I guess its a good thing I don't watch this show. Because after reading this blog I find it ridiculous. First of all if my sibling hears rumors about my spouse and possibly cheating and not tell me, I would be mad. If you really wanted to stay neutral here is something you need to learn. First you need to tell that person if they have an issue with someone they should talk to that person directly, and say that to Melissa also. Because you are creating drama, and if you talk crap about someone to one person, it only means you will talk crap about that person you are initially talking to with someone else eventually. Which you already proved. Basically you aren't very trust worthy. This show is either really scripted or you and Caroline have issues. Because everything you mentioned in this blog, only shows that you aren't a very true friend, that you are a follower. You jump on whatever boat Caroline is on.