Cast Blog: #RHOBH

Adrienne's Hostile Way of Communication

Kim: Kyle Should Be Worried, Not Embarrassed

Brandi: Kyle Wants to Help When There's an Audience

Kyle: This Was Brandi's Master Plan

Lisa R.: It Felt Just As Awkward As It Looked

Lisa V.: Kim's Demeanor Was Questionable

Eileen: Brandi Loves to Stir the Pot

#RHOBH Spoiler Alert: Disgust and a Push

Yolanda: I Would Like to Apologize

Brandi: I Won't Make Excuses

Kim: I Wanted to Hold Kyle

Lisa V.: I Want Max to Be Ambitious

Eileen: Being a Stepmom Is Challenging

Lisa R.: Lots of Transition Happening

Kyle: We Are an Emotional Bunch

#RHOBH Spoiler Alert: Surprise and an F-Bomb

Lisa V.: A Naughty Child Shouldn't Be Rewarded

Kyle: Brandi Was Rude and Offensive

Eileen: It Felt Like an Attack

Lisa R.: It Was Shocking and Unprovoked

Kim: Brandi Is Brandi

7 Faces We All Made During This Week's #RHOBH

Brandi: Lisa V. Was Making Me Uncomfortable

#RHOBH Spoiler Alert: Shock and Tears

4 Questions We All Asked During #RHOBH

Lisa R.: Portia Is My Spirit Animal

Eileen: Brandi Showed Us How Not to Make Amends

Yolanda: I Took One for the Team

Lisa V.: Yes, Love Is a Big Word

Kyle: Moments Like These Are Frustrating

Lisa V.: I Won't Erase the Past

Brandi: I Don't Enjoy Anger or Grudges

Lisa R Reflects on That Bittersweet Episode

Eileen: I Could Feel the Tension at Kyle's

Yolanda: These Are Teaching Moments

Kim: My Heart Felt So Big

Kyle: Kim and Monty's Relationship Is Unique

Lisa V.: I Needed an Uncomplicated Friendship

Brandi: Kim Is a Survivor

Eileen: Brooke Was a Gorgeous Bride

Lisa R.: I Couldn't Be More in My Element

Adrienne's Hostile Way of Communication

Yolanda understands how comments can get distorted in Beverly Hills, and wants watch before judging.

I hope you're all getting ready for Christmas and not getting too stressed out. It is a great time for the kids, so from now until December 25th, I'm going to pretend that I'm 11 years old again!

This week has been quite a revelation in my health journey. After struggling for the past year to get an accurate diagnosis, I finally found out that I have had Neuro-Borrelia Lyme Disease. So far I have learned that it is a very misunderstood and hard-to-detect enemy, so I feel a lot of comfort in having something that I can fight head on! It will require many months of intravenous antibiotics and immune therapy but I’m very optimistic and ready to fight the good fight.

And now on to the business at hand:

Wow, what an episode. And what drama! I wasn't at Mauricio's soiree because we had an event for the David Foster Foundation that night.

I obviously know how things are going to play out, so what I can tell you is that it’s definitely going to get a lot more intense than what it looks like right now. Brandi said things in the heat of the moment that were very hurtful and wrong, but instead of the appropriate apologies being accepted by Adrienne and moving forward, these issues were taken to a whole new level.

Adrienne chooses a intimidating and hostile way of communication, one that I have never experienced or witnessed in my life and to be honest --- way out of my comfort zone. I keep reminding myself though, that no one really knows what it’s like to walk a mile in someone else's shoes.

As a newcomer to the show, I’ve experienced first-hand how things can often get distorted when they pass through different mediums. I think back to Brandi's "sleeping with everyone in Beverly Hills" comment or even when I was with Gigi in the studio at her photo shoot.

As I write this blog, I'm very aware of the fact that many of you might be expecting my notes on how Brandi should have done this or Adrienne could have done that, which I will be doing in the upcoming episodes.

It's easy to watch from the comfort of my living room couch and say what people should have done. We're all guilty of gossiping every once in a while. However, for now, I'm going to refrain from saying anything more.

So on that note, have a great week and I look forward to all of you watching this whole drama unravel in the upcoming episodes.

Until then, much love to you and your family,
Yolanda