A Canadian viewer here.

I don't think the show is too long for this world with the upcoming cast changes.

Alex, what will they do without your sanity. You have consistently been a surrogate for the sector of the audience comprised of intelligent, reasonable viewers. We need to see ourselves reflected in the "housewives" or it's just a car wreck one is embarrassed to witness. I don't think the show can withstand the loss of both Bethany and you. This is my last season, too.

Thanks for being you.

This season is just playing in the UK so none the less I am extremely late making this comment. I have to say that throughought the seasons I have liked you (Alex) the most well second to Bettheney of course. I do have a suggestion for you though. You have a problem with delivery when you are in confrontations. This was especially true with the confrontation between you and Luann. You get very flustered and it comes across not geniune; but I am sure that is because you don't like or feel comfortable with comfrontation. You either have to learn better skills or avoid it all together and this goes for defending others (Ramona). I don't mind the hives but your speech was so sporatic and you could tell your thoughts were scattered. Even Cindy felt for you, so much so that I felt she wanted to step in but decided against it. You are nice to attempt to defend Ramona against Luann but it was hard to watch.

Alex,

You are such a nice person, and obviously well spoken, thoughtfull, and intelligent but I don't understand why you keep allowing the others to smack on you. For one Kelly is a weirdo and has the brain of chicken (not much going up there) she should not tell you how you are feeling-she aint a mind reader or a feeling whisperer. Luann with all her talk and pretense of "class" and nobility has become another Jill--mean and vile-her boyfriend seems really nice but I wonder what she sees in her. I think she needs to read her book because during that chat you too had at the restaurant she didn't let you speak and kept interrupting you and attacking you--and i'm certain that is not good, or classy behavior. I only wish you would keep your cool and make your point and not let them controll you like crazy Kelly did and then Luann. I don't know what is happening with Simon and his "meantweeting" I don't know if its true but you should check on that is not right if he is doing it. Have a great rest of the summer.

I really don't read every blog because of not having enough time. However I scan some of them every once and awhile.
Oh I want to say at this time is , LuAnn has a lot of class but it is all "THIRD."

As always, you display that you are the only one of these women with class & elegance, my friend.

I THINK YOU SHOULD STICK TO BEING SUPPORTIVE AND TRY NOT TO RELAY MESSAGES THAT CAUSE ANIMOSITY OR TRYING TO GET THE WOMEN TO TALK TO EACH OTHER, YOU ARE NOT A PEACEMAKER, YOU MAY HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS BUT YOU SEEM TO DO MORE HARM THAN GOOD.

Alex, please let these women fight their own battles, and dont get involved, because you create more problems for yourself, trying to unnessasarily stand up for these clueless women. Luann is a mean girl, i agree. Sometimes you need to step away from the other women because they behave badly. You dont have to sit and listen when the others act like mean girls, but you get so upset you cant talk and they just run over you.

Finally! We got to see Kelly's real (CRAZY) side come back out. I was sort of happy because I thought perhaps she had got some psychological help. When the shhhhing and the "it's weird" and the bizarre eye closing exercises came busting out I thought "oh there is she is--crazy kelly is back." Maybe Kelly is allergic to flying or the foreign water because she doesn't travel well. Alex you really handled her quite well. I may have knocked her down when she started the "Alex, don't do this, I will help you leave." The worst kind of dumb person is the dumb person who thinks she's smart. That's our Krazy Kelly.

Alex, I like you more and more all the time. The "Countess" is really acting "classless" more and more. She is making Jill look like a Saint, and that's hard to do. I can actually see that JIll is getting fed up to her. Even Cindy, I think was embarrassed for her, (Lu Ann) for her behavior. I think if you reach out to Jill, things may change. Lu Ann just wants to control everyone. I can't believe how mean and petty and snide she acted towards you. And making fun of your shoes? Now that is a woman of "elegance and class". hahaha. NOT. She is really making herself look like a bafoon!!!
Keep being your sweet self, I am glad you stood up to her, without stooping to her level. :)

Hi Alex,

I think your the only real person on the show. Don't pay any attention to LuAnn, she really is cold-blooded and down right a mean spirited person. You can see why her husband divorced her, look how she treats people. She is as phony as they come, the reason why she walked away from you at the cafe is because the truth hurts. I think LuAnn is the one who needs to get a life.

TEAM ALEX all the way!!!!! Seriously, LuAnn needs to get a life!

love how strong you are this year.

Alex, your wasting time you can never get back on LuAnn. Obviouslys she will never change so don't waste your breath. You should really just avoid her since she seems to enjoy attacking you. Remember 2 things, 1) you teach people how to treat you and 2) first time shame on them, second time shame on you. Please stop being her punching bag.

Alex, congrats on standing up for what is right and not letting those other housewives run you over. It was obvious that Luann has very little class and you are the only authentic woman on the show.

Please keep being yourself! You are terrific!

LuAnn like hates you.

Shes just jealous!

Alex,
On any scale you are the best! And clearly the brightest, although that is a bit of a hollow victory considering the competition on the show... Sincerely, you seem like a very intelligent, very stable, very classy, very likable woman. So I have to ask: What in the hell are you doing with "this pack of wolverines" (as someone else referred to your castmates - ha!) ??? Ramona seems to have changed and there seems to be some hope for Cindy, but the rest are clowns.
What happened to Sonja? She seemed to have some gravitas last season...
I hope that you and Bethenny and Ramona get together frequently, you three seemed to really have a nice time together. All the best to you, Simon and the lads!
P.S. You bear more than a striking resemblence to Elizabeth Montgomery when you wear your hair like she did in "Bewitched"!

Alex,
Give up attempting to reason with LuAnn. She has had years of practice being a superior person. Instead, use her superior, know all, dominent approach against her. Believe me, she won't like being dismissed and treated the way she treated you and Ramona.
Kelly came off as crazy, especially when she told you you were sad instead of mad, and in her interference in stopping you from talking to LuAnn, she really came off as the "weird" one, not you. Kelly is trying to regain her credibility after last season, only her attempt is making her look even worse.

Alex, there is something about you that is sweet and innocent. I really wish I was on set with you and could help guide you in your interactions with these women. I understand how wonderful it is to find your voice. I think Ramona takes advantage of your willingness to protect her. You deserve to be your own babe and not used as a pawn in these other women's head games. There are a lot of alpha personalities on this show and just because you are not, doesn't mean that you can't be powerful and interesting in your own personal without being a play toy for their bad behavior. You are precious!

You're one of my favs...but you really should stay out of things. If you don't like someone or the way they act...DON'T GO TO ANOTHER COUNTRY WITH THEM!

Alex....I am so frustrated for you honey. You need to fight girl. Luan was so rude to you. You don't have to be mean but need to tell her off. I am so mad about the way she treated you. She needs to read her own book. You need a lesson on how to use your words. Lol!! I love you Alex....

Alex, good for you in trying to help Ramona. Jill, Kelly and that so called hostess Luann are not worth it so just stay real and ignore those three witches!!!

You are very genuine and sensible. More class than the countess by a mile! Express yourself more and stop letting crazy (Kelly) and classless (LuAnn) women cut you off.

Thank you, Alex. I always read your blog first because you're so on-point.

alex. itbroke my heart the way luann and kelly treat you. i would not watch this show if you and your hubbywere not on it. i am typig with one hand i brke my wrist you are the most kindest real beutiful,best mom andwife on that show and to see you humilated by them while ramona is escaping thru hallways having her laughs was hard to stomach. love ya you are my favorite

Nothing wrong with you girl...unfortunately, Luann ruined the friendship between Bethanny and Jill and Jill refuses to see it and she's doing it again with Ramona. It's the same ol Luann. Geez, how does she stand herself. She needs to keep her stick in her own pot. Also Alex, when you are calm your delivery is better...so stay calm.

I love you Alex! You seem to be the maturist person on this show this season. Bump all they say about you. You may not be on their level money wise according to Jill and the Dragoness but you got more compassion, intelligence and class than them all. Keep doing u!

Alex darling,
What you are you doing among the pack of wolverines.

You are too good for them, and for the whole show. You darling were born for bigger and greater things and friends.

Please honey THAT show is truly toxic for you.

Best wishes in ALL your endeavour

nube

I wish you were my friend!!! I know you would back me in a fight!!

I enjoy you Alex. I'm glad you found your voice. Just a suggestion...think before you react and practice a very short statement of fact. Those other leadies never in a million years will allow you to fully vent or explain your feelings. They're all in denial.

I do feel like I'm watching promotions for everyone's side businesses lately. Really Ramona...enough about Pinot Grigio...after all we know you have your own brand now.

You're a fantastic writer--this blog is hilarious! Team Alex!!

Alex, I don't know if this is ever going to get published but I wish you'd read this. You seem to try so very hard to "fit" into this group. It's like trying to put a square peg into a circle; it's not going to work. You and Simon are trying way too hard to fit into the "elite" circle. It's not the elite circle that will get you, Simon, or your children far. Focus on your careers and your children's education - that is what will get you far.

First time writer! I have watched all four seasons and you have remained my favorite. You seem to be a genuine person and you stand by your convictions. I love your integrity and honesty and admire that you keep your focus when trying to make a point and others make noise to get you off track. Seems their motive is to talk loudly and say outlandish things so lose your concentration. I think you are very intelligent and love how you have come out of your shell this year. Keep it up sister!

I never get tired of your writing style...so clever and true and I am now catching streaks of comedy in it. Good stuff. I, too, was stunned that Kelly was trying to tell you how you are feeling. No one EVER is suppose to tell another what they are going through. That is their personal reaction and people can be angry, not sad, over lots of things. You and Simon are doing what any energetic, intelligent couple would do...look for the right schools for their children, attempt to meet those who can instruct and point you in the right direction, etc. I find your use of the english language and emotional control in many cases much more graceful than anything the so called "higher class" use. You just keep rocking on, Alex.

You need anger management, Team Brunettes!!

I so agree with Alex.... Luann seems to try to play the piece maker when all along stirs up more drama then everybody. Also she tried to run that trip like it was her way or no way it was all adults there no need to be so bossy just because she planed it. As for Kelly Can't say to much about her shes just crazy!!!! And the nerve to say Alex was acting weird.

Alex!!! Sugah plum, you are fabulous! You are the only one with any sense! Ah just luv ya!!! LooAnne - the contessa poverissima - the poor thang, she just doesn't know any better!!! I wish you could show her the way to being a good soul - but she's too wrapped up in herself to ever be able to see the light! She criticized you for looking like a lion tamer when y'all went to ride camels - little did she realize that she looked more like Clyde Beatty than you did!!! Sadly, ya could hit her over the head with a hammer and she wouldn't know the difference or even what hit her... Ya just gotta pray that one day she will wake up and see the light!!! Meanwhile, you just gotta realize ya cannot argue with GOD and do something positive with your good energy... Keep up the good stuff, honey, ya got too much going for ya to waste your energy!!! Do something for Alex! You deserve it!!! HUGGIES!!!

You are awesome, Alex! I can't believe Kelly of all people had the nerve to tell you that you weren't "acting normal". Um, hello? If she is considered "normal" then I for one would rather not be! She brings the crazy every season without fail. Luann is so passive-aggressive it is painful to watch. She has a way of talking down to others and then making it seem like they are the crazy one. Am I the only one who sees it? Judging from other comments, I'd guess not. Stay strong Alex, you will forever be "the nice one" on the show!

i was laughing so hard when you and simon went on the tour of the ritzy school cause when you were first being introduced to the tour guide simon was scratching his butt literally

so true

Alex,

You never cease to amaze me. Good for you for standing up for friends. I appreciated the way you went to bat for Ramona. I believe you showed more class than Luann and Kelly during the entire episode.

Their true colors are shining through! We see them clearly!

Keep up the great work!

well spoken.

Did anyone else notice the fact that Kelly told Alex to cover her shoulders while she was talking to her and then later went out for a run with short/shorts and a sports bra? Is that being authentic?

I like you and Romonia. the other or silly, they goppis all the time. Luann the worst one.

Team Alex!!!

Team Alex!!!

I loved it when you stood up to Luann ( the puppeteer ) she's the one that loves to stir the pot and then stand back and talk about all of you , Bests wished to you and your family.

Why would you let Kelley tell you what to do? You were to nice

Just love your blog. What is wrong with LuAnn ? Perhaps she needs to re-watch herself, she is a friend to no-one but herself. I admire you for the way you handle her and the other ladies. I hope many good things come your way.

Your blog is the one I read for the true back story to each episode.
The look of frustration on your face as you tried to communicate with bitter Luanne and weird Kelly said it all. I think both are jealous of you and the fact that you made a life for yourself in NYC on your own and found a true partner in Simon to share in that life-maybe that jealously extends to how they feel about Ramona as well; while they both had to rely on the money of an older man to make it there and who are now no longer present in their lives and have moved on.
I loved seeing Luanne get shaken about on that high horse-or camel-she has put herself upon -although I am happy she did not actually get hurt.

Alex, this is exactly why you and Ramona are my favorite housewives.