Taylor, i am so glad you are finally happy, You do know being happy at the expense of your friend may not be the best choice, I read an article that the lawyer you are so in love with used to be married to your family friend and they have three kids, in fact according to the article he was still married to her when you went to him for legal counsel and ended up dating him,thus the separation of the two. Please be careful in your choice of who you choose to be a father figure to your daughter,if he could'nt stay at home and help raise his own three ,chances are he won't be around to raise yours. , you say the situation of Brandi's marriage break up and yours may not be the same, why ? because the names are different ,both men were married with wives and children and both men left wives and children to be with other women before a divorce was granted, what's different? be very careful ,what goes around comes back around.
Be happy but not at anyone else's expense. Good luck in the future.