Teresa ~ you claim that you don't 'bad mouth' others...well, then what was that snide remark about "Skinny Girl"?

Also, please tell me you were playing it up for the camera when you asked Joe "What's a vineyard"? You don't just have difficulty pronouncing certain words - Even a third grader knows what a vineyard is!

You need to get over yourself, take a good look at yourself in the mirror (with your 1990's "Nicky Newark" wardrobe, and get rid of that husband of yours...he's a disgrace!

^ Love love love Teresa, and her beautiful kids

Hey Teresa,

I think that you've just written one of the most positive blogs you've ever done.  Happiness is a good look on you.  They say that whatever you send out into the universe comes back to you, so being supportive and encouraging to others can only bring you joy in return.  You've had a lot of challenges and a lot amazing opportunities, but enjoy all the fruits of your labor and stay in this good place.  And remember, ain't no misbehavin! :)

Bravo Andy, if you read this... here is a great idea for a TV show.  Make a new show based on Gia's dance competitions and her T.R.U.E. dance team members with Teresa and the other moms.  Anything other than that horrible Dance Mom Abby Lee Miller!!  I'd watch Gia and Teresa in this spin-off.  Andy, if this gets green-lit, please remember me and all I ask is a sneak peek (behind the scenes) with my family of some taping on the set of the new spin-off. *grin*

Gia is smokin!!!! That girl can move....Always proud to see the kids take the show....love her!

I cant believe Im saying this but Teresa YOU WERE 1000% right in what youve been trying to tell the world about MELISSA....

Melissas entire storyline is about HOW IMPORTANT SHE NOW THINKS SHE IS BECAUSE OF HER POPSTARDOM (that she thinks she has become).....Shes soooooooooo Important that she needs assistants and make up artists (even for a 6 year old birthday party)!!!! 

Melissa is Sooooooooo Important that Im certain she has a place ready on her mantle for her upcoming Grammmy!!!! 

IVE CONVERTED TO TEAM TERESA!!!!!!! All the way!!!!

You are out there busting your butt because you truly need the money & youve turned your financial issues into a huge learnning experience for your family....BUT melissa is just on stage for her EGO!!!!! 

I love how Vanessa Williams stood up for you, which I find very TRUE when it comes to kids. I'm a parent of three kids....every kid is different and unique in their own ways. I've read and seen how people sometimes can be very NEGATIVE & JUDGEMENTAL about  your  kids. I come from a family of 5 girls and we're all 2-3 yrs difference....TRUST ME, it's NORMAL with the pushing, making trouble to each other and sometimes fighting. We've all grown & have our own lil' family and WE'RE VERY TIGHT/CLOSE. ..KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND CONTINUE TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE....love & prayers =)

Teresa, I think it was HORRIBLE that your sis in law commented on you and your husband living seperate lives and pretending in public.  It didnt look bad on you....it looked bad on HER for desiring to say it and for trying to hurt you. She really is very jealous of you. There would be no other reason for her to want to hurt you.  Im sorry you have to deal with Melissa.

WELL I WAS TOLD IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY  THEN DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL .....!!!!!!!!  

You people act like you are personal friends.  Get a life, it is a tv show, she is not your friend.  This is so stupid.  I am done. bye bye

Your shocked face was not because Milania called Joe a "big poop".  It was because she said that he never wants to see the kids (Melissa and Joe's).  Don't try to spin that one.  If you can't be real then don't be on a reality show.

I credit you for taking care of your family. I do not believe the other 4 ladies could do what you have been doing during difficult times.

Hey Teresa!

I must say that I absolutely understand how you are handling your situation with your friends and family.  I went through a period of time when I had been unexpectedly laid off and I did not disclose or talk about it until I was in a more secure place.  I did not tell my parents because, like you, they are getting older and I did not want them to be concerned with me.  They have taken care of me all my life and now it's my turn to see that they are taken care of....and it's no ones business but my own. 

When I got laid off, I wanted to stay focused and stay positive because all my bills and my well-being had to be on me. It was about survival.  Even tho my friends and family would have exercised concern I'm sure, sometimes peoples concern and worry for you actually creates more worry for yourself. It can be a distraction despite there intentions. I did not shed a tear and I kept a smile on my face....there were only a few handful of people who knew about it and that was because they found out through the grape vine....and even when they got upset for me, I let them know that everything was fine.  I cracked jokes and made the best of it.  I completely understand were you are coming from when that.  

I was in a position where I did eventually had to lean on a family member to help me out.  They took the opportunity to use to try to control me.  Because they knew I was in a vulnerable position, they wanted me to jump when they said jump prior to helping me out.  They also disclosed my situation to another family member who took the opportunity to try to do the same.   I had to find creative ways to bite my tongue and spare my dignity at the same time try to keep myself above water.  

People have absolutely know idea the depth of maturity that entails.  And they do not understand that people are only human so if you let it out from time to time, so be it.  

I don't understand why Jacqueline is saying she is acting out of concern.  Me and my friends don't relate that way.  My friends knew something was up without me having to tell them and they supported me in such a quiet and loving way that despite my family mishap, I still felt blessed.  They did not keep harassing me to disclose details.  They did not speculate about anything.  They took me out, got me out of the house, find interesting ways to give me cash that didn't make feel like a charity case, and just tried to keep the humor going.  

Occasionally I would treat myself to something nice, because I did end up finding a part-time job in the interim.  Even though my funds were still tight. And it was no ones business but my own. It doesn't effect anyone but me.  My friends understand we are all adults and it is not their job to parent me.  They know just to be supportive.  

Jacqueline didn't just disagree with you.  She judged you.  And that's the point she is missing.  It's okay to disagree but when you add judgement, as a friend, that's where the disloyalty comes in.  It's like if she and Ashley got into an argument where you felt she may have been wrong and told her.  If she took your advice then good for her.  If she doesn't then best of luck to her in her situation.  At the end of the day, it's not about you. But you would not get so personally involved and emotionally childish to the point you'd tell her that you questioned her character because she did not take your advice...then proceed to go tell Ashley how wrong her mom is.  That would have been soooooo disrespectful. 

I took the time out to write this long message because I wanted you to know that people may say you are crazy or whatever....but they do not realize their are many people who have had the rug pulled out of them and are dealing with issues of support and survival.  And I think you are a good testament to being able to show their story.  

I would take the advice of the therapist tho...I think all he was trying to say was that you have to stop letting people get to you.  Yes, you have to stand up for yourself but you do not realize that you are doing exactly what you want them to do.  They want you to react so they can call you the fool.  They want to be able to say "See, see how she really is?  I told you."  Don't give them that benefit.  Let your success say everything. 

Enjoy your life Babydoll!

Hey Teresa!

I must say that I absolutely understand how you are handling your situation with your friends and family.  I went through a period of time when I had been unexpectedly laid off and I did not disclose or talk about it until I was in a more secure place.  I did not tell my parents because, like you, they are getting older and I did not want them to be concerned with me.  They have taken care of me all my life and now it's my turn to see that they are taken care of....and it's no ones business but my own. 

When I got laid off, I wanted to stay focused and stay positive because all my bills and my well-being had to be on me. It was about survival.  Even tho my friends and family would have exercised concern I'm sure, sometimes peoples concern and worry for you actually creates more worry for yourself. It can be a distraction despite there intentions. I did not shed a tear and I kept a smile on my face....there were only a few handful of people who knew about it and that was because they found out through the grape vine....and even when they got upset for me, I let them know that everything was fine.  I cracked jokes and made the best of it.  I completely understand were you are coming from when that.  

I was in a position where I did eventually had to lean on a family member to help me out.  They took the opportunity to use to try to control me.  Because they knew I was in a vulnerable position, they wanted me to jump when they said jump prior to helping me out.  They also disclosed my situation to another family member who took the opportunity to try to do the same.   I had to find creative ways to bite my tongue and spare my dignity at the same time try to keep myself above water.  

People have absolutely know idea the depth of maturity that entails.  And they do not understand that people are only human so if you let it out from time to time, so be it.  

I don't understand why Jacqueline is saying she is acting out of concern.  Me and my friends don't relate that way.  My friends knew something was up without me having to tell them and they supported me in such a quiet and loving way that despite my family mishap, I still felt blessed.  They did not keep harassing me to disclose details.  They did not speculate about anything.  They took me out, got me out of the house, find interesting ways to give me cash that didn't make feel like a charity case, and just tried to keep the humor going.  

Occasionally I would treat myself to something nice, because I did end up finding a part-time job in the interim.  Even though my funds were still tight. And it was no ones business but my own. It doesn't effect anyone but me.  My friends understand we are all adults and it is not their job to parent me.  They know just to be supportive.  

Jacqueline didn't just disagree with you.  She judged you.  And that's the point she is missing.  It's okay to disagree but when you add judgement, as a friend, that's where the disloyalty comes in.  It's like if she and Ashley got into an argument where you felt she may have been wrong and told her.  If she took your advice then good for her.  If she doesn't then best of luck to her in her situation.  At the end of the day, it's not about you. But you would not get so personally involved and emotionally childish to the point you'd tell her that you questioned her character because she did not take your advice...then proceed to go tell Ashley how wrong her mom is.  That would have been soooooo disrespectful. 

I took the time out to write this long message because I wanted you to know that people may say you are crazy or whatever....but they do not realize their are many people who have had the rug pulled out of them and are dealing with issues of support and survival.  And I think you are a good testament to being able to show their story.  

I would take the advice of the therapist tho...I think all he was trying to say was that you have to stop letting people get to you.  Yes, you have to stand up for yourself but you do not realize that you are doing exactly what you want them to do.  They want you to react so they can call you the fool.  They want to be able to say "See, see how she really is?  I told you."  Don't give them that benefit.  Let your success say everything. 

Enjoy your life Babydoll!

Teresa, I could hardly watch last seasons reunion show because the other four housewives ganged up on you. Sorry Andy, but you didn't help matters. (And I love Andy) The way they acted I was almost afraid to watch this season because I thought you must have done something terrible to them. and since you are my favorite housewife, I just didn't want to see you fail. I kept trying to "read between the lines" but all I saw was how genuine you are and how phony and mean they are. I am so happy to see how hard you have worked, how adorable your children are, and I love your husband and how real he is. Your kids crack me up! i raised five rambuntious children and I know how hectic it can be...but treasure these times...it goes by so fast. i won't rehash what all your supporters witnessed this season, but you have demonstrated what a strong woman you are to overcome all the adversity and still shine! PS I am a little worried that you will be attacked this reunion show, also, but at least you be ready for it and the fans know the truth this time around!

Teresa I just want to say to you that you should continue to ignore those four toxic women. Stay way from them. They are absolutely obsessed with you and your family and everything you do.. they continuously post about YOU and continously knock you down and always bring you up. You don't do that. I almost fell off of my chair when Melissa said in her blog that it must be tiring for you to worry so much about her life.. yet you dont post or blog or give nasty interviews about her. I have even seen you in a clip showing your shore house and at the end told everyone to go buy her on display song. I have never seen Melissa tell people to go buy your book.  I have seen her do nothing but knock you down and what bothers her and them is that you do not stay down, you wipe yourself off and get right back up. You don't engage them, you don't attack your sister in law in blogs and magazines and twitter like she and her sisters do to you.

When people like that do not get a reaction out of you it makes them angrier. Look at Jaqueline and what she has become. She is the perfect example of what happens when you don't engage her in her ongoing attacks against you in her blogs. The woman is delusional and has completely lost any sense of reality, and I am proud of you that you keep living life with your husband and beautiful daughters. I know it's difficult to go thru what you are going thru, especially knowing that it is your own brother.. but Teresa you have to continue to distance yourself from him and his wifewhen it comes to a personal relationship.. They are toxic to you right now, any family that will go to the lengths that they went to for their 15 minutes of fame is not someone you need to be around right now. They are on their 14th minute and not many people buy their innocent crap anymore.. He said you have to fall, I disagree. He and his wife need to fall and maybe then he will realize what he did to his sister and to his parents. He needs to come to you, as much as you want to fix this relationship, you cant right now and sadly I think you know that. This is not for you to fix. He an his wife created this and they need to fix it and come to you and apologize. I dont see that happening anytime soon an for that I am sorry for you. When you watch them on the show almost every scene with them anf the others is just scripted anymore.. nothing is real with them anymore, Everything they do is for the audience and it's sad. But thankfully it also woke many people up into seeing what they really are.

When you film the reunion show you have got to stay strong teresa. DO NOT get flustered on that stage! You are going to be attacked from every side and we all know it. It will be all of them against YOU and you alone. They are not going to do anything but go against you. The reunion will be all of them against you, only this time so many people know exactly who and what they are. You cannot let them make you defensive! You have got to play offense Teresa, you have got to put them on the defense and make them answer for what they have done!  Do not give them a pass and do not let them gang up on you, OR talk over you!! Do not allow that to happen! I dread this reunion for you. I really do, BUT I also know you have so many people that are on your side and many people on your side right now were not on your side even a year ago. People have watched and read what your family and those phony friends did to you and many people have realized what scum bags they are. Remember you are not alone.  We love you and we pray for you. Most of all I want nothing more than for you to go on that stage and expose each and every one of them. Remember Tre, OFFENSE not defense.

Big huuuugs coming your way!!

Can I just have some fun? I mean c'mon, these lasies are getting so predictable, and obviously by the landslide of support for Teresa since now we can see how many agree with the posts that go up, I just want to partake in some fun. I'd like to play "Guess How Melissa Will Passive Aggresively Attack Next!" It's just a fun little game that lightens the load shall we say. Okay,we see on this very next episode, that Gia remarks about Melissa and autotune. I'd like to play my "Melissa Game" and venuture to guess what she'll  write!  Here's MY guess (viewer clears throat and writes as Melissa)

"While I simply do not understand why Teresa can't understand that all Joey and I ever wanted was the family to be close again, it saddened me to hear my niece talk about auto tune. Children say what they live, so I'm just wondering where she got that? Oh well, we'll just keep being there for Teresa, and hope one day she understands"   (viewer yells "Scene!")

The problem is Melissa, my nine year old has made a comment about you and auto tune that she heard on a Comedy channel. I don't allow her to watch your show, so I'm guessing if my nine year old knows the joke, I'm sure Gia hears it Everywhere too!  And if that's the worst thing Gia says about you after what you have put her immediate family though, well then hats off to her.

Shout Out 2 Gia Giudice and the T.R.U.E. dance crew at the Monsters of Hip Hop Dance Convention in Florida!!! G..to the IA!  We love you Gia!!

I saw Saint Caroline on the Bethenny Show last week.  Once again she was bad-mouthing you and your allged lack of character.  What sort of character does Caroline have to keep bashing her co-cast member and mother of 4 children on nat'l tv?  Or who won't admit, now that the facts have come out, that your family did do many mean things to you and that you have very good reason to be angry with them.  She then tried to make herself look even more saintly by saying that she feels bad that the fans are fighting and attacking each other. She said she doesn't care if they attack her but doesn't want them to attack each other.  Pul-eeeeeze!  That is so transparent. What she really wants is to maintain her saintly image, gain a larger fan base and wreck your fan base and that's not very saintly.  Saints are humble and forgiving and Caroline is neither.  If she were, she would admit she was wrong about your family.