Your just wonderful!

Kandi, I am so happy to see you doing so well. You have so much going for you in the future. I am (and i know you are too) about tired of hearing about the whole Africa thing. OMG shut up about it! Anyway, love ya girl!!

Kandi, I am so happy for you girl...I hope everything works out for you and your new cutie.  He looks like he really likes you. The way he looks at you...... almost every woman wants that from a man. Congrats on your new home too, its beautiful. And as you can tell Kim is a hater so let her hate.  Move on and be happy.....

OH Kandi.....love love love your new man, Todd!!!!! He is so handsome, down-to-earth, & it's so refreshing to see you w/a descent man (& not a hood-rat) who adores & respects you!!!! I know that Mama Joyce has to approve of him!!!!

And yes, w/o a doubt......Kim is jealous of your new love & new house.....keep your distance from her as she's poison & trust me will not live-up to the wife that Kroy deserves!!!!

I have to agree that you did not make any offensive comments about Kim, but I also believe that you made yourself no better than Sheree when you told Kim that Cynthia made the comment. It seems your heart is in the right place but you always allow your tongue to put you in a bad situation by playing both sides of the fence when it comes to your friends. Sometimes friendship means staying neutral and listening instead of commenting to people you know will carry a bone just to set themselves free. You ladies have blessing many women long for and seem to spend more time in battles than focusing on keeping yourselves and your families happy. Straddling he fence does not keep a friendship true only the truth from the horses mouth can do that, to open minds. I guess beauty and money can not buy one happiness.

I don't believe that Marlo forgot what she said, I think she just flat out lied. She was afraid of everyone calling her out on it and she just chose to lie instead of apologize.

PERFECT Blog Kandi! No need to say anything else :)

and nuff said Kandi..much love to you!

Perfection! Let's go to the video tape! Love you Kandi!

Kandi, I think you're amazing & loyal!! I have no idea why Sheree would say you said those things when you clearly did NOT!!! I'm white and I can guarantee you that Kim would NOT have went on that trip! That bull that she's throwing around saying she would have taken her kids is more bullshit!! Hold your head high, you're a great friend!! Stay away from the talls and Sheree!

I know... Why don't all the other housewives realize this? You are too good for this show Kandi! Love you!

ROGLOL, touche'! Well done!

Yell Sheree need to see that tape when she and Pheada were laughing in the jeep when Cynthia said that about the black baby. Yall all AGREE!!!

Ok!!! Kandi!!!! so your point is?? We all know Marlo said what she said but, my thing is you always say you dont need the drama , and dont like being in the drama,sooooooo!!! why would you post this?.. I like you Kandi i think you are real so just stay out the drama and your name want be brought up..but do remember this..My mom always told me to watch the who carry the bone!!!! that's all i have to say..Oh and good luck in all that you are doing.

THANK YOU Kandi! I dont know why these people forget that the tape is rolling! Wonder what "folks", not gonna call any names, have to say after watching the tape of you guys conversation in Africa...... uummm hummm..... Not to go back there but Kim asked you why didnt you take up for her when Cynthia had something to say. I was wondering the whole time, why didnt she ask Sheree that same question since they are "sooooo" close? She said nothing to defend Kim and she took part in the conversation. I would say, she didnt say anything in defense cause there was nothing said that needed to be defended! Kandi, 99.9% of those women dont have what you have and never will. Get new friends ASAP!

THANK YOU!!! I think I posted that comment on your blog last week...ROLL THE TAPE SHEREE!! You go on then Kandi!! love you!

Hahahahahaaaaaa!!! YOU AIN'T LYING KANDI!!!!! I just want to say this, and I'm going to shut up about it....YOU did not handle your business when it came to Kim and her "music". You know it, I know it, and you can't blame Kim. Lesson learned. I think you have also learned to curb your chit chat and stop letting your mouth run amok! I am so glad you and Kim cleared the air and is on the way to getting your friendship back on track. Wish nothing but good things for you, Kim, and Phaedra........

You have to laugh at Marlo...she straight faced lied to the point we were all left wondering, "Maybe she DIDN'T say it." LOL. I do hope they replay the tape for Sheree at the reunion of the safari ride and her NON action of displeasure of the conversation about Kim. It appears the only REAL folks on the show are you and Phaedra.

Just as they replayed you saying Kim wouldn't hold a little black baby in Africa, so what is your point here?

Kandi, did you really need to blog about this, girl?

DON'T ABOUT KIM OR NONE OF THE WHAT EVER THEY ARE U ARE GREAT IN MY BOOK YOU ARE SO DOWN TO EARTH SO KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK U HOLD IT DOWN OKAY LOVE U.

Okay.............That was pretty deep.

yeah, and she addressed it in her blog. i thought her reasoning made a lot of sense - particularly given that sheree is so messy and uncaring. maybe focus on coming up with more personality so you don't bore everyone to tears when you're on.

Kandi, I don't think what you said done with any malice or ill intent. I think that you and Kim as well as the other ladies should work at finding out what is really going on with Shree right now. I don't think that she is very pleased with her own life right now and she is in search of validation. I admit that we as viewers don't have an inside look as each of you would have of each other however, you don't appear to be the messy type. Just a little advise and I don't give it often. Let it go. Don't allow others to continue to bring it up thus putting you in something that you were not trying to be in in the first place.

Haha so very true. I like your honesty and agree so much with this statement. Sheree this season is something else. The fires she is starting for a nod by you or anger comment Marlo made is something else. Look at the smirk when it all blows up, omg are we in high school or what. Its almost like she thrives on starting trouble. The look in her eyes is almost scary since everyone is feeding into her ways by starting the cat fight in front of her. Kim will wake up and see all you did was nod and add your comment no where did you say yes I agree.

Kandi, I agree with you, you did not say that you couldn't see Kim holding a black child. Sheree is on something and its nothing good. She didn't even try to backtrack and say hey wait a minute let me think (which still is a little late) but she insisted thats what you meant. As for the dumb blond Kim as she stated on the show "if you were her friend you should have taken up for her when Cynthia said what she said" Sheree didn't take up for her nobody did. But Sheree found time to call Kim which i think was intentional to so call tell on you and she made it to Kims house 1st to add more wood to the fire. Sheree has planted the seed and deep. I believe NeNe she is one of the ladies that tells the TRUTH when she said that Sheree interfered with her money. Kim is not your friend it didn't take her but a second to believe Sheree lie which Kim said in the show that Sheree would never lie to her because she's known Sheree the longest. I will take NeNe anyday to be friends with u always know what you have in NeNe

Kandi, The truth will out. The tape does not lie. Why these other women think it will not ALL come out is beyond me. Maybe because many do not even bother to blog, like Cynthia? She did say that and it is there on tape for all to see but then she is a mental lightweight so I would not give it much thought. Beautiful as all get out, but dumb to the bone. She puts up with her man embarassing her sister before all their friends and family and then wonders what GOT into her??? Dumb as a post. You are 10 times smarter and honest too. Watch out for Sheree, the back stabber.

Wow... Kim taking Sheree's word over yours, after all you've done for her with her "singing career"???? You've been a good friend to Kim. And as I recall, Sheree was the one trying to yank off Kim's wig, not you!

Kandi-- I think the folks at Bravo ought to pull up tapes of all these "discussions" and have them ready for the reunion-- the tapes don't lie.

right to the point as usual. Love it!

Honestly I can't see Kim in Africa myself. I understood what you were saying. You guys were out in about with dust, dirt, etc. etc... Kim would try and wear her 8 inch Louboutin pumps, her Louis Vuitton tote and bitch and moan about the mosquitos, insects, the smell of the animals, the stores, etc.

Kandi you are good people and when you speak you come from a good place. If Kim wants to believe bad things then she never was a friend anyway.

Kandi, I would'nt have nothing to do with Shree it always seem like she is always staring up some gossip or just just being being two face as usually. So yes I agree with you the playback from the tape will tell it all... Keep your head up girl...

Only normal one on the show.. your the best Kandi.. but... i think.. you sang that song alot better then.. that hot mess country singer... and that venue... was a joke....

Kandi, You are so real and a definition of a real housewife so to speak ,i love all of you guys but i really only watch to see you and see how your careers as held strong so proud of you..but sheree i dont see why yall didnt marlo give her wat she need. Either get her a man which dont seem to like in the near future or whip her(...). I see sheree kick up so much mess on the slick side does any catch here, she is so fake to me for that childish petty mess. Stop it Sheree fronting for who??????She's not a good friend

Kandi, Why are you such a punk when it comes to Kim. She is not a good friend. She roped you into producing 2 songs for you and acted as if she didn't have to pay you. Then she took sorry ass Sheree's word over yours and you are at her house telling her that you miss her friendship. That is GARBAGE!!!!! Sheree is fake and so is Kim. I thought better of you Kandi but I guess you don't think highly of yourself. SAD!!!!!!

Kandi - Your hair looks great black and short! Just wondering why did you feel the need to go back to Kim's house and smooth things over? She's never been a good friend to you, we all remember Tardy for the Party. Also she chose to believe Sheree over you. That's not a very good friend.

Kandi, you are an awesome lady with a lot of talent! Why would you allow yourself to be used to convey hurtful chatter? Why acknowledge what Marlo said while having a verbal altercation with Sheree? Sometime is it so much more graceful just to remove yourself from the "he said, she said "conversation. “My name is Bennett and I’m not in it” You appear to be, too much of a lady to be a part of such childish tattling. Sheree finds joy in going back and forth tattling. Maybe this is an unresolved issue from her childhood. Do not allow her to take you on this ride. She is not influencing friends with this posture. I am sure she makes a nice income to come off so morally disgraceful. I find this behavior in you two adult women to be insulting. As an African American woman, I have no friends nor am I aware of any associates that acts as the two of you do. I do understand that this could just be a maneuver for the audience and ratings. I am sure in the music industry, where you are well respected, are aware that this is all for the viewing audience and has no reality base. Much success on your new show.

I have no problem with rolling the tape about the discussion you and Cynthia had about Kim in Africa. Reason being because Sheree lied about what you said. What I do have a problem with is you pointing out what Marlo said. WHY IS IT FOR YOU TO PROVE SHE SAID IT.... On that subject, Marlo was upset with Sheree and they both exchanged some nasty comments. Marlo regretted her comments and has since tried to apologize. Sheree has not apologized about her racist remarks and you saw fit not to call her out on it although Sheree is whom you should be mad at because she lied on you and tried to created a problem between you and Kim. I think on this one Khandi you went off base putting Marlo in your blog. My opinion of why you did so was because you still have a problem with Marlo throwing the same mud back at you that you was throwing at her about how she gets her money. When you made (in my opinion) some rude comments to her about things you had heard about how she gets her money Marlo told you she has heard things about you also, like that you were a sugarmama and since then you have tried to make nasty comments about Marlo every chance you get. None of you all are perfect your new bff (Phaedra)is being accused of being apart of a insurance fraud that everyone but her was arrested for and since you are calling people out maybe you should discuss this. IJS

kandi, she by sheree it jealous of you and kim's friendship. and she by sheree is jealous of lawrence and marlo's association too. she might be a little bit cray cray. don't play with that puppy cause you gonna get licked in the mouth.

Kandi stay on neutral ground with these women. Sheree life is a mess and she wants everyone to be unhappy. Sheree needs to get a job and stop repeating conversations about everyone. Kim has moved on, the only reason she liked you was for profit. Kim is never anyone's real friend on this show. I don't know why you all feel you have to tell her everything that goes on at different events. If wants to know, than she should attend. I agree with you Kim probably would not have gone to South Africa. Lawrence needs to get over the F word I'm sure he's heard it before this will not be the last time. He needs to remember he's a black gay man in the USA.

What is your point Kandi? Why don't you pull up the tape with you laughing with the rest of your 'small' friends calling Cynthia a booty licker. I thought that was a terrible thing to do.

What is your point Kandi? Why don't you pull up the tape with you laughing with the rest of your 'small' friends calling Cynthia a booty licker. I thought that was a terrible thing to do.

Kandi you are always pretending to be above the fray but like you said the "let's go to the tape" ..honey wise up it's for YOU too. You have done your fair share of backstabbing and tattling, and even after Sheree ran to Kim with a fixed up version of what you said, there you were ..on the tape telling on someone else.

You are playing both ends against the middle and it's catching up on you. Anyone who thinks Sherree is a friend to anyone but Sherree is naive to say the least. Kim was never your friend - she used you and then dumped you when you (rightfully so) said she should have paid you some of the proceeds from the song. The fact that you would go over to Kim's house and demean yourself that way was embarrassing for us to watch.

Kandi, I don't think Kim is a true friend because why would she take Sheree's word over yours if you guys were so tight? I think after the Tardy for the Party and thr Ring didn't mean a thing you would wise up and see she was just using you to get where she wanted to be. Now all of a sudden this situation was blown out of proportion and you go crawling back to apologize yet again. I mean come on Kandi really... I would never be friends with a person like Kim she's an opportunist. Get it together!!

I was wondering as well why you need to explain the incident to Kim again. If she didn't get it the first time, forget her. If she were your friend, she shouldn't have listened to "gotellit" Sheree. She should have pulled you to the side and discussed with you, with Sheree in the room.

Why are you running behind Kim?

Kandi

Just a note to say I love your down to earth take on things. Don't get to caught up in the drama. You don't have to defend your behaviors, we see you, and as you said, " the tape will tell all". Continue to grow your business, waiting to see how your "country adventure" takes off..... One more thing, there are comments that you should not have maintained a certain friendship.....true friends are hard to come by., hold to those that you care about. Just like any relationship, friendships have their ups and downs. What we see on the show is a peek thru the window of your life, keep the people in your life that make you laugh, let you cry, and rant, put up with your silliness and will feed you. Friendships are work and when you find that you are doing all the work, then you should step back. Take care Miss Kandi

Really? That's it???????? Okay well you guys must not want viewers to go on the web page then. UGH!