Hey everyone! I apologize for the lateness, but I’ve been busy in New York City with a press tour. I'm on my way back to Miami and have a little time to write this now.
So another emotional episode with Peter. As I look at this, I cry, of course, and at the same time I realize how that moment was necessary and way over due in order for us to heal, bond, and move on. Peter and I had never had a moment like that where I opened up and explained my pain and fears. I never wanted him to judge me, and I've never liked for my kids to see me cry. Even when Frankie was in the hospital and in a coma, I would go into the bathroom and turn on the water and cry my head off. When Peter visited I would put on a happy, strong face and try not to cry while he was sobbing in tears.
I could care less what you got for your birthday. Something about you is not right. Maybe you're a fake or a liar but I feel that you are acting for the cameras. I really don't wish you ill will but who really cares about your questionable marriage and the unreal rudeness of your son. Get off of this show and fix your life.
Seriously do you think Lea fabricated a text. It is crystal clear who is lying stop the madness and back away from your so called friends. So far Adrianna and that party planner what ever her name is prove to be lying rude witches with a capital B. and you look so stupid always defending their bad behavior. I think you can be a clear thinking woman until you do this crap. Seriously do you like looking so dumb? You truly do look bad. Wake up and get some friends that don't lie so much.
I think the "Cuban Barbie" really needs to pull away from the spotlight and direct her attentions on her wonderful sons!
I agree that Alexia turned a moment that was supposed to be about her son into a moment about herself. Something tells me this is pretty much a common denominator for these kids lives. Second I think because Peter is the oldest he is used to being the one in the spot light, and when all the attention was focused on his little brother he didn't like that and probably felt guilty for it. Also does anyone else think that Peter is high as a kite? He seems like he isn't lucid to me like he isn't there and he mumbles all the time. It's weird that he wears sun glasses in doors all the time. I think Peter needs to go to rehab.
I'm surprised you have no reaction to Lea calling you two-faced and fake OR the fact that Peter was arrested again this past spring/summer. Wait - I'm not surprised!
I wish you were nicer to lea and not listen to those stupid women. You just seem to be two faced.
I see you going through so much on tv it really is heartbreaking. I don't see why so many are bitter towards you. I think you've went through a lot and your head must be spinning you don't recover over night. Keep the hope and faith.
As far as Franky goes, realize and take comfort that he will make huge strides in the years to come. A young brain has a remarkable capacity to heal itself over time. He will surprise you!
So when is your mother going to start therapy with you? Peter's father may be a "loser" but it sounds like he has a more mature and honest relationship with his son than you do. Doesn't your mother see that you are Peter's enabler?
You need to stop making excuses for your older son. He has character flaws that are very obvious to everyone else. You need to face reality regarding that son. Regarding your younger son, you seem to be very involved in his recovery, and I wish you well. He is a very sweet boy, and I think he will do well with you as an involved mom.
I have a big problem with you while you were talking to Peter, in blaming GOD for taking your husband away!
How dare you!!! God didn't take your husband away!! Your husband followed the devil and listened to him and chose the wrong path! I know everyone may get upset about me saying that, but God didn't make your husband sell drugs and do stupid stuff!!! How about blaming your husband and saying he made bad/stupid choices but to blame God! You've got to be kidding me!!! Oh and don't say, God let it happen! We have free will to make our choices and then we suffer the consequences!
Totally agree with you. And she needs to stop saying he "went away"...... he went to JAIL!
I can't figure you out! I don't know if it's because you don't know who you are or you're trying to be someone you're not. Lisa seems to play nice with both groups effortlessly but you're different. You seem kinda wishy-washy, agreeing with whoever you're with at the moment, then switching sides when you're with the opposing team. Please figure out where you really stand, who you're really friends with, and have their back like a true friend. It's confusing!
Also, if you come back next season please leave Peter's personal problems off the show. He's young and troubled and it's sad that his issues are a storyline. His therapy should be kept private, he's growing up and figuring himself out, how embarrassing to have it all play out on national television!
Great comments Alexia. I agree with you, it's time to focus on all the right you have done. We have ALL made mistakes, every one of us. You are a great and loving mom to two beautiful sons. You did what you thought was right at the time. Peter has had a great trauma with Frankie's accident and he needs to heal as well. All the best. Ignore the negative comments, people can be so mean.
debmerc888 She will not get anywhere with ignoring the society. Look where she was at before the show and the comments. Her son beat up a homeless man, filmed it, and posted videos on Youtube. Have you ever seen anyone like that in your own environment? Him running to the street and kicking and damaging the cab is a logical consequence of how he has been enabled to behave.
And U act like u have a backbone but around Ana (who is the most angry jealous and bitter person on the show) and Adriana u let them tell u what to do. So stupid
Oh for crying out loud. "Unconsciously punishing himself"?!?! He very consciously punished the homeless man he punched. For happening to be in the radius of a spoiled, egomaniac, pothead teenager/adult when Peter decided to lash out.
Was it me or did anyone else feel uncomfortable when Alexia was crying and leaning on her son Peter? Who is the parent here? I understand your pain....really, but you turned a moment about your son into a moment about you.....what gives?
Yes! I posted a comment about the same thing earlier but I'm not sure it posted. She is so Fake and self involved she can't even connect on a real level with her own Son without making it about herself.
Who goes to a baseball field to have a heart to heart in six inch heels and white jegging?
...You always start out with how busy you are & that you barely have time to blog...so I stopped right there...no time or interest for me either to read the rest of your blog... ZZzzzzzz.....