Alexia Echevarria

Alexia shares her thoughts on all the conflict at her Venue party.

on Sep 2, 20130

Marysol asked me to come over to her apartment to chat. I've been spending quite some time with her since her mom's injury. She asked a tarot reader, Cari, to come over and give her a reading. Like Elsa, my mom would read my sister and I the tarot cards on Sunday afternoons. That was the day she was inspired. So I get that whole thing, especially at a time like this when she is so worried and concerned about her mom. She feels maybe Cari can tell her something about her mom's health. I personally am afraid and don't want to know. I like to live in my own little world. Denial? Maybe? Anyhow, I sit back and I listen and I continue to do what I do best: Pray, pray, and pray!



112 comments
Liznorris
Liznorris

It was your party and you weren't getting involved? Except you were very quick to run over and call Lea hypocritical. I've noticed you tend to write the exact opposite in your blogs than what actually transpired in the episode. It's very confusing to me.

Dreid123
Dreid123

You are hypocritical !! Smh

Tia118
Tia118

I agree with you when you said that Lea was being hypicritcal....not only at your venue but the night that everyone went to that bar. Lea claims that she doesn't talk behind anyones back, then what is the point of her speaking in the individual interviews. and then the venue when she said that she avoids her enemies, yet kisses everyone and says "good to see you" whats good about it? I really dont get the effin problem if Adrianna is married, divorced, single, poor, rich, or painted like a zebra....WHO CARES!!!!....its none of anyones business. really worry about yourself!

Reallifewife
Reallifewife

Alexia you and your crew (Adriana, Ana, and Marysol) are all mean girls. All of you need to grow up. Your'e all a bunch of catty. You said that you didn't want to get involved in the fight at your Venue party but it has never stopped you before. At last years Venue party when Karent and Adriana were having a discussion that did not even concern you, you got all in Karent's face causing an unnecessary incident. You are such a hypocrite. I can't believe that you did not attend Lea' s gala that benefits children like your son Frankie. Instead you chose to follow the crowd like a little high school girl looking for acceptance into the mean girl's club. You need to learn to think for yourself. Adriana's story keeps changing, yet you never question it.

millertime
millertime

I agree with Alexia in that, fights should be between the two people involved. I don't think people should take side. Neutral is best. Don't fight someone else's fight. Adriana, Marysol, & Ana are capable adults. With that said, she actually did take sides and try to cover it up and back track and lie about it. Also my biggest pet peeve ever is people in who are sick in public. UGH! Stay home. Don't go to your event, polo or the gala and infect everyone else. Eww.

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

Ana pecked Lea's cheek first she was the hypocrite not Lea

CarlaB
CarlaB

When you play both sides, eventually you have to make a choice...seems like you made yours about the gala.

bicoastalhousewife
bicoastalhousewife

Cuban Barbie? I think not. More like Barbarian. NO offense to Cubans. This lady is the ultimate hypocrite playing both sides of the fence and telling people to grow up. How sad that you decided to listen to your mob, I mean, girls, and not your heart, for these troubled kids.

Redridinghood
Redridinghood

Alexia,  I love that you have shared such a true to life hardship, what you have had to endure this last year is beyond anyones imagination!...  People who judge you, only do this becuase they are either ignorant ; uniformed about family tragedy; or so full of themselves that they cannot comprehend seeing outside of their small lives and feel the pain and heartbreak you have and still are experiencing in your life!  I commend you for staying on the show, and sharing this with the world, hopefully one person will get educated from it.  I was so proud of you tonight when you told Adrianna, Marisol and Ana to grow up, it wasn't about winning.  It was about continuing to support a Charity event (regardless if it was sponsored by Lea) and for the children that benefit from it!  Didn't Adriana's son benefit from it?  not sure about that, but I thought that they contributed to his cost for education?...  And then, I have to tell you, I was so disappointed in your decision to not go to the event, if it was because you were sick, I could have been okay, but to end it with a lie to Lea that you were sick, and in the next breath say that you had time to think about it, and wanted to stay loyal to your friends?????  I can't tell you had hard that hit me, and how sad it made me.  I actually felt betrayed by you, or by who I thought you were.  well, I guess you have to do what you feel is right.  I just think you made a really bad, bad decision to make it about Lea and the girls. You are a wealthy woman, you should have supported the event for the children of all the women, you know how important it is to help children in need of help!. And bottom line, that is what should have been represented by all of the RHOM.  what can I say, shame on all of you that made it about "Yourselves", and not about the event for the children, that you have supported for years!  Lea is the bigger person she went to your event, for what ever motive you want to say, but all the money from the gala didn't go to Lea, it goes to the Charity!  Very sad about this, and not impressed by the RHOM AT ALL.

 

PinkParker
PinkParker

I can not believe you did not attend the Gala...after the problems you have had with Frankie. The nerve! The whole point of the Gala is for kids just like Frankie.

JaneGold
JaneGold

I can't believe you spent the day going to some superficial polo game, and missed an opportunity to support an amazing cause.  Lea really needed you!  So upsetting to watch you flake out on her!!!

po
po

Alexia, shame on you for allowing these girls to manipulate you. You made a fool of yourself, your husband and your business. You also let down the Charity so you could be a follower... Please go away along with your magazine...

gini
gini

You are so spineless.  To let those girls manipulate you shows the type of person you are.  I couldn't wait until this weeks blog shows up.You need to apologize to Lea.

Catseye65
Catseye65

I think that this is very sad for all of you. All of you are supposed to be grown, well respected women of Miami society. Everyone should have put their differences aside to be there for the kids. Lisa appears to be the only one that does not feed into all the BS. Ana is a very lonely bitter women and so is Marysol. Adrianna, Marysol and Ana act like they are the mean girls in high school. Why should anyone have to pick sides? Can't someone be friends with all of them? This is so extremely childish.

Wyn
Wyn

You aren't strong. You are a pit viper just like any other trash gossiping angry narcissists on this show. Hypocrite, two faced and MEAN. Then again, you just bask in it all don't you? Go ahead. You don't have anyone to prove anything to....but that's pretty sad that nobody expects much from you.

nystar13
nystar13

BEING POLITE IS NOT BEING HYPOCRYTICAL ! HOW BIZARE THAT YOU THINK SO!  who taught you manners?  So glad Ana is not a regular, her behavior was unacceptable last season.  MEAN GIRLS comes to mind for most of the cast.

parris2056
parris2056

This lady is the worst of the cast..at least Adriana as much as i dislike her is comical and has a story line..you my dear really need to be kicked off the show..so boring....and you are the most hypocritical of the cast, you act like you like Lea but you always join the others in bashing her..get lost woman

shysharon
shysharon

You had 1100 guests and couldn't resist throwing a hissy fit because 2 phonies were fake nice to each other, really?  WOW! And choose to believe the LEAST believable Adrianna wedding story? What's wrong with you, seriously. You would marry a guy 3 weeks after meeting him and then worry about how your son feels? Come on

maggiemay1963
maggiemay1963

Alexia, although you seem to be a kind person who loves her children, I was very disappointed to hear you say that your son was dumb because "he videorecorded his terrible actions towards a homeless man". You should be saying that your son was dumb because he did something terrible and MEAN to a vulnerable person. Your son deserves a second chance, maybe some counselling and community service helping homeless.

falina_c
falina_c

The only hypocrite is YOU.

Vthom
Vthom

I generally like you alexia, but you really blew it when you called lea a hypocrite. She's being polite, and not wanting drama. I can't believe you don't get that...you're wrong, and I hope you have apologized to lea for you lack of good judgement.....

PureLife
PureLife

I haven't liked her in seasons past, but I really want to like Alexia this season. So far her story has been focused on her sons, which tugs at the heart strings, and she has remained fairly neutral with the exception of calling Lea a hypocrite. Maybe it was just a small lapse in judgement, but we shall see because the season has only just begun.

Cersei425
Cersei425

Omg! I could read these comments forever. Everyone is on point. She's a two faced mean girl who can't fool the public any longer. What a mess of a life and family. Seriously no class whatsoever how embarrassing to the Hispanic community who are much gracious hosts than this outdated Cuban Barbie.

portlandiagirl
portlandiagirl

Note to Bravo:  Get rid of  Alexia.  She's so boring I have to fast forward through her drivel.  PLEEEEZE get rid of her.

Sjomohr
Sjomohr

You are by far the most unlikeable woman in the entire Housewife franchise. Watching you is painful. May Bravo get rid of you soon. 

pandadynamite01
pandadynamite01

You associate with trash like Marysol, Ana, and Adrianna. Do yourself a favor and stop hanging around low-lifes like those trashy "ladies". You're very fake and two-faced to Lea, who is one of the generous people on the show and you're sitting there talking about not going to HER gala when she came to YOUR party. You're a fool.

Relo-HOM
Relo-HOM

....You are painful to watch...talk about  "hypocritical behavior"....

Clinks
Clinks

I just saw a clip of next weeks MHW.  If you decided to not attend Lea's gala because the others wanted you to go to the polo match.  You are a very weak person and my assumption of you is correct.  Looking forward to your decision. This will prove that you do not have any regard of the young people that the gala supports.  Lea really conducted herself well at your party.  This will show your true colors.  I hope I am wrong about you.

Skinny_Who
Skinny_Who

Alexia you're great! I agree with you calling Lea a hypocrite. To be honest I was doing the same yelling at the TV right before you came on and said it. While I understand that some people like to be polite I think Lea takes it to another level. Sometimes people (like Lea) need to realize that people don't like them and they do not want anything to do with them, not even a hello. In my opinion, you do not need to say hello, how are you to everyone in the room.Your cover party was a social gathering not a place of employment.

bicoastalhousewife
bicoastalhousewife

Pllllleasse!  You actually went on national TV and said the more the drama, the more publicity you get? And you were the hostess? OH MY GOODNESS!!! What planet are you from that we are supposed to understand that you are there all night so you arrive late, an hour and a half late, to your own party. Rest another time honey. Then looney tunes, bipolar Adriana is going berserk on one of your guests and you stand by? Then, Ana says with a smirk, I'm going to say hi to Joanna to get a reaction out of Lea. And you egg her on, yeah, go go and smile? Then attack one of your own guests who went there to support you before a HUGE fundraiser for children. Please I know some lovely Cuban ladies and you are really really a disgrace to your culture. You attacked Karent last year over the stupidest things. You saw a miracle with your son. Pay it forward. Stop with the gossip and the madness. Be kind, have gratitude, forgive, and stop talking trash with your trashy friends.

Nebfan22
Nebfan22

In the previews you seem to be calling on Leah a fake.  What about Anna? 

mjmcbride
mjmcbride

You know....mean girls follow other mean girls and don't think for themselves. They get caught up in mean girl activities. Think for yourself and step away from the insanity. Why is Marysol calling shots? Tell her to stfu and you will do as you see fit....and that means NOT following a spiteful, tho small, mob.

miranda99
miranda99

You were out of line calling Lea a hypocrite in my opinion.  You alluded to being sorry for this, but in true housewife fashion stopped short of an apology.  People that dislike each other, yet know how to politely say hello are just showing class.  Shame on you.

Luashtal
Luashtal

First of all, I'm going to start off by saying I'm a Cuban from Miami. You are an embarrassment to our culture. We are not all into mysticism and tarot card reading. I actually don't know a Cuban that does that. You were not nervous! You were a pit bull! I didn't see you attack Ana. You only attacked Leah. You certainly did have an option. You could have behaved like a sane person and have gone about your business. You are the one in the whole cast that stirs the pot the most. You would think that with what you have been through with your son, you would have learned to be more peaceful. Peter is an example of the apple not falling too far from the tree. Get off the show!

lmr151
lmr151

I kinda think Alexia is just saying this now cus she knows everyone is on Lea's side. She let her friend get ambushed at her party and now she feels bad about it. 

Blink
Blink

Well at least Lea knows you're not a true friend.  Stop giving parties because you're a terrible Hostess, you yell at Karent last year and now you're being rude to Lea.  As other have said, not really sure why you're on the show.  You're not interesting and you seem to think putting your nose in others conflict somehow makes you relevant.  It actually makes you look silly.

JenPincha
JenPincha

For an old broad you sure act so imature with positively no class.

Lubby
Lubby

I didn't read your blog your personalty came across as a 5th grader. What is your story line exactly? Why are you even on the show? I have respect for you husband somewhat probably because he hasn't opened his mouth much on tv. Are you here to gather the public to try to defend what your son did? I honestly don't get it. 

bravoliscious
bravoliscious

The other side to your argument could be that what difference should it have made to Alex if Adrianna and Frederic WERE married if they were living together as a family.  I don't buy that flimsy excuse of Adrianna's for one minute.  I certainly hope that as a business woman you aren't that naïve. 

Speaking of hypocrites, you clearly supported Marysol in believing the "devil" was Lea with the Reader.  You often do just enough to let it be known that you aren't 100% behind Lea, I would call that hypocritical given that you went through your blog and said how much you appreciated her.

sajkel
sajkel

Another pathetic display of ladylike behaviour from you. Each week you reach new lows. ***Sigh

addictedtoRHOBH
addictedtoRHOBH

Alexia, for the most part, I like you. Please, distance yourself from Adriana, Ana and marysol. They are so ridiculous, it is insulting to the viewers that they expect us to believe their spin on their issues with lea. We have eyes and ears and can see their manipulation and lies for ourselves! Aligning yourselves with them will eventually cause you to be guilty by association. Disassociate with them.

CarlaB
CarlaB

 @nystar13 Very true and she looked just so happy and pleasant at the polo gala!!! NOT. Her hatefulness inside is coming to rest on her face. She's a prime example of an unhappy, hateful person and you don't even need to hear her speak, you can tell by looking at her.

AuntNeti
AuntNeti

 @pandadynamite01

 It's especially disgusting since Alexia is on the board of the charity that the gala supports.  Alexia is a fraud!

Hopeful
Hopeful

 @Skinny_Who It's obvious you and Alexia do not understand gracious manners. Even in this day of techno-give no sheet, try and get a handle on being compassionate.

 

falina_c
falina_c

 @Skinny_Who Someone (else) who hasn't heard of taking "the high road". Unfortunately it seems to be a rapidly dying art.

PureLife
PureLife

 @Skinny_Who 

 

I like Alexia, but she was wrong to jump in there and start calling Lea a hypocrite. I didn't see her call Ana one. so not sure why she's saying it now in the blog. In any case, all they were doing was saying hello, not acting like best friends. She should have just let it be. 

portlandiagirl
portlandiagirl

 @Skinny_Who Hey Skinny, It's called having class.  Classy people rise above and act cordial in a social setting.  

LoveBravoBB
LoveBravoBB

 @mjmcbride You are right--it's called "group think".  More importantly, mean girls cannot and do not exert "independent thinking."  They can't. Anna, Alexia and Adriana are group thinkers. They follow the crowd; not leaders.