Marysol Patton

Marysol shares what she hopes will come out of the reunion.

on Nov 14, 20130

For me the reunion is a forum to hash things out and engage in verbal mud wrestling and hopefully come out cleansed from the tension and disagreements. I would like to make it clear that I do not hate anyone; I am not a person that likes to live in anger as it only makes you miserable and takes away from the precious moments of our lives. It is no secret that I have spent a couple of years being accused of lying by Lea when we do not see eye to eye on something. It is very frustrating to have issues with someone and always end up at the same place of “her word against mine.”

Unfortunately, my father this year has also had a rapid decline in his health and has spent the better part of the past few months in and out of the hospital. While dad was in the hospital with nothing else to do besides sleep, read, and watch TV he watched every episode of RHOM. He was very upset when he saw Lea saying I was lying when I said she didn’t call, write, or send flowers to mom for 8 weeks. He called me and said to figure out a way to video tape me and put it on that show of yours because I’ve had enough of the lies. My father was by mother’s side every day from the moment she went into the hospital to the day she came home (2 months later). He saw everyone who passed by, saw every flower and card that was sent etc. I truly was uncomfortable videotaping him in a hospital setting, but I was leaving for the reunion and he called relentlessly several times a day insisting I let him speak his mind for the cameras. If you thought Mama Elsa was tough, guess who she learned it from, that’s right, her husband of 52 years, Donald Patton. You never met anyone more ornery, stubborn, or tough, but I wouldn’t trade him for the world.

108 comments
River69
River69

Marysol,  You're one of my favorites.  I appreciate the kindness you show your mom.  I hope you return to the show, along with Anna.  The two of you, together added so much spice to the show.

carom
carom

After the fake psychic I actually don't believe a single word of yours.

DeeDee5304
DeeDee5304

I don't know if it is true about your father wanted to comment. I think it was truly sad. As a daughter - you should have acted like it didn't matter and it wasn't such a big deal. I don't understand what the big deal was if Lea did or didn't contact your mother. She should not have been a big part of your family’s life when your parent’s health was so serious. I just think the whole thing was sad and pathetic. Again, if your father felt so strongly about it - you are an intelligent woman you could have come up with something.

Does anybody know why Ms. Elsa was in the hospital?  There was mention of an accident. Does anybody know what kind of accident?

I wish Marysol and her parents the best.

 

joynj
joynj

What's with this obcession you have with Lea & what she does & doesn't do?  Seriously!   It's your mother.  Worry about yourself & that you do the right thing.  GET OVER IT!  WE ARE!!  

wiscfan
wiscfan

It is not Lea's responsibility to be your family's support and caretaker.  Get over it!

playtone22
playtone22

I think it's HILARIOUS that you say you hop you "can at least be in the same room, be cordial"... are you serious???  That is EXACTLY what Lea tried to do all season and all you did was want to attack her.  You have some serious issues and I suggest you get those figured out before attempting to return to a show like this.  You're truly disturbing to watch - you and your pal Adriana.

NBBG
NBBG

all the childish, hateful, mean behaviors of you and your gang members  have made me like Lea more !

J.Mobile
J.Mobile

Let me remind you that Lea has met your mother two times in her whole life. Surely, you have your own life and friends and are not that desperate, are you?

rudy90210
rudy90210

Wow, do you not have any sense of decorum, propriety, or a clue of what the temperature of the room is, or the world for that matter. For you to think it was be good tv and make yourself likable was to meet with a phony witch hunting psychic, and insecurely talk nasty about Lea all season! Yet, the worst piece of evidence to my claim is that you got into your dad's ear with hate for Lea, while he was sick, and you wouldn't let your mother know about lea's calls, while she was sick and was trying to get a hold of Lea! Worse yet, was playing the embarrassing message by your dad at the reunion. You poor thing, you really need to refocus your priorities!

drh255
drh255

I hope your mother and father are doing better.  Your mom is the best...my heart aches to see you hurting and hearing of her up and down recovery...praying for her.....Sad also that you have had this ongoing issue with Lea...it seems to stem from something strictly business related, and rather than getting defensive about it (I know it's your reputation on the line) you probably should have fired those that organized Lea's charity event....normally if a client complains...the owner accepts their complaint and apologizes, rectifies the situation...whether they are wrong or not....obviously Lea felt some things weren't handled the way she expected them to be...had you just acted more in the manner of a business owner and less like a friend who felt slighted by Lea's complaint, I think you two would be in a better place.

Constance1
Constance1

Marysol, I'm sure we're all glad that your parents appear to be on the road to recovery and that you appear to be emotionally healing as well but frankly, each season you appear to be the "Debbie-Downer" of the series.  It's a bit depressing watching you navigate through your everyday situations; maybe this environment is not the healthiest avenue for you.

christmaszorro
christmaszorro

Lea is a liar and she has her liar bought "friend" Joanna backing up her lies.  That was so stupid when they said that it was not Lea's laugh on the audio clip!  It totally was Lea Black laughing at your mother's health decline.  Lea is a cruel woman that only cares about herself.  Lea disgusts me and she needs to leave the show before she tarnishes the Bravo franchise with a worse image then it already has!

be@ch
be@ch

Pathetic, transparent, and desperate! 

RileyRoo
RileyRoo

You are so stupid.  Why would Lea Black hate your mother and why would you go on and on about it?  Shut up! I really hope you go off the show...you are boring. 

JuanCarlos
JuanCarlos

Your dress was divine as were your shoes.  Whilst I don't think we'll be seeing any more of the Miami housewives, I certainly hope Bravo keeps you and your mom around.   I wish you and your family salud y bendiciones. 

 

 

Shelleycon
Shelleycon

The whole video thing made you look totally demented in like the funniest way ever

long4_u
long4_u

I am not sure what you were trying to accomplish with the videos on lea, but I believe u were just reaching for anything.. u talk about lea lying all season, all she has done is defend herself from you telling lies about her.. u brough the issues on yourself.. for lea to be somebody u really don't care about and u have made that clear this season, why do you care or not if she reached out or didn't..

Sweeteena1018
Sweeteena1018

I'm so embarrassed for you.  Your whole storyline consisted of you chasing Lea

around calling her a liar and trying to turn everyone against her.  What happened

to your dignity?  Being on a reality show is not worth giving up your hard earned

image as a respected business woman....Sadly you have reversed that image with

this desperate reality star performance.  You need to figure out why you let yourself

act and look like a fool this season for something so fleeting.

Candy_V
Candy_V

Marysol - You are my fav on the show.  I missed seeing you and truly hope you are on the show next season.  I think there are mean people saying mean things while you are going thru a lot of stuff right now.  Lea's goal is to get you off the show and my hope is for Lea to leave the show!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My prayers  are with you and your mom and dad

Purple86
Purple86

You have been raging a war against Lea for the last two seasons.  Now all of a sudden you want bygones to be bygones with Lea.  You looked like a complete idiot at the reunion accusing Lea of hating your mother and showing the video of your father. I think you have seen the writing on the wall, the viewers are on Lea's side.  Unless your mother is well enough to film for future seasons, I think it is unlikely that you will be on the RHOM again.  Have a nice life!

luvGinger
luvGinger

I have never liked you, thought of you as a zero with nothing to contribute. But after the reunion you have earned a new title"Most Pitiful" To see that at your advanced age you still want your elderly, ill parents to fight for you is cringe worthy. You will die a little shriveled up old lady with only your belongings surrounding you. Get a life lady!

DesL
DesL

It will be nice to not have to see Marysol in the future, especially as she has no story other than to follow other cast members around yelling at them for nothing. I do not wish Marysol ill will, I just do not want her on my television.

Heidi_Ylenni
Heidi_Ylenni

Ok, I think that people are being a little hard on you. Lea has been trashing her for a couple of seasons. I don’t think that she should have brought the video but I understand what it is like when you feel you are losing a parent and I get that she would be sensitive to the fact that Lea didn’t reach out. Lea has proof of everything but I didn’t see a receipt for flowers or a photocopy of a card (also, I do believe Lea would have photocopied a card if she sent one). I honestly don’t dislike Lea but she seems to really hold a grudge and come back at people who she believes have wronged her in a cruel way.

bravoliscious
bravoliscious

You HATED Leah, remember all the bashing you did at the Polo match, and yet you wanted her to contact your mother?  It makes no sense.

AlwaysAmazed
AlwaysAmazed

I know all too well the pain that goes with ailing parents and the subsequent loss - I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone.  But shame on you for using your parents to try to prove a ridiculous point.  You have made yourself look like a fool and are solely responsible for the character flaws that have negatively affect your life and, I am sure, your business.  Time to own up to the very poor decisions you have made.  You constantly refer to Karma and negative energy......do you realize that "you reap what you sow"? 

@Ricksgrl
@Ricksgrl

Whatever Bravo is paying you must be worth looking like a desperate fool. ughhh my skin gave me goosebumps and i wanted to just grab your hand and save you from the way you were handling yourself.

Bill888
Bill888

That video of you dad is truly ridiculous. Look at yourself

MissyItZme
MissyItZme

First off everyone should stop talking negative about marisol because you only see whats on the show and not out. I'm sure all these women don't speak to each other after the show. However lea black used to talk to her mother. Everyone loves her mother. I totally agree with marisol, why didn't lea show her sympathy. If lea did say oh i did this and that.. either prove it , or apologize. doesn't matter if marisol doesn't like lea or not.. its the principal its her mother and her mother and lea were friends.. and when lea didn't call or whatever , it bothered marisol because she knew how her mother liked lea. so people spot with the negative comments.. 

LilyGrace
LilyGrace

I fully believe that was Lea Black's laugh in the background of that video you played. But who knows for sure if, in the middle of a party, what you hear her laughing at is a comic doing an impression of your mother? Your mother is a lovable and unusual character who is bound to be mimicked while she is in the public eye. You know what's a lot worse than someone at a private party doing an impression of your mom? YOU, exploiting your elderly parents. That was horrible of you to set up your father, feeding him what to say while you video taped him, while planning to exploit the tape later on T.V. How gross! 

greekgirl
greekgirl

I can't get over the video of your father in that state. Shame on you! You're beyond ridiculous. It just made people more clearly see that Lea is dealing with a bunch of lunatics. It didn't help your case at all.

bjunebug28
bjunebug28

This blog didn't work and neither did your appearance at the reunion.  Pathetic to use your mother and father's illnesses to get attention for yourself on tv.  Shame shame.

bravofan12
bravofan12

you need to get a life...your behavior has been pretty pathetic.  And what happened with your friendship with Ana?

sarah100
sarah100

Marisol, I wish your mom the best, every mom is precious and is worthy of care and respect. Having said that using your mom's illness to attack your friends is crazy, remember she is YOUR mom not theirs. They have said that they have asked about her and called at least once, that is very gracious of them, but you expect them to stop their lives. Obviously they have their own families and problems to deal with. Bringing your father into it too was just classless and I felt it was mean of you to show your dad on tv in his hospital bed on this show. You have no manners. You need to act like an adult.

jordy
jordy

Marisol, You actually made Joanna look like the bright one??!!

 

AddictedToBravo25
AddictedToBravo25

I could really enjoy you on the show, if you could just get a grip. Get hold of yourself woman! Best wishes to your mom and dad.

mrsdonut
mrsdonut

Not that I'm a big fan of Lea's (or for that matter, any Miami HW), but if you believe your mother to be "spiritually gifted" or "psychic" and she keeps asking to see Lea, then perhaps your mom sees something in her that is innately good and wants to be around her for a reason?! Either that, or your mom is wrong and not as intuitive as you believe she is.

sobolious
sobolious

You came off looking like an absolute fool on the reunion show. I seriously hope that you do not return next season.  

Rhotexas
Rhotexas

Loved your outfit on the reunion....beautiful. Other than that, you were a bore. And the video you showed of your dad....you should be ashamed. Classless.

TXRose
TXRose

"...I’d like to think we can at least be in the same room, be cordial...." Marysol, As a grown up, isn't that the way you should behave anyway?! Your behavior this season was immature and disgusting, to say the least. I'm sorry to say this, but the most interesting thing about you on this show is your mother, so the only way for you to create drama was to, time and time again, throw Lea under the bus. By the way, you NEVER answered Andy's question at the reunion: "If you dislike Lea, what do you care if Lea sent flowers to your mother?" I hope you grow up and act like a lady with class.

SFViewer
SFViewer

Did I miss something? When did you officially exit the show? All of a sudden you're not on the last few episodes. could someone explain?

Martinez8Betty
Martinez8Betty

Marysol,why did you show your ailing Father,in that state??Was he even Aware* of his Surroundings????? You were way out of line!!!! I  don't know why you are on the show?? (Go Figure) I don't get it!!!!!!! Just Don't????????????Please as Dr.said (MOVE ON) find a Husband.......

metoo2
metoo2

i AM SO ASHAMED OF YOU.

piperbeau
piperbeau

Marysol you sound so ridiculous!! Seriously!! I'm sorry if I were on the outs with a former friend I would not want them visiting my mom in the hospital.... Period!! I think you needed a story line....

vickyl258
vickyl258

I think you should go see Alexias mother for some help.

bicoastalhousewife
bicoastalhousewife

 @drh255

 Exactly. She should have acknowledged rather than go on the defensive, then aggressive attack. Very unbecoming of a business owner. As an owner of a few businesses, I would never put out there the craziness she has put out there: black magic, "you knew that I knew that you knew" regarding not wanting Lea to know her mom was in the hospital, doing

a video of her sickly dad (who never met Lea), crystals and cats, whatever voodoo woman. Go back to your tarot readings because she should have warned you about your train wreck of a future if you keep this up!

NBBG
NBBG

 @Heidi_Ylenni having a proof of a check is easy as it is an accounting matter, How silly is to expect from Lea to make a copy of all her interactions :)) having said that she had a copy of emails and text messages that she did her part and tried to reach out.  Lea tried to prove her actions in two occasions to Alexia and to Andy , I watched it !

Jord3058
Jord3058

 @SFViewer I think her status was changed as it was being filmed due to her Mothers health. Elsa was a big part of Marysol's storyline on the show and without her I assume the producers felt she had no big enough role. Watching the season it seems they did intend her to be a full housewife right up until last few episodes but then demoted her when they realized Elsa couldnt film anymore. Then they just stopped filming scenes with her. This is my take.

greekgirl
greekgirl

@SFViewer she was downgraded to a friend. Marysol wasn't a full time cast member this season.