Lisa Vanderpump

Lisa admits that sometimes hindsight is 20/20, and discuss the Taylor and Cedric situations.

on Jan 16, 20110

When I saw this week’s episode, it struck a chord in me of how real this show is.

We start in Villa Blanca on the night that Kyle and I had planned to have dinner, which is certainly a rare occasion, especially when you are married and lead such busy lives. It is not always that easy to take time out and catch up, and trying to do that in my own restaurant is a difficult task to say the very least. So we proceeded to chat and lo and behold Kyle receives a text!

I have always maintained that one of the reasons for our rapid decline as a group was the fact that Taylor had instigated the problems in New York, That never sat well with me (and at some stage later I do pull her aside). Now was I pleased when she announced to Kyle that she was coming to join us wanting to discuss her marital problems? Ummm, let me think about that for a moment...no. Also Kyle warned me not to mention New York as she felt that on this particular occasion Taylor wanted to open up to us, and that it would get complicated to include the previous fiasco.

So Taylor arrives, and I sit there supremely irritated at her hand holding and giggling. I don't know maybe it was ridiculous of me to show my irritation, but there you have it. That is exactly what I mean about the reality of this show.

I like all the women, but Taylor running to Camille and repeating what Kim had said, always stayed in the back of my mind...

261 comments
Briana From CT
Briana From CT

I have not miss a episode of this show! You by far are my favorite and as a 20 year old woman i truly look up to you. I have grown up with out my parents and have raised my self since i was 13 and i would die to have a mother like you. Thank you so inspiring me to be a great parent.

with love your greatest fan Briana

Cheryl r. Darrow
Cheryl r. Darrow

You are easily my favorite housewife of BH !!! I really enjoy your show! Your husband seems like such a gentleman. He is so easy going and so very nice. What is your husband's profession? I love your home....very beautiful. I hope everyone stays with the next season.

Do you ever watch any of the other housewife show? Looking forward to next season.

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Tessie Jackson

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emilie howard
emilie howard

Lisa, I think you are a beautiful, funny, clever women with a huge heart. I hope that the mess with Cedric doesn't take away from your caring nature. I think Cedric is disloyal and ungrateful. If someone took me in for free when I was down and out, I would be willing to scrub the floor with a toothbrush at 4 am if they asked. I think it's ridiculous that he was complaining that he had to "get up extremely early to work out with her". If he got a job, like any other normal person that really wants to get back on their feet, then he'd know what it really means to wake up early. I hope the situation works out for you and your husband and that this doesn't change your view of people. Not everyone has a horrible character like him.

Tamm
Tamm

Boy, Cedric didn't realize how lucky he was to have Lisa and Ken in his life.. They took him into there home and treated him like he was there own child and then once they wanted him to be a responsible man he turned on them like a wild animal... Lisa and Ken both showed alot of class..I would love to met her someday!!!

LoopyLee
LoopyLee

Lisa, You are a true lady personified! You have elegance, class and sophistication. I aspire to be like you.

LoopyLee
LoopyLee

Lisa, You are a true lady personified! You have elegance, class and sophistication. I aspire to be like you.

Viewer Christina
Viewer Christina

Lisa came off as a classy honest lady,my favorite! The calming force in this cast.

Sheila BurkeViewer
Sheila BurkeViewer

Lisa, thank goodness that you could see through Taylor. She is such a manipulative person and it's very hard to watch Kyle just be swooned by her fake friendship. She has zero respect for the prior and ongoing friendship that you have with Kyle and even less respect for a lifetime sisterhood that she has with Kim. Please keep putting her in her place. She seems to be afraid of you and fires her anger only at Kim whom she regards as weak and less important. You however are financially secure, personally secure, beautiful and nobody's fool, so she treads lightly around you and treads all over Kim. Please keep pointing out her sneaky manipulative ways and sly cover ups, because I was losing my mind wondering why no one could see that she was the snake all along, and then along came you and you exposed her. She still said however on her blog that she was not regretful for sharing what she said to camille in the restroom but she was only sorry that Camille had to hear the word insecure twice and somehow that was really the only reason why camille got mad. Bull crap. Thank you for being real, and calling her out. She will never ever apparently ever cop to stirring up the pot like witches do, so I guess you will just have to keep exposing her. Please, please, please, don't become friends with her, it will just ruin the show.

Antonio C
Antonio C

Lisa, you were my icon of all the women. Was charmed by your grace, style, beauty and elegance but most of all your rational voice,wisdom and kind heart. I was saddened to hear that Cedric lied and took full advantage of your kindness . I really enjoyed seeing your friendship together so am sad and disappointed by it. And for the record this is the first time I was attracted to watch any of the housewife shows and inspired to want to say something :-) I love Kyle and from the last episode it became more clear of her and Kim's dysfunctional relationship. I hated watching Camille, her phoniness and her plain stupid self. I have no pity her husband left her. Karma is a bitch. I think her crazy fortune teller had it wrong it was really all meant for Camille. Anyway it's been great watching you and I hope that your friendship with Cedric is not completely thrown away. Best of luck

Melinda PIEPER
Melinda PIEPER

Dearest Ms.Lisa, I would like to start off by saying you are a inspiration to me.I have three lovely children and i think that you Kyle, and Adrienne are the most wonderful and delightful women to watch on the show. You make me laugh and you are honest,truthful,loving,caring,funny and a very good friend.I feel like the show does bring out people's true colors.I hope you don't let anyone ever take advantage of you or your husbands kindness or hospitality ever again like Cedric did.Thank you for being yourself and showing the world that everyone that has money are not all rude and judgemental people,they can be down to earth just like you and most of your friends. Much Love, MELINDA

nathan
nathan

Lisa,

What can I say. You walk the talk. I believe that you and Adrianne are the most well balanced of the housewives. You definitely are my favorite on the show. The best heart, genuine, love your humor, strong, but empathic. Everyone liked Kyle but you are by far the best of the group. You are a great example of a great woman, wife, mother, friend should be. Hope to see more of you. Fan

DClvsLisa
DClvsLisa

Hi Lisa - I really enjoyed watching you on the show. You are lovely and you have the best sense of humor; I just laugh out loud at your witty comments. I only wish the producers included subtitles when you talk baby-talk to Jiggy!! So cute but so confusing (LOL).

I was totally upset to hear about the huge argument between you and Cedric when he left. You & Ken certainly didn't deserve his disrepect. You were so loving and generous to him. Call me naive, but I expected to hear that he secured a nice apartment in LA and invited you & Ken over for dinner. Well I guess no good deed goes unpunished. Please don't let Cedric's bad behavior make your hearts turn cold. You are wonderful people and your good deeds will be rewarded.

Be blessed dahrling!

# l fan
# l fan

Lisa you are as beautiful as you are witty and most interesting. You are a lady and I appreciate that and have thoroughly enjoyed watching you this season.

Thank you - love to Jiggy (love him) - to your husband Ken who is most lovable - and good riddance to Cedric - I too believe he does not hate you but he is 37 years old and should know better and does not deserve any of the kindness or generosity given him by you or your husband.

You are gorgeous outside and inside. A fan

rms5934
rms5934

Lisa, I should you to be the most emotionally well balanced and non-judgmental of all the ladies. Those each of the others have their strong points and weaknesses, I found myself most appreciative of you as a person. I'm glad your house guest has moved on. That's all I have to say about that. I to wondered what had transpired between Taylor and Camille in New York. Though I doubt it was intentional, I don't think much you Taylor not owning up to her part in the resulting upset. Neither do I think much of Kim for not speaking up. Finding out she is an alcoholic really filled in all the holes in their co-dependent relationship. Immediately everything made sense. I feel for Camille losing her husband, but all the little things add up. I've seen flirting destroy many a marriage, as it makes the non-offender feel unappreciated and disrespected, not to mention humiliated. Don't really know what to think of Adrianne. I get the feeling she's pretty guarded, and we see what she wants us to see. Congratulations on your choice of a husband and your long and happy marriage. You'd be a blessing to any true friend.

New York Viewer
New York Viewer

Lisa,

I love watching the housewives shows, but I trully felt you, and Adrienne, where the most level headed women on this show. You kindness, empathy, and good advice is something the others should follow. I am saddened by what Cedric has done to you and your family. I don't know if his story is totally true, and feel sad he took advantage of such nice, giving, generous people. But don't let his actions change you and your husband or harden you both. He has issues that are his own. He justifies his actions by turning on you and blaming you. He has to grow up and own his own actions. You did nothing wrong but give him a home, car, food, and love. He took advantage.

aunt kiki
aunt kiki

Lisa, Thanks for an entertaining season. I hope you continue on with the show. You have such poise and tact and managed to stay out of the drama which seemed a difficult feat. I find I watch the Housewives series for the juicy drama and often find my favorite and my least favorite (usually the trouble maker or whack job of the group). This season I watched for the drama but more to watch, my girlfriends. I expected BHills snobs to be on the show and instead met a group of really nice women who, like Adrienne says, money is what she has not who she is. In most instances I found you and the others very likeable and each of you seem to be really good hearted, grounded women. Particularly you - you have a very sane perspcective. I have come away really liking you, Adrienne and Kyle. The others I enjoy but both Kim and Taylor I find confusing and Camille, I do feel sorry for but I find it interesting she was a firecracker and unforgiving when she believed she was aligned with Kelsey at the top of that pecking order she mentioned, and once she realized she'd been scorned, she seemed to come back down to earth. Had that Camille been on the show from the start, all would have probably went a different way. Be well, enjoy your break from filming but come back please. I love you and all your British expressions! And, watch after my Kyle - I love her too. And when she is not looking, And see if you can get Lorree Rodkin ring off her right hand finger without her knowing and send it to me - I love that ring! More importantly thanks for the Thursday evening fun. You were wonderful and refreshing!

CEDRIC CYNIC
CEDRIC CYNIC

I had a Cedric living in my house last year.

Please look up sociopath - I think that is what Cedric is. He is a liar and a user. Please, Lisa, look up sociopath. He has no conscience and feels entitled to your caretaking of him.

Beth H.
Beth H.

I totally agree and such admiration and respect for you and your husband. Love you Lisa!!

A huge fan

carolo43
carolo43

I think Taylor is a bit more buried into this mess than she let's on. She also made a stupid mistake to bring it up to Kim at a party where so many were there to watch and drinking was going on. If she wanted to bring up a sore point, it should have been done in private over a cup of coffee. Kim is unsecure, a loose cannon and immediately feels intimated if approached with anything unpleasant. Taylor should have known this would not be a good outcome from Kim's previous out bursts. But, Kim yelling out that she didn't give a danged about any of them was rather harsh. If she doesn't like any of them, why is she always at their parties? I would hear that one time and drop her from my quest list.

Jacqueline Winthrop
Jacqueline Winthrop

Dear Lisa, Your appearance this season has given me hope that a few people in Beverly Hills are actually sane and in full command of their faculties! I feel that you and your sweet husband made the right decision about Cedric. I had my own Cedric in my marriage, and the situation became too much for us to handle. I hope you have a pleasant break from filming and will come back tol our televisions again. You are a breath of fresh air in a show that needs one. I send you my admiration and fond thoughts.

jakkie
jakkie

Lisa, you are gracious, beautiful and kind. I know that you working on a cook book, but all of the other housewives in everyhousehold deserves a book on ediquette.

JulieSummerlin
JulieSummerlin

Lisa You are so very precious to my fiance and I. We watch all of the episodes religiously and we appreciate your honesty. It is no secret you wear your heart on your shoulders and thats what I think everyone loves about you. Thank you for keeping us entertained and hope to see BHHW II.

debbie D.
debbie D.

You have my vote. However Kim was the first one to call Taylor out for her role in starting the fight again between Kyle and Camille. Why didn't you push on for an answer with Kim? It was so clear that Taylor had thrown wood on the fire. I mean really! What other reson for the change in feelings, Camille presented with? Glade you pushed for the truth. But Kim nailed the culporate sometime back. It's easy to have all the answers when your looking in. Hope to see you next season. I wouldn't miss it for the world.

afran227
afran227

"No one will ever know what Kyle actually did say to Camille, because there is no tape...however, it's clear that she didn't intend to hurt her feelings. Sometimes people say things & they are thinking something completely different."

I see no reason for making excuses for Kyle here. I agree that we will never know exactly what Kyle said, but Kyle seems to aim to hurt people's feelings from the get-go, as we've seen with not just Camille but with Kim. She can't possibly be ignorant of such a prominent character flaw, so it must be a deliberate choice that she has made to continue to be offensive rather than work to become a nicer person. I have no doubt that Kyle made an offhand comment that could easily have been taken by Camille to mean exactly what she thought Kyle said. Kyle, instead of calling Camille "sick" and "a liar" (the exact same things she called her sister, by the way), could have nicely insisted, continuously, that she did not say what Camille understood and that whatever she did say was never meant to offend. Instead, Kyle meets offense with greater offense. She is classless, and I'd rather have class and less money than loads of money and no class.

That said, I wish Lisa had spent less time dwelling on the incident in NY and the relationship between Kyle and Camille (and Kyle and Taylor) and more time reflecting on her husband's obviously insightful opinion of Cedric.

Caliswagg!
Caliswagg!

Lisa,

I have watched the entire season of RHOBH aghast and loving all the drama every minute of it! However, I will say towards the middle of the season peoples charactor started coming in to play and I decided that with out a doubt you are TRULY the example of a beautiful, classy woman who will not submit to low blows or making yourself look bad to make a point. You have so much tact, but also grace and your friends and husband and especially giggy are so lucky to have you in there life. Thank you for being an example of how a woman should behave today! Also, I thought it was very rude of Kyle to A) bring her phone in to Villa Blanca and set it on the table during your dinner and then to B) Invite a guest into your time together and act as if though you had a bad attitude about it. I would of been soooooo angry I kept thinking you were gonna lose it at dinner and you didn't but I hope you confront Kyle about her behavior because it is not acceptable! Much love and puppy kisses for giggy xo

Aundrea
Aundrea

I love you Lisa! And you were right about Taylor, this whole season of fighting is her doing.

SoCal1235
SoCal1235

Hi Lisa, I loved you on this show! You always had class and a sense of humor. I am so surprised that Cedric would say such horrible things but I think he is acting out. I don't know all that happened but I don't believe he actually cannot stand you, your kids and your husband etc...I think he is fearful and fearful to be "on his own." I think he got waaay too comfortable living with you and your husband. Like you said, even your kids moved out and moved on...which is WHAT SHOULD HAPPEN. Cedric must have a lot of deep seated hurt if he told the truth about his upbringing. I would encourage him to go to therapy! No, actually if you are speaking with him again...tell him he MUST go to therapy. Basically he needs to RUN to therapy. I don't think he has dealt with his life and his childhood...he is just trying to hide or run from it. He is such a good looking guy and I am sure he could go to college if he wanted too. He really should find out what he enjoys in life and pursue that. It really is the best thing you could do by telling him he has to move out on his own. Really, I feel he was being stifled by holding on to you and leaning on you and your husband. He needs to GROW UP!! and he needs to take responsibility for lashing out at you and your husband. That was terrible. You are much stronger than him though. Obviously, he is a child in a man's body and he must be very, very lonely, and fearful. I hope he has friends and people he can do things with. He is a single guy and should be living his life! Not leaning on a couple who have brought up their own kids and now should be spending time together - alone. I do hope he apologizes to you because he really needs to see what a mess he made. He really lashed out at what seems to be the ONLY FAMILY he has ever had or known!!! Such a shame! I wish you and all the housewives the best! And the last episode seems to have brought sooooo many viewers to tears! Myself included! It was just awful to see two sisters in a major blowout! Actually I think the viewers feel it was all too familiar! See we all can relate because everyone has family!! We all get irritated or angry and carry resentment sometimes toward the ones we love the most. Take care, Kim :-) San Diego, CA

mammal
mammal

Dear Lisa; You were quite the breath of fresh air during this season of RHBH. I Love your sense of humor and how down to earth you seem. I am so sorry that your friendship with Cedric has taken such an awful turn. It is people like him that make it difficult to trust others, but please dont let this experience jade you and not give of yourself in the future. Keep laughing and you have a big fan in me! Sincere Best Wishes

mirtha
mirtha

Lisa you and Adrienne should help Kyle and Kim back together again. They are sisters they should be nice, and support each other. I don't like Taylor who came to join your lunch with Kyle. It seems to me that Taylor just wants to cut between you and Kyle. She wants the attention. Anyway, we know that Taylor was the cause of he chaos between Kyle, Kim and Camille. It was so disgusting the way Taylor licked, ate and played with her big lips the cotton candy. What was she up to? Please help Kim. Can't wait for the RHBH next season. This is the best Housewives from BRAVO so far.

Sarah W.
Sarah W.

Lisa, I must admit you are my favorite housewife of all time. You are a classy down to earth woman and I admire that. Hearing Cedric's story about his past and how he came about living with you is amazing. My heart went out to Cedric. As a child of a troubling childhood myself, I can understand what he was going through when it was time for him to move out. I think he was having fears of being abandoned again. It is a feeling that you can not get rid of no matter how hard one tries. I hope you and Cedric will patch up any disagreements that may have happened while moving out. Sometimes people say things that they do not mean just to prove a point. I hope to see more of you on the next Real Housewives of Beverly Hills!

Viewer69
Viewer69

You are fabulous!! Love you and Kyle!! Both of you are fantastic...PLEASE come back next year!! You have breathed new life into the RH francise!!

MelMonana
MelMonana

I feel the same way this viewer does...Both Lisa and Adrienne act like GROWN UP ADULTS with style and grace............not sure what the others ladies are doing or thinking...actting more like the drama teens, I don't understand. Sorry ladies, I love you all but someone has to say something.....this is not being mean, I ONLY WANT the best of all you ladies. I mean you are all so blessed and maybe someone needs to just remind you. I still love you all! (And the show). I wish you ALL the best in the future.

hautecouturelove
hautecouturelove

Lisa,

I love your house. It's beautiful, and looks like a place where a magazine would do a high fashion photoshoot. Ugh. It's lovely!

Lisa,Adrienne,Kyle fan
Lisa,Adrienne,Kyle fan

Kim needs to help herself and she can do it. She gets pretty fiesty when she wants to. She can look inward and use some of that strength to get her life together. Family and friends can be supportive, but the individual has to do the hard work for him or herself.

Lisa,Adrienne,Kyle fan
Lisa,Adrienne,Kyle fan

Lisa kindly requested that Taylor clear up any misunderstanding with Kim. She did not ask and certainly could not have predicted that Taylor would try to twist things around and blame Kim for a comment that she -- Taylor-- made. Obviously, Taylor had no genuine excuse for going behind everyones back and repeating their conversation to Camille. So the best defense is a good offense, right? NOT!! Taylor clearly tried to take advantage of Kyle's disappointment in Kim for her drinking issues and for not setting the record straight with Camille -- as though she could have done that.

JODYlk1
JODYlk1

Lisa, You kill me. I'm still laughing at the answering machine and watching Camille fall for the message....she's a dope....but really, did you stir the pot to get a reaction or what? Seems to me you were the only one who cared about putting that NY fight to bed, but then again how stupid was Taylor for bringing it up at her own party? AND WOW what a house!!!

Urbana Il Viewer
Urbana Il Viewer

Lisa, I am glad you never let go of your suspicion of Taylor's role in the blowup that affected the entire season. I find it interesting that Taylor didn't tell you about the mani-pedi get together instigated, as I recall, by Kim as an olive branch. Both seemed to agree to let bygones be bygones - to each other's face, at least.  Clearly, Kim cannot handle conflict - she freezes up, then strikes out like a cornered animal to make it stop. She was so beautiful and happy at the start of the party. Little did Kim know, her sister was already working behind the scenes to reveal intimate details of her life. If what Kyle says is true - that Kim is an alcoholic - then her family has been through hell, no doubt Kyle especially - but Kim is ill, suffering from a terrible disease that her sister announced to the world. All of you gathered around her and shouted Kim down - you too - and none of you followed her, except for Kyle who made a call to prevent her from leaving. You had no way to anticipate Kyle's unforgivable emotional and physical abuse of a cowering Kim, but Sonja Morgan recognized Kelly Bensimon's mental breakdown, heroically stepped in and stopped the madness. Why didn't you help Kim? You were the only one who knew what Taylor was up to and you didn't even attempt to stop it.     

Lauren Bowne
Lauren Bowne

I am saddened by the explosive ending to yours and Cedric's relationship. Please tell me he didn't make up his story. I was so moved by the open heart your and your husband opened to him. I must say that is what shocked me the most from the finale episode. As a viewer and fan of the show, I knew it was only a matter of time until Kim and Kyle would get to this point, and it is very unfortunate. Please keep us posted regarding you and Cedric. I hope he told the truth and you two can mend your relationship. What a heartwarming friendship it was. Lauren.

David Perry
David Perry

I adore Lisa. I am a West Hollywood resident and I love the show. I have been to Lisa's place called Sur, it is wonderful. I love your sense of humor Lisa. I do not laugh out loud very often, but for some reason your comments that are always made with wit and grace tickle my funny bone. I made a comment online about Giggy. I think Lisa should think about making a Giggy stuffed dog so it can be sold online. The proceeds could go to charity.

SuzanneBHfan
SuzanneBHfan

Dear Lisa, Ken, Cedric & Giggy, Thank you so much for sharing a window into your amazing lives in BH! Lisa, I love your humor and wisdom and you are truly an inspiration and much needed role model - showing intelligence and grace in an age of foul mouths and out of control behavior on so many other tv shows ... Lisa, you are so beautiful and I love your fashion and design in your clothes and home and restaurants!! I especially love Sur!!

Sorry to hear about the painful parting of Cedric and I hope time will heal any hurt feelings - I really believe Cedric is telling the truth about his painful childhood and hope you and Cedric can hold on to that special friendship between you and keep the fun and joy that you shared together. He seems to have a great heart and perhaps one of the reasons you connected to him ..

You and Ken are a wonderful couple and have been blessed to have found each other (your other half) when so many people go through life never finding their soul mate. Ken is a sweetheart! You deserve your BH lifestyle and I adore little Giggy too! Love you Lisa!!

Miami123
Miami123

You have a good heart. Stay clear of the drama.... You were on target about Taylor....Unfortunately Kyle doesn't have the clarity you do. What Kyle did to her sister is completely unacceptable. She beat down her weaker sister disclosing very private and personal issues in favor of the superficiality that surrounds her. I have zero respect and tolerance for people that maliciously humiliate people (and in the case family members) in order to appear to be the “good one”. Kyle pretentiousness was so obvious during Farah’s B-day when the Hilton’s called and she shushed everyone so that the audience could hear what the Hilton’s had to say…… and how many zero’s were in the check for Farah… Kyle has been very popular (something I never understood) but after last nights episode I hope audiences truly see what see’s all about. You on the other hand are genuine breed.

schuy
schuy

I can't believe no one has mentioned the one thing that really blew me away in this episode and had my phone going crazy with text messages! CEDRIC IS 37!!!!!!! WHAT!?!?!? I had no idea?? And apparently no one in my circle did either. My God he could be Max's Dad yet he acts like he's one of your kids??!! I feel bad you had a falling out with him and you no longer communicate. However, after learning how old he is I guess I would question if he is some kind of con artist. I honestly thought he was in his early 20s and that's why he was having such a difficult time moving forward!

TanyaFrmNJ
TanyaFrmNJ

Lisa, I absolutely LOVE watching you and Adrienne. Both of you ladies are very classy and have a great head on your shoulders. I have to say, I envy you. You are beautiful inside and out, have a beautiful home (which I know you worked for), have a wonderful family, and a great husband. You and Ken's comments crack me up. It may be the English humor, but you and him have such a way that make me laugh. In a sense I feel bad for you and Ken. I feel bad because it seems like you are raising a child all over again, pertaining to Cedric. I wish Cedric would get the heck out and let you two live your lives as a couple. It seems that Cedric is the cause of disagreements with you and your husband. You raised your children. It is time you and Ken relaxed and enjoyed your lives together.

BrianVA66
BrianVA66

Lisa,

As I have tweeted to you and FB message, I want you to know I admire you and am distressed you are distressed. It is indeed unfortunate regarding your situation with Cedrick and how much that must upset you. Still, you've done the right thing and I stand behind you. I will light a candle at St. Paul's in DC (My Anglican Parish Home) at the shrine of Our Lady of Walsingham for peace, love and kindness to find you and fill your heart and soul. May you and Ken continue to be richly blessed and if it be your will and that of our Higher Power may you find reconciliation in your friendships and the pain healed.

Brian

bravofan12
bravofan12

You had Taylor pegged all along!

SidsMom
SidsMom

Lisa, it's a shame that by trying to get to the bottom of what Taylor actually said to Camille in NY that got her so stirred up, that you managed to re-ignite a fight that had basically been put to bed. I believe you started out wanting to let Taylor know that you don't trust her, but then when she shrugged it off you moved on to telling her that she should get things straight with Kim. I believe you actually came up with that, because when she shrugged it off it made for a very uncomfortable conversation between you and Taylor. Now seeing how this has all turned out, especially between Kyle & Kim, I'm sure you'd give anything to take back your suggestion to Taylor to clear things up with Kim. There was really nothing for them to clear up. The sad fact of the matter is that I'm sure the trouble between Camille & Kelsey did not just show up one day. I'm sure it's been brewing for a long time. Camille probably did feel insecure about Kelsey in general and was therefore overly sensitive about someone bringing him up in almost any way. No one will ever know what Kyle actually did say to Camille, because there is no tape...however, it's clear that she didn't intend to hurt her feelings. Sometimes people say things & they are thinking something completely different. I do believe Taylor stirred the pot & got Camille really upset, but I honestly don't think she had bad intentions either. She was basically trying to get closer to Camille & wanted to make sure that she was held blameless in the whole thing...which was a little selfish. I'll say this about the friendship between Kyle & Taylor. If Taylor is a phony, Kyle will find out soon enough. You don't have to protect her & in this case you shouldn't. Let things progress naturally in their friendship & trust that all turns out as it should in the end. It's obvious that Taylor needs someone to lean on, because she is having difficulties with her marriage. I know you must feel a little hurt, as Kyle's long-time friend...but don't fight their friendship. Just know that it's something Kyle feels compelled to do, because she's a nice person. I just feel so badly that a relationship between sisters has been permanently damaged by this show. There are some things that are said that can never be taken back. Actually, it was probably a bad idea for the two of them to be on this show together, given the circumstances. I think each of you ladies are really good people in your own right, perhaps flawed in some ways, but who isn't? I think it's a shame what has happened this season and I do hope that you all can come to a peaceful resolution at some point. Life is too short for this much b.s.

Fan2cool
Fan2cool

Lisa, you are wonderful. I think Cedric needs serious therapy to help him move on in life.