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I love Gretchen and I think Tamara is a bit jealous of her. She seems to have low self esteem. She is gross for the way she is mean to Gretchen. If Gretchen was a "gold digger" then I dont think Jeffs children would like her and they seem to get along great. Get over yourself she doesn't want to be like you. She just gets what she wants and you don't. lol

I suggest you worry about your own life, instead of Gretchens'. What is your son up to? Oh yeah...nothing. And who in their right mind would give you a book deal? What story do you have to tell? Your only concern in life seems to be what Gretchen is doing. How is Jay btw? lol your best bud..

i reaallly hope you call out gretchen this next season because i just heard she is signing on for the next season. good job bravo shes is naked in a bunch of pictures and its clearly her i wonder how she is going to lie to try to get herself out of this one.

Damn girl you crack me up. I love the fact that you are so abrupt and you own it!!At first I didn't like you but no one likes me when they first meet me either- oh well. You just crack me up!!! Hope to one day run into you at the River!!!!

I just had the chance to watch the reunion show. Your behavior is defiantly not a good look for you. Why are you so mean and vindictive? Stop worrying about what Gretchen is doing...

Getting older is a privilege not a curse... Embrace the love and beauty that surrounds you...

Your're my absolute favorite! I didn't want to like you but you won me over. Can't wait for more!!!

I don't know why some of you are so judgemental. Tamara didn't say anything crude or immoral, as some of you stated. She speaks like most people do on a daily basis.
Stop being so sensitive. If you don't like it, don't watch and don't read. If you insist on it, toughen up!
Besides, though I LOVE Housewives OC, (the others only TRY to be as interesting!) IT IS A SHOW! DRAMA!

Haha Raquel is so on!! Your 15 minutes of fame should so be over, why don't you turn some of the observations you have on your life and the way you behave. You must have so much to do if you can sit down and watch an episode three times, your life must be so full and complete. Please take a moment to get over yourself.

Tamra you really need to take a deep look at yourself, you are not setting a very good example for your children at all with the way you behave and treat people. You are a two faced jealous person and it will do nothing but hold you back in life until you let it all go. The way you have treated Gretchen has been absolutely pathetic and I honestly haven't seen behaviour like that since I was in high school. Those viewers that look up to you really need to watch the season again and really take a long hard look at who you really are.

hahaha oh Tamra you're hilarious. I would definitely buy your book about getting prego at 18.

HAHAHAHA.

i love you Tamra! It is so true that Bethenny is the show and she's single! that's hilarious.

Tamra,

You really are a piece of work. Please point your high powered perception at the ridiculous way you behave on your own show and leave the ladies of NYC alone. They are fine. Kelly is not my favorite on the show but she has great style and the horse sculpture in her living room probably cost more than your implants and pseudo dinner party combined. Bethenny out classes you on every level... And you are jealous of Gretchen. Own it and get over it.

I'm in Love.

Yeah I agree I always wondered why Bethany was even on there since she is single but now they have Kelly who is single also? Go figure?

I can't stand Ramona,she really gets on my nerves with her eyes always way too open and her big mouth in which she always inserts her Foot!

I can't wait to see the next episode of the NJ housewives, talk about ghetto trash OMG!

My parents live near Laughling Nevada, I watch every episode you guys have and watch them over and over. I remember you and Simon went to Lake Havasu and made it look like so much fun. I just got back from visiting my parents and I HAD TO GO TO LAKE HAVASU... I needed to see the Naked Turtle Bar you guys made it look like so much fun, plus I had to cross my fingers hoping you guys might just happen to be there! YOU and VICKI THE ABSOLUTE GREATEST! VICKI "Whatever" ahahahahaah

Tamara I think you Vicki and Laurie are the main part of the show. I miss Laurie,but understand why she is away.Can't wait for her to come back.Tamara I have alot in comin with you. I really look up to you.Vicki you and Tamara really expire me. My dreams are wondering what a life chance I would have if my life was like you guys. I live in a small town of South Carolina. Don't really have all the expericenes you guys have. Gretchen and Lynn are not really for the show you can tell they don't fit in. I watch every show. I can't wait until the next show. I hope all you well and good luck.Take care of yourself.

sincerily, Tammy

I know you said that you liked the pink sweaters on Kelly's daughters..but, How did you like the TACKY pink rain boots Kelly wore this week on her date!!!(with a green mini dress? Huh??) She was a fashion model???

Bethany is one of the best on the show. At least she isn't being fake like you are.

your a legend in your own mind I hate people like you

OMG. I think I'm going to make this blog my homepage. HILARIOUS!

Tamara, to be honest I thought you were very nasty to Gretchen most of the season. I think you are probably a bit insecure with her being the more attrative blonde of the group now. I think your time would be more well spent observing the fact that you might not like Gretchen because she gets everything and all the attention YOU crave. Plus you didnt exactly "out" Gretchen. Everyone has skeletons in thier closet and I dont buy the whole "just having fun" thing on that night you tried to get her stupid drunk. If you dont care for her character why did you pretend to be her friend most of the season? You really are a bit two faced.

Tamra...don't listen to the rest of them. You are my absolute favorite. The Housewives of NY are so boring compared to OC..plus not near as hot. Keep it hot,Keep the attitude, and keep it real=0)

Tamra:
You really need a reality check. Being on reality television has not been a learning experience for you in grace, tact, or good-old fashioned etiquette. Watch the show with objectivity (i.e., your eyes open to your behavior and not your over-done looks) and perhaps you will see how mean, uncouth, and nasty (not in a good way) you appear to viewers. I don't believe that people are being genuine when they give you compliments. I believe that the comments are meant to keep you from being the person you believe that you are, but have not yet become. Wake up!

I just want to say this..I have a husband who has been gone for over a year in the Middle East. I LOVED THE ENTIRE SEASON! I never saw it before. My friend called me and told me about it. I get so sad and lonely. It was one hour a week to sit and relax and not stress over my husband! All my friends said OMG GIRl You are totally Tamra! I said Thank you, to me thats a compliment! Thanks to Bravo and the girls for giving this army wife a smile!!!

FYI Tamra many equestrians have life-sized horse statues in their homes. I can't believe that you have never seen this in California?

honestly I just think your a hater and your jelous of a broad that can do whatever she wants so stop sippin the haterade...hater!

Hellloooo Tamra!!!!

Wow don't I miss you.. I love your blogs!! They keep me sane... you are hysterical! I have watched all of the housewives and Orange County is by far my favorite. I was a little mad this past season about the whole Gretchen ordeal.. but now come to find out she is lower than the ground everyone walks on.. still in shock!!
Keep the blogs coming!!

I have posted two comments, why have you not posted them. Are you a Tamra fan and don't want the negative responses???????????????????????????????????????? Fair? I expect a resonse!

Tamara,
I can't believe that you have the mouth that can let the words "morality" cross your lips. You have no morality what soever? You are the one that pimped your son out and then have the nerve to let the words "MORAL" cross your lips. You are a 2 faced piece????? Like Gretchen or not, your are so phony? You and your friend Vicki.
Vicki who throws her husband under the bus any chance she gets... The one who's loudness out does Gretchen hands down.
Get a live. Or understand what a live is?

Tamra, obviously you have some immense jealousy of single women. I see no problem with a single woman being on the show. Bethany is a breath of fresh air. Actually the whole New York gang is a breath of fresh air since they aren't stabbing each other in the backs all of the time. (example: throwing a party and trying to hook up a woman with your own son. That makes ME sick!) Please, for your own sake, try to examine your own past and figure out why you harbor such jealousy. Why would it bother you that someone has a Porche? Is it because your husband is a Mercedes Used Car Dealer? Other's cars should have no bearing on your life, so don't take it so personally. Trust me, you'll feel better about yourself if you can embrace all women -- young, old, single, married, divorced, widowed, etc. Jealousy will eat you up inside and eventually it shows on your face. I'm not being mean, just telling you like it is.

If you ask me, the New York housewives are the BEST! At least these women have some brains, individuality, and personality. After seeing a few episodes of the Orange County show I was disgusted... The New York girls do some good in this world, which is more than I can say for the blond bimbos with fake boobs in Orange County. (I can't tell one from the other until they open their mouths) It's refreshing to see women of different sizes, looking like real women, such as the New Yorkers are. Some have big boobs, some small ones.. some have dark hair, and some blond, but they don't all try to look alike... also, they don't try to hurt each other intentionally. (But I do think Ramona should move to Orange County... she's a perfect addition to their crew!) The New York Housewives RULE.

LOL Bumping fuzzies, ewwwwww!!! I miss the Orange County Housewives!!! NY is soooooo boring, and none of the women except B have any good looks, OR class. They seem very trashy. Cant wait for OC to come back! (without Gretchen)

I love orange county houseviwes. this was my first season watching. can't wait till it comes back. new york i tried no go.

I LOVE YOUR BLOGS! I'm glad your blogging in on this season, it's the most hilarious part. I never thought you were mean or hateful. And I'm glad you let everything off your chest on the reunion show. Gretchen sucks! TEAM TAMRA!

Tamara,

You said it! All the housewives in New York what is a single girl doing on the show? I have been thinking that too. Since I couldn't get myself to get into the show's 1st season (tried to watch few times but could only take few min before I had to change the channel),I thought Bethany must have been divorced or engaged at least. Sort of like the Jo in the Real Housewives of OC. Btw, that shouldn't count! Jo was a real Put Up or Bought off Woman of the OC at the max.

Besides none of the NY housewives are typical of New York. The reason I like Real Housewives of OC so much better is because you girls are so much truer to your roll and (excuse me for saying) the generalization. NY has too many different mix of people, in terms of back ground, culture, education, money... there is no way to pick out few and have them truly be the representatives of NY Housewives. So in return we got the Real Want to be s and the show offs of NY. The real riches of NYC will never talk about their money, the real socialites are not fans of that name. And most of New York house wives are nothing like them. I should know, because I am a Manhattan Housewife myself.

It's called a verp. Little vomit little burp.

LOL you are hilarious!! Great blog yet again this week!

Tamra,
If you wrote a book, I would totally buy it. You are halarious and I love reading your blog. You should just write about your life experiences, or about about you and Simon. You guys seem to have a really solid relationship and I really admire that.

> I love the fact that you "outed" Gretchen on the reunion. even from the beginning, I knew that there was something about her. she's fake, and a player.

You rarely saw Lauri because she left the show this season!

Tamra, I loved your blog. You have a real talent writing very witty. I feel for you though, The Wrath you receive from the Wacky Obsessive Gretchen Fans. I don't get why they come here and talk smack. All it does is show how obsessed some of Her fans have become. So sorry! And I think what Viewer wrote on 3/23/09 at 10:24am could be on to something??? Would not surprise me. But I have a Question. Who is Jennifer Dugan?

I have to admit in the beginning I did not care for you to much, but the more I watched about you, the more I liked you! Your real...which you dont see alot of on reality t.v.(especially NYC lol)I think this last season with Gretchen you showed a very immature side to you though. I realize she is young and hot and somewhat a threat to be around, but you took it a little bit to far with your actions, and negative comments you made about her situation. Obviously there is some drama going on behind the scenes that we are just now starting to hear about(Gretchen&Slade are you f-ing kidding me?)so if thats the case then more power to ya sister! And Gretchen deserves everything you did to her!

LOL you were right on the mark

To: Jennifer Dugan
I have written many times since the OC wives began, but, they never post it. When Slade was on that dating show with Jo (before this season of the OC wives began), he wrote in one of his blogs that he was dating a Gretchen Rossi, said how "hot" she was and that we'd see "a lot more of her". I assumed he meant on his show with Jo. Well, when the OC wives came on, I went to his blog and asked about his relationship with her and how did she end up on the OC wives with a fiancee? The next day, his blog was erased!!! He must have been dating Gretchen before or while she was engaged to Jeff. The media is now making it look like she just started dating Slade after Jeff died? That seems to be another ghost in her closet? I am glad that Tamra, Jeana, etc., finally "outed" Gretchen's long bed of lies.. Many of us felt it from episode one, but, no one would answer our questions and it seemed to be swept under the rug to make her look good/like the victim on the OC wives show. Only the "poor Gretchen" comments get posted and we got tired of it and it made us annoyed that the show was becoming too staged/scripted. Check it out and let us know what you find? There seems to be a lot more lies that Gretchen had in her closet/bedroom. Seems like Tamra, Vicki, and Jeana were made to look bad for not accepting her. Anyone who writes stuff about Gretchen never seems to get posted. Glad to see that people like you are finding out the truth..

HAHA! Yeah Tamra! I couldn't agree more! Well actually, unlike you, I can't stand Alex and Simon, but oh well. You're hilarious and I find your blogs to be very amusing.

Bumping fuzzies? Silex?
LOL...priceless!
Thanks for the giggles.

I like the way that you "Called it like you saw it". Keep up the good work.

P.S. Next season, Call it like you see while ON CAMERA... That way, we will all get it sooner. Not to mention the fact that it WILL make for better TV.

I'm just saying!!!!

Take care & keep 'em coming.!!

Tamra- You're the best! I am so you, except for having a child at 18. Which is nothing to be frowned upon about! I agree with you on everything... Keep it up! Fiesty!

Tamra, I think you are right about Luann. They are trying to make her the bad person on the show but I don't think she is. I do get tired of her sometimes but she is not bad.

Tamra -you're cool and definitely a favorite. But, come on...Bethenny is funny, ambitious, smart, and attractive. I never fast forward when Bethenny is on screen and most of my friend think the same thing....so all in all...I'm glad it's the Bethenny show. Her comments crack us up and she never brags...unlike some of the other wives.

Tamra
I absolutely love you. You call a spade a spade. I've watched the HOC since the beginning and you were my favorite addition. Loved Tammy, Quinn had to go for sure!! What was her point ever? My goodnesss how do you deal with Vicki for real. I love her but hate her more! Jeanna is a women to look up to. I do love Bethenny though and besides Jill she is my favorite so maybe let off just a little. I think you're a wonderful person and I envy you and Simons marriage. I am in love with the reunion show. Props to you for calling Gretchen out. You always said it from the beginning and by "golly" you were right!! TEAM TAMRA..... Love ya girl, Kristy from NH

I tottaly agree Tamara! Bethany rules the show. I think she is the most honest and up front woman on there. She reminds me of you on the real housewives of Orange county! Although I'm still on the fence on how I feel about the Countess. She still seems very stuck up.

you go girl! I love ur harsh and honest comments. Besides Jenna I think you are the most honest person on the show. Love watching and looking forward to next season.

where can i find these pics of gretchen and slade?

You are hysterical. I love your blogs....please keep writing them. This is my non-mommy time for the week, my secret obsession. I watch all the housewives and by far orange county is my fav!

Everyone should read Slade's where are they now. He was dating Gretchen while she was on the show with Jeff in the hospital.

Loving your blog this season! You're giving it right back to New York and it's fabulous. But now to the good stuff - any comment on the pictures that surfaced this week of Gretchen and Slade making out on the boat while she's still wearing her "engagement ring" from Jeff?

You used to me my favorite Housewife, then you & Vicky tore Gretchen apart on the Reunion show. Very tacky, very low class. didn't your Mom teach you when you can't say something nice don't say anything at all. You made yourself look very small & I for one lost all respect for the both of you. I hope they think twice about asking you back next season. Let's get some true entertainment, not Tacky, Jealous, Catty women.

NOW I have to agree with you 100% Bethanny Bethanny and more pathetic Bethanny ...to get upset just because of touch ups? hmmm... waht about makeup? makeup! makeup!.. why.... how dare you ask if Im wearing makeup! too funny!! keep up the good blogs love it!! (kelly can take a hike anytime please)

I actually thought that was a funny blog! Especially the horse!

You know, I didn't realize how consumed Real Housewives of New York City is with Bethenny until you mentioned it. It is a little ridiculous. Kind of like Gretchen, who isn't married either????? WEIRD Anyway, Tamra, I have to say that to no surprise you are my favorite housewife! P.S. That diamond bracelet your hubby gave you last season is to die for!!! He is definitely a keeper girlfriend :)

Tamra is going to need therapy. Gretchen is young hot and now with slade! Who's the one that needs to get drunk now Tamraaaaa!!!

You're hilarious & witty! You & Bethany are my all time favorite housewives because of your humor! Love reading your thoughts on the NYC ladies!

Tamra...omg I love you!!! besides being gorgeous...you are so freaking funny...and right...love you...have the best day xoxo~angie(tink!)poof!!!

Oh Tamra,

I LOVE your blogs. You have a great sense of humor and I love that you are blogging for us on the NYC show. Keep up the good work, I look forward to you each week. Laughter is the best medicine.

Becky Z.
:)

How disappointing in Bravo that you were picked to blog about the RHofNYC. I've lost total respect for you during your season of RH and honestly hoped you would go away. Apparently not.

I am dying for someone to address the issue on how much better the NYC wives look compared to the OC wives...everything is so cheap and overdone on the west coast...I much prefer the elegance of the east coast...I don't know, maybe its the sun, but all of the OC wives just look beat up...

anyone else agree?

Tamra, why in the world is there a Real Housewives of New Jersey when there could be a Real Housewives of MIAMI?! What is Bravo thinking? Watching these Jersey girls is going to be like acrylic nails scratching against a chalk board! Loud, tacky and INTOLERABLE!

Any comment on the Gretchen and Slade hook up?

I can not stand housewives of new york! I can't bring myself to watch one entire episode. Can't wait for the next season of orange county!

TAMRA - love ya, i really do.
VICKI - i want to love ya, but you're self!
GENNA - i have simpathy for you, first couple of seasons i just loved ya. but now, this past season, you can see that your unhappy. you need to find self-confidence. but i understand separation isnt easy.
GRETCHEN - your pretty and all. im sure your alot of fun. but i cant stand a liar and a deceiver. those character traits are like tar in your hair.
LAUREN - your nice and all but it just seems that now your just concerned what people think of you and your affraid to give your opinion. this season it seemed you were protecting something. we rarely saw you. not to be mean, i think most of us (viewers) have forgotten you. it just felt like you didnt want to be apart of the show.

AS YOU CAN SEE WHY I LOVE TAMRA, I CALL IT FOR WHAT IT IS, JUST LIKE TAMRA.
TAMRA I CAN RELATE TO YOU ON SO MANY LEVELS. FROM HAVING A CHILD YOUNG AND THE HARDSHIPS (i now have 4 boys), TO PARENTS(mine divorced after 30yrs), RELATIONSHIPS, ETC. I THINK YOU ARE ACTUALLY THE NORMAL ONE ON THE SHOW. REALLY! OH, AND I lOVE YOUR HUMOR! ~i hope you return for the next season~

I agree with another viewer's prior comment on how 99% of the comments to Tamra are the positive ones and, if the rest of us are lucky, will be in that 1% negative comment which appears here. And, we ALL know how many of us wishing our negative slant on Tamra's insecure, petty, jealous and bullying behavior would finally make it to the posting board. Shame on you, Bravo, for putting it all out there on television for the world to see, yet too cowardly to post what we actual viewers really think. Maybe next time...

Damn Girl! High 5!! You sure nailed that right on the head!

Never was your biggest fan as an O.C housewife (maybe editing) but you are spot on w/ New York. Won't badmouth, not my style, love Jill's hair extensions, Bethany's witt, Alex; love to be her weight and the countess...well she has a good housekeeper.

Tamara I love your blog, finally the New York ladies are getting it back, did anyone see Bethanny's blogs about the oc ladies, so shut up! If you dont like her blog dont read it and if you dont like her show dont watch it! I agree with you though, its the real housewives not the single ladies, to be a housewife its custom to be married!!!

I think Tamra is the most fantastic in these blogs.

Too funny and touche!

You have made me laugh with your blog, you are right why a horse in the living room? I am curious to know about the situation between Ramona and Alex, why she always run the other way?

Keep it coming girl. You are funny.
Barbara

Tamra, great blog! I haven't had the chance to view this site and boy, I'm glad I did. I think you should write a book..if those NY "ladies" can, why not you? At least you have a sense of humor and if your blog is any indication as to how great of a read it would be, I say go for it! I will by 10 copies for me and my friends!!! Anyway...I am sure it isn't NEW news to you but OMG I came upon some Gretchen sightings with Slade. Check it!

http://tvwatch.people.com/2009/03/19/oc-housewife-gretchen-slade-continu...

What the hell is going on???? Is this for the upcoming season??? I just can't believe she is up for VERY sloppy seconds and I thought she had no agenda. Now with this..hmmm...disturbing. Drama! AHHH! Can't wait to hear more on all the ladies..If only I lived closer I would be SOOOO excited to be "in the mix" of this controlled chaos.

http://s51.photobucket.com/albums/f385/jendoogie/?action=view&current=je...

Tamra,

You are the best! I would def read a tell all book by you of the experience of filming a show like this and living in it. You are so funny and I love that you called out Gretchen on the reunion. That was needed for the viewers to see and hear about why you didn't trust her. Anyways- looking forward to another wonderful season soon and this whole jersey one coming up. NY is boring this season and I am just waiting for the fight between jill and bethany.

Tamra-
Shut up and stay in Orange County where you belong. As if we didn't get enough of your nasty comments and petty behavior. You are one of the most negative women I have ever "tried" to listen to.

Tamra

You're an awesome woman, You have one of the coolest families ever. You are definitley my favorite OC housewife. Your son is smokin' hot and my boyfriend has the biggest crush on you..actually he thinks all of you are hot, but you're his fav.

Tamra cracks me up. I think she is very honest and down to earth! I like her! I like Gretchen too.

Really, though, don't write a book. No one is going to buy any of these books these loons are cooking up!

Hi Bethany!

Was that you at "Dancing with the Stars?" In the front row on March 16, 2009 behind where the Co-hosts stand talking to the judges?

tamra.......i think ur amazing u are a nice girl........................................and you are sooooooooooooooo fucking funny kepe it up

Tamra,

Spell-check.

P.S. What's with the Housewives of Orange County who aren't even from California, let alone, Orange County?

I think that your blog confirms that you are just an overall petty person, must you try to pick everyone apart...bad enough you are so jealous of Gretchen, with reason she is prettier and has a REAL personality, but now you have to dog the New York ladies. I will keep my fingers crossed that you are gone next season!!

why does bravo only put up the comments that are for Tamara? I wrote one that was totally against here and look there are 10 to 1 for loving her. I liked her in the OC, I just think her ignorance towards NYC is embarrassing and she should have her mistakes pointed out if she wants to put up her comments publicly. Bravo shouldn't pick and choose what is said and by whom it's said, everything should be fair game on the comment board.

Have you seen the pics of Gretchen and Slade on the boat? Wow she is gorgeous with a perfect body, you have to give credit where credit is due.

I bet Tamra is SO jealous of how good Gretchen looks. Gretchen is always at courtside seats to the lakers, fashion shows, yachts......she is living a really good life.

Meanwhile broke, ugly Tamra is stuck in her trailer all day, LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

T- Did you see the latest and greatest photos of your one and only?? Gretchen & Slade?! Barf! What great friend she was to JO!!

Tamra,

Your blog is hilarious. I appreciate you calling everything for what it is....99.9% of the population does NOT live like any of the housewives from NY, ATL, or OC, and I watch the show for some post-work decompression. Anyway, I will never buy a book written by a Bravo TV housewife (no offense intended to any of the housewives, but PLEASE... being on a reality TV show does not give you any credibility)! However, the pure entertainment factor is great!