Kandi Burruss

Kandi was shocked by some of the things Kim and Sweetie had to say about her new house.

Nov 5, 20120

I hadn't seen Kim in a while when she came over that day. The first couple of negative things they said kind of flew over my head, but after a while I caught on and I was feeling a little bothered by it. Have you ever had one of those moments where something happened that wasn't cool and after the fact you thought you should've told that bitch this or that? Well that was one of those moments for me. I was trying to be cool, like maybe they didn't know any better. I was thinking I shouldn’t trip, because clearly they have never been in this area before, but after a while it was like OK that's enough of the ghetto neighborhood comments. After all the talk about my house, Kim talked to me about being evicted from her house and that she was just going to stay there and make them kick her out. Hmm... That sounded like some real ghetto section 8 type sh-- to me, but hey, they live on the "non-ghetto" side of town, so no way could they have that type of stuff going on… LOL! Whatever.

Oh! Let me address the Kash name thing. I've had a list of names in my phone for a few years for if I ever had another child. Kash was one of the names. When Todd and I got together, I showed it to him and we said that if we had a baby, Kash would be the name we would use. When we moved into this house we even had a room that we told everyone would be Kash's room. Todd would even make jokes about tattooing Kash on him. It was the on-going joke and conversation amongst my friends. Well, you can imagine how shocked I was when I found out Kim named her son Kash. Oh well!

Looking forward to watching the drama unfold this season!

Much Love,
Kandi

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228 comments
miscey
miscey

I was surprised also by the stupid comments that  sweetie and  Kim had to say considering their situation. Sweetie does she even have a house.  and now Kim was  evicted and had to move  back in her town house, do she even have room to talk.  See that's what happens when you are nasty things come back on you Kandi- keep it rocking I love you, You are one of the only woman that keep it real and you won't compromise yourself for the show.  Thank you gurl, and Congrats.

RHONYC
RHONYC

Kandi - your faces crack me up! congrats on your line. Riley looks adorable. the house is fantastic. i wanna 'ball on a budget' like you sis. awesome mansnag, Todd is fine, a gentleman and makes you happy.i love u 2 together.

 

and p.s.- directly after my head almost exploded after hearing your future baby name was going to be 'Kash' (the craziest 'aha' moment of my life!) this happened in my head:

 

Charlotte - "YOU STOLE MY BABY NAME!!!"

Samantha - "YOU B*TCH!!!"

 

- from 'The Baby Shower' episode of Sex and the City where Charlotte finds out Lainey stole her baby name 'Shayla'.

 

i stopped liking Kim that instant. sincerely.

 

there's certain chickcode ya just don't break. principalities, man, principalities!!! smmfh

 

FlutterBy
FlutterBy

Kandi the whole baby name ideas you and Todd were coming up with sounds ghetto...who does that? Tatoo a baby? Are you talking about pictures of money because his name is Kash? Sounds like a Kardashian's baby name....and with you using it, it sounds too much like you are referring to your money ..... outlandish...you should be glad she took that name...

beautifulshadesofblack@22
beautifulshadesofblack@22

Kandi you are my favorite housewife. It's time you cut the od with Kim. She was and still is phony. True friends don't look down on you when you're achieving your goal. So I will say this, when God let people out of your life don't question it, just wait on the blessing that he just made room for. Kim is a user, her priorities haven't changed, she just the most unsuccessful of the girls who go from one big pocket to the next and found another one so she don't need a friend, or so she thinks. Think about it, she never has anyting positive to say to you even though you continue to try and be a good friend. Forget her and move on. Keep doing you.

peachykeencardsfan
peachykeencardsfan

Kandi, I think that you are fearful of Kim and of Sweetie. There is no way that broke down "b" would have said that about me and my house. You talk about Sweet's contribution to racism, yet, you have inner racism towards your own. You HATE NeNe, and call her out on everything, and then try to cover it up with "keeping it real". Girl, please, you are as fake as fake can be. Why wouldn't NeNe invite you to an event that involves powerful women...unless you don't consider yourself powerful. I would agree with that. If you really want to keep it real, then keep it 100 at all times with all people. You are not a great representation of realness, at all.

dgprn1
dgprn1

LOVE you Kandi!!!  I love Kim, too, but she mut have "pregnant brain" or something!!  But, no exuses for Sweetie!!  Best of luck to you & your man!!

MsVeryStupid
MsVeryStupid

I have to say that I am surprised at Kandi's response to Kim. Kim is NOT Kandi's true friend. Let's break this down.

 

1. Kim didn't pay Kandi appropriately for Tardy For The Party and Kandi didn't blast her for that.

 

2. Kim took Sheree's word over Kandi's AND attacked Kandi over what she THOUGHT Kandi said without even considering the fact that Kandi was telling the truth. Kandi didn't blast her for that.

 

3. Kim came to Kandi's new home. She was condescending, nasty and abusive toward Kandi. Kandi didn't blast her for that.

 

Honestly, I have to wonder if Kandi is a little scared of Kim! I am not sure why Kandi would consider Kim a friend. Nene is a crazy nut, but she has a good heart. Kim is not. Kandi needs to grow a pair and stop letting Kim mistreat her.

pretty2012
pretty2012

Kandi..i don't know about u sometimes... granted its a nice thing 2 be in luv..but u guys r moving pretty quickly..i hope u keep ur eyes wide open cuz rumor was when u was 1st dating this guy he was living and still with his baby moms...karma is a bitch kandi...and on another note... why in the world would u purchase a home with a man ur not even married 2..let alone engaged 2..and u don't think the world really believes u and todd brought that house..we know u did but not him..he's only a camera man..his money doesn't stretch that far..its true kandi..u r a suga momma..call me old fashion..but women are not suppose 2 take care of men..its the other way around..stop being desperate 4 luv..

mlewis98
mlewis98

Kandi they are right you do have to much to say about NeNe and you let Kim get away with murder when she said that there was no sun in the jacuzzi room but you people don't need much sun you should have let her have it and put her out but any chance you get to sir the pot with NeNe you do it. You really need to get that together.

Princesslitta5
Princesslitta5

Kandi, you are the best and you handle yourself with so much class. You are a made woman that is what I admire about you as a person.

Goddess_Krystle
Goddess_Krystle

You act weird about Kim and how she always pretty much punks you . And you act like nothing , or you defend her .? What the heck? That's so lame of you. Stand up for yourself already !!! Geez

JRoc85
JRoc85

Kandi, I love you and all, but instead of always checking NeNe, you should WOMAN UP & CHECK KIM!!!!!!!!!!!! Kim & Sweetie disrespected you right in your own house, and you SAID NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!! NeNe may not be perfect, but shehas FAR MORE CLASS than Kreepy Kim & Sorry Sweetie!!!!!!!

lets_get_real
lets_get_real

You let Kim walk all over you and take advantage of you with the music stuff and then she trashes your new house and you say nothing. If that was Nene you would have been mad and said something! If you look back at everything that has happened in all the past seasons Kim has been the worst person to be friends with for all the girls and most of you still kiss her butt, Why?

nohousewife
nohousewife

I can't believe you didn't put Kim in her place when she and her ugly side-kick Sweetie were touring your home.  But what goes around, comes around and Kim is getting hers full circle...being evicted from a home she was RENTING...and having to pack up and move her husband and kids into her old condo...the condo which Big Poppa bought.  In the words of Dwight..."How tragic!"

all4love
all4love

i love u kandi & i'm happy u have found new love & that u r moving 4ward in ur life. i know it always hurts when so called friends diss u & talk bad about u & about what u have accomplished by working hard. especially when those so called friends have never really worked 4 what they have now themselves. those ppl never were & never will be ur true friends & i doubt that they r ever willing 2 be anyones friend unless they r useful 2 their wants & needs. u was good 2 help 4 something that was so out of reach & not even paid or thanked 4 it the way it should've been. u don't need blood suckers like that in ur life & u don't need 2 care about anything they say. u r a hardworking amazing mother, friend & woman & anyone should be lucky & grateful 2 have a friend like u :) i wish u all the best in the world 4 the future with anything u do !!! hugzzzzzz

 

yvonnegraham
yvonnegraham

come on kandi. why are u still holding  a grudge against nene for something that happened over a year ago. let it go and be happy for nene's success. i saw your comments on wwhl. very shady

AtlantaGurl2012
AtlantaGurl2012

Kim has treated this fool like a third-class citizen for several years, and all Kandi can do is get on television or twitter and talk about Nene. She's just too ignorant for words. I'm not saying that Nene can't be a pain in the behind sometimes, but she has never done anything to Kandi that is comparable to what Kim has done. Refusing to pay her for Tardy for the Party was disgusting enough, now Kim has insulted her new home and named her new son Kash...the very name that Kandi had chosen in the event that she ever had a son. She might have a grammy, but she doesn't have a brain or an ounce of self-esteem. It's embarrassing to see her be played for a fool on every episode. Miss Joyce needs to conduct an intervention.

truth_hurts
truth_hurts

Kandi you are such a two faced person!!  You are fast to bring down another african-american female, but you chose to "laugh" in the "white" woman's face when she was downgrading your home?!?!?!?  Are you just that ignorant not to understand the differencd?!?!? In watching episode 2, you apparently can't let s*** go.  Okay Nene is drama filled; so what.  Hell, all of you "ladies" are.  BY NO MEANS AM I A NENE FAN, BUT RIGHT IS RIGHT AND WRONG IS WRONG!!

tam4k9
tam4k9

I just want to say to Kandi that you have the most sense, genuiness, kind spirit, and honest mind of anyone on the show, you are real girl and I hope you stay that way.  Im not saying you have to be "miss goody two shoes" keep standing up for yourself like you always have, just keep being true. 

Nicole3227
Nicole3227

I understand what you are saying about Nene, but you need to put Kim in that same category too. And stop making up excuses for her behavior towards you.  Because if u don't stop her now she will continue to do it and then it gone be to late then.

wehavepower
wehavepower

Kandi,

You are such a powerful sister and have such an important role in our community.  Please do not make excuses for Kim and her racist behavior you feed it just as much as Sweetie by not being honest with Kim about your feelings.  For the record I know the people who built your home and you got yourself more than a deal! Close to 15 Mil in value when the market was up a piece of art that Kim has never been able to acquire even when she was tricking with a billionaire! Stop letting her put you down and she needs to recognize that it is our community that she is so afraid of that has her generating an income to support her family.  Unlike you she requires a man to live like she does however you are self-made and amazing.  

 

I feel sorry for women who need to tear others down but I know the power of the LORD and we can just pray that they will become better people.  I think you just like to see the good in people and there is nothing wrong with that and please try to stay positive.  It seems they are try to cast a side of you that is not positive.

KrickyB.
KrickyB.

Kandi, Kandi, Kandi.....Wake up child!!! Nene is not the enemy, Kim is. Kim has used you from the time you came on the show. What does she have on you? She used you for Tardy for the Party. She came in your new home and slammed you to your face. Why did I know you would not give Kim the business and blame Sweetie for everything. Wake up, she is using you!!!

Sherri49
Sherri49

Kandi,

 Instead of you hating on Nene, you need to slam Kim and Sweetie about their comments of the location of your new home. 

yvonnegraham
yvonnegraham

why are you still hatin on nene. you conversation with phaedra about nene was uncalled for. that fight happened last season. nene has moved on clearly you have not. and please stop making those horrible faces on camera

tonia198
tonia198

I personally think that the Friend you had in Kim, is gone it left when she got married

vdaniel
vdaniel

Lets say this makes strike #2 but kims your friend and you still have a beef with nene.  I guess im stll looking for this smart businss woman in kandi everyones talking about.

ESinAZ
ESinAZ

Kandi- Lot's of people have the same names, or their children share the same names.  Don't sweat it.

Love you, you are so talented!  Mazel for your great relationship!

latasha.brown.543
latasha.brown.543

Kandi.. you are my favorite housewife, but you really need to find your backbone when it comes time to dealing with kim or nene. I respect that you have a good head on your shoulder and i wish you the best with your new boo!!!

courtney21
courtney21

Kandi I love you on the show I think you should have told that brokedown, ugly sweetie off and Kim just mad because she can't stay in her dream home, but i do have to say Kandi to keep it real say what you want bout NeNe cause she tried to tell you about Kim that Kim is a user and once she get what she wants she discards you. But i wish you much successful and happiness with your new man and so cute by the way.

felice.amica3
felice.amica3

Kandi is an independent female who truly holds her own, she makes smart decisions regarding money in saving and not splurging! @ Sweetie and Kim, especially Kim you can learn a thing or two from Kandi! Stop hating and ask how can I.....

lady22
lady22

Congratulations on Everything Kandi. You deserve much love and success in your life because you are truly a great woman. You are a good example to follow, in terms of hard work, humility and independence. You have great friendships and show respect to your mother. Kudos!. Let the Kash name go. You can come up with another :)

paula.justice.129
paula.justice.129

Kim is not a true friend. She uses people and discards them. She sided with Sheree when Sheree lied about you, acted like a diva when you made miracles work with her singing and now she is talking trash on the show and on her blog about where you live. Lose Kim, Kandi. You can do bad all by yourself. I'm proud of you girl!

Rockerman
Rockerman

You're my girl on this show. You've got the talent, the smarts and looks to stand alone. That Kim chick needs to be checked! As for Leon, wouldn't be surprised if he's contributing/supporting that poor excuse for a family where Mum didn't have a clue what her daughter was thinking or feelin.

bird33
bird33

Kandi, Your awesome, and I hate to see you fight with Kim, you did care about her and you have been there for her... Your house looks awesome! Who cares what Sweetie says! obviously she could not make it on her own, so she is back kissing Kim's butt! I just adore you and your mom.... Best of Luck to you!

taijos
taijos

Some things like what you are planning to name your unborn (not conceived) child should remain private.  You kind of had that coming to you when Kim named her son that.  Keep some things to yourself, you don't have to talk so much.

Charles.Todd.226
Charles.Todd.226

@peachykeencardsfan Do you KNOW who Kandi Burruss is? Do you know what she has done? Out of the entire cast she is THE most powerful SELF MADE 100%. What could she possibly have to fear from Kim who (while I still have love for her in my heart I will say) has nothing on her own or sweetie is getting a small chunk of Kim's nonexistent empire in the form or free room and board. Kandi never once makes an type of comment or behavior towards NeNe that would lead you to believe she hates her. So please keep your inference of someone's feelings to yourself cause you can't know how she feels! There is nothing wrong with calling out someone you believe to be bullshitting often on their bullshit that is keeping it real. It's saying hey we're not friends we're not enemies but don't bullshit me. Kandi is probably the only person who has done that with everyone called them on the fake shit. Not in a spiteful way but in the sense like hey I'm not stupid so stop treating me like I am cause I see thru it. Peachykeen you need to actually open your eyes when you watch the show

True_Diamond
True_Diamond

 @MsVeryStupid  I agree with your every word. Kandi seems like she is desperate for a white friend, I don't get it or she is a little scared, but she want to give NeNe hell. 

MsVeryStupid
MsVeryStupid

 @pretty2012 OMG! I almost fell out of my chair when I read the last three lines of your post! Kandi is a sugar momma! There is no way in the world she should be moving in with that guy so quickly! Doesn't she watch Judge Judy?

peachykeencardsfan
peachykeencardsfan

 @nohousewife Sweetie is so not cute LOLOL! She's a hotghettomess and somebody that should have been on "People of Walmart" a million times over LOLOL. Why is she even Kim's assistant? What does Kim do all day long besides look like a mess, and she doesn't need an assistant to do that.

JRoc85
JRoc85

 @truth_hurts

 Truth_Hurts you called a spade a spade, and Kandi is DEFINITELY a spade!!!!!!!

tam4k9
tam4k9

 @KrickyB.Kim is a spoiled.  She thinks of no one but herself.  Sad really sad, Kandi is too nice to have "friends" like Kim.  Kandi house is beautiful and I love that she is careful with money.  She doesn't have to have "NEW" like Kim does!  You GO Kandi ! 

Bravo_TV_watcher
Bravo_TV_watcher

 @tonia198 It left when she got that check for Tardy for the Party and consulted an attorney to make sure she didn't have to pay Kandi anything on it.

tam4k9
tam4k9

 @latasha.brown.543 YES!  Congrats on your relationship.  You both look really good together and he seems very "genuine" Your my favorite almost Housewife haha, I think he will POP that question SOON!!!  I wish you all the best. 

 

murlymurl
murlymurl

 @taijosI have to agree with this comment Kandi. It's a shame that Kim stole your thunder, and has no mind of her own, but you totally brought this on yourself. Something similar happened to me when I told a so called "good" friend what I wanted to wear for my wedding. Imagine my shock, surprise, and disgust when SHE showed up after eloping with the VERY dress I told her about! When she saw the look on my face, she begged me not to be mad, and kept apologizing profusely! It was my own fault, I learned my lesson, and from that day forward I have kept my ideas TO MYSELF!!!