Melissa Gorga

Melissa Gorga explains why she didn't trust Amber Marchese.

on Aug 12

Hi everyone!

Let's just get right into the episode. I will admit sometimes I'm not a fan of writing these blogs, because you have to put yourself back in the mindset you had when these situations happened. I deal with a situation and move on. Life is too short, and when you feel there is someone around you that's not going to be a positive in your life, then why bother?

This is how I feel when it comes to Amber. I feel like she came back into my life with so many negative things to say about me and negative feelings. I don't buy that she just wanted to rekindle our friendship and make me "her friend of the year." I don't see her trying to be my friend at all. 

Amber wants to act as if I'm not loyal? Well, where is her loyalty to me? Was she being loyal when she came right off the bat saying that I married my husband for money? Is she being loyal when she came on accusing me of being a horrible friend, after not seeing me for close to ten years and accusing me of not being there for her when she had cancer? No, I don't see that as a friend trying to rekindle a friendship at all. I see it as an old friend coming around to try to throw me under the bus. And there is A LOT you didn't get to see, so no, I don't believe Amber has nothing but good intentions.

Amber has also been ranting in her blogs and on Twitter, trying to remind everyone how our family had so many problems and that MUST make me a bad person and somehow prove that she and her husband are justified in their actions. Amber, do me a favor and stay out of my family business. It has nothing to do with you and you don't know the true details. You were a guest at my wedding ten years ago and never even met my children. So the ONLY things you know about what has been happening in MY life is by watching our show as a fan for the past three seasons.