I just watched the re-run of this season, and Danielle, you are an awesome human being. You should really be commended for being so patient with such people .. I wouldn't have been able to control my temper. Their whole personalities are fake!

I know how hard it is to raise kids with values these days and they reflect on you as a person and as a mother.. they definitely have the brightest eyes :-) I really don't know what C is talking about .. coz you are doing a great job with them.. whereas others are raising materialistic spoilt brats.

Hope u are doing good .. take care of urself and it babies. Its good u left when u did. They can't blame u anymore. Plain to see.. they will never change.

You go girl! Keep them Biotches jealous.

Hi Danielle, have you found out anymore about your birthmother, I hope you find what your searching for but I really think you need some proffessional guidance in this because I have a feeling the result of your search could be quite painful so dont go it alone x

Danielle;you came a long way, you use your wisdom
survived the round up brutality criticism with tortured
in public by this questionalable famiy,
congraulation,what you present yourself is most important
take critcism as good madication,stimulate your brain bring new idea into you
life,set good image to your lovely children which not contaminated with this materiel world,while watch their silence and worry , they'v
been deeply hurt yet remain good manner can be set good example the the otheradualt family,send them to the college they can be do their best for this socity, they will be bring you honor, you will be very proud of it,When will you and lori have a concert tour? and your'booK"? looking forward.I wish you and all your family the best.

Danielle, I just want to take this opportunity to tell you how much I admire you and the way you have handled yourself in the face of all the ugliness with the other women and their families.
I am a disabled mother, in an electric chair, with a Down's child. I share this because in this lifetime, we all have a flaw somewhere. Something that we have no control over, but makes us stronger. You have been through so much in your life, and you have come thro's stronger and more beautiful. Your girls are amazing, and it's evident to me, you are the better mother.
I look forward to seeing you on TV again. You are such an inspiration to me, and to thousands of others. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
DAR

Ms. Staub,

I wish for you an emotionally mature & stable support group (2nd family, friends with healthy boundaries). I kept watching the show hoping that you would walk away from the provocations and opportunities to get back at Teresa, Caroline and Jacqueline. It is very difficult when they have dug up your past and relished it with horror, glee and a holier-than-thou attitude.

We can only control our responses/reactions and not what people do to us.
I'm very sorry your former husband published his book. Isn't he the father of your children? Goodness. His book is GARBAGE (by its sheer existence). You DID not trash talk him but respected the father of your children.

As for Caroline calling you garbage, it was unnecessary of her to say that. She has so much to be thankful for with a loving husband, children who have her back (though I do wish one of them would come off the stripper/car wash idea) and awesome extended family. She lacks the insight to see that you are looking for acceptance and family.

Please own up to your anger in the comments in some of the comments you made. I like to believe the best in you but what you said about Teresa's daughters with the dog wearing leopard comment was ugly. Caroline's son- Chris DID treat you LIKE A GENTLEMAN at the Brownstone...there was no need to give out your anger (psychological f-you) to him. It was painful to learn what Kim G. did to you but you did not talk to her about it first...instead you planned an attack. Not a wise thing to do.

Teresa has her own issues. There was no need for her to start screaming in your face for mentioning her family. If you had done that to her....10 people would be hunting you down...she does that to you and almost everybody forgives her. Oye oye. I'm glad you walked away. It takes strength to walk away from someone getting verbally violent and insulting to you!!! There is a difference of being a coward and not facing up to things VERSUS realizing the person does not see you as a human being, mows you down and expects you to still stay there?!?!

Sorry for the superlong post...making up for 2 years of not saying anything online. God bless your process of healing from so many losses Danielle.

Dear Danielle,

Your Children are blessed to have you as a Mother. It's clear as day how much You love Them. You've raised them to have manners and a good sense of humor. I can tell they are happy and I applaud you.

Women are intelligent people, filled with a lot of expressive emotions. They are loving, kind, nurturing and giving as a whole, but sometimes they make mistakes though their intentions may be good. It's not a big deal. Life goes on. Each and every one of us have made mistakes in our lives; therefore, we must be tolerant of other people's mistakes. Don't judge these Women, people. Honestly. At the end of the day, they are good people and they mean well. Who here can say they've always remained mature in times they felt they were being wronged by someone? Who here can raise their hands and say they've never made a mistake, gotten upset over something small, or gossiped a little here and there?

Sometimes we do get a little hurt and want to strike back, but all of us, each and every one of us have one thing in common: we just want to be accepted and loved.

Danielle, you're a sexy Woman, a loving Mom, and an interesting and passionate human being. The stuff from your past isn't the worst a Woman could have done. I can tell you're a different person. Keep doing what you're doing.

I understant having a hard life I have not had an easy one my self but I have to tell you let it go if you live in the past it will alway haunt you so let it go.

I just hope you get a new CHANEL bag.... i'm sure that one is TIIIIRED of being carried EVERY DAAAY..... poor lil thing

And bring Dina back!

Dear Danielle
A quick post will see if they post it chuckles..
I am glad You held Your own with the Big talk with C,, do Ya feel spanked ..(((( NOT))I feel sad for C she thinks that she is soo powerful and that You should tuck your tail between Your legs and run... You are who you are and what ya get is what ya get and C is the real trash Not You. and You have more heart and soul than any of the others..
Best wishes for what ever it is You deside to do..

Danielle
Girl you are the greatest................I luv luv luved the episode tonight. You stood your ground and you did it with such grace!
Caroline thinks she is a Boss and yeah who is she to judge you when half the time she was not even there when the others were stomping on you. She needs to keep her big nose out of this B.S. and mind her own business.
Theresa is a snob that only believes her own lies, and Jack-o-latern (well I use to like you) needs to get a hobby! Just how do these men in their lives put up with them.

I will miss you next season, and I doubt if I will even be their fan......moving on with my own life ti better things than to listen to the New Jersey mob think they run the town.
Best wishes and I hope that you and your children much success. For this I truly think they are jealous of your family that has proved so much to each other and succeeded. Love and Light girl you deserve it............
P.S. I loved when you said "Round them up" LOL
Shirlee from Allentown,Pa.

Danielle for the most part I like you but I don't like the negative light that you have concerning Caroline,Teresa ,and the others .I know it hurts when people don't except you for who you are ,but there is a blessing in every nightmare so don't worry God has a blessing for you .Remeber keep changing keep growing and leave those negative people and arguments behind.
If they don't like you that is their problem not yours let them carry that burden.
God Bless,,let all negative people go they are not worth your peace of mind .

Danielle, I think you are a brave person. I am just watching what the network shows us but wow you are only one and you have shown a tremendous amount of strength. I don't think that I've ever watched an episode where you have attacked anyone physically or verbally first. Love that you turned the tables on Caroline and asked her to come up with one incident like she did to you, she couldn't then began taking shots to get you fired up. Stay strong and stay away from that drama your family is better off. We all have are faults it is what makes us human. However, what we do with those faults is what makes us extraordinary.

Danielle you create your own drama. Good luck finding your mother.

Danielle I want to start off saying I love you and I want to say that once you leave the show you watch and see don't they turn on each other. So maybe it is a good thing for you to leave so that the world can really see just how close their family pretends to be. They are all full of crap and they throw it off on you like you are the bad one and they never did anything. Keep your head high and keep doing your thing, love your style, and you are the best out of them all

If someone calls you names or try to talk down to you, you are supposed to walk away because that situation is counterproductive. Danielle wasn't running from Caroline because if she was, she would have never met up with her in the first place. When you resort to name calling that shows a lack of verbal and intellectual ability to express yourself. Danielle tried to refrain from name calling during the discussion because she was trying to have a mature conservation. But she was not going to OBEY Caroline's orders and that's when Caroline resorted to name calling. Why should Danielle drop the charges and Ashley is not even the least bit remorseful about what she has done?

There would be no show w/out you Danielle... the others are such a snoozefest! Keep doing what your are doing and to hell w/all the others who dont like it... we are tired of all this ganging up on Danielle bs...I prob wont watch the next season if your arent a part of it but I wish you the best in whatever you do!

She talks to an energist and then they both talk about her mafia - how twisted is that!

Danielle I think your just loony you follow the others around showing up where ever they are and think they are out to get you

Then you have want to be Maffiaso going to protect you , mobs of bikers
If they do not get you off this show I am done watching
get a life

I have to admit last season Danielle you seemed like a trouble maker. This
season the others are just trying to start trouble - the Teresa episode at the
country club is an example - she knows she was not trying to be nice. Teresa
seems to get mad whenever the truth is stated - when Danielle said her house
was in foreclosure she blew up and last season she blew up when Danielle said
pay attention. I would not be surprised if Bravo wants them to initiate this to keep viewers watching. Without Danielle there is no drama and therefore no show.
I would leave the show then they have to get another villan. None of these
women are classy it's pretty sad but keeps us watching becasue of the drama!!

Thank you for taking the high road, Danielle, in your season ending visit with Caroline. Caroline was way out of line, but you did not allow her to bait you into being as inappropriate as she was.

Food for thought...perhaps she blogs about her "personal endeavors" and not about the show because in retrospect, after watching the shows, she realizes that she has totally been WRONG about all her assumptions about everyone else? Caroline Manzo has NOT been the "mastermind" behind the "attacks" on D? The Brownstone and their personnel were NOT behind what went down at the charity event? And on and on and on...Danielle...please accept responsibility for your own paranoia...Own it. Embrace it. Accept it.

food for thought...perhaps she blogs about her "personal endeavors" and not about the show because in retrospect, after watching the shows, she realizes that she has totally been WRONG about all her assumptions about everyone else? Caroline Manzo has NOT been the "mastermind" behind the "attacks" on D? The Brownstone and their personnel were NOT behind what went down at the charity event? And on and on and on...Danielle...please accept responsibility for your own paranoia...Own it. Embrace it. Accept it.

Danielle, I will keep you in prayer. You have alot going on in your life, and I pray that you find the peace and harmony you so desperately seek. Concentrate on your children and the success they have found. Protect them from harm and be their mother. Move on with your life and concentrate on those in your life that bring you happiness. I have to admit, I am not a fan of yours, however, I can respect that you have children and a right to live your life however way you want to live it. Do you and move on. Good Luck in all that you do.

You're an angry person. I understand why. It hurts too much to let your guard down. They did come after you, but you also did start some crap at the Brownstone. You said some awful things about Chris and Ashley. Own it. Be accountable and then continue to work on your anger and hurt. You really have come along way since the beginning of the season. I'm looking forward to seeing you keep it together at the reunion.

Just watched the finale...You stayed calm and really did take the high road. Good for you for walking out when Caroline called you garbage. What a bully she is. And best line of the night, from you to Caroline..."You're calling me a clown?...who has the orange hair?" HYSTERICAL.

Hi Danielle,
I think you only have a need to be accepted. Try to realize you have an
amazing life with just you and your daughters, who needs to be accepted
by a bunch of mafia uneducated lowlives, they are really not worth speaking
and wasting time talking about. Stay focused on your daughters!!!

Love Danielle Staub! She makes the show! She is not garbage, she is genuinely a nice person, but has had a troubled past. She can't be judged by that. It's in the past and should stay there. Without her, the show would be super boring!

loved u first season, now truely believe u r certifiable!!! but your children are beautiful! God bless them and keep them!

I don't know how you held it together tonight.
You have the class and "Clownie" was seeing red.

Danielle....the winner!

GO DANIELLE!! ALL THE WAY FROM TEXASGO DANIELLE!! ALL THE WAY FROM TEXASGO DANIELLE!! ALL THE WAY FROM TEXASGO DANIELLE!! ALL THE WAY FROM TEXAS

Danielle, I am noone to judge but you definitely put your business out there for all to see. I think you are a dramatic person who is very jealous and envious of the other girls. You have 2 beautiful good girls, invest your time into those pretty young ladies. Leave the Manzo's alone, Caroline was so right, if you can't get to the adults you go straight for the kids. C'mon are you serious, you just insulted Theresa's gorgeous daughters by trying to call them dogs. You are a piece of work!

The reason why it makes sense for Danielle to leave the show, is that she's burned her bridges with all the housewives and then some. There is no more interaction left between her and these women. Danielle needs to take time off to visit a shrink and get her head on straight.

Danielle, if you get your own show I would watch it!!! I would love to see you find your mother in the show. I think it would bring the entire nation to tears of joy for a woman whose had such a hard life to finally meet her mother, especially if that mother was happy to see you.
I saw the season finale where Caroline called you garbage. It is she who is garbage for calling you that. You were so classy in how you reacted to her. I'm impressed with your patience with these women. Stay the way you are - patient and classy. One day you will have a beautiful large family of your own who are as sweet and nice as your girls are. Be patient...good things come to those who wait right?

After watching the showdown between D and Kim G, I was struck by how much this mirrored the last meeting between D and Dina. The roles were reversed. Dina was trying to speak to D and D went nuts. D was trying to speak to Kim G and Kim G went nuts. Are the writers recycling scripts?

Do NOT drop the charges against Ashley!!!!!

I am not 1 to trash another ; nonetheless, I find Danielle to be a little extreme. Danielle showed her true insanity when she showed up at a public venue with ex-cons and Hell's Angles . She impressed me ; Danielle is not 1 to mess with. With that said, she has very respectable and well mannered daughters.
If it weren't for the rest of the cast of the show, I wouldn't watch it. Caroline and her family are cool. Teresa and Jaqcueline are are hilarious and hot looking. Their families are also very respectable, too. Hopefully if Danielle doesn't return for Season3 , BRAVO will bring Dina to the show back because she is hot looking and has a lot of class.

You are an amazing person and that shows even on tv. The others are jealous of you and your family. If you do not return for another season, I wish you the best of luck on your future endeavors, and hope to see a show with just you and your family in it. You made real housewives of new jersey, the others were just loony backstabbers.

A friend here. Hi D. I'm truly someone who has watched all the shows and carefully tried to figure it all out. Listen to me. This is coming from my heart. You've clearly had a tough time growing up... no doubt about it. It seems to me you had to take care of yourself at an early age - what could you do? You made mistakes. Probably lied to get what you needed. Probably had to do some stuff you wish you didn't. Hopefully over time you'll learn that you don't have to do that anymore. I truly hope you can find your birth Mom and find some peace. For some reason it ddoesn't happen - move on. You tried. Also, I think your girls are amazing. They are beautiful and sweet and I think you try very, very hard, with all you have, to be a good Mom. Also, what Ashley did was inexcusable, I felt bad for everyone involved, but mostly for you because I felt, in this instance you did not deserve that at all.

Here's the deal, if you want people to love and respect you and be a true friend - love and respect them back. First. Unconditionally. Don't assume they don't like you, don't assume anything. Don't listen to other people's viewpoints... take only in consideration exactly what the person gives you him/herself. Only assume they are telling you the truth. Look for the good in others and ignore the bad. Truly believe in love and light. Really breathe it. Don't just give it lipservice. Be sweet. Give don't take. Life will get better if you follow these rules. I swear.

I wish you much luck in your future. I hope you figure out how to move on without the drama in your life. For your kids sake, if not for yours.

Let me start by saying, I am not a fan of yours. With that, I think you have done an excellent job in raising your girls. You should be so proud. Both of them are insightful, considerate young ladies for their ages. I always enjoy watching them on TV unlike the other kids on the show. I know there is hope for our next generation when I see examples of young people like your daughters. Despite your issues and you do have some, I know you can't be as misguided as portrayed on TV with children like yours to show for your efforts. As the seasons go on, I've lost respect for almost all of the other cast members as their true colors show.

Danielle, from watching the shows, I can see you are a good person at heart and a lot of the drama is blown out of proportion and mostly misunderstanding on both sides. But if you really love your children and want what is best for them, you should leave this negative nonsense behind you and surround yourself with good people. I don't think you are ever going to get the acceptance from your peers on this show, and it is time to move on to bigger and better things for you and your girls. From one Jersey mother to another, no one's acceptance is worth your sanity.

Daniella,
I want you to now that I know exactly what you are going thru. Im the out cast in my family and because of that Im shund in a lot of ways. I was molested from Kindergarden to 8th grade and yes someone knew about it and blamed me, a 7 year old! So , I know what its like to have the world think you are dirt. Your not. Believe me! I know dirt and you ain't dirt! I learned a long time ago that the only way someone can hurt you is if YOU allow them to. Don't allow them too. If you leave the show, please don't allow them to think they won. Won what? Life isn't a game! But, Bravo likes to produces shows like it is. No one wins in this show. Everyone looks like wanna be Maffia Queens and that ain't cool! I'm praying for you Danielle, because you are a person. And that HAS to count for something!