Sheree Whitfield

Sheree dishes on all the Africa adventures.

on Feb 28, 20120

Hey guys,
 
I know it's been a little while, but I'm back! So, let's jump right on in and catch up on our trip to South Africa, which was such a life-changing experience!

When the opportunity to travel abroad to South Africa came up, I was instantly on board. My mom and so many others I know who have traveled and/or lived there before have always said how beautiful it is and that it's an absolutely delightful journey. It makes you appreciate the small things we take for granted, and the people are so kind and appreciative of the little they have. So of course I wouldn't think of passing up this wonderful opportunity!

While we waited at the airport for NeNe to arrive, we had no idea that she would be bringing a companion. That was a complete shocker. Upon seeing Marlo, I knew instantly that there would be some drama, because she was not invited by Phaedra, the host. Why was no one informed that she would be coming on the trip? I knew she felt the need to do something to get attention! When we finally arrived at the villa in Cape Town, it was just gorgeous. I decided that because NeNe and I were not speaking, I would break the ice a bit by making the joke that NeNe, Phaedra, and I would stay together. I wanted us all to enjoy Africa and not put the other girls in an awkward position. If we are at least cordial, then things should go more smoothly and everyone could enjoy themselves. We all had a good laugh, but as you saw, that didn't last long!

213 comments
Samsdaughter
Samsdaughter

It is so sad that you ladies have no connection to Africa. What was your purpose of going? to argue and talk about Louis Vuitton? Pathetic. According to Phaedra the purpose was to get some "culture" SMH. Please remember that Africa is not a country..it is a continent you damn fools.

baht
baht

She by Sheree? Get a life girl!!!!

enJoy
enJoy

Boy, Sheree, you done gone and scared the poor boy off. He was all set to do things his own way but you had to put your extravagant spin on it... you know good and well the things you were showing him were way out of line with his budget. He doesn't want to be in debt the rest of his life. I don't even know what else to say but STAY OUT OF IT! You were just made that he talked to Bob instead of you!

susans56
susans56

You really need to grow up and start acting your age. It appears all you have done this season is complain about every event you have been invited to, stir up trouble between every person you can, and act like a two year old tattling on every who says anything about anyone.

You have become so negative, you are no longer bringing anything relevant to the show this season. You act as though you have all this money, when in fact you have nothing. We all saw your empty lot. You didn't even appear genuine about being happy for your daughter when she told you her boyfriend was thinking of proposing. You then get upset because he spoke to your ex about it and not you. He doesn't owe you that conversation and if I were him, I would not have it with you. When he does agree to meet with you (of course you had to call him), you try to push him into buying a ring that is way over his budget.

It is all about name brands, flaunting them, and acting as though you have money. There is a lot more to life than expensive shoes, handbags, and clothes. When you have to namedrop, it shows you are over your head and have no class. Grow up, get a job, and stop stirring the pot. You should stop attending events as well. You never have anything nice to say, and all you do is complain. You are always sweating hot, maybe you should look up the word "menopause". I think you are going through it.

Aloha808
Aloha808

Have you thought about applying for Sweetie's old job now that Kim fired her? Would you EVER work for Kim of she paid you enough to be her assistant?????????

WB Housewife
WB Housewife

Come on people! Sheree is the next one to be booted off the show and we all know that she has to stir up drama to keep her spot! DUH? She is that desperate obviously.

Kamae
Kamae

Sheree, u was on the Wendy Williams show in the beginning of the season along with Kandi and Phadrea. You especially was dogging out Nee Née, saying how she has changed and has let money and fame go to her head, and that we will see bythe end of show. What I witness is the change n U. What kind of friendships at your age do u think u will have. You r a walking RECORDING DEVICE! You tried everything u could to stop Née Née from prospering. You disrespected Phadrea, when she was only trying to help u out with getting child support. You never had anything respectful to say about Cynthia, why they kept inviting u to their events I don' t know. The situation with Kandi, I'm not going there, but I will say Kandi deserved it because she put you(Sherri) and Kim to high on the best friend level when neither of u deserve to be. All four of u Kandi, Kim, Sherri and Phadrea are snakes. Look up the word friendship Mrs. RECORDING DEVICE!

Vieweress
Vieweress

Sheree,

I really like your daughter and soon to be son-in-law. Sweet young uns. I say this as a young un, though!

carboqueen
carboqueen

Sheree it is fine to have male gay friends, but face it girl they aren't going to offer you any future at a relationship. Stop being so mean and evil and try and get into a relationship and stop trying to start problems between the ladies.

Steffiesays
Steffiesays

Why is she by Sheree being so messy this season? She is beautiful (her face) but who acts like that at 44...or 43...why all she said...I said? What happened...to you

one tough cookie
one tough cookie

"Gator boots with a pimped out Gucci suit; Ain't got no job, but I'm still fly; Can't pay my rent, all my monies spent; But that's okay cause I'm still fly; Got a quarter tank of gas in my new E-class, but that's alright cause I'm gone ride; Got everything in my mama's name..." Sheree you are still fly like your theme song by the BigTymers.

Shanta'
Shanta'

As a successfull black woman, it's hard to watch a woman who has hide behind her hair, handbags, and bad attitude to feel accomplished. You spend so much time saying negative things about the other women but they all have careers. Your claim to success is Bob and this show. How sad Sheree.

PerceptionVsReality
PerceptionVsReality

The jealousy is not a good look for you. Please have a seat! You are exuding the opposite characteristics of an ELEGANT SOPHISTICATE! smh

csaw334
csaw334

Well they must not understand like I do Sheree because in my opinion you were right. Kandi shouldnt have said it. You told Kim in front of Kandi. I dont see the big issue. I can see how you can be described as messy (informative in my opinion) You didnt fabricate anything and I can respect you being loyal to those you choose to be loyal to (kim and lawrence) I think that people give Kandi too much slack because she comes across so real and sweet. If you break Kandi's actions down though you will see that she can be fake and devious too. (Telling everyone about how it was her and not Kim who made the track great, driving by Sheree's house/lot with phaedra when she knew it would look a mess, showing everyone marlo's mugshots..etc) Wake up everyone and see that in all the housewife franchise you cannot judge off of the first season. Just because Kandi was so sweet and innocent the first season does not make her that same person now.

VlogProf
VlogProf

loved your conversation with your daughter's boyfried, very heartwarming...when he said that he fallls in love with her again and again, i could tell you really opened up to the idea that they might get married. would love to see more of this sheree!! i know it's scary to be vulnerable, trust me i know, but it looked really good on you! better even than all those name brands and such.

A.Coleman
A.Coleman

Sheree, Sheree, Sheree what is there to say about you! clearly I was begining to like you but you throw my girl Kandi under the bus messing her and kim's relationship up.If you guys would just look back on the tape like normal human beings would and stop taking in what's coming out of other people's mouth then you will know that Kandi did not say anything about a black baby she just agreed that you wouldnt come on the trip, because of the group of people that were there and kim how could you just take in what sheree has said, her being the one to almost snatch your wig off your head if Kandi was really your friend in the first place you would know that she wouldnt say such a thing like that anyway: Kandi was right you would make an excuse so not to come because everytime Nene is at an event or if you find out that she wil be were you are you would not show up and I dont see the south Africa trip being any different with you making an excuse not to come. #TeamKandi&Phadrea" bOO YOU SHE BY SHEREE!

truth26
truth26

Sheree, I used to like but not anymore.. You are a great player when it comes to the games. You and kim are now besties again lol.. you would never talk behind her back hahahaha what a joke.. Good job on throwing your friend Kandi under the bus. You are the fakest person on the show.

FMcC
FMcC

You are a really sad individual. You complain about everyone and everything. I wouldn't invite you to any more parties. You should be happy for your daughter, or try to show happiness. At least she's been with her man for years, something that you seem to have a problem doing. I hope Bravo does not bring you back on the show. You add nothing to the show, very insignificant.

Pia Diddly
Pia Diddly

Sheree, You call yourself elegant and sophisticated. For you do these words include stirring up trouble between friends? Does it mean arriving early to a lunch so you can whisper in Kim's ear "IF Kandi were REALLY your friend.....".

Learn what these words mean. They are worthy goals that would go a long way toward making you a lovely and desirable woman.

paigemichelle
paigemichelle

Sheree, i feel really bad for ur daughter. i remember when i told my mother i was getting married, she hugged me, and with a smile, gave me marital advise. u just look like u r in a very bad place right now, ur causing so much unnecessary drama and u couldnt even be happy for ur daughter...the whole scene was just uncomfortable to watch, my heart went out to ur daughter. u really need to get ur stuff together or ur going to be very lonely!

Vieweress
Vieweress

Gosh, am I the only one who likes Sheree? Geez, she is growing on me, any way...

True Fan
True Fan

Mirsery loves company and everyone can see just how sad you really are. I just read that you got on NeNe for renting Lisa's house. What are you renting a two bed room apt with little to no furniture, sad truly sad. And now you're trying to talk your daughter's man into buying something he knows he can't afford why, just to make you look and feel good. Stop faking and shaking. You ain't got nothing, you ain't gonna be nothing as long as keep up this farce of a lifestyle. And you really need to stop being the messenger, not a good look.

momma lue
momma lue

Shree why lie about what really happened in Africa um .....it does aire for the world to see your what we call a bottom feeder its sad the type of person you really are...in addition you were dead ass wrong for how you did nene!!!

Arabus
Arabus

Stop trying to make yourself relevant and actually become relevant.

yasmin   smith
yasmin smith

Sheree,was is all this about you being so classy at the beginning of the show? When you have to remind us of how classy you are,then you are probably not that classy. Why are you so mean and such a s*** stirrer at social events? Are you happy only when you have made those around you as miserable as you?

ryanfan
ryanfan

This woman needs to grow up! No wonder Bob left her!

ichy
ichy

Sheree, how disappointing you've turned out this season. You are NOT a good friend. How can you throw Kandi under the bus like that, and your only excuse is that Kim is your friend so you felt you had the need to let Kim know what was said, but what is Kandi to you, an enemy? Overall, you are a negative person, especially when you were talking one-on-one to the camera during Phaedra's son's birthday party, you made many snarky comments. Who are you to make comments on how many cakes she had for him, and where the party was being held, and your remarks about Dwight (you are so wrong on so many levels). You should have simply declined the invitation. Quit kissing Kim's ass..and treat the other ladies with better respect. All of a sudden, I am starting to believe NeNe over your word, because you've shown what a two-face you are or have become. Grow up and act your age.

ttrgrs
ttrgrs

Sharee, really? Seriously really?

cherylq
cherylq

I can honestly say I can't stand you. You are such a problem starter, running to everyone running your mouth. Lied to Kim and twisted what Kandi said, when any sane person could understand what she was trying to say. And to try to throw in race by saying she wouldn't hold a black baby (which she NEVER said). Now watching the show tonight, you are criticizing Phaedra and her party...........then WHY go if you think you are so above it? Just because she loves her son and went all out, are you saying you wouldn't or haven't done the same for your kids? Did you not redecorate your daughter's apartment? Pretty sure Phaedra didn't have negative things to say about that. Get back to your empty lot and stop worrying and judging everyone else. And to end this, go NENE! You are more fabulous than Sheree! :)

Viewer Bella-Lis
Viewer Bella-Lis

Bravo, one thing I have to say: GET RID OF SHEREE! I cannot stand the kind of "friend" like you Sheree, all you do is stir up the next drama. Get a life, find something positive to do, become a personal trainer or something ( probably the only thing you are going to be good at). You are just a MISERABLE person, GROW Up!

cat power
cat power

I feel so bad for you.... serious... you really need to fiind someone for yourself... it looks so sad to see you so unhappy..

Viewer 90021
Viewer 90021

Sheree, Why every event you attends, you make a negative comment? You are so negative and jealous.

jjb
jjb

who gonna check me boo? Just all of us watching you stir up all this unnecessary drama, that's who.

Lullaby
Lullaby

I just can't wait for this reunion show so that Kim can see that the "Black baby" comment was not said by Kandi or Cynthia it was all made up for that phone call

CutItOutLadies.com
CutItOutLadies.com

Sheree...There was no reason for you to SNITCH on Kandi......Wow...And for to say You Don't Lie is a HUGE JOKE...smh..Too FUNNY...Your looking REAL desperate this season Sheree. Kim is'nt going to give you a part in her new show. She's not going to make you her side kick...smh...

dm
dm

Sheree, Sheree, Sheree...You are coming across as a very unhappy person this season. You are causing unnecessary drama all in the name of being a good friend. I agree with you that as Kim and Lawerence's friend, you should have told them about the comments that were made by Kandi and Marlo. However, your approach was all wrong and it makes you look very messy and like you're just trying to start trouble. As far as Kandi goes, she did co-sign on what Cynthia was saying about Kim and if I was you, I would have told Kim too, but not in a group phone call that included Kandi. Also, at Kim's lunch, you wouldn't even allow Kim and Kandi to discuss what was said. You completely monopolized the conversation with your point of view. Same thing with Lawerence. You should have told him what Marlo said, but to tell him on the way to an event where you knew he was going to see her put him in the bad situation of having to be in the same room with someone that he now had an issue with without having any time to process his feelings first. Not a very friendly thing to do!

mezzz
mezzz

She is the messiest among them. I thought it was Nene but now I see it is Sheree. She's aligned herself with her new best friend Kim because she is on the hunt for a man since her cash is dwindling and she knows Kim's man Kroy has lots of rich football buddies. She's not fooling anybody. She'll burn anybody in her path. She needs to do some soul searching because it is no where to be seen.

JaciR
JaciR

I agree with you telling Laurence, and if that had been all you had done - I wouldn't have come to the conclusion that you are just after the drama. However, the way you threw Kandi under the bus when you knew damn well that wasn't what she meant was pathetic and really showed your true colors overall.

namalory
namalory

Sheree, I do not know about you. you are the only one in the show that do not have improve at all. your chateau dream house is on hold , your SHE by Sheree, are all failed. If you do not talked about other people and mind you own business, you will be improve your life and you are the one who started all the drama. I THINK YOU ARE THE " HATER ".

Now, now.
Now, now.

Sheree, you would do well to design a line of exercise clothes, like track suits and yoga pants, tank tops, and sport bras. That seems to be up your alley. You could make a lot of money. Also, your voice would be great for voice-overs on TV and radio commercials. Go with your obvious strengths, and make some money. Then you can let go of all that bitterness you have toward your ex and his wallet. Did you marry him for money? Yes. Did that go sour on you? Of course. It always does. That's not all his fault. He's not your meal ticket. You have what it takes to be a millionaire. Wise up and go for it.

view4me
view4me

Can't you see things a little differently after watching? You seem intelligent, time to act like it. Be a lady and admit that you were wrong. Scratch that, how much extra do you get paid when you stir things up like that. Is it worth it? Still a bad actress.

theunualsuspect
theunualsuspect

Sheree, I used to enjoy the sensibility of your role in ROHA, didn't love you in the beginning but began to appreciate who you were...but NOW it just seems like you are desperate to cause some drama, beyond what is cool. You just seem like a trouble making person now, and if the money is that good than touche...but your character is now in question and I and it has to be in question by those who genuinely know and love you...is that the legacy you want to leave? Feel like you are falling for the okey doke and it saddens me.

LaShaundra Musgrove
LaShaundra Musgrove

Sheree, you go girl. You are a true friend and if anyone has anything to say then tell them that the truth hurts. A friend should always tell a friend when someone is says anything negative towards them.

Ohsotrue
Ohsotrue

Sheree, you are a beautiful lady, you seem intelligent, speak well but you actions are not coming across well. We all see things are not working out well for you, your bank-roll is not what it once was and things seem to be working out better for those around you. Hopefully, when things were right in your life and your money was tight you didn't look down on others (but I have a feeling you did). Hopefully, you will learn from this season and turn things around for the better. Priorities must in order to open the door for better opportunities such as you can’t have your kids sleeping on an air mattress while “Mommie” drives a 100K plus car. Regarding whatever deal you had going w/NeNe seems to me you lost on that one. You should have been the bigger person and stepped to the side because ppl are seeking NeNe out and I don’t think that is happening that much for you. You can’t make enemies out of everyone.

shayk
shayk

What's the big deal Sheree. I'm pretty sure most of the viewing audience can't picture Kim in an orphanage holding any baby, be it black, white, yellow or whatever color or culture. She just doesn't come off as being charitable in that way. Seriously, she barely holds her own baby without complaining. Even you agreed with Kandi that you couldn't see Kim being on that trip in AFRICA with the present company. Now, was your comments racist, no, neither was Kandi's intent. Your actions however, are pitiful. Stop brown nosing. You're better than that. Maintain some class.

Viewer246
Viewer246

Funny such a good friend that you are, I notice you don't speak up to defend these good friends in the moment,..you only wait to twist the words of others to hurt them later, nice job snake. I would make a wide circle around you, you really are no ones friend at all. I do recall how you broke up Nene and Kims friendship. Seems to be who you are a pot stirrer.

roxxy2
roxxy2

Nene said it! "you gotta watch Sheree." You are too old for that. All you do is, keep you ear to the wall, and talk. Let's talk about the "Chateau"! how about that!!