Alexia Echevarria

Alexia explains why she wanted to get the girls together, and what she did to ensure it went well.

on Nov 12, 20120

I'm not sure how much was resolved or what we accomplished exactly, but I was happy that after lots of arguing and cursing between Adriana and Joanna they at least made peace for the moment. Again, Joanna butts in to defend Karent against Marysol and Adriana, and Karent takes the high road as she likes to call it. LOL! Seriously? Why can't you just admit you spoke to the writer willingly and spoke about us that way because that is the way you feel about us. I'm fine with that you don't have to like us but stop lying and blaming others and making excuses. . .That's all!!!!

Thank you again for your support. . .It's amazing what kind words can do!

Until next time. . .

Like always I leave you with this thought " If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything ." -- Malcom X

God Bless

Besos (kisses)

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141 comments
iheartchanel
iheartchanel

Who do you think you are? The main reason you don't like Karent is because she doesn't know her place in this fantasy hierarchy you have just because she is a new girl? Who made you queen of RHOM. I actually enjoy the new batch of ladies a lot more than the old pack because they have spirit and fun. All you other ladies seem to do is complain about Karent's smile (a beautiful dentist one at that). Would you rather her stoop to your level and scream and make nonsense? 

 

You invite her into your home not thinking she would have some apprehensiveness given the past outings where she was thrown out of your party? Really? You knew she would be uncomfortable and that just added fuel to your fire. She did not get one word in without everyone jumping on her. Even if she said those silly things in a magazine, which was obviously edited / altered for drama purposes, why not take the road Lea did and disregard it since it was so silly to begin with? Lea has class and prefers to stay away from the storm you, Marysol, Adrianna, and Anna create.

aliceandwonderland@626
aliceandwonderland@626

You welcomed them into your home with holy water?  Are you serious?  Are you santa alexia or something?  Please go back into your holy home and have a slice of humble pie, please.

BravoPrincess
BravoPrincess

To me you are not making any sense because you guys did not let her talk. I am not defending her because i feel she has done some stuff that was not ok  at the same time you invited her to talk not to be to ambush,  not ok. I don't know if the article has so much to do with it or is it something else. Adriana is the one that can't stand her why not let them two handle it .Stay out of it, you already lied about the relationship that she has with her boyfriend he was on the show with her showing her he wants to be with her.Why do you care, you sit and have an adult conversation with someone who you have a real problem with not this petty stuff.

michaelaaisaican
michaelaaisaican

Seriously! it didn't seem that way to me. you ladies need to chill out on karent!!!! i'd smile too watching you guys over react!!!!!

lovethedrama
lovethedrama

Joanna, Marta, Lisa and Karent should have walked out.  Clearly, no one at that table has any respect for them. 

Jeanieg3
Jeanieg3

Your just another Adriana follower. I wonder what else Adriana has lied about..........If you were truly Adriana's friend you would definitely tell her when she is wrong and when to stop...That is a true friend. Not one that ignores her evil actions and then turn around and you and her point the finger at others. 

Jeanieg3
Jeanieg3

The reason why Karent couldn't admit to anything is because Marysol, Adriana, and You Alexia kept cutting her off.......Hellooooo have any of you guys watched the episodes. It's like us fans are taking the crazy pills here.  Just admit you invited everyone to just attack Karent and to make fun of Joana. Just admit that you are 100% behind the actions of Adriana. Why do any of you talk admit that Adriana is wrong too. Just Karent is wrong......hmmm lets see Karent talked about you guys to some reporter ok or Adriana physically attacking another person and then completely lying that she didn't do it.....Which is worse? For some reason all of you picked the article and forgot that Adriana is a liar and just plain evil. Wow very nice....

DonnainSouthCarolina
DonnainSouthCarolina

I guess Ive missed something since this is my first season of Miami,people really dont like her,I find Karent very annoying too. I thimk the ladies seem frustrated because Karent doesnt seem to get she starts alot of trouble but you all seem to be bullying ALEXIA now so you all our no better then ALEXIA ,such hatefor someone you just watch on TV.Some people might want to look into why you feel so strongly about a person you dont know,get some help

samuelpolanca
samuelpolanca

If you dont like someone...ok that is fine...it is your own thing...but it was horrible how you invited Karent to your house and then you bully her? and you tell her that she has no right to talk? who do you think you are? I watch the show and I just cannot believe how childish the whole group is, just admit you dont like the woman and stop talking to her. That is being real. But stop the bullying!

bravoteam
bravoteam

You end your blog thanking everyone for their support. What support are you talking about. You must not be reading your blog comments. Your comment: " If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything", is laughable in your case. You only stand for what suits you. Example: you butted into Karent's and Adriana's conversation to gang up on Karent yet you made such a big deal about Joanna doing the same thing but instead to defend Karent.. You were blessed with your sons recovery. One would thing you would be so grateful for this beautiful gift that you would be so humbled as to look for the good in everyone and not be so ready to fine anything as little as a smile that draws the hate out of you.

malvesb
malvesb

What exactly did Karent do to deserve all of you ganging up on her and bullying her? That is something I still don't understand. Please, fill me in... Karent is the victim and she is being abused for no reason. You all talked over her without allowing her to explain herself. How exactly are things suppose to be resolved when there is lake of respect on your part? You need to act more like a lady with class and dignity, because right now you are looking very ugly. It is very hard to watch you.

malvesb
malvesb

She is the victim! You ganged up on her with other girls and bullied her for no reason! Karent is great and you wish you were as happy as her! You need to learn some class.

Rockerman
Rockerman

o where o where has all the luv gone? Poof, in a snap of the fingas, gone, evaporated. Oh, yeah, it's over there! Surroundin Karent, like a regular cloud of pink and white candyfloss, so pretty and look, she's smilin!

nmfraker
nmfraker

WOW Alexia!  I think 99.9% of the bloggers agree that you are nasty and rude.  You're Metiche, and shouldn't feel like you need to fight anyone's battle.  At least, that is what you appear to be in front of cameras.  Girl... Ponte pa' tu numero!

emine99
emine99

YOu are full of it. You are entitled, mean and condescending. You dish it, but you cannot take it. You invited Karent there so that you could gang up on her. For someone who claims to work in the media industry, you should know something about cultural sensitivity. I dont know how they raised you, but you should have taken a cue from the scene with Karent and her mother because being from Colombia myself I have had my mother tell me the same thing: if you find yourself in a situation where you are being attacked (by ignorant women such as yourself) smile, don't argue, it is not worth it, take the high road. It is not being fake, it is simply refusing to engage in petty BS fight with women who obviously have nothing else going for themselves. You are a bully, you and Adriana are extremely negative people. I suggest you concentrate on your family, and focus on the things that matter, instead of trying to tear down another woman simply because you are obviously jealous of her stealing your spotlight.  

Oh and also, stop claiming you are "so real" you are a self proclaimed "Cuban barbies" and real is something that barby is not. 

alexalena
alexalena

Can you please bleach your hair little more, so you look even more plastic and heartless? Seriously,  what other mean tactics we should expect from you next? 

cinray2020@yahoo.com
cinray2020@yahoo.com

you invited the girls over to get all the drama out and clear the air but all I could see is you Marisol Adriana and Ana gang up on Karent and not let her get a word in. You needed to start some drama and you made Karent the target for no real reason.

BlackberryQueen
BlackberryQueen

Alexia obviously has nothing better to do with her time than to get involved in other people's business. Who arranges a dinner so that a bunch of women can sit down to attack (and you know it would eventually lead to that) one person?! Men don't do these crazy things. Handle the problem one on one like an adult if you're the target and let everyone else handle their own problems with Karent their own way.

CityofAngels
CityofAngels

I can't stand Karent, but you should have given her an opportunity to explain herself. I liked you better last season.  

s.martin
s.martin

Iam so happy you are not a full time house wife. Who are you to tell Karent she can not speak?

CorinneMarie3
CorinneMarie3

Oh my goodness, really? WHO CARES if Karent talked to an article writer and said what she said...IM SURE YOUVE SAID MUCH WORSE THINGS ABOUT HER TO YOUR 'CLASSY' FRIENDS!! But because it's in writing in a LOCAL paper, she's the devil? COME ON! Stop being so damn caddy, you are all beautiful successful women so stop trying to be the dominant female! Honestly I can't believe anyone would be okay with Adriana calling Joanna all of those things at the gala.. That is absolutely disgusting. SO distasteful, behave like a lady. Ugh..

minea
minea

You are so ridiculous! You are not even a full-time housewife this season, yet you always seem to find yourself a part of everyone's drama. You had no reason to attack Karent at your party and tell her that she has to earn her place. Who the heck do you think you are? Also, you didn't invite her to your house to explain herself, but to attack her. I can't believe that I used to like you last season. You were so much nicer, and now you're nothing but a mean girl. You should be ashamed!

bravofan_72
bravofan_72

Karent is slightly annoying but it's obvious her odd social behavior is because she so desperately wants to be liked and accepted.  However, the way you have attacked her several times is inexcusable.  You and Marisol are concerned her interview would hurt your reputations and businesses?  Are you watching the same show I am because I would never want to do business with either of you based on what I'm seeing.  I'm sure it carries over to your professional life as well.   Also you should have never treated a guest in your home so terrible.  That was just gross and classless.

SusieQ1013
SusieQ1013

You girls are sooo full of it.. If you are going to accuse Karent of something, you should at least let her speak and explain herself. None of you gave her that chance... It's like you wanted her there to ambush and attack her... how lady like of all of you!!

ali.toal.5
ali.toal.5

Literally Karent doesn't do anything but smile and take pictures.. not sure where you got the whole "she started every problem" argument. You guys just want to blame her for things like.... i heard she started GLOBAL WARMING.... when someone is mean you to you it is not a reflection of you it is a reflection of them. Your actions are showing the world you are a bully. Why do you care what Karent does anyway don't you have your own life and your own problems to worry about? Whats it to ya what she does??

samuelpolanca
samuelpolanca

You are not a good person at all!! Looks like you enjoy bullying people.

anadss
anadss

First of all you should not host this dinner in your house. It should be a mutual place not in your home, so everybody could feel confortable. I can understand why Karent was cold with your on the phone. Everybody was attacking her without giving a chance for her to speak. It was rude and not real!

loveallRHW
loveallRHW

you're a loving and dedicated mother, but boy oh boy, you're such a bully!!!!

Nebfan22
Nebfan22

You need a book on manners and how to hostess in your own home.  You were one of my favorites but you're not anymore.

NicoleHarris155
NicoleHarris155

You allowed someone to be bullied in your home. And participated. And you call your home sacred? Honey!

NicoleHarris155
NicoleHarris155

Its so funny how you think Joanna shouldn't defend Karent yet, you werent present for any of these dramatic incidences and you host a party to clear the air? Talk about a double freaking standard! Its none of your business. You don't even give Karent a chance to tell her side. You hear one side and immediately believe it. Thats not giving Karent a fair chance. Why do you ladies WANT to believe this article so badly? It is entirely possible that it was fabricated. Its not a make or break. And if she did say it, its nothing worse than the things you have said about her. Call it tit for tat.

RNJen
RNJen

Alexia, your bullying behavior has got to stop! Life is too short to be acting childish and being a bully.  RHOM has lost a viewer!  

Barbarajean
Barbarajean

You just need to mind your own business. There is nothing more disturbing than seeing a grown woman that is a bully and you and Adriana fit that bill. SHAME ON YOU

RealMattz
RealMattz

Hmmm.... The comment about 'Sick in the head' is completely uncalled for!!!!

Alexia see's the issue and is attempting to fix it before it spirals even more outta control however i somehow think it's too late for that! I like Karent but can understand the ladies being upset about the article and since this is the first real drama this show has seen, NO BIGGIE!!!

I am loving the drama and the show, i love all the Miami girls and hope to see Alexia back full time and in the credits next season!! xoxo @RealMattz 

Sweeteena1018
Sweeteena1018

Mean Girls are created from those girls that where unpopular in high school or use to be fat or insecure or even the ones that stood in the background and were never notice due to being too tall or too dorky or something unsightly.  These are the girls or sometimes guys who grew up to become better looking or marry money or make a success of themselves but still feel that insecurity of their high school days deep inside, so they hide it by making themselves feel better by bullying on someone that they know will not fight back and usually these mean girls will only bully in groups because they lack the confidence to stand alone.  Its a shame that 40 and 50 year old women still feel the need to Bully over jealousy or needing to feel better than.  Seek therapy for those demons within and one will be able to really enjoy life.   This is for you Alexia!

mela96
mela96

Porfavor Alexia... what you did was so ridiculous. Que Ridicula Mija. First of all, I don't understand your position at all. You are just jumping in the band wagon along with Adriana. You have nothing to sustain your argument, just to say that she made negative comments. You invited her for resolution and wouldn't let her speak. Think what you want to think. At this point, you and the other ladies have shown to be bulies, except for Johanna and Lisa. I really think your jealous.. By the way, for you to make a comment of "I know Rodolfo before she did".. so what? she knows him better than you do... she had him in her bed...

OCHausfrau
OCHausfrau

You are a bully and were so ungracious someone who was your guest. shame on you.

cubichi
cubichi

Listen guys, Alexia isn't a bully, she's CUBAN. We are passionate that way especially when something bothers us. Karent is a clear case of " tira la piedra y esconde la mano", what that means is she stirs the pot and leaves. She let's other people (Joanna) fight her battles because she's a coward and an instigator. Alexia you're great, I feel you have alot going on in your personal life and you're stressed. Take it easy, forget Karent she's flaky and anyone with common sense can notice it. You're my favorite, and I understand you perfectly, I'm cuban and when someone truly annoys me, the cuban comes out. Oh, please don't compare Alexia and Jill Zarin, nothing alike, very dumb comment.

tomikaw1
tomikaw1

 @CityofAngels

 Maybe we see the real Alexia this year, this nastiness seems to come very easy to her.

tomikaw1
tomikaw1

 @NicoleHarris155

 I read that the author of the article admitted she took writers liberty and most of it was her opinion and not what Karent said.

I think I read it on Reality Tea.

tomikaw1
tomikaw1

 @RealMattz

 I do think it is a Biggie, I am not a fan of Karents but wrong is wrong and Alexia had no intention of trying to fix it she just wanted to berate Karents.

JMO

tomikaw1
tomikaw1

 @cubichi

Being a Cuban is a lame excuse being rude, nasty and classless is never ok and  I'm sure that there are many Cubans with manners and know how to act and react to any given situation.

If you act like a harridan own it and don't make excuses, I am not Cuban but have a trigger temper which I constantly have to keep in check, it's not easy but a mature person can do it.

emine99
emine99

 @cubichi Oh please! what is it with the two bullies in the show trying to excuse their appalling behavior by making gross generalizations about their heritage! Adriana acts like a rabid dog, punching people in the face because she is Brazilian, and Alexia invites a girl to her house under false pretenses only to gang up on her an bully her because she is Cuban.. dude seriously? what does that say about Cuban and Brazilian people? Quite frankly i know several people from both countries, and I have never seen them act in such a way.  There is one thing however, that is common to every country in the world: every place you go you are bound to find some people who are  trashy and give a bad name to the rest of the population. Based on the behavior displayed by both of these women, it is quite clear that is the category they fall under.

reality4real
reality4real

@cubichi - You've gotta be kidding!!! Leave Cubans out of it!! Alexia needs to control herself and stop butting in. She's just mean and a terrible hostess and it has nothing to do with being Cuban. If anyone on this show should've learned that there are more important things in life than worrying about stupid, petty nonsense- it's her.

Relo-HOM
Relo-HOM

 @cubichi So your saying it's OK to be rude if you're Cuban...nice excuse.   Perhaps you both should try drinking some of that holy water Alexia has stocked up in la casa!  It might help.

CalleyCreed9
CalleyCreed9

 @cubichi BS....... Whenever someone behaves poorly its because their Italian, Brazilian, Mexican, etc..... and now Cuban? As if cultural differences are an excuse for meanness or ignorance? Please, it has nothing to do with heritage, race, culture, ethniticity, etc...

An ass is just that an ass.

Bravo.Bravo.Bravo
Bravo.Bravo.Bravo

@cubichi So in other words...when my child comes home from school crying because another child verbally attacked him, I should ask if he is Cuban? And if so...dismiss it? Any other ethnicities you can add to the list? Funny because I thought we as a society have taught the next generation to not judge others by their race, ethnicity, religion or sexual orientation. Now you want tolerance by using such as an excuse. I don't agree.

lovethedrama
lovethedrama

 @cubichi I love the way you think being Cuban excuses abusive, stupid & uncivilized behavior.  You're trying to portray all Cubans as "passionate."  It's not passion.  It's anger.  All humans feel "passion" and anger like Alexia, not just Cubans. 

 

The difference:  civilized humans (esp. adults) can control themselves and their emotions.  What's worse, you're claiming this stupid behavior for ALL Cubans.

 

You're not doing your country or heritage any favors! 

Sweeteena1018
Sweeteena1018

What show are you watching? Alexia is the one who lured Karent over to her house under the guise of talking things out but Alexia had no plans on listening to Karent she just wanted to call her out...so who stirred that pot?  Karent didnt have a chance to even stir her soup before those old ugly vipers jumped all over her.

reality4real
reality4real

@SusieQ1013 @Bonvivant100- LMAO!!!! SO true!!!