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The details of what happened with Kim after that night, is her story to tell. I will not go into that here. I do want to say that I have learned a lot about my sister and myself during the taping of this show. I have been able to look at our relationship from an outsider’s point of view. I've realized that my pain and worrying about her comes off as anger. It was not helping Kim or our relationship. I love my sister and only want the best for her. Kim knows that.
I would also like to clarify, that I do not resent my mother in any way. After losing her, I felt that it was not only my job to look after Kim, but all of the sisters jobs to look after each other. I think my frustration came from feeling as if I were ill equipped to handle it at times.
As hard as it was to watch what happened between Kim and me, it was also challenging to take in what the other women went through, too. The end of this episode was heartbreaking. Seeing Camille suddenly as a single mommy brought tears to my eyes. Being an unwilling participant in a divorce has to be profoundly painful. Camille and I have been through a lot together this season. However, when I see her in these "scenes," I see a mom and a wife that has been left by her husband. I feel so bad about what is going on in her life and about what has happened with our relationship. I wish we could turn back time and start over.
Kyle,
I can see that you are always trying to do the right thing so I hope that you will see that the way Taylor treated your sister and lied about the airport is unacceptable. I know your sister has a problem BUT in terms of having a back, you should make sure Taylor knows that the way she treated your sister was not acceptable. She attacked Kim first in each of the interactions and really pushed her out of the group in an unfair way.
Fan
Kyle, I am sorry to see, and hear, the strain between you and your sister. I can somewhat sympathize, having lost my mom when I was 15 and having to rely on my older sisters for guidance and support. It was hard for them to allow me to grow up and make my own mistakes. Those mistakes were necessary to help me grow up. The felt 'responsible' for me, even into my adult years. Unfortunately, I no longer speak to one of my sisters (for over 5 years now), and I can say from personal experience, it leaves a hole that cannot be filled. I hope, by watching your lives from an 'outside' perspective, you can see where the tears are, and repair them before it is too late. Friends come and go, but family should never be replaced. good luck and I hope you can repair the damage and strengthen your relationship with Kim
Kyle, Stay strong and don't be so hard on yourself! I've been watching all season and have sensed all along that there was a history of addiction with your sister Kim. Although it was never addressed I could SO recognize and relate to your anger and frustration and at the same time, recognize the signs of insecurity and vulnerability in Kim. It is obvious that you care deeply for her and worry about her, but at some point we all need to accept the things that we cannot change and lovingly let them go. I hope this show provided an opportunity for Kim to take a deeper look at her life.
Kyle, You were my favorite housewife. I admired you, and when you had your dilemma with Camille I thought that she was the one to blame. This episode really disappointed me. Sisters are supposed to stand by each other no matter what. For you to cut her down on national television and in front of your so called "friends" was just sickening. I teared up watching all three of you attack her. Before I saw this episode I thought Camille was horrible,but now i realize that both of you are exactly the same. Worst episode ever, horrible way to end the season!
Well, it certainly was painful to watch you two sister's fighting. I think you always assume Kim is to blame for something but Taylor started this and she is very mean to Kim. Kim is fragile and needs love and support and I wish you both well. My sister died in 1983 and I would do anything to have her back. Take care of each other.
Kyle...Kyle...Kyle.
All I can do is shake my head at tonight's episode and your behavior towards your sister. I feel so bad for Kim…she is the "kind" and "vulnerable" one --NOT Taylor! Please WAKE up and stop putting your friends before your sister.
Kyle
I hope you talked to Taylor about the way she treated your sister- it was not ok. I know you try to do the right thing. I hope you will here as well.
Hi Kyle, I'm sorry you and Kim had to go through that fight, but I think from what you described over the series about your relationship with her finally made sense. I always thought Kim was not herself, red faced, nervous and silent. I see now she was hiding her problem. MY heart goes out to her, I can relate. You can't help someone and carry them while they continue the bad behaviour of addiction. Please realise that and not feel so much guilt. it's up to Kim. In hindsight; after the fight in the limo and what you finally said to her, all made sense of her during this season. Wishing both families the best!
I find it interesting you were first to blog. I do think you are very mean to your sister and you picked Taylor who is a drama starter over your sister. You came at your sister at Taylor's party. I feel you and Taylor attacked Kim. Regardless if Kim has a drinking problem or not you came off really bad. You humiliated your own blood. Taylor was not baited by kim at the airport. Taylor has not been truthful and you took Taylor's side over Kim.
I have read and reread this post....I just can't seem to find the part where you accept responsibility for not having Kim's back when Taylor attacked/ambushed her at this birthday party. Nor, do you acknowledge that Taylor should have used better judgement and waited for an appropriate time to express her feelings and perhaps initiated a group 'clear the air' gathering. It seems that you want Kim's support where these women are concerned but you're not willing to give her yours. You do, however, defend and praise Taylor as your friend in this post even though episode after episode she has proven herself to be diabolical, manipulative and dishonest.
Kyle I hope you see in tonights episode Taylor initiated the confrontation that aside Kim has a disease called alchaholism that affects the whole family I suggest you check out Al anon to help you cope with your sisters disease. It is obvious you love each other! Love and Prayers to you and your family
Kyle, knowing that your sister has issues and bringing them out in public for the world to see and humiliating her and degrading her is so far from trying to help her it is pathetic. All you were worried about was her not having your back....boy you sure didn't have hers and haven't any episode I have seen. You may have had to deal with a lot...my mother had a sister who was in and out of rehab and hospitals and caused major embarrassment to the family. NEVER did I EVER hear her attack her in front of others like you did. You are NOT the victim. Regardless of whether Kim was drinking or not.....NO ONE has the right to do what you and Taylor did. Taylor attacked her and you jumped on her in front of everyone. What if the table had been turned. I know you are trying to do damage control now, but how does one ever get over her sister doing these things to her on TV. My heart is just broke for her. I pray someone that really loves her steps in and helps her. What causes her to drink and feel so insecure? I am so glad you are not my sister. I really think you need to grow up and quit acting like some prima donna HS kid.
kyle you can't save an addict - they have to save themselves and your sister doesn't want to help herself she wants someone else to ALWAYS do it. I know, I was married to one for 25 years and I was always trying to save him. I don't believe your sister ever grew up and her life situation shows it. The very best thing your family could do for her (and it is the hardest thing to do) is to let her fall as far down as her DZ takes her. She will always blame everyone else for her misery as long as you are willing to pick up the pieces. Make her pick her pieces up and put her own life together. If you don't you are the enabler. Also if you feel so bad for Camille, be a true friend and let the past she said - you said go and really be there for her. I really liked you in the begining but now I am on the fence because you do back stab alot!
As you realize Taylor is vulnerable you should have realized your sister is a vulnerable and insecure person, no matter what problems she was having off camera. My heart breaks for your sister and I can see why she has major anxiety issues and/or drank too much to put up with being attacked or feelings of lonliness. Adriene took more time to listen to your sister than you did.
It makes more sense now BUT Taylor was instigating things with your sister and you were turning on your sister and not this woman who is not a friend. She is very phony. Every time Kim tried to tell you what Taylor does, you immediately take Taylor's side. Ditch her. Lisa and Adrienne are real and Camille is more real than Taylor who uses a fake name.
And keep your family history off tv.
Kyle, I am a huge fan of the RHOBH and I watch religiously every week. I am a huge fan of both you and Lisa. This weeks episode was heartbreaking. I am sure it's difficult to watch yourself on television in a fight with your sister. It was apparent to me there were deeper issues than what you both were fighting about. In many ways I can relate as I am much closer to my friends than my sister. I think instead of living with regrets, you both could use this experience to mend your relationship.
Although I saw Camille as an elitist and extremely condescending, I felt bad for her. It seemed as if she wrapped her identity in Kelsey's fame and money and to lose this must be difficult for her. She developed this heirarchy in her mind and by her definition, she will fall a few notches (maybe to your level). Hopefully this experience has humbled her, and she realizes that there is more to life than money and fame.
Taylor too, should be careful. It seems as if her identity is wrapped up in having money and living in BH. It seems that she picked on Kim because Kim did not have the money and all he amenities it brings. She seems to "kiss ass" with Adrienne and Lisa and almost fearful of them.
Kyle I think Kim was right; be careful of the friends you choose, specifically Taylor.
Kyle, I think you are a very strong woman and I hope that you and Kim work stuff out but what was sad was seeing how you many times seemed to be unhappy because of Kim. You seem to have a wonderful family! Wishing you all the happiness!
i hope you see that taylor acosted your sister at the party and then YOU put the blame on kim for starting stuff. It wasn't that way at all. taylor is sneaky and started the whole thing at her own party.
Kyle one problem that I have that I would like you to address. You want Kim to stick up for you, but you don't stick up for your sister when she's being attacked. The truth of the matter is that it was Taylor who instigated the fight and you should've called Taylor out for it, as your sister TRIED to do. You do owe your sister an apology. B/c I think she was trying to tell you that Taylor was the one who started the situation b/t you and Camille again.. and you have your life to think about how poorly you reacted.
I believe that "editing" also deprives the viewers of the "whole" story as well.
I won't pretend to understand the dynamics between the sister relationship of Kyle and Kim, but I will say, IMO, that KIM took the a"higher" road most of the time and suffered dire consequences because of it.
I felt the women DID gang up on her because she wasn't "like" them, or wouldn't "react" like they felt she should. It was painfully obvious that she didn't fit in that "social" circle. And that's tragedy.
With all that money in all of those households, you would think there would be ten times more class. I'm deeply disappointed in the behavior of Kyle particularly. Beautiful and strong, she became classless with her vulgar mouth and finger pointing to other participants in the "need" to be "RIGHT".
What a shame. Hopefully, she will have the opportunity to review her actions and realize, she will get what she wants if approaches life with a little more compassion, love and class.
Holy crap, that was awesome!!
Good show, ladies. Kyle, nice preemptive blog and I have no idea what your dynamic is or your history is with your sister, but you came off as terrible. I look forward to hearing your side at the reunion though. We all have interesting relationships with our siblings that would take a week to explain. I think people get that.
BUT, Taylor totally instigated tonight!!! Again!!!! And you took her side....again!!!!!! I was so mad I was yelling at the tv. That girl is trouble with a capital "t." And that makes great TV.
Thanks to all for a great season :)
maybe you should take the time to ask taylor why she was the cause of 2 fights? the one after you and camille worked things out and taylor stirred it up again (and she did) and the one at taylor's bday party? kim was just sitting there and she was absolutely attacked by taylor. maybe you can ask yourself if you believed kim for one minute when she told you that... i'm pretty sure you didn't believe and don't now. taylor seems to be one of the problems between you and your sister.
Please tell kim we love her and want to see her back on the show. She is amazing. I cried a lot this episode, I was starting to not like you initially, but after this episode I realized that you do love Kim a lot. With courage and the 'right' kind of support, she will make it through anything. I know that there are so so so so many more like me that just wish her all the best.
I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through right now. I have a sibling with the same problem and I know how that fear can translate to anger. I know we don't see all that goes on behind the scenes but it seems to me that Taylor has cause a lot of issues. She is the one that keeps dragging Kim into arguments. She did it on this episode. I love watching you, Adrienne and Lisa. I get the impression that Taylor is the one that doesn't really know how to be a freind, like the issue in NY. Kim wasn't baiting her at the airport, she said what she said and that is it. At the dinner party she jumped on Kim again, and then once again she did it at her own birthday party. Why would anyone in the right mind do something like that at their own party. Not the time nor the place. I have NEVER commented on anything like this and truly can't believe I am right now! I have enjoyed seeing you and your family. I pray that you and your sister can work things out. I am sure that Kim had a young life that most of us cannot even begin to comprehend. It is easy to hear her pain in her narrations. I hope that she is able to come to terms with her life as it is and get well.
Kyle, I think you are a very strong woman and I hope that you and Kim work stuff out but what was sad was seeing how you many times seemed to be unhappy because of Kim. You seem to have a wonderful family! Wishing you all the happiness!
Kyle your one of my favorite housewives. This episode makes it easier to understand your relationship with kim and I wish you and her the best of luck!
Kyle,
You WERE my favorite housewife.
Until you outted your sister's chemical dependency on national TV. I actually started crying when you said "AND NOW EVERYONE KNOWS."
Wow....wow.
How things would have been so different had Camille in NY not stayed in your room that night. Kyle and Camille had patched things up but fifteen minutes after being alone with you tyolor..camille confronted Kyle. You need to own up to your part fight you were so wrong blaming your sister...
Kyle, I know all too well what you're going through. I was the chosen one to look after my brother who suffers from drug addiction. I often find myself angry and resentful towards my brother without realizing it is fear on my part. Fear he would succumb to his addiction. I knew something was up with Kim, but couldn't put my finger on it. I'm relieved to know I'm not alone and wish you, Kim and your families the absolute best. We all have a place in our parents hearts. Take comfort in knowing your mom thought of you as the "strong" one. Bless you!
I usually like you and your no-nonsense style, but you really jumped the gun on your sister and just assumed that she started something at Taylor's party. You went in with gun's a flaring and Taylor is playing on this. NO ONE should use a stressful time between sisters to endear themselves to one and come between the two of them. Lisa's talking and you're not listening. It seems that she can see right through Taylor and you cannot. Every time Taylor is confronted about what she had said to Camille, she never answers the question... she turns the tables and starts on Kim. It's all a distraction to mask her poor behavior. AND YOU, then used the argument to air Kim's dirty laundry in public.
I really felt bad for Kim. She was ganged up on, and then once again, Taylor turned the tables on her when you walked over and then stood back and watched the two of you go at it.
You need to start listening to the people closest to you. I respect you, but I was very disappointed in how you acted at Taylor's party, and it sounds like, maybe after watching the episode, you are embarrassed of your own actions as well.
I know it's your life and not a characters on a show. And, I never write in to blogs. I have three sister's myself, and what I was struck by was the reality of it.
Having a sister, I know just how truly complicated the relationship can be... layers and layers and layers of feelings and emotions. With that said, I hope you can see just the amount of negative energy you bring to the relationship. I'm not quite certain I buy the "...it comes off as anger...." line. Your comments, your actions to your sister were cruel and uncalled for. If it walks like a duck....
Your comments about Taylor seem to enforce the anger you have toward your sister. It was so clear in tonights episode that Taylor flat out lied about what was said at the airport (your sister was telling the truth) and that Taylor picked an inappropriate time to attack your sister. Additionally, it was clear to every viewer out there that after attacking your sister with lies, the rest of you did gang up on your sister.
Kyle, you should feel bad about your actions. And as someone who whined in several episodes that your sister didn't have your back - you did the same thing to her - only you did so toward someone who is emotionally fragile.
I hope what your saying is true and that next season shows you and Kim closer than ever. I am a sister and also had a death bed promise to look out for my sister. I know the stress that can bring on. I also saw on each episode that you constantly bad mouthed your sister to the other ladys. There would be no way that Kim could be friends with them and become close knowing that they have heard all your complaints and will never be on her side. Good luck. I pray that both of you get help if that is needed to bring you closer together and look forward to seeing it next season.
Hi kyle, well i am a big fan of the show and yes, what i have been seeing is you being mean to your sister. I don't like the fact that you called her an Alcoholic.. That is very personal and it should brought up between family only, and not the whole world. I do hope that she seeks help and i hope you can rekindle your relationship. She is a sweet girl and a great mother.. Kyle you are also a passionate woman with a big heart and you are a terrific mother and wife.. Much Luck.
Tony
Kyle- I watch this show as an escape but I found myself weeping after your fight with your sister. I know it is hard not to be resentful when someone has a substance abuse issue but whne you fight this battle you really need your sister the most. One more thing.....you are so wrong about Taylor. She picks on Kim because she is an easy target. Kim was minding her own business having a conversation with a guest at the party. Why did Taylor have to stir up the pot once again? She always plays the victim but I have a feeling she is a very calculating and manipulative woman. BEWARE!
This is funny that I'm doing this, but I feel really sorry for your sister. You always say she doesnt have your back but you turn on her very easily. Making her ride home by herself was so mean! It looked to me like Taylor was in the wrong over Camille and your great friends with Taylor. You fight with Camille and Kim takes your side and isn't friends with Camille because she's loyal to you. If she has a drinking problem you should help her get better, not financially but emotionally.
Kyle I hope you see in tonights episode Taylor initiated the confrontation that aside Kim has a disease called alchaholism that affects the whole family I suggest you check out Al anon to help you cope with your sisters disease. It is obvious you love each other! Love and Prayers to you and your family
Kyle, you are a dear. None of us truly knew/know what your arguments with Kim were about even though some of us thought we knew/know the whole story. Your mom was right! Arguments are rarely what others see......we all know that...or should. I will say....the common thread of most arguments is hurt feelings......someone's 'feelings' were hurt and they lash out.
It's nice you feel close to Taylor but for the life of me....I didn't understand her need to confront Kim at her, Taylor's, birthday party. Kim was having a nice time at the Party! It was a Party! Kim was a guest! Why Taylor chose that time to discuss anything other than party talk was beyond me and beyond Kim. Kim wasn't prepared for the confrontation. Taylor was prepared which wasn't fair. A nice calm chat at a park or Lisa's restaurant would have been better. Then again....there might be something I don't know.....but what I know is what I saw and thus my comment.
Kyle.......you are a bully to your sister. You expected her to "back" YOU up in NY but showed that you wouldn't back her up. Taylor is a troublemaker (Lisa sees that)....she confronted Kim at her own party - what's with that??? Then you come storming over and accuse Kim of starting trouble; you said nothing to Taylor. YOU allowed Kim to be bullied; YOU jumped right in and bullied her also. Take a look at Taylor; SHE'S the one who started everything. You want to set all the rules for your sister and I think you are a very mean person. Look in the mirror for once to see the real you; I don't think you will like want you see. Adrienne is kind....she's the only one who tried to protect Kim. If you're such a good sister how come you did nothing but allowed your sister to be bullied. You should be ashamed of yourself!
Kyle, I must say after watching all the episodes, it did have you come off a bit harsh. I can tell your a very passionate person, as I am as well. I wish you and Kim the best and hope things will workout in a positive way. I loved watching the beverly hills housewives as much or more than the others. I hope you return next season and look forward in following your lives. Best of luck and thanks for keeping it "REAL".
You have as many problems as your sister, you need anger management classes. And no matter what your problems with your family, you have attacked your sister repeatedly and not stood up for her when Taylor has played her games. While Camille is manipulative and Taylor comes up a close second in manipulation, you on the other hand, turned your back on family. Watching the difficulty that Lisa had in finally cutting the cord with Cedric, you have to wonder why you couldn't show half as much caring toward your sister as Lisa did to a non family member. You should watch carefully how many times you demand of your sister her total loyalty while you make snide comments about her and put her secrets out for the whole world. Yet she treated you with love and kindness throughout the show.
You are a very genuine p erson and despite the criticism you have received about how you behave towards your sister, it's plain obvious that you love her. I was quite surprised to find a Bravo "housewife" would be as relatable. You will get through this.
Well, I am very happy that you cleared all of that up. I do like you on the show Kyle but watching how you treated your sister during this season was very upsetting. I have a sister myself and although her and I have a totally different relationship than you and Kim, I would never treat her like she is some "looney bin" on national tv even if she legitimately was one. I'm sure that it was obvious to all the viewers that Kim has some emotional and personal issues that she has to work out on her own but I felt like you made it even more obvious to the rest of the cast. I felt like you looked down on her a lot and treated her like she was insignificant compared to you and the rest of the housewives. I understand you being angry at her for not backing you up in NYC during your argument with Camille, but that is no reason for you to constantly throw it in her face. Yes, she should have spoken up but if she's not comfortable with conflict then you can't be mad at her. Look how emotional you got after your argument with Camille. I felt like you were more concerned about mending your relationship with her and less concerned about trying to find a common ground with Kim. There were a lot of times throughout the season in which you and the rest of the cast excluding Adrienne and Camille, attacked Kim. Just because you guys never directly came out and said she is an idiot (which you did say in NYC), that's how you all treated her. And honestly, they only treated her like that because they saw how you behaved with her. Nonetheless, I think you need to learn how to back your sister up on national tv regardless of what's going on behind closed doors. Growing up, my mom always told us to keep the family feuds in the house because once you bring them to the streets then anybody can come in and tear apart your family because you already showed the world that you guys were never stable in the first place. I wish you guys nothing but the best. Good luck and God Bless!
Kyle you are definitely my top favorite housewife of Beverly Hills! I love your personality and the love you give to your family and friends. Camille is just crazy so I think that is why you ladies couldn't get along. You guys are oil and water. You being water since water is so much better than oil in every way ;) I wish nothing but the best for you and your gorgeous family. I hope you ladies come back!
I was shocked how Taylor continues to turn things around. I agree that you were very mean to your sister. It is obvious that she does not like conflict. It very well may be because you are such a fast talker. She has always had to give into you. Shame on you.
There is no excuse for leaving your sister out there. Alcoholic or not... She took care of your family... she got the concept family first and her missing her childhood can never be repaid...Maybe it is not your place to repay her but it is certainly your place to act like her sister and not escalate problems...If that was me in the same situation i would have gently extracted my sister from a situation she was ill prepared to deal with. Politely excuse myself and make sure her BFF and the "Agent" escorted her home. I think this was a study in lack of diplomacy. Your sister was the most important dynamic in all of this... not your friends, not your frustration or anger...but her protection... Despite whatever issues she is dealing with she is still the sister from your memories and you might want to try compassion next time. Appropriate title because it is unforgiveable to ever turn away from family.
Your sincerity and true feelings are obvious in every episode. It's evident by how you interact with people that you are a good person. It's been very interesting watching you all. Hopefully the show will be on next season and will be a lot less tumultuous. Wishing you great things for you and your family. Especially your sister. She needs you in her life.
I am so relieved to read your blog. I cried through out this last episode because I do realize that this is NOT just a show but your lives. I really like you and your sister Kim, she appears sad and tearful through most of the season and it is never a good idea to kick someone when they are already down. I really do NOT like Taylor, she did not have to approach Kim at her party and "discuss" her concerns. She could have waited and furthermore, all she did was confront Kim while taking NO responsibility for her actions, Taylor seemed so proud of herself after everyone starting bullying Kim. She smiled with a big grin, it really made me sick considering she claims to be a child of domestic violence. The best way to resolve conflict is with compassion, forgiveness and love. (of course if there is substance abuse...well that is another issue)
Good Luck to you and your entire family. Sophia





I really didn't like how tonight went. I thought New York episode was over. Lisa, should of never said anything to Taylor and really tonight at Taylors party, Taylor had to say something. Kim was definatly attacked by all. You should go over old film and watch it. I see kim at all of Kyles parties, and the Hilton family(Kathy couldn't come) why? She couldn't fly out later.. Sisters should take care of each other.
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