Kenya Moore

Kenya was being playful, not flirting.

on Dec 14, 20120

LET’S CUT TO THE CHASE

THE TRIP

I am an uninhibited, off-the-cuff, wild card who likes to enjoy life. I can fall on my face at times, but I get right back up, dust myself off, laugh, and keep it moving. I never take things or myself too seriously in my personal life.

THE INVITATION?

I was elated that Kandi wanted me to go on vacation with the girls, because I thought it would be a lot of fun. And it was! Not only did we get to see an incredible island, eat amazing food, and enjoy all the activities the island had to offer, we were bonding, having a great time, and getting to know each other.

Even after Cynthia refused to invite me, she even had to admit that I was very pleasant and nice to her and willing to move on and start fresh after our first misunderstanding. I try not to dwell in the past or hold grudges. We both took jabs at each other in self-defense. We have yet to actually discuss our fallout, so I have to be open and willing to move on and hope one day Cynthia can too. 

302 comments
hershey59
hershey59

Never heard of you before this show, didn't read any blogs - came to my own conclusion. You are clearly very jealous of Cynthia - she is beautiful, classy and well liked by  everyone. She is happily married, has a child and a thriving business. You have none of these things, so to make yourself relevant, you take every opportunity to criticize and put down Cynthia, but it really only back fires in your face, making you appear very desperate, jealous and mean. While I'm sure it was a big thing in 1993 to win a beauty pagent, don't you think that 20 years on it's time to put the tiarra away, because no one cares, it's not like you were the first black model, or the first black Miss America or the first black President . . .how about being relevant today, with your accomplishments today . . .and not hanging on to 20 yrs. ago.

aozhu8261
aozhu8261

I think Kenya doesn't want Apollo because in the episode and I quote Kenya said sometimes I like to see Walter get jealous so she just wanted to see if Walter would get jealous

howgrays
howgrays

Kenya please!!!!!!! You do want Apollo! I couldn't have been Phaedra! That is all I have to say because I would have put those PAWS on you and my husband! You were very disrespectful and so was Apollo!

sharaya54
sharaya54

kenya is a player in the making and she knows how to push those girls bottoms lol dont hate the player hate the game im with kenya who want apollo and it seem he enjoy every bit of it his wife running around looking like a fool one second she this and other second  shes that what she need to do is forcus on her husband more before he get snatch

AngelTrinity
AngelTrinity

Like Phaedra said put some ice in your panties. Your aunt and cousin were wrong from calling Walter gay. They're causing you more harm by lying to you. They need to say Kenya tone your big azzz down and wait for the right man. Stop chasing men who are not available. Stop acting like you're all that because you make yourself look like a damn fool. You keep using other peoples moments to jump in their spotlight. You gotta grab the mic and open your trap. Even at Todd's birthday party you were outta line granny.  Sit it down girlfriend. 

Lele1313
Lele1313

You are so pathetic!!! Stop making a fool of yourself!!!Walter doesn't want to marry u and begging him is really unbecoming of you!!! And please stop say u are a part of history and stop mentioning u won miss USA NO ONE cares and u are totally irrelevant and it was 20 years ago!! Shut up about it already!!

Lele1313
Lele1313

There's so much I could to say negative about you but I would b writing all night long!! You have a lot of nerve to say Phaedra and Apollo were unprofessional for arguing in front of u at your business meetinf then u go and ask if they roll play in the bedroom, REALLY?? That couldn't have been farther from appropriate!! That had nothing to do with business and quite frankly it was none of your business and that's really crossing the line!!! And what is up with u putting yourself in the history category with Michelle Obama, Clinton ect!?!? U won miss USA, IN 1993!!! You need to get a clue no one even knows who u r!! Honey you are 40 and OLD!!! Get over yourself! I can't stand even watching u or hearing u speak! You are no better than anyone else, you've never been married and can't even get a ring from a man uve been with for 2 years! News flash u are not fabulous u r a washed up old miss America, oops miss USA lmao!! Youre a joke!!

pyin
pyin

Every time  I watch something inappropriate comes out of your mouth!! Seriously, control yourself. Asking Apollo if he role plays?? Why would you do that? If you are so educated then use your brain and have some class! You are so desperate for a man, you would take anyone, even someone elses man!! You have no respect for yourself or other people for that matter. You are a pretty girl, especially for your age. Do you have anything else to offer. I haven't seen anything else redeeming about you as a woman, a friend, or Walter's girlfriend. C'mon get your act together. You continue to make a fool of yourself on national television!!!

MsSepia
MsSepia

Kenya, whether you want Apollo or not you disrespected Phaedra and yourself for that matter. Walter would be a fool if he wanted to marry you. Your sense of decency is at best warped. While I can't deny that you have added spice to the show, it's not exactly the kind of thing I want to see amongst :sistahs". I get that you are smart. You are a prime example of someone misusing their gifts.

baeconsultant1
baeconsultant1

Kenya, we don't believe you stop trying to lie your way out of this, you are in denia about everything you need professional help.  You know exactly what you were  doing your ratings cannot be that good every time the show comes on I hope that they say you are out of the country. You are nothing like Vanessa Wiliams I am surprised that she is friends with you, how much did you pay for that crown? On another note: what about your out of order comment saying that "Apollo is kinda fine?"  Take a look at some of the old shows Phaedra is no joke she see what you are doing keep messing with Apollo, now that's the show I am waiting to see. 

amwinst
amwinst

Kenya:  I see you as a beauty queen but I am taken back from what I see on television.  Please show the world your beauty, dignity, and grace which you were selected as Ms USA.  Continue to be a great role model than what we see on this reality show.  You should not fall prey to disrespect and jealous ways.  Educate those you do not know your accomplishments.  You have inspired many women to follow your education and profession.  Let everyone continue to see your qualities which the world were blessed to see when you were crowned as our beauty queen.

cindy1963
cindy1963

You knew exactly what you were doing when it came to Apollo. That's why you said "I wasn't flirting with Apollo, well, at least I think I wasn't, there's not sham in my game." I think it is disgusting! Find your own husband and stop flirting with other's people's husbands. Don't you know that's OFF LIMITS? I AGREE WITH SOMEONE ELSE THAT SAID "I HOPE YOU GET YOUR WALKING PAPERS," BECAUSE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU IS FAKE AND PHONY!!!

rainiki
rainiki

Funny how you use your blog to do damage control on you behavior! Im hoping and praying you get your walking papers because you ruined the show with your phony made up relationship. 

chennaultn
chennaultn

Yes we all know Kenya is playing a role (come on, the gone with the wind thing was just bad acting). But HUSBANDS are off limits. the only reason Kenya is focused on Phadra's man is because she doesn't have one of her own. Sorry but we all know that relationship is not real. Kenya, please find a real relationship that will be fulfilling, leave the married men alone and flirt with the single men. 

terelon
terelon

Kenya you are going to have learn to have some balance with your attitude, you seem like a darn ticking timebomb all the time, you're going to have to learn to listen to people sometimes, everyone is not going to agree with you and your actions, that doesn't mean fly off the lid, have some class, alI I've seen is  a desperate, classless woman and wants to be the center of attention.

Shorty1961
Shorty1961

Kenya was seriously trying to get a threesome going between her, Phaedra, and Apollo.  She should have discussed that with Phaedra privately before bringing it up at the party.  It really was inappropriate.  And what was Walter supposed to think?  

LME
LME

kenya the way you just invite yourself on that vacation, and your constant desperation to pressure walter into marrying you is pathetic.  you embarrass youself routinely and are too dumb to recognize it.  pedigree!  you have fake papers at the very best .if you were a little nicer you would have been invited. you have rubbed everyone of the women the wrong way. it looks like your trying to be the villlain so  maybe you can parley this into a spinoff for you. i call it the ammerosa  strategy.  nobody would want to read about you or watch you anymore then they already do.uninhibited? its simply no class.

rottenrotti
rottenrotti

everyone should stop being mean to kenya. she is doing a reality t v show. what do you expect. bravo is paying her to be controversal and over the top. i would like to see bravo give kenya her own show called " kenys happily ever after"

BethanyBrooke
BethanyBrooke

A woman being "silly" and "playful" with a man IS in fact flirting. Flirting with another woman's husband, especially a FRIEND'S husband, is completely inappropriate. I think you're a sad woman and won't find real true love until you grow up.

honey-well
honey-well

i love the gone with the wind fabulous it was funny and entertaining.

RHOtheCaribbean
RHOtheCaribbean

Where is your updated blog, Kenya?! Your fans want to hear from you!! I've been twirling in my house, at meetings, in the parking lot since Sunday night! Don't stop now, Kenya...bring it!!

cantgetenoughofbravotv
cantgetenoughofbravotv

Nene is the star and you are about to get on her nerves. I think Phaedra is allot prettier,  Cynthia has more class, Kandi has more drive and you well I think you are gone with the wind, Nuts!!!!

twix
twix

Are you really that desperate that you have to BEG Walter to marry you.. Why would he. You are so classless,rude,nasty,and just plain mean.

vadams123
vadams123

That desperate attempt toward Walter is so sad and sick !  RUN, WALTER, RUN !!!

RHOtheCaribbean
RHOtheCaribbean

"Gone with the Wind fabulous." It was hilarious, but I love it!!!! I watched you twirl at least seven times!! Talk about must see tv!

genise.greene
genise.greene

Kenya is disgracing herself flirting with Apollo and giving him too many compliments in front of Walter. I don't think any man in his right mind would marry her.  She has to learn to respect the man she is with..

EllieJ
EllieJ

Because she is a black woman who won The Miss Am...USA, she should be excused for her desperate ugly behavior? I don't think so. She is living on that win and its getting kind of thin.

gnoy
gnoy

You are all sorts of nasty. Miss USA or America whatever you WERE, you are a disgrace to the title. You should not represent the U.S. in any fashion. 

 

Your desperation for marriage is sad to say the least. Flirting with other women's husbands is disrespectful and wrong. Your fake arse relationship is beyond crazy and Bravo needs to get rid of you. You are a non factor in this show. 

naomirmorgan76
naomirmorgan76

Heeey Kenya!!! I just wanted to say how much I enjoy watching you and i definitely admire your undeniable realnesssss on TRHOA,your sooo up there with NeNe! I love how you just show us every side of you,you dont hold back and you show us straight up how you feel and what you want and plan for and need! YOU show me how to have strength and continue on with that strength without fear,I LOVE THAT,its empowering and builds confidence. I did not care for you too much at first but as i continued to watch you, I liked you more and more, I soo wish  I had a gf like you around,hmmm,loads of fun!!! Anyhow dont  you even sweat Mrs.,Mrs,Kordell Stuart,uh,mmm, Portia Stuart, I do like her and respect her(anything ab the children is ALWAYS GREAT!!!) but  I do feel she's a bit a lil much too young for this show.  However, you were the perfect choice,your a lil of everythin. Nothing personal buteven I still don"'t quite know if you were Miss America, Miss USA,Universe, who cares, I watch you for being Kenya and thats it! Your great and I cant wait to see whats up ahead for you in the future. P.S. I think you should give Portia another chance,remember she's younger than us,she  DOES seem to be fun, Stay SWEET!!! :-)

kadijah
kadijah

Hey Kenya,  I don't see Porshe either do you? hahaaaaaa.

kktraveler
kktraveler

Never in my life have I watched something and felt so uncomfortable and awkward for the people on the show -- good God woman, have some dignity and get a grip on reality! Watching you drop your anvil-like hints to Walter about wanting to get engaged to him, telling him your ring size (without being asked), telling the camera on the flight to Anguilla you think a proposal is on the horizon...I'm just baffled that you are stooping to such a desperate level with this guy. And the thing that amazes me most is not ONCE have you ever said that you love him, or told him you love him -- telling a man "I'm ready to get married and have babies -- it's time" is the quickest way to get him to run for the hills!  In one episode he talks about needing to be in love with the next woman he decides to marry -- I have heard no mention of the word "love" from either one of you toward the other the entire season.

 

And you blatantly lied to the other girls about you Walter talking about marriage and where you both wanted to have your reception!!!! Did you forget that you are being recorded on a TV show where every word you say is immortalized?  So happy to see from the previews that it sounds like you were outed to Walter for the tall tales you were telling the girls. BUSTED!!!

Luv_Ashia
Luv_Ashia

Sorry Kenya but you never want to flirt, especially directly in front of your 'potential' man, even if you were only joking around.  Men do not appreciate that.

You helped to blow your own cover early and NeNe called you on it. 

You and Walter never had chemistry to me either but that did not mean that you were not a couple, you just seemed a little dry to me.  And then, I heard Walter on the radio say that it was a sham.  Smh and rotflmao!

JadeAngel
JadeAngel

She's got everyone talking. If she wasn't relevant, people would be calling her boring. Did anyone else notice WHERE Apollos hands were when he picked her up? Porsha thinking 265 days in a year? Really?

Mojo12
Mojo12

You are soooo delutional.You need a doctor

lindalou1954
lindalou1954

Kenya, I to think you are a very desperate and despicable "has been", get past the title.  I think that is all you have going for you, but I am not impressed by you, your so called intellect, your attitude and your practically proposing to Walter.  I do hope that he is "Gone with the Wind", neither  one of you would be happy if you did indeed get a "ring" from him.  You are also a spoiled brat who hangs on to the coat tails of any man who looks twice at you.  Get a life and I hope you don't last more than this season on a show that I do like and want to continue to watch, but if you are there, I probably won't.  As a final note, Cynthia has more class than you do in your big toe.  Get over yourself.

Classy34a
Classy34a

You need to go. I want to tell you off but I truly feel sorry for you that you don't even see that you are destroying yourself right before the cameras ruining your rep as Miss USA and the many other accomplishment you have worked for. Just stop it and leave the show now.

Swanie
Swanie

I have never in my life known of a woman that constantly begs a man to marry her. Kenya, Kenya, Kenya! Are you seriously that desperate that you are on national T.V. begging a man to marry you? That is a turn off for most men. We can see that Walter was not really feeling you let alone marry you. And I can't believe that you couldn't see that. Walter should have told you from the beginning that he wasn't going to marry you, but of course, he was just on the show for his 15 minutes of fame and to promote his towing business. And he knew if he had told you in the beginning that he wasn't going to marry you, his 15 minutes of fame would be over. Kenya, unless you get serious help for your insecurity and psychological issues, unfortunately, you will never find a decent man to have a long term relationship/marriage with. And that's a fact.

PinkElephant23
PinkElephant23

Screeeeeeeeeeeeech!!!!....pump your brakes you are not "Gone with the Wind" fabulous. Gone with the Wind was critically acclaimed......you're just critical.

islandgirl4
islandgirl4

Kenya you are a beautiful lady but seeing you begging a man for a ring was down right depressing and sad. Furthermore, just because you consider it just flirting don't make it right. Always remember no woman wants another female flirting with or putting their hands on her man, its just common sense. If Phadra has moved on from it and you guys continued to be friends only makes Phadra a bigger person and extremely confident in her marriage. Be patient, in time I'm sure your true love will come along.

JohnMadonna
JohnMadonna

 @amwinst The part of about the beauty queen is it was so long ago it's not even relevant anymore. Everyone seems to know that but her. 

terelon
terelon

 @Shorty1961  She claims she was doing all the extra flirting with men to get a rise out of Walter, we all know the story on that.

AngelTrinity
AngelTrinity

 @rottenrotti Kenya is being her true conceited self. You need to look beyond RHOA that's how she acts all the time because she thinks she's better than most.

terelon
terelon

 @rottenrotti  Yeah but she needs to balance it a bit, she's not charming at all.

terelon
terelon

 @gnoy  You are right, all I read above are excuses for her deplorable behavior no kind of ownership or reflection.

Hutchie
Hutchie

@gnoy Well said and true!

sreese7632
sreese7632

 @JadeAngel I thought i was the only one who saw Apollo's  hands ,that was  shameful to watch

 

laceyv
laceyv

 @PinkElephant23

 Your comments made me smile. You ARE absolutely right.  I do not want to see her on the show next year. Maybe she will be "Gone With The Wind".