Kim: Brandi and I Always Seem to Have Fun
Kim talks about her strategy to get Brandi over J.R. and why she and Yolanda are in a much better place now.
I've missed you all. I want to start by wishing you all in advance a Happy Thanksgiving! May the holidays bring you much happiness, love, and joy.
Sorry I missed you last week as I was traveling. It was so nice to see everyone at the White Party! All the girls were there...It was so much fun to see everybody trying to put their past issues aside and to catch up with each other.
I must say, I really enjoyed watching this week's episode. I feel like it really showed who I am, and you also get a glimpse of my friendship with Brandi! We always seem to have fun. Going over to Brandi's to help her move was not the norm. She had to hire Meathead Movers and then we couldn't just let them do their job. We had to sit and check them out while they did their job. Yes, it was funny, but as a mother of a son who is 23, it felt a little awkward while Jake Ryan, 23, was lifting up his shirt to show his body. I love Brandi so much, and I just want her to be happy. I watched this on-and-off relationship with J.R. for the past few years. I think he's a nice person, but they are not right for each other. I want more for my friend! She needs to find someone she can commit to and someone that will commit to her! This needs to stop!
I decided to take matters in my own hands and help her get over him. Yes, I decided to take her on a stalking mission! We had to go undercover! We had so much fun. Just getting ready was fun. I was and wasn't too surprised to hear Jake Ryan had spent the night! Oh my! Even more apparent that it's time Brandi to find The Real Deal! I'm on a mission. So off we go to seek out J.R. and the other woman. I thought if Brandi could just see J.R. with this other woman she would realize once and for all he is playing both sides! Having his cake and eating it, too. Then she can move on, stop being hurt, and stop wasting time. So there we were in Beverly Hills in the bushes! Running down the street looking for hiding spots. We finally found him...alone! I guess my idea didn't really work. But the way I look at it is if we feel the need to stalk, it's the wrong guy! And she knows it! But we did have fun. And laughed a lot. So thanks J.R.! I love my Brandi and will do anything for her.
Another person I just love is Yolanda. From the first time I met her we clicked. I saw something in her that is genuine, real, and kind. We had a small bump in the road, but that is behind us! We have been going through some of the same things lately with both our girls leaving for college. Yolanda and I have a few things in common: our love for our children and our love of horses. She always puts her kids first, as I do. She's an amazing mother! It was so nice to be able to go out and ride with a girlfriend, and especially one that can really ride! It was so nice to catch up about our lives and our children. I truly love Yolanda and the friendship we have! I really admire the person she is and enjoy our girl time together.
I hope you enjoyed watching this episode as much as I did! Our friendships are real and watching it...well, it took me back to those days and put the biggest smile on my face!
See you next week,