Hey Jackie, (Bravo please post, you never post my comments!!) I was crying like a baby when I saw how painful this was for you dealing with Ashley. I have an 18 year old daughter and had her at nearly 20 years of age. I would be so destroyed if my daughter treated me as Ashley treats you. My daughter said that if she had made the comments to me that Ashley had made to you, she would have made them as she was running out the door because if she had been near me, she would not have teeth or face after saying those things. She is so ungrateful and selfish. I know you recognize it but it's sill hard for others to make those comments and you can't help but get a little defensive. That' understandable. You are going to have to show her tough love and allow her to live her life as she pleases and find her way. She will appreciate you then. You are a great mother and I absolutely love your husband. He is so supportive. As far as Teresa, you've never been one to address drama, on the contrary, you've always refrained from involving yourself in it. Teresa is on a "crazy" trip right now, let her be. Dont even address her again. Not worth your time. You have two beautiful sons and a loving husband that obviously love you. That is a blessing and a handful. Good luck with Ashley.