Cast Blog: #RHOBH

Lisa Says "Why Indulge?"

Kim: Kyle Should Be Worried, Not Embarrassed

Brandi: Kyle Wants to Help When There's an Audience

Kyle: This Was Brandi's Master Plan

Lisa R.: It Felt Just As Awkward As It Looked

Lisa V.: Kim's Demeanor Was Questionable

Eileen: Brandi Loves to Stir the Pot

#RHOBH Spoiler Alert: Disgust and a Push

Yolanda: I Would Like to Apologize

Brandi: I Won't Make Excuses

Kim: I Wanted to Hold Kyle

Lisa V.: I Want Max to Be Ambitious

Eileen: Being a Stepmom Is Challenging

Lisa R.: Lots of Transition Happening

Kyle: We Are an Emotional Bunch

#RHOBH Spoiler Alert: Surprise and an F-Bomb

Lisa V.: A Naughty Child Shouldn't Be Rewarded

Kyle: Brandi Was Rude and Offensive

Eileen: It Felt Like an Attack

Lisa R.: It Was Shocking and Unprovoked

Kim: Brandi Is Brandi

7 Faces We All Made During This Week's #RHOBH

Brandi: Lisa V. Was Making Me Uncomfortable

#RHOBH Spoiler Alert: Shock and Tears

4 Questions We All Asked During #RHOBH

Lisa R.: Portia Is My Spirit Animal

Eileen: Brandi Showed Us How Not to Make Amends

Yolanda: I Took One for the Team

Lisa V.: Yes, Love Is a Big Word

Kyle: Moments Like These Are Frustrating

Lisa V.: I Won't Erase the Past

Brandi: I Don't Enjoy Anger or Grudges

Eileen: I Could Feel the Tension at Kyle's

Lisa R Reflects on That Bittersweet Episode

Yolanda: These Are Teaching Moments

Kim: My Heart Felt So Big

Kyle: Kim and Monty's Relationship Is Unique

Lisa V.: I Needed an Uncomplicated Friendship

Brandi: Kim Is a Survivor

Lisa R.: I Couldn't Be More in My Element

Eileen: Brooke Was a Gorgeous Bride

Lisa Says "Why Indulge?"

Lisa can't understand why Kyle continues to bring up nipple-gate and what will happen after the disastrous birthday dinner.

Hello. So what do we have this week? Well it was Ken's birthday. Kyle said that Mauricio had his a short while ago without celebrating so we decided to do a joint birthday. Ken would prefer that as he hates being the center of attention. I wanted to do something gorgeous in the garden, and Kyle and I met with Kevin Lee to organize something rather spontaneously. Everybody was invited, but sometimes it gets lost in the organization as to who is coming exactly. I didn't understand Kyle's negative comment about saying we wanted to plan it. Of course. as it was at my house I would have the responsibility, but I recall we had fun organizing it. . .

The night started of beautifully, laughs were had over Kevin and Jax -- and all looked promising. Maybe it was a mistake to have Scheana there, but she and Brandi had been in the same company recently, at a lunch at Villa Blanca, without a problem. I insisted she stay in the kitchen and organize everything there as she has done on many occasions. Also I went to the length of employing two extra catering waiters so there would be no precarious exchanges at the table. She had always been remorseful of what had happened six years earlier, but now was engaged and I hoped it had come full circle.

The dinner was a rather gorgeous affair, but, unfortunately, when Kyle once again raises the subject of nipple-gate I know where this is going. It was embarrassing to be on the cover of a certain magazine, the same one that had written stories about Mauricio, stating I had a sex tape! I know it is nonsense and the only way to deal with this, as I have said to all of the women, is to ignore it. Don't indulge in it, as tomorrow it will line the bottom of a parrot's cage.

However for Kyle to keep bringing up the subject in company, I think many would take offense. I don't. I laugh it off, but I wonder if the situation was reversed what the reaction would be? 

Carlton had her own view on this matter. She felt it was bitchy and disrespectful to talk about me to somebody they had never met, especially in a public forum, about a matter I perhaps wanted to forget. And that is what had happened that time in the kitchen at Kyle's house, she had raised the subject of her pregnant story. I tried to joke it off and give it the credibility it deserved -- zero. Maybe I have a different outlook on life. Let things go. Who cares? But it is one of the things that is so irritating about this arena. But we can't change it, so I have to find some humor in the situation.

That is why I believe they started on the wrong foot. . .it rapidly deteriorated and it was something I didn't want to be in the middle of. Words were said that can't be taken back, words that would create an even bigger rift in their relationship. . .Oh well we will see how this works out.

Until next week. Love always

Lisa.

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