Theresa,,,,you need counseling...you should not have said anything to your brother about his wife. you don't have any proof that she would leave him for anyone else and that was wrong. Stay out of his life. If you don't want to go to counseling with him and support him because he wants you in his life, then stop dogging out his wife. He's obviously think that there is something in the past in your relationship that he want to get past. It' unfortunate that you don't want to discuss it with him and in front of a third party. What do you have to lose. I saw a different side of you on celebrity apprentise, they pushed you around like it was nothing, but on your own show you dont even want to listen to your best friend's opinion. Humble yourself. it's your brother. He's happy, let him be happy.