Cynthia and Kandi seemed to think I wouldn't attend the Africa trip because NeNe would stop me and I wouldn't want to hold African children. Although Cynthia made the initial comment, Kandi co-signed, so she's just as guilty in my eyes. You are supposed to be my friend, why are you agreeing with a hater? If Kandi believes I wouldn't go to an African orphanage, then she doesn't truly know me. I love children and always have. I love to take care of people, which is why I went to nursing school. Kandi says I am germaphobic, and yes, I like my house clean, and no, I didn't want people around KJ his first few months, etc. But let's be honest, as a nurse I have wiped many asses in my time, suctioned people, and held a basin when they were vomiting, so forgive me for being educated on all the germs that are out there, but there is nothing that a little hand washing can't fix. "Germs" have never prevented me from holding a sick child, an adult's hand, or walking into a less that sanitary place. End of story.