Porsha Stewart

Porsha shares her side of the pageant fallout.

on Feb 12, 20130

All right, guys, love ya! Sorry this blog was so lengthy, I just wanted to fill in the blanks for you all. I have to get ready to thaw out steak and salmon for tonight's dinner. Of course Kordell loves the steak and Syre is the salmon lover. I haven't decided on sides, so if you leave a comment give me some suggestions that would go with both. Kisses!

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460 comments
AASC_SF
AASC_SF

I am just looking back at all the other Porsha episodes.  I am trying to figure out how she is totally clueless in real life situations.

 

I do have to defend Cynthia for dropping Porsha in this event.  I run a nonprofit organization and it is imperative that if anyone wanted to use our name that their are agreements and documentation provided to secure the relationship.  People making donations and not having these documentations makes both the nonprofit and the company liable for fraud.  Additionally, Porsha should have said no if only given a two week notice.  Unless Porsha was going to provide and make the office staff do all the necessary paperwork, that probably would be a strain on both sides to get things up and going.  On top of that, having the logo is imperative to begin making print ads, flyers, banners, and etc.  What Porsha doesn't know is that the image quality used on websites are low and will show up very fuzzy if used in print.  

 

Porsha needs to have more practical experience in life and business.  But she probably never took these kind of courses in school or she would have handled it.

 

Now looking at her marriage with Kordell I can see why he divorced her.  She pretty to look at, but she is not a life partner.  She's like taking care of another child who never grows up.

bjohnson3151
bjohnson3151

Porsha, I  for  one don't believe in a man telling me what to do. I have always worked and wanted to help our family also. Love ya girl just stay true to yourself and do what you feel right for yourself.  You are young and people will say things it  is true  wisdom comes with age. And would love to see in in the next season.  Kick Kenya in (hope  she is not in  the  next season) I will let you finish my sentence LOL 

mrksgrl216
mrksgrl216

Porsha just want you to know that there are  MANY, MANY, MANY, MANY men who would be honor to have you as their partner.  So keep your head up chiiile and make his big head suffer! You are Hosea' grand baby. Show him what you working with!

pinktiger
pinktiger

Porsha your husband may be a bit controlling, I'm sure you are well aware of this. But the last thing you need to do is listen to any of the other housewives. I'm sure they all run & control their households because they are the breadwinners. Greg is looking & acting so desperate & thirsty because Nene is calling the shots. Peter was dead broke when he married Cynthia. Kandi is a desperate "sugar mama". Phaedra picked up a jailbird who is also living off of her funds. I hope you & Kordell come back next season. Then we will be able to see a successful black man who isn't living their sorry a**es off a woman.

keno.jersey
keno.jersey

Now Porsha, I've been standing up for you, not because you're so innocent because unless a whole lot is being edited out ( you have some stuff going on with you).

keno.jersey
keno.jersey

Just as I've mentioned before, once Cynthia realized she would have a decent turnout she decided to blow you off just so that she could keep ALL the proceed.  Now what about ALL doesn't anyone understand? Bear in mind that she has a controlling husband and no one knows if he even works anymoreOKKKK.  Then she tries to shift that controlling story from her husband to yours(WHATEVER)!

Now, as far as your husband is concerned, it quite admirable the way you love and respect him but----I could not understand why he dealt with Cynthia the way he did at his party!  Cynthia has been hanging her purse strings on the possibility that she and NeNe are tight.  If it were not for your husband, I would guess that you would have never attended the pageant and many of us would have had your back on that one!

No need to kiss up on Cynthia’s $%&, I liked her in the beginning before realizing that she is spineless, phony and boring.

-Truth is-EnDoFtHeDaY, you can tell that NeNe is cordial to her (Cynthia) because she kisses up like there’s no tomorrow. But NeNe could take this phony chick or leave her.

Hogan
Hogan

Cynthia was right to dump you from the pageant! If you had been honest with your husband he would have thought so too. You did nothing, despite what you claim. She did not have the time to deal with your ways and she moved on, simple as that. No offense should have been taken, you were exposed for the lack luster person you seem to be.

Hulali
Hulali

You are cute as a button and extremely funny to watch. I'm glad you're on the show! Kenya and Cynthia drive me crazy with all their fake storylines on the show.  You and Cordell are a great couple and its nice to watch two people in love like that.  Hang in there and try not to drop down to their level. Kandi and Phaedra are good women for you to cruize with on the show.

kjones0160
kjones0160

Good for you Porsha, stand firm in your convictions, too many people are pleasers and that's what gets them in trouble or divorce. My only peev I have with you is while your standing for what's right think about what you say about others and how you constantly pick on Kenya. She's a lost soul and don't have the support and love you have in your life so have pitey on her and stop being evil towards her (making digs at her). Let it go.

TSan
TSan

I wonder if Cynthia may be a little envious of your lifestyle. She and Peter's financial woes were on display a few seasons ago so I'm sure her lifestyle doesn't afford her the luxury of being a full time housewife. Please be careful with this group of women. They will attack your marriage and the way you run your household but many of them would secretly trade with you if they could. Stand firm in what you believe and remember, it's your life. You don't owe these women any explanations. I don't think Kordell is controlling. I think you should listen to him over a bunch of viewers who you don't know. He's older and wiser and you guys seem to be happy in your marriage.

lucky8
lucky8

I am so sick and tired of people making comments about people's marraiges and how they "let" people tell them what to do and assume that the husband doesn't respect his wife because he has "say so" in his wife's affairs.  Hell, who do you want Porsha to listen to - - you strangers or her loving husband???  I've been married for 22 years and my husband and I have a wonderful relationship strictly because we don't let other people interfere with our marriage.  If Porsha chose not to go the strip club because she knows her husband would not like it, then why should she go - to please who?  I'm sure there are places she doesn't want her husband to go also and he respects her too.   I don't find her to be an airhead at all.  She is fun and loving and lucky to have such a wonderful husband who is concerned about her all the time.  I have the same kind of husband and I wouldn't let anyone not even my family come between us.  So Porsha, laugh at these negative, stupid comments and continue to do you and your husband.  Later for the haters!!!!

MoniLA
MoniLA

Porsha, you have alot to learn from Kandi and Phaedra. Observe them and learn. As for your marriage, be who you want to be. That's YOUR husband. It's YOUR life and happiness. Best to you.

kisefac
kisefac

Porsha acts like she's so righteous and does no wrong and her low blows to Kendra last night were so below the belt that she should have clocked her. Whenever Kordell gets rid of Porsha for someone younger, I hope that Kendra is there to see it. She offered the olive branch by making breakfast and should have put arsenic in it. 

evestar50
evestar50

Wow! You should seriously learn how to make coffee! Can you even screw in a light bulb by yourself? Pitiful!

pyt
pyt

I am so proud of Porsha for standing up and having some morals and not attending the strip club. Christians are supposed to be persecuted for standing up for what is right. That's how u know u are about that life, that Christian walk. 

 

Also most marriages end up in divorce in this country. Do you and be happy. Don't listen to them they are jealous you don't have to work and are cute.  Again I am so proud of you.

Topsy
Topsy

You are not very nice.  You are fake you say things and give a fake smile knowing you intend it to hurt people you clealy do not like.  That is not rising above a situation.  You know you would hurt Kenya telling her he had a good time.  You could have let that drop.  I hope you sit and watch this season really watch it and see what you've done how careless you've been and see if you should be proud of yourself.  We have control on only one thing and that's how we react to things.  Maybe Kenya's wronged you but what about your behaviour. " maybe you'd get a husband"  who says that.  A mean girl.

Dorrian
Dorrian

REMENBER KARMAAAAAAAAA

Dorrian
Dorrian

U REALLY BAD WITH KENYA... AND WHO ITS JEALOUS OF HER? HER LIFE ITS CONTROL BY HER HUSBAND....

kh561
kh561

Porsha, your husband controls you.  You have no thoughts of your own.  It's gross. You are an airhead. 

keno.jersey
keno.jersey

I find it interesting how Cynthia decided not to partner with the charity after realizing she could fill the seats at the pageant. Slick way to back out so that he would not have to share the money.

shanice.prese
shanice.prese

all u bitches are jealous over porsha because you guys don't have a life

 

vicki1fan_
vicki1fan_

Of course Cordell controls Porsha. She is a bit flighty and inmature. She can be a mean girl too. Her lack of responsibility at the benefit she invited Kenya to, bothering to know Kenya's Pagent title during introductions as well asknowing the where abouts of Cynthia's needed paperwork was shows she doesn't have the ability to be trusted alone. Cordell understands that. Her best service is taking care of Cordell. 

shirley.wallace.330
shirley.wallace.330

I like porcha and Cordell think he's old school and trying to Protect his wife from very cunning conniving and agressive Women espically the new she broke and crazy Kenya. And this season Cynthia is coming across cold and calculating As if she's siding with Kenya I think she's using Kenya to create Laos so she can sit back and watch and laugh cuddles to cordell For not allowing abusiness meeting in his home Cynthia has office To conduct her business in was she going to pay porsha to use Her house since she wants to be paid ever time the bailey agency Is used. She also made sure porsha walked into a hostile inviro- Ment at the meeting. The way she fired her was nasty could she Be jealous that they finally have some that's younger prettier And living a life style shed like to have I want the old Cynthia Back and truly believe we can do without Kenya Moore Where's our girl Marlo Hampton that's who we want bye kookie Kenya please

GodsPoet4Life
GodsPoet4Life

You respect your husband and your husband respects you.  It's apparent that you love each other and hold each other in high regard.  Plus, Cordell is good at checking mess which is what a lot of folk are mad about.

 

Your marital roles are obviously more traditional and I rather appreciate it.  I don't blame Cordell for not wanting people y'all don't know in your home, especially when he is not there.  And Cynthia was wrong to even attempt inviting others into YOUR home for HER business meeting!

 

She has a home of her own and a place of BUSINESS at which she can conduct all the meetings she wants with whomever she wants and that's what she should have done from the beginning.  To take offense to your husband's position for HIS home and YOUR home and THEN share it with her staff was way out of line-- it was disrespectful AND unprofessional.  I think her attempt to get further up into your personals and invite others along backfired and it angered her.

 

She'll get over it...and she won't try that again, at least not with you.  Big ups to y'all for setting boundaries.

CherMay
CherMay

 @HoganCynthia did it so she can keep the money for herself.  It was suppose to be for "Charity" remember?  Cynthia had no experience in pagent herself.  The workers were the ones who made it successful, not Cynthia.  She wasted no time to take the credit though.

 

keno.jersey
keno.jersey

 @Hogan

 

HoganHave you been paying attention?  How many major events have you planned and only given someone that you wanted to be a co-sponsor (TWO WEEKS)

Now, I will say- if you are also guilty of doing that or something even closely resembling YOU"RE GHETTO!  problem solved! CHECK MATE.....time to move along.

aubriel@01
aubriel@01

 @TSan

 I agree 150% . any of them would do well to have a husband that they could respect.  thats their problem.  they dont respect their man enough to reallize the he is the man and demands the respect that Cordell does.  My hat is of to you Porsha.  Be that wife.  I feel you!!!!!

 

keno.jersey
keno.jersey

 @MoniLA

 What are you on? Porsha does not need advice from 'Miss un-original 'I would do anything for money" Sex Toys from China Kandi, or Wanta-be Top Attorney Gap Toothed Lying Phaedra.

Hulali
Hulali

 @kisefac

 Kenya may have made breakfast but when Porsha came down and offered to help, Kenya called her stupid (again) for not knowing how to use the one cup coffee maker.

cheriefran
cheriefran

 @evestar50 I am so tired of people talking about her making coffee - that was a Keurig coffee maker - which uses K-cups to make INDIVIDUAL cups of coffee.  Each person makes their OWN.  Kenya was wrong those were not creamers but K-cups of coffee - so please stop saying Portia can't make coffee.  BTW I have a Keurig and its great!!!

selena78
selena78

 @evestar50

 Why is it so stupid not to know how to make coffee? If she never used the machine before than she has to learn to use the machine...I don't understand how that makes her stupid.

Hulali
Hulali

 @pyt

 Why would a bunch of middle aged women (except Porsha) want to go to a strip club??  It doesn't make sense to me at all.  I wouldn't want to go either.

MrsTucker
MrsTucker

@Topsy Oh please! Have you watched the show? Kendra has been evil to all of the ladies at some point or the other! So now Porsha needs to kiss her "stallion" but because she decided to cook some breakfast?? I don't think so! Porsha keep doing you and that is not being mean but also letting them know that just because you are beautiful and rich and without having to work doesn't mean that you have to kiss anyone's but! I am a wife and mother of one and I work hard everyday. If my husband could have his way, I could be cute everyday and not work. But until such time, I'll keep hoping and wishing. OAN my hubby did just buy me a Range Rover! :-) BY THE WAY- i know its a long shot but I am LA march 19th -22nd and in Atlanta the 1st week of April for business purposes and I would love to meet you and learn more about your foundation. Hopefully there will be a divine intervention and we will cross paths. I'll keep my fingers crossed. Stay beautiful diva!

MrsTucker
MrsTucker

@ Dorrian can you learn how to formulate a sentence and how to spell check your words before you try to put anyone on blast?

TSan
TSan

@keno.jersey My thoughts exactly.

KBY_Delta
KBY_Delta

 @shanice.prese

Either you know Porsha personally or you're taking this show too seriously. Your inability to express emotions in a mature manner and limited vocabulary is comical. If you can't stand the heat, get off the blog.

macnmac
macnmac

 @vicki1fan_ Cordell does not control her he just voices his opinion on situations and give his feedback which is good in a marriage because it helps each other grow and not get stuck in certain behaviors.

MrsTucker
MrsTucker

@GodsPoet4Life Amen sister amen!!

EloiseM
EloiseM

 @GodsPoet4Life

 You know, Godspoet4life I believe you are right.  People are angry with Kordell because he checks the mess right away.  Doesn't want his wife in crazy mess.  Since he already stated in Aguilla that she could start something, this shows just how far he will allow mess to go and it certainly is not over the top.

CherMay
CherMay

 @keno.jersey  @MoniLAI agree...they should only be acquantances...not friends..   Don't let them corrupt you,..you are better than that Porsha.

 

Hulali
Hulali

 @cheriefran   Ha ha ha ha !  Kenya insults her own intelligence by going after Porsha's coffee making skills!   BAM!

 

Hulali
Hulali

 @selena78  @evestar50

 I've been making coffe for 30 years and don't know how to use that particular coffee maker.  She's not stupid at all!

Topsy
Topsy

Those two little words do not tell us what you think only that you don't know how to express yourself without profanity.  And you are not addressing vicki1fan because I'm sure she's well respected and loved.  Try again to tell us why you don't agree with the first statement.  I think she got it right.  She's a really good wife but really young.