This week we get a glimpse into Carlton's Red, White, and Blue party. You could see she put a lot of effort into her party. Like I said in my interview, it wasn't exactly my cup of tea, but to each his own.
When Carlton greeted Joyce and made that face behind her back, I really thought "OK, enough already!" It made me feel bad for Joyce. She comes to a party she's invited to, with a smile on her face and the hostess acts disgusted to see her. Carlton's rude comments and unprovoked attacks have grown old. She is a walking, talking contradiction. She preaches loving all Gods' creatures, no liking drama, not being judgmental, always giving people the benefit of the doubt (clearly not with me), and not putting labels on someone. . .Then her actions are the exact opposite of what she is always preaching about.
When I asked to see Carlton's tattoo and she lifted up her hair, it was almost completely blocked by her bathing suit tie AND her microphone which is about 3 inches long and 2 inches wide. I could only see PART of the star. I, of course, know what a Star Of David looks like. I also know that she has pentagram tattoos and a cross that says "F--- You." When I saw the tip of the tattoo and asked if that was a Jewish star , I was thinking about the bumper sticker I often see that says "Coexist" and shows a moon, star, peace sign, Star of David, pentagram (on top of the "i"), and a cross (among other symbols -- you can google it.). I, in no way, shape or form would mean that as an insult when I AM Jewish. WHY does she think my asking if it was a Jewish star is offensive? What is offensive about a Star Of David? Carlton, to this day, has never been able to answer that question.
you have been very nice to Carlton and there hasn't been a time that we've witnessed you saying anything insulting towards her or her religion. Obviously Carlton is jealous of you and is dealing with something deeper and darker within herself. She's angry and resentful. Always looking for a fight, always staring at you and listening, waiting for you to say the wrong thing. We all witnessed her mean-mugging you at your husband's birthday dinner. You noticed it and kept on laughing and carrying on! I said, "Go Kyle!" She should have been kicked out. What a nasty, unattractive, mean-spirited, despicable person she is.
Its obvious Carlton has anger and malice that she suppresses but how she reacts to you she is not aware or able to control. It is NOT you. She is a lost soul. Believe it or not it IS a spiritual battle. You follow the Great I AM and she follows the one that was cast out. There is no good or white magic, it is all not of God and is offensive to Him. Its a deception that she has bought. Kyle, You will not make a lasting solution with her in this world. Remember, one cannot serve two gods (pentagram and crosses-another deception). Best to avoid and pray for her. There will always be animosity between the two of you. She will continue to have a problem with you because who she serves and what lives inside her is the enemy of who you serve and it hates you. She may not even understand this so she will not see it. You can only pray to God that He will divinely reach her and that she will accept. Start feeling bad for her for the inner turmoil she hides and for the future that she will be ultimately responsible. Her world is not all wonderful!
All my friends are really disappointed that she was brought into the show just to shock the show. I know the media loves her and many young people love the anti-normal and rebellious freedom she represents, but overall most people think she is ruining the show. She's such a poor role model. I feel sorry for her and I pray for her.
Continue to be the better person. Avoid confrontation. Know there are people praying for you and protection from God Almighty and his angelic army.
Your fine, Kyle. Carlton has a big problem. She's weird to me. I don't like her on the show at all. she does not fit in.
She should have a broomstick tattooed on her back! Carlton is a wack job and thinks she's the boss of life skills lol...........and what's up with that blonde chick that works at her house? Talking like a baby all the time, seriously that's the types of friends Carlton can deal with - babies! As far as the Wicca goes, as she said herself - it comes back tenfold! Love you Kyle and your sister!
Just ignore her.... don't engage in conversation with her about anything.... she is a mean person with no class... she is from another planet.... you are too classy to waste your breathe on her or her weirdness.... Andy needs to pull his head out.... she is going to turn this show into a failure. Go Kyle :)
kyle ~ i am on your side and so is eveyone else who has any sense. carlton wants everyone to respect her religion but she blantently disrespects everyone elses. she is so insecure about her own beliefs....
she is acting vulgar, ignorant & hypocritical . we love you kyle stay strong. xoxo
I absolutely love you Kyle, I CANNOT STAND CARLTON... honestly is this the best they can find... she is always looking to cause problems where they don't exist. Hope this is her first and last season... its bad that Bravos idea of good women for the show are problem starters and people who wander around asking everyone to take off their clothes and treat animals better than people... even that is questionable. Carlton go away... no one will miss you. Kyle keep up the good work you cant fight with Carltons pretend dreams and crap
you were hilarious in this episode! My favorite was when you starting passing out fries to all the skinny girls in the pool! ha!!! I was never a fan of yours because i always thought you were the mean girl, but i am definitely softening up to you now. You seem to be the nicer down to earth Kyle that I saw in the very first season.
I have to admit even though I am not a big fan of yours, you are 100% correct about Carlton. It seemed as though you were genuine when you gave the necklace to her. Obviously she is paranoid.
As a female I'm insulted that Carlton is the best cast member they could come up with. She is not representative of most women. She's much meaner and kind of repulsive. I think she's trying to play a character she invented for herself.
Warm thoughts and fond regards to you, Kyle. I wish you well. Your opening characterization of Carlton is right on point. But how could it be otherwise? You as her prime victim have experienced her in all her foulmouthed venom and paint a fitting portrait of her. Joyce is another victim of course, but Carlton despises her so much that she won't put much effort into the abuse.
I hope you and Lisa will be able to restore your friendship to its former state of trust and intimacy. I regret that the arrival of *some* of the more recent housewives hasn't helped but only boycotted that cause. Keep going, Kyle. You are too precious to be ganged up on by your inferiors.
Clearly Carlton has watched previous seasons of RHOBH and has decided to hate on you from there. She just looks for reasons to not like you Kyle, its pretty obvious and you are right she IS a walking contradiction!!! Go Kyle don't listen to her hater ater ways!!
She never said the star was offensive. she said that "as a convert to the Jewish religion that you (Kyle) should KNOW what the star of David looks like". She was probably surprised, shocked and startled that you, as a Jewish convert, could confuse the two. :let's be honest here... you and Kim are always mean to the new girls. the only reason you and Joyce get along is because the two of you will drink each other's kool-aid. You have not acknowledged any of the hateful, hurtful things you have done to others in the past and you call Carlton a contradiction what kind of person does that? oh wait... I know... a hypocrite.
I would rather be a contradiction that a hypocrite.
Self-contradiction is a conflict. It's internal. Say, when I want to
do something but I do something else because I have an internal
affliction of mind.
For you to critique what someone else does behind someone else's back is ludicrous. You constantly make faces and backstab everyone on the show so who are you to judge what anyone else does? I've heard that you are leaving the show (along with Kim) - great! Its getting boring the way your continually trash talk Lisa. It's like you're on a mission to bring her down and yet you claim to be her friend-really?. Its not working. You're the one who looks like a jealous fool. Lisa is a hard working lady who genuinely cares about people--and you? She's a success and she's the main reason why most of us even watch the show and you can't stand it. If Lisa ever left the show, the show would be over.
I lost my mom on Christmas 2013 (just a month ago) to pancreatic cancer. I honestly thought of you, and how you have talked about your mother. It helped me to see into the future a little, to know that yes, I will always remember her. Thanks for being willing to talk about your loss.
As to Carlton, I've disagreed with you in the past, but on this one - you are SPOT ON. She has been desperately looking to find things wrong with you and Joyce since day one. It is becoming obnoxious. Especially since as a fellow Pagan, I had high hopes for her to be a good public face for our faith. Unfortunately, that is not so. Not even remotely.
Side note: If she is wiccan/pagan - it is called a Pentacle to those in our faith. At least those of us who bother to learn about our own faith. Apparently Carlton doesn't have time for that. It is not a 'pentagram'. It's funny what she said about you not knowing the star of david when she doesn't even know the correct name for our symbol...
I have always liked you and Kim. Stay the strong women you are. Don't let Carlton try to intimidate you! I would have thrown her out of my husbands party (show airing this week) You were nice enough to attend her obnoxious pool party.
Lisa will always be the Queen of the Beverly Hills franchise no matter what you, Kim, Brandi, and Yolanda do or say. #TeamVanderpump
KYLE! I have one thing to say to you and I so hope you see it; it's from a movie that scared my brother and I when we were little (still scares him, and he's 32 years old...he still can't watch it!):
One of the best spooky movies from my childhood and will always be a favorite that brings back many happy memories! #WatcherInTheWoods
Kyle, love you so much! Don't listen to all the haters. I've been watching since the first season and I find you to be a lovely, kind-hearted, curious, and intelligent woman with a beautiful family, a genuine heart, with nowhere near the calculated, conniving personality that some seem to feel you posses. Carlton has been horrible to you from day one, completely overreacting to your innocent questions many normal people would feel appropriate to ask when getting to know someone. You simply cannot do anything right with that woman, so if I were you Id keep my friendship, and my jewelry for someone who truly appreciates your good nature.
Keep being you and don't let what anyone else says or does get you down. I hope to see you and Lisa rekindle your friendship that used to bring such fun and levity to a show that is desperately lacking in that at the moment. Watch out at the reunion and don't make the mistake of joining the "Dream (nightmare) Team" to attack Lisa. I know you are a much better person than that. I truly believe in you.
Much love to you and your family!
You are without a doubt the most authentic, rational, and sincere person on this show. Congrats to you on your many successes in life. You absolutely deserve it! Keep staying above and away from the negativity and keep staying true.
Kyle I am not your biggest fan because I have seen you do some shady stuff in the past, but I'm with you this season. I like how you put Carlton and check! You have done absolutely nothing to her, so whatever broom she rode in on, she needs to fly back out, she is ridiculous! P.S. Get your necklace back, she doesn't deserve it!
Kyle, here's how I judge "celebrities": If I'd enjoy having lunch with them. Some you know right away you'd enjoy having dinner with. And with some you go straight for the drinks. You'd fit in any of those, really. But Carlton? I'd dread any encounter with her whatsoever. Her looks & personality are equally harsh and off-putting. Her ego would invade ANYBODY'S personal space and her constant self-serving nagging and opining would make even the sanest of ppl open a vein. Kudos to you for keeping your cool with her, though I hope you really let her have it at the reunion.
Carlton has no real reason to attack you at every turn. I think its for camera time. Get the hate roling get the camera's going. Enough with her witchcraft. Thats all it is with her ,,is that all she's got?The other thing is that Carlton is all about shock value. Viewers see it and we don't like it. I loved Yolanda's wall paintings How cool is that?.
Please don't pay any attention to Carlton, she is irrelevant and a waste of energy. Don't make any further attempts at trying to befriend her. You are waiting your time and she is not worth the effort.
Kyle, in previous seasons I must admit you were not my favorite. However, this season you are one of my favs! I have followed the RHOBH since it first aired. Since that time I have never seen such disgrace on the show as I have since Carlton came to the show and teamed up with Brandi. Really hoping she is not back for next season. Hang in there Kyle! Will be sending prayers and positive vibes your way<3
I have to say that you are much softer this season. I've enjoyed watching you with your family. The episode where you weren't wearing any makeup and just relaxed was awesome to see. You are naturally beautiful and in my opinion are much prettier without the face paint. I'm not sure what has changed for you but I do like seeing this side.
The past couple of seasons you were pretty hard to stomach. I can't help but think that you are receiving a dose of "what goes around comes around" aka "Karma" this season.
However if you stick with "genuinely" wanting to move past the negative and work on positive lasting friendships you will turn that karma back around. I look forward to seeing what's coming up!
The only thing it looked like Carlton put any effort to was finding women whose inner thigh muscles were strong enough to grip a pole betwen them while sliding down with no hands...a more entertaining event would have been to see how many watermelons they could quash between the thighs of steel...or walnuts for that matter...
It was such a weirded out hollywood type of party that I thought Hugh Hefner was going to step in her foyer with his newest wives...or be wheeled in whatever the case may be...or Larry Flint carried in on a dolly in Hannibal Lechtor style...the party just looked bizarro....but she did show us a tender family moment....with her 3 kids just before Hustler employees brought in the goodie bags...just what all departing adult party guests want....body slime that can be eaten as a yummy desert....yum....I would have wanted three....uhhhh nottt....
But Kyle my girl...heres the thing....what you did was a big nooo nooo....you never evvvver give a cast speller one of your items...ohhh no honey....now she has your necklace to hold over the cauldron while she chants....she knew exactly the value that piece had for her...play back to her face after you left....a light of recognition came on in her head.....just be sure to never let her get not even a strand of your hair....if she ever tries to touch it...make the cross with your fingers and back away....fast....
I think you did great on the soap....maybe you can be a recurring character...how fun would that be...my cousin was once in a movie....a 2 second pool side mingler....the jokes are still being told....how we blinked and missed it....etc...but its still exciting knowing she did what she wanted to do at that time in her life...so never stop doing what makes you happy
Keep it classy, you will come out on top. This carlton is a bundle of contradictions. She has no basis for the way she feels about you and how she speaks of you. My dear girl, it's jealousy, plain and simple. I don't buy her, her religion or her classless behavior...
Very happy you finally wrote a blog and managed not to insult Lisa, much less mention her name, very good! I really like that you listen to the fans and try to learn from your mistakes. You really are a people pleaser and you have a nice family too. If you would only reconsider your stance on Lisa. IMO she really deserves a SINCERE apology for the way you treated her in the past especially since you never really acknowledged it. You tried to sweep it under the rug but she was really hurt and disappointed as were her fans. Once you do this I believe you might enjoy a sincere friendship with her again like you two did in the past. Good luck!
Heck with all the drama! I just wanted to compliment you on your humble and sweet personality at the soap opera studio. You are exactly what I would hope every star would be like, sweet, appreciative and humble spirited. I like that about you and this season that side of you is shining bright.
@Certain I completely agree. You were able to get your point across without saying anything condescending or cruel. Refreshing!
@indigoeyes I think you hit the nail on the head. Well said! I couldn't quite put my finger on how to describe Carlton's behavior, but what you said is perfect..."she's trying to play a character she invented for herself".
And I believe in a world where everyone is a sinner, we would be walking with blinders on if we thought none of us fit this mold. We all are hypocrites and we all know it!! It's easier if you just OWN it!!
@Sandra430 Kyle explained the "Jewish star" comment...it's view was partially blocked by hair, bikini strings, and microphone parts. And yes, your description of hypocrisy is good...and exactly what Carlton has done. Make no mistake, I'm not Kyle's big fan either, however I think Carlton has been extremely unfair to her.
Ouuuu. Don't Agree with the Kyle trash talk so much but do get it,,,, But you are 100% correct re Lisa. I only watch Vanderpump Rules because classy lady Lisa is in it.
@JaciRoland I too, had high hopes that when Carlton joined the show that it would a good experience and help to educate others about wiccan/paganism... Unfortunately , in my opinion she has done more harm than good because of all the negativity that she has surrounded it with.
I didn't understand why this didn't happen!! Toss that "witch" Lisa. Cover your friends back... remember!!
@Exodus I don't think Kyle is jealous of the achievements or attractions of any other Housewife. It's Brandi, Yolanda and Carlton who are are constantly engaged in trying to put people down through a whole arsenal of devious machinations and underhanded maneuvers.
YES!!! I totally agree with you!!! Watcher in the Woods scared the crap out of my sister and I also when we were kids. Kyle plays the awesome possesed kid in that one! Love it!!! I own the DVD and watched it with my 12 yr old son a while back and it still scared me!! Haha!
@Kirbrannan Would you describe what Kyle and Kim did to Brandi on game night that way? Or what kyle did calling her sister out as an alcoholic?
@timmons22 She sucks the air out of the room.
@sammylovesbravo "However, this season you are one of my favs"........please do always remember that she was a "child actor". Last season was not the best for Kyle, so time to hone the acting skills. To me she keeps coming across as "faux". Anything she can do to keep the cheating rumors at bay & put herself & her marriage in a good light will be a good thing.
@FlutterBy talk about judging. maybe you should try out for the next RH show. this was ridiculous.