Yolanda H. Foster

Yolanda shares her intentions in talking to Lisa on the beach and but shares why she wishes Lisa had stayed and talked things out.

on Feb 240

Hello Bravo lovers! Thank you so very much for all your great support for my Gigi. It has been heart warming to see you all rally and vote for her nomination to become the 2014 Sports Illustrated "Rookie of the Year." Like I always say, it takes a village to raise a successful child so thank you to those of you wanting to be part of the village. . .I truly appreciate it.

So on to business. . . I sadly watched tonight’s show and there is nothing I can say that can make the picture that was painted OK.

Hearing the news about the death of Joyce's father was heart breaking for me. Having lost my own father, I know it's one of the most devastating losses to endure in life. We were all a little hesitant to go on the trip to PR, but Joyce was adamant to stick to the plan and felt her father would have wanted it that way. I personally would have pulled out and not traveled with a group of people I just met, but, to be fair, I do know that everyone deals with grief differently. So I respect her choice and tried to be a source of comfort the best I could.

Unfortunately we did not get to meet Joyce's mom but she just stole my heart -- for sure the only enjoyable part of tonight's episode. I cried my eyes out listening to the calm and kindness in her voice while speaking to her daughter about life. I am sure just that moment made the trip worthwhile for Joyce and Michael.

When I watch this episode, it seems like there was some master plan against Lisa going on, which is absolutely not what happened.

1561 comments
annarose1
annarose1

Its so easy when the ratio is 6-1 Bravo on all you idiots.  Not one of you could stand up for yourselves without the others.  Please someone get rid of the biggest trouble maker Yolanda... what the H-LL is she doing there. she should be in fashion school learning how to dress more feminine

Reba39forever
Reba39forever

There are very few things in TV land as disappointing as what the real you turned out to be. Watching you has made me so much more satisfied with my middle class life.  So I guess to that extent - thank you. No one should do to themselves what you have done for money - it clearly does not bring happiness. Maybe a little cake would help I don't know but news flash Yo you are not a happy well adjusted person - its probably why you and Brandi connect.

Bev55
Bev55

Lisa can't open her mouth without all of you jumping down her throat. 

Bev55
Bev55

Brandi is your friend?  Wait til she stabs you in the back like she did Lisa.

ibejanice
ibejanice

I find you to be petty, manipulative, self-absorbed and immature. Lisa doesn't have to talk to you just because you say it's time. You make stuff up and then make statement like it is truth. You may have fooled some people for a time, but I think most can see right though you. I want to know, who do YOU think YOU are?? You act like everyone "owes" you what you want. Proof that money can't buy class.

kallihoo
kallihoo

watch the last show was a fan not anymore though you were real and not into the Hollywood bull guess I was wrong

gengiskahnswife
gengiskahnswife

Yolanda - Nice attempt at a save, but your rational just doesn't fly. 

Understand that just because you demand something of someone, like attention, it doesn't mean they HAVE to give it to you.   You are intrusive, arrogant, and "pushy." Who are you to push and push and push with that entitled attitude? What if Lisa just didn't feel like talking to you? What if that was it? What are you going to do? Have her beheaded?  Haven't you ever just 'not wanted' to relate to someone?

mimi.arrigoni
mimi.arrigoni

Yolanda I loved you on the show, I loved your style, your charm, but all of that went out the window this season. You have taken it upon yourself to become everyone's mouthpiece and you became a mean girl ... a bully Brandi is rubbing off on you, you need to stay away from her or you will be her next victim, both of you are playing the poor me card every thing has to be about you, by the way has Kyle and Kim apologize to you for calling you  a lair to your face last reunion?? being a bully is not a good look for you, let everyone else fight their own battles.

missyree
missyree

I know why Kyle wants to ruin Lisa but why do you.  You say a friend does not leave without saying goodbye (Puerto Rico) but real friends don't attack (Lisa) based on Brandi's story that cannot be proved or disproved.  There is no proof to what she (Brandi) said.  The whole storyline is stupid.  You are trying to ruin someone for the likes of the Richard sisters. (Known liars). Brandi is troubled and big time trouble.  I wanted to like her but wherever she goes chaos is sure to follow. Who needs it.  I think she lied. She wanted to get back at Lisa because she was hurt that Lisa was (she felt) becoming to close to Kyle again.  It hurt her and she gets even.  Ken is protecting his wife Yolanda.  He sees as everyone else sees that there is no truth behind her claims.  Enough already.  I admire Ken for loving his wife and standing up for her.  Mauricio called Lisa a f_____ g  b___h.  Ken called you stupid.  How do you think we feel bout Lisa being so wrongfully attacked.  Brandi is not grateful and Lisa was a good friend of hers.  Watch out - she is a jealous green-eyed monster (with a drinking problem).  Bad combination.

IL60010
IL60010

Yolanda,  When you first came on the show, I thought you were so refreshing.  You were just such a kind and gracious person with a beautiful family.  

Unfortunately, this season you have changed.  Gone is the wonderful person that I admired so much and she has been replaced by a petty, boring human being who seems to look under every rock to find the smallest thing to complain about .  You find fault with everyone and it appears as if you are enjoying finding even the teeniest thing to complain about. 


You should be ashamed. 

Sheppy
Sheppy

When watching I could not help but think about how Yolanda's love David Foster would have reacted to protect HIS wife.  I am sure Yolanda would have approved of his speaking up on her behalf.

lbrush
lbrush

Wow, you are the witch aren't you.  No wonder your daughter moved across the country to get away from you!  Time for both you and Brandi to move on, you both come from a place of vileness don't know why but it is not pretty to watch.  Really hope you do not return but if you do I am turning it off.  


RHcrazy
RHcrazy

Hahahaaa!  LOVE KEN!   He was right you are kind of stupid, and just because you say something doesn't mean it's true.  "i'm just trying to have a conversation"  hahhaahahhaaa!  Your kind of conversations .... no one wants to have them.

Champgal
Champgal

One Word for you Yolanda "

Hypocrite".

224constant
224constant

Yolanda, do you know how ridiculous you sound when you told Lisa on the beach that she HAS to tell you that her friendship with Kyle has changed to a better place??? As a friend, shouldn't you be supporting her instead of attacking her and you and your little gang DID attack her. You were not coming from a good place.  Lisa shouldn't have stayed longer in PR just to get attacked again by the 4 of you. Shame on you! Your picture is in the dictionary next to the word betrayal.

Libby1970
Libby1970

Money doesn't give you class, and it show's here.  Lots of false notes here!

giggylover
giggylover

Do you hear that?  It is the sound of your fans walking away.  If anyone was manipulated this season, it was you by Brandi.  She has you right where she wants you.  First she plays the victim, then gains "sympathizers", then she tries to take someone down. We have watched her do the same song and dance over and over.  You should know better Yolanda.

lynnwhitlock
lynnwhitlock

That is what it is all about.  The cast is offered these vacations to set up the drama.  By now everyone should realize that.  

cldd6
cldd6

I doubt being on this show is worth the pain and embarrassment it brings to you and your family. The editing has really painted a very mean, classless shrew. Living in a 25 million dollar home and having the material things you have is great but respect and honor is much more valuable in my opinion. It has been really sad to watch you this season. You come across as really mean, disloyal and not trust worthy. I wish you could see yourself through the eyes of the viewer. In the great picture of life, is this what you want your footprint to be?

lisascorner
lisascorner

Wow. Its so hard to watch you mixed up and involved in this attack against Lisa. Why were you even in this? Is is none of your business and you were very aggresive in your charges. I was a fan of yours, however, you really owe Lisa an apology for your bully role. Lisa is classy and ladylike and it seems you and the girls are seeing green. 

tara_chatterton
tara_chatterton

Yolanda with all due respect because I am a lady, you do see brandi is setting you up to be her poor me I just said this and Yolanda took it and made it worse.i was  bullied into it. She did it the first year she was on then second, then paul and Adrienne this year lisa, next year you!! Your a fool, oh if your husband seen you were being attack by 5 woman and didn't nicely try to get you out of it then honey that is not a husband. stop yelling at ken ask if you have a rape whistle Youd never yell at my husband like that!. Why don't you watch your BFF Brandi in the backround just letting you be the dumb mouth piece for her.first paul was her aka hubby then ken was her aka hubby and now she says david is really your bright cant you see the pattern? of course she visitd you how else was she going to be able to use you.Shes the real Bobby fisher!!

Beesbad
Beesbad

Wow - just saw you on the previews. You sure are a mean lady. Are you jealous that Lisa's husband is with her and your husband never is?

Flyersgirl
Flyersgirl

So happy that Lisa can now distance herself from Brandi and Yolanda - Lisa has more class than both of them! Fly the British flag high, Lisa!!

twofiveseven1
twofiveseven1

You started out on the show so classy in comparison to the others...other than Lisa.  Did Bravo make you act the way you are acting now...too big a price to pay I would say  you have lost all your credibility now.

Memory61
Memory61

You sure are a mean bossy 50+ year old woman.

tpronstroller
tpronstroller

Yolanda with all seriousness are you happy what you see on the screen. I don't know if you are doing this to stay relevant for the show so Andy Cohen wont fire you

tpronstroller
tpronstroller

Yolanda the bleached got to your brain. You don't think straight at all. You have become like Brandi, a sad old poor me always me, attention hungry and needless to say very low class and ill mannered. You and Brandi are bad news and should be ignored and not taken seriously.

lori.blaufuss
lori.blaufuss

You are a hypocrite, constantly contradicting yourself.  You criticize others then turn around and do the same thing! And you can't be very bright to marry Foster with his track record. You obviously married for money. Didn't work out for you the fist time, so why would you marry a 3 time loser? Moron!!

hookedontv
hookedontv

Yolanda I loved you on the show, I loved your style, your charm, but all of that went out the window this season. You put your house up for sale because its too much to manage with having Lyme disease, however you find the energy to get involved in a bunch of BS. Who are you fooling? It seems you had to get involved because your not that relevant on the show. Unlike Lisa, who has multiple businesses. 2 shows I might add, a family etc. What exactly do you do. Pick flowers and clean your frig. give me a break lady. Do you really care about Kyle, please are you that surprised that Mauricio may have cheated on her, I would guess no. 

Salem2014
Salem2014

Yolanda, When you first came on, I thought WOW she is classy.  But this season since you have been around Brandi, you have turned into what you seemed to have hated before.  Ken I understand normally would not have entered the conversation with you girls, but it was all of you against Lisa.  You can say what you want, but that is what it was.  You were like a pack of dogs. First you, then here come the rest of them, Brandi if you look back at the episode sat back and watched, she is a coward.  You should have told the girls, hey please give me and Lisa a moment and then just you talked.  Brandi was going to each individual and putting an idea in you guys ears.  WHY NOW, don't you ask , why did Brandi bring up the magazine issue then?  Why all of a sudden when she was talking smack about everyone is now going after Lisa.  Yolanda I am sorry but you guys need to understand too, Lisa is British and they have a different sense of humor, and how they handle their emotions.  Did you think to ask why did Brandi even buy the magazine?  Did you notice the one show where she made the comment that she could not believe Lisa and Kyle where friends again? Brandi did not like it.  I think there is a lot about Brandi that you girls don't know.  Most of all of you are very classy and Brandi I am sorry is nothing but trash.

karen44
karen44

The attack on Lisa....ever hear of Custer's Last Stand?  That is about what it amounted to....Ken and Lisa were totally right on to leave for Los Angeles in the middle of the night....who sticks around for more abuse?  Not even logical.

Wyogirl
Wyogirl

How dumb do you think we are..


Talking to the ex hubby, your claws were out big time for Lisa.


The trip, your claws were sharp before you ever left your house..


Can't wait to say, "told ya so"... when Brandi nails you to the wall... and sweetheart, your claws will be worn down by then...

SFGirl27
SFGirl27

I enjoy watching you on the show and enjoy it when you remove yourself from other people's drama. I do think you could have gone easier on Ken and Lisa. It seems like the women always gang up on Ken only because he speaks his mind and defends his wife. Men have the right to speak up and assert themselves, I don't think it's right that the women always try to belittle him and tell him not to get involved when clearly the rest of the ladies are, double standards aren't good.

mimi.arrigoni
mimi.arrigoni

@224constant Well said! why would someone stay to get attacked every time they run into each other. Yolanda needs to stay out of Brandi's issues with Lisa, Yolanda was an instigator getting into everyone's biz, NOT a good look for Yolanda what we saw was a bully.

PleaseshowarealHW
PleaseshowarealHW

@224constant  I think you are probably right in that Yo was not coming from a good place, but then I was never fooled by Yo or Brandi.  I have seen them for what they are since the beginning and tried like a crazy person to get others to see this last year.  


I do understand why Yo and Brandi would be confused.  Yo thought she and Lisa were friends.  She had heard Lisa badmouth Kyle nonstop.  Now Lisa is getting close to Kyle again, without explaining this to Yo or Brandi. If I were them, and had heard the horrible things she was saying about Kyle behind her back, I would think that Lisa is two-faced.  If she is talking about Kyle like this and then getting cozy with her, who is to say she is not badmouthing Yo to Kyle?  It would be a fair assumption to make. I think Yo handled all of this poorly, no question.  That does not mean that I don't understand why she was asking the question.  

Sheppy
Sheppy

@hookedontv I could not agree more.  I thought I would love and respect level-headed Yolanda til the end.  Brandi must be really good at her manipulating, because she has managed to fool and turn two of the most eloquent graceful women on each other, while making each of them believe she is a genuine friend....all the while swilling gallons of wine and talking more vulgar than a drunken sailor.  I AM SOOOOO OVER BRANDI.  She had her 5 minutes.  She is STALE now.

Sheppy
Sheppy

@Salem2014 Salem I love this!!  If there is ONE blog Yolanda reads, I hope YOURs is it.

TriNi_DiGiTaL
TriNi_DiGiTaL

@Salem2014 I agree. I think Brandi is trying hard to be relevant and if you ask me she is the key manipulator. I do not understand how all of a sudden Kyle and Yolanda became BFFs again, seems too much of a coincidence that they both needed something to be mad at Lisa for and Brandi knew exactly how to get them going. My other issue with this whole set up is the nerve of Brandi telling Lisa how to interact with her employees. I think Brandi acted very jealous and her motive is very vindictive. I think she should stop telling other people how to deal with others and learn how to deal with people herself. All of this just goes to show, who is real and who is full of cow poo.

Sheppy
Sheppy

@SFGirl27 This was a sweet gentle way of expressing yourself.  Thank you.  Along with your thought, when watching I could not help but think about how Yolanda's love David Foster would have reacted to protect HIS wife.  I am sure Yolanda would have approved of his speaking up on her behalf.

BadassNation66
BadassNation66

@PleaseshowarealHW @224constant  The only thing I ever remember Lisa saying that could be called "badmouthing Kyle" was the remark about wanting to cozy up to Adrienne to get the listing.  That doesn't really constitute badmouthing, in my opinion.  She was being honest, and making it somewhat of a joke.  I was a realtor for a few years.  You do cozy up to people when they have homes to sell.  There is no shame in it.  I don't think Lisa said anything horrible.

Sheppy
Sheppy

@PleaseshowarealHW @224constant Hahahhaaa.......did YOU write this Brandi?  All of the woman have not gotten along at one time or another.  They are ALL continually working towards making amends.  Just because Brandi pushed Lisa away saying she was "mothering" her too much and Lisa and Kyle happened to get closer while planning a duel bday party for the show, now Lisa is two-faced? So many hypocrites, so little time to write about it.  Good luck, bitches.


BostonGirl88
BostonGirl88

@PleaseshowarealHW @224constant  When did Lisa badmouth Kyle?  I recall her saying Kyle's basically a good girl, and in her spat with Carlton, told Carlton she was mistaken in her poor assessment of Kyle.