Cast Blog: #RHOM

Alexia's Diva Attitude

Karent shares her side of the Venue party blowout with Alexia.

Hello everyone! I'm back from my trip, a little jet lagged, but very happy to be back home and to be able to interact with all of you once again.

We start off the episode at Alexia's magazine party. Joanna had called me to warn me about Adriana wanting to confront me at this event, which I thought was completely inappropriate for Adriana to do. Why not call me and talk to me or ask me to meet up for some coffee and discuss whatever was on her mind like two adults? Because she wanted to be surrounded by her bullying friends, that's why.

Alexia decides to interrupt the conversation I was having with Adriana, and she had mentioned that she had not invited me to this event. She basically had to eat her words when I mentioned that her husband had emailed me and invited me. She then went on to say that she was not in charge of the guest list and that she had no idea because it was her husband who handled that. Once again, this proves that Alexia, for some reason, will just fabricate anything to make me look bad, but in the end, the truth always comes out.

Alexia mentions in the show that she knew Rodolfo before I did. Seriously, we were dating for a year before Rodolfo ever knew who she was. Alexia always wants to create a competition, but I don't need or want to compete with her in any way. She also mentions that I came into the group, so "I have to earn my place." Are you kidding me? I have been friendly and polite and have always gone out of my way to say hi to all the girls, but her diva attitude and feeling that all of us just praise her or should kiss up to her is not in my plans. No one is better than anyone. Many times at events, if it wasn't for me taking the initiative to go up to her and say hi, she would've completely ignored me. Seems like someone needs a couple of lessons in etiquette instead of criticizing me all the time.Alexia should also do her research about me before talking about something that she clearly knows nothing about. When I mentioned that I was the spokesperson for Colgate, she said I only came out in the background. Clearly, her jealousy takes on bigger levels every time she opens her mouth. I am the Hispanic national spokesperson for Colgate. And if any of you have seen Hispanic TV, you would have noticed my commercials for over a year and a half.

When I mentioned about contacting her through texts and voicemails when the unfortunate accident happened with her son, she completely went nuts. She had just finished mentioning her son to me, and since she said that I never tried to get close to her, I was simply reminding her that although we weren't best friends, I did make it a point of letting her know that not only I, but my whole family as well, would be praying for her son and her whole family.

I attend many social events for philanthropic causes throughout the year. I am very passionate about supporting wonderful charities. This event had nothing to with a charity, but yet I still decided to attend after I was invited by her husband in order to show my support for Alexia. And then she has the audacity to say that I have not tried to get close to her? It's time she gets off her high horse. I have wasted too much of my valuable time on Alexia, but I felt it was necessary for all of you to hear the real story from me. Regardless of her behavior, I will always continue to pray for her son and whole family, especially her.

Ana's scene with her soon to be ex-husband made me feel very sad for her. It has been very obvious in the episodes we have seen so far that he wants to be completely free from her and wants "out." She obviously wants to hold on to him, when he has obviously moved on. All she does is throw wise cracks about his new Colombian girlfriend. I can't imagine her "boyfriend" watching this and being OK with it. I feel very sorry or her.

If Ana finds me so “one dimensional and boring," why is it that she can't find anything else to talk about but me?

My heart went out to Joanna when I saw her reading those emails that she found. There are very few women, if any, that can say that their significant other has never cheated on them (or at least they might not have found out yet), regardless of beauty or status (Joanna clearly has both). Relationships are hard work and need to be nurtured. Just like caring for a plant, if you don't water and feed it, it will wither and die. It was wrong for Romain to be engaging in conversations with another woman while in a relationship, but he was honest with Joanna after the fact, and I believe that if they both put effort into the relationship, that they will survive and be a better couple for it. They are both amazing people, and I know that they truly love each other very much. I am their number one cheerleader!

Until next time, if you would like to follow me on Twitter, you can do so at @karentsierra, and please like my public Facebook page so that we may stay in contact.Don't forget to tune in every Thursday at 9 pm EST. And on Sunday October 28th we will also be airing an episode, and I will be on WWHL with Andy Cohen. Don't miss it, and please spread the word.

Many blessings to you all.

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Hoping to Move Forward with Lea

Marysol shares what she hopes will come out of the reunion.

For me the reunion is a forum to hash things out and engage in verbal mud wrestling and hopefully come out cleansed from the tension and disagreements. I would like to make it clear that I do not hate anyone; I am not a person that likes to live in anger as it only makes you miserable and takes away from the precious moments of our lives. It is no secret that I have spent a couple of years being accused of lying by Lea when we do not see eye to eye on something. It is very frustrating to have issues with someone and always end up at the same place of “her word against mine.”

Unfortunately, my father this year has also had a rapid decline in his health and has spent the better part of the past few months in and out of the hospital. While dad was in the hospital with nothing else to do besides sleep, read, and watch TV he watched every episode of RHOM. He was very upset when he saw Lea saying I was lying when I said she didn’t call, write, or send flowers to mom for 8 weeks. He called me and said to figure out a way to video tape me and put it on that show of yours because I’ve had enough of the lies. My father was by mother’s side every day from the moment she went into the hospital to the day she came home (2 months later). He saw everyone who passed by, saw every flower and card that was sent etc. I truly was uncomfortable videotaping him in a hospital setting, but I was leaving for the reunion and he called relentlessly several times a day insisting I let him speak his mind for the cameras. If you thought Mama Elsa was tough, guess who she learned it from, that’s right, her husband of 52 years, Donald Patton. You never met anyone more ornery, stubborn, or tough, but I wouldn’t trade him for the world.

I have said my peace, which is what I went to the reunion to do. I have moved forward and forgive those who have hurt me and I forgive myself for those I may have hurt. I truly want to move forward to a better place with Lea to the best of our ability. We may never be best friends, but I’d like to think we can at least be in the same room, be cordial, and maybe even share a laugh someday.

It has been a fun season with the ladies and it provided a great distraction from the personal emotional struggles I was going through with my parents’ declining health.  I hope you enjoyed the season, thank you for all of your support and best wishes for my mother as that has been the greatest gift the show has brought us.

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