." Are you kidding me? Was 2-3 lines and you came at the end of the play... WOW. Sheree you don't believe that yourself. I really only want and wish the best for you but you're playing your on banjo... girlfriend... PLEASE.

Inspite of what I've commented, I pray and which only the best success for you honestly. Please take time for some true reflections and perspectives.

God Bless!

KellyJ
KellyJ

I totally agree and well said!!!!

KellyJ
KellyJ

Thanks for clearing that up about online degrees. As long as the university of choice is accredited which is ABSOLUTELY of importance. I chose to complete my entire MBA online because solely of the convenience and that I had a full time job and did not want to spend 3+ hours in a classroom after working an 8+ hour workday.

God Bless!

Temptation
Temptation

Really? You must defend him because "he does have a resume"...Oh, I'm sure no one has ever lied on their resume. WTH!!?

Temptation
Temptation

If Tye had answered the questions with truth and honesty, he would have never been embarressed at the party. Because he was lying, talking in circles, and not making sense, people were getting confused and were asking for clarity. In the end he had to admit he got his degree online. Had he said that from the beginning, he could of avoided sweating like a fool and looking so ....lame. I don't know if he is a real doctor or not, but to call yourself a relationship expert seems kind of suspect anyway because he doesn't seem that good at relationships. I would think a relationship expert would either be married or in a successful long term relationship. I mean what makes him an expert? Has he counseled people who have went on to be successful in their relationships? His defensiveness towards Sheree was so telling. I mean come on, he shows up with his alleged transcripts in his pocket but will not show them to her unless she proves she is a real woman? Get the F out of here. Bravo shame on you for hooking Sheree up with this guy. SMH

LovelyTam
LovelyTam

I understand but what I was very surprised about was that you didn't know about Ashford University. Online degrees are designed for full time working adults that can't go to classes at the campus of a college. It is just as good as any other degree as long as the college is credited.

Nikki034
Nikki034

Sheree..I am glad you found out about Ty-e when you did. It would have been so much worst if you were to get serious about him and then find out what he's really about. I give it to you for trying to let go by dating someone that you normally wouldn't date. But some standards are good to keep and any man that you have wonder about, you did the right thing...RUN girl!! lol. But I pray you find true love.

purdue11
purdue11

I must say, I have to defend Dr. Tyee. After looking him up on google, he does have a resume. Plus, I'm sure if he was that untrustworthy he wouldn't have been the relationship expert on The Ricki Lake Show or a Prof. at Clark Atlanta for a number of years.I watched you on WWHL and you did say that you guys talked things out, and the show blow some things out of proportion. Which I thought was pretty cool. It just seemed like you two didn't see eye to eye on everything.Which surprised me, You guys seemed like a really good couple. It seemed like you were having a really good time, but then again I'm not sure what the rest of the season holds. So I'll wait on that. Love watching the show.

Co-Co
Co-Co

let me tell you something, if he was honest he wouldn't have had that problem. but since he was full of Sh---, he got caught. Liars are supposed to exposed.

Co-Co
Co-Co

Hey Kim, its multi-tasking....Damn!

Co-Co
Co-Co

She is being herself...I feel Sheree. You go pick him and cook for him. Sorry all ladies are not that desparate. She doesn't know him like that. How stupid would that look for her to take a man she barely knows dinner to a cheap motel. That's why he thinks its okay and cute cause women like you actually do dumb stuff like that.

me from dc
me from dc

i thought blogging was a part of you being on the show, i guess when reality hits you dont have anything to talk about. The only person on this show that really has any money is Kandi the rest of yall just faking, Stay in your lane.

Aloha808
Aloha808

It's ok to marry for money if you love the person who has it! Go ahead Sheree and marry for money if you want to because you dont need to make things harder for yourself. I think you are probably happier with money than without, so go do what you need to!!!

getitnow
getitnow

Sheree Sheree Its not all about money!!! You will find that out hopefully sooner than later. Remember you draw to you the people in your life. You drew to you the good(smile) doctor. Is he real? Are you real? Don't think so!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just be yourself, let go of all the phoneyness, and find who you truly are deep down inside.

Kim J.
Kim J.

Sheree - you get more and more obnoxious every episode! I thought you were going to be a designer...now you are going to be an actress? And that whole bull crap about marrying for money - GOOD LUCK WITH THAT!

Aloha808
Aloha808

Sheree, you were always too good for Tiye!!!

shalee
shalee

I think Sheree is very sensible to call him on some of his stuff. He needs to be oopen and honest about why he can't take a sister on a date.

Lisa L
Lisa L

Who just happens to walk around with their "transcript" in their pocket? Just askin..

Aloha808
Aloha808

Sheree, your blog is almost a whole month old! Where are you girl??? Please check in and give us your update!!!!

Daughtry
Daughtry

You all must be his relatives.

Daughtry
Daughtry

Not to put anyone down but Tye looked like a broke down man the moment I saw him, I could see he was just playing a game.

NitaSolo
NitaSolo

Sheree, I think everyone was a little hard on Tye about his degree. Ashford University is a wonderful school. I have a degree in Psychology from Ashford. An online education is hard to get. If you are not smart and can write research papers you will not be successful. I did half of my education online and half in the classroom. Getting your degree is not easy whether in the classroom or online.

I enjoy watching you on the show. You are a strong determined woman. Good luck with all your endeavors.

Ms. Independent in Texas
Ms. Independent in Texas

Sheree,

Kudos - I like and admire your 'don't settle, stand your ground mentality' - you're my favorite Housewife of Atlanta....

God Bless!

MISSIE
MISSIE

I JUST WANT TO TELL YOU THAT I THINK WHAT YOU DID TO TYE WAS WRONG! FOR GOODNESS SAKE, YOU DIDN'T EVEN KNOW THAT MAN AND BARELY HAD TIME TO SPEND WITH HIM TO FIND OUT ANYTHING ABOUT HIM. YOU GONNA SIT THERE AND LISTEN TO YOUR TWO-FACED HOUSEWIVES FRIENDS BASH HIM WITH RUMORS AND SPECULATIONS. YOU SHOULD HAVE GIVEN HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT AND TAKEN THE TIME OUT TO FIND THINGS OUT ON YOUR OWN AND GET THE SCOOP FOR YOURSELF VS TAKING ADVICE AND IDEAS FROM DRAMA MATES. I TOTALLY AGREE WITH TYE WHEN HE SAYS THAT YOU FEEL LIKE A MAN AIN'T DOING SH%@ FOR YOU UNLESS HE FEEDING YOU AND JUST SO YOU KNOW WOMAN TO WOMAN IF A RICH MAN IS WHAT YOU ARE WAITING FOR THEN YOU WILL BE WAITING FOR A LONG TIME BECAUSE NO MAN IS GOING TO LET A WOMAN GOLD DIG HIM. YOU ARE AN OKAY PERSON BUT YOU REALLY NEED TO WATCH HOW YOU TREAT PEOPLE AND WATCH WHAT YOU LET COME OUT YOUR MOUTH.

Endie
Endie

Sheree may want a man, but she is not desperate for just anybody. Sheree should listen to Nene more often because Nene is not afraid to keep it real. Sheree would have never known much about that man if Nene wouldn't have called him out first at her card party. Ghetto or not, Nene is a good friend to have.

Legalempress
Legalempress

Thank you Paige Powell, my sentiments exactly. I was stunned by the cast making a big deal of rather Mr. Tye received his degree online or traditionally in that many reputable colleges are now offering degrees and/or courses online. What I guess the cast doesn't know is that obtaining a degree online is not a “walk in the park” you have to work and dedicate several hours to study, the same as if you were in a traditional class. Another good example, I do not believe Sheree went to design school but she calls herself a “clothing designer”. Does the fact that Sheree never went to design school mean she is not knowledgeable of fashion or capable of design? Sheree, if Tye is not the one for you let it because the chemistry is not there don’t base it on the craziness that went on at your card party. As it appears that you obtained the opportunity to live like you do as a result of marrying a NFL player not by the sweat or your on eyebrow so don’t be so quick to judge. You are beautiful woman and being exposed to wealth has been instrumental in molding you into the woman you are now.

Legalempress
Legalempress

Although I agree with your characterization of Mr. Tyre (whatever his name is). I totally disagree with your inference that obtaining an undergraduate degree from a “crappy” school defines intelligence. The mere fact of receiving a degree, from an accredited institution, is an accomplishment for many in that not everyone is fortunate enough to go to an “Ivy League” institution. Further, I am stunned by all the comments regarding receiving a degree online by the cast and others. Many reputable colleges & universities offer degrees and/or classes online: UCLA, University of Alabama, University of Phoenix, and many more. Having the ability to attend classes online has opened doors for many people, especially working class individuals who as a result of other obligations are not able to attend college traditionally. I have observed many intelligent online students who are dedicated and eager to finally achieve goals that once seem unattainable. Why are we so quick to judge others?

JEAN ROBINSON
JEAN ROBINSON

Sherree I think Tye is good for you. Give him a chance. Money is not anything. I think you really like him. dont listen to to others. Follow your heart. a good man is hard to find.

jsbach5000
jsbach5000

Sheree,

you ARE a different woman this season. I respect you now that you do not spend the majority of your time talking about how tacky Nene is and how classy your are. LOL. You handled yourself perfect with that loser. Hopefully your determination to stick to your standards will encourage other women not to put up with deadbeat men. Love you now, girl!

Vivienne
Vivienne

I am glad you are not with the "Dr" anymore. I don't even think he was a Dr. and telling you to prove that you're a woman, please!! You're better off not being with that fool, you can do so muh better. Doctor my ass!!

heymsmary
heymsmary

i remember tye when he was on the ricki lake show

honest thoughts
honest thoughts

so well written. thank u for an intelligent comment.

Mioyo
Mioyo

Girl let me tell you!

He is one of those men who will mooch off of you until you have been sucked dry. Yeah, the first date was cute but, a "doctor" who is a prominent person would have taken you out to the theater or to a up scale resturant. That jive about showing you that he is down to earth was bull. I have to say that it sounded nice at the time, but now that we have had time to really get to know of him; what an ass. NeNe cracked me up when she called him out at your card game. Keep your head up, there are plenty of fish in the sea. And a lot of guppies that you have to go through to get to the right one.

Nijah Fl
Nijah Fl

So Sheree! I just saw your face when Tye said to you " DEFENSIVELY"! " Why does a man have to feed you just to talk to you"????? I couldn’t believe it either, I would of made that same ex act face to” Honey” ( in Nene‘s Momma Du Face voice!)! The fact that he would even say such a thing show’s the man he truly is, which is far from a gentlemen. Because that’s what gentlemen do they take the women of interest out to dine. Its not about money …lol plus he came all early and stuff to your spades night hahah like he got dropped off and that was the only time his ride could do it LMAO! You’re the best sheree you handled your self marvelously!

RHJunkie
RHJunkie

Lol! Luv u you mom! You're right on $$$ with this guy! Best wishes on finding love Sheree:)

Eddie E
Eddie E

There was some ketchup on the table at your last meeting with the "doctor"....did you ask him to open it or did you do it yourself? :)

faithful watcher
faithful watcher

Sheree, I feel for you. . . as a divorced mother of 3, I've been going through the same dating crap as you are going through. I've met a lot of guys like Ty-e. You gave him a shot, thank GOD Nene recognized this fool and gave you the 411! If he wanted to impress you on the first date he should've taken you somewhere nice, I don't care if he thinks he's down to earth, you don't have your first date at some club in the hood. That is clearly not how you impress someone on a first date. He really sounded like a total ass when he asked you to prove to him that you are really a woman. Is he in elementary school? Yes, you were bamboozled and sorry that it happen. You deserve better, stay true to yourself and hopefully the right one will come along soon.

MadgePadge
MadgePadge

Swahzu's comments sound like they were written by the charlatan doctor himself. Your remarks are incorrect. First off, Dr. Phil received a Ph.D in 1979 and his television show debuted in 2002. Secondly, you cannot receive a Ph.D if you didn't complete your masters degree. All the "Dr." has is a B.A. or a B.S. ~ and we know that he is full of bs...

theposhprincess
theposhprincess

Sheree! I can not put my finger on it, but there is something different with you this season!? I love it! You seem calmer & happier & maybe that is all it is. I want to say you appear to me to be more confortable & I love watching you. Dont get me wrong, I never not enjoyed watching you... Back where I started, I can not put my finger on it!

Jan de Cali
Jan de Cali

Ms. Sheree, I love the way you take care of yourself, but I think it's time to focus on exercising your brains. It seems you cannot settle on one project and make it work for you. Have you ever thought about expanding your knowledge by taking some college courses? I bet an English class for starters would be a boost for you.