Ramona Singer

Ramona dishes on Alex's confrontation, and the aftermath of her Jill fight.

on Jun 10, 20110

Where do I begin? This season was the hardest season ever for me to be part of. At times I felt I was in a viper pit. The venom was out in full force by some of the ladies I couldn't believe how shaken I was after my fight with Jill. I also couldn't believe how Jill badmouthed me after the fight to some of the girls. I didn't blame her or ask any one to take sides the way she did. Jill was filled with so much ill-will and animosity toward me, and that's why I had to end it. I actually got hysterical after when I cried, as I couldn't believe the way she was towards me. I really believe Jill sees everything only from her vantage point.

"She didn't own any of it", says Jill about me. I think it's quite the opposite. Jill never owned anything she has done. You need to read my newsletter to learn more about this. Please sign up at RamonaSinger.com.

LuAnn always has to interfere and in a negative way. I was so distraught over the situation; it was like she wanted to put salt in my wounds. What kind of person does that? This is just like when she got in the way of Bethenny and Jill last season. She is doing the same thing with me and Jill. How could she say, "What did you do to upset Jill?" Again, taking sides -- and of course not mine. We all had to go to dinner that night. I told myself I was going to make the most of it and not let my fight with Jill get to me. The next day I was feeling much worse than before. Thanks goodness for Alex. She has become such a great friend and it helped so much to talk with her. I truly have come to love and admire Alex, I cherish our friendship. I never asked her to speak to LuAnn for me, but I did express to her that I did not have the strength to speak or deal with LuAnn. Luann was hounding me to talk with her, and I knew it was not about the weather. Alex was trying to protect me like a bear with her cubs. I was so broken after my discussion with Jill and Alex knew that.

I was appalled how rude LuAnn and Kelly were to Alex. Alex was looking to have a simple discussion and they were so mean to her. I did not think such behavior existed in these adult women. I have yet to write anything about Kelly this season but she lost it on Alex. She is really out there; it was a glimmer of how she was acting in St. John last year.

Sonja always makes me giggle and laugh. It was the best time sneaking out to look at the gowns. It took away my sadness and really cheered me up! That was the distraction I needed. By the end of the trip Sonja was always in my room and we became roommates.

I know I was much more shaken up than Jill about our heated discussion. Jill says she will be different toward me in the future, and part of me wants to believe it but another part thinks she can never change. I will give her the benefit of the doubt though.

How funny is it that at our last dinner LuAnn wore my earring designs I had given to her from True Faith Jewelry! I have gotten some many comments about the gold leaf jewelry that I wore on the past two episodes. All the jewelry I wore in Morocco is from True Faith, which was perfect for the exotic country.

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97 comments
Latty
Latty

I like u cos you say exactly what your thinking sometimes you can put ur foot in your mouth but bless you your so much fun to Watch. Take no notice countless luann and the two faced Jill not to mention pretentious Kelly. You alex sonja rock the rest are all hipocrets!!!!

Rosalba
Rosalba

I watch this in England and have just seen this episode today. I think Jill was out of order suggesting you were in the wrong when she came to Long island unannounced and expected you to receive her with open arms when she had caused all the bad animosity in the first place. Also, had she forgotten that both you and Bethenny had tried to reconcile her with Bethenny already. She is hard work. You come across as a mature but fun woman with a lot of character!

tinaaa
tinaaa

~~~~~TEAM RAMONA ,ALEX, SONJA ~~~~ :)

Jena M.
Jena M.

Ramona, I like you way better that the 2 biggest hypocrites (Kelly and Luann) you have to own up with your shit too.

mary stewart
mary stewart

I like the new Ramona and I think that Jill , Luann and Kelly are the three witches. Luann has always taken Jill's side and then denies it, she is a LIAR. You and Alex should try to avoid those three and your husband had it right about Luann!

hulali
hulali

You are not afraid to speak you mind and sometimes its good and sometimes not so good, but you are always honest! Jill wanted an apology that she did not deserve and you held your ground. The best you could offer was that you were sorry she got her feeling hurt. Good for you!!

Don't let the drama from the other women get you down! You and Sonja are hilarious and fun to watch!!

gorgeouss
gorgeouss

Ramona, I like you.. I really do! BUT, you sometimes can be very judgemental, paranoid, racist, and a big BABY! I feel that in this season Alex is turning to you, as though she's your caregiver, and you take it because you crave that attention. At the same time, I truly think that you would drop Alex the minute you and her have a small fight. From what I can see, your true love is for Sonja and no one else, so stop acting like Alex is your new bff, when in reality she's just your cheerleader and your the coach!

Mrs. Sharp
Mrs. Sharp

Ramona you are quickly becoming my favorite, even with your foot in your mouth cause you do own every bit of it. I think that Jill and Lu Ann are the mean girls this season and may want to give you grief so you could leave the show but you hang in there because it's them that looks bad especailly Lu Ann. She is the reason that Jill and Bethanny did make up that day. Even still Jill could reach out to Bethanny now if Bethanny had of been that important to her. Instead she blames you, who actually tried to put them together for just that reason. Personally I don't think that you and Jill should be BFF's anymore because she hasn't changed at all. You should acknowlede her at events and move on. You are much more woman than her or rather "REAL" I should say. She has said some real unflattering things on the show about alot of people and people think she is right. Just goes to show you how really throwed off the world is. Anyway good luck and keep being you Ramona. You are gaining on fans.

Micaela 37
Micaela 37

I have never liked the "countess" but after watching her this season - I can't take it anymore. If she stays on this show I am not going to watch it anymore. Her and Kelly land are just insane. How do they have friends? Pathetic. As for Jill, I think Jill wants to be your friend, I think she has a real bad way of going about it.

citygirl3188
citygirl3188

Ramona, i watch your show all the time and cannot understand how ANYONE can write in about how real you are,how kind you are etc. etc. etc. You will never let anyone speak,are totally rude and have no idea what real class is. You flaunt your husbands money around and think cause you have money you are better than anyone. I find you so annoying i mute every scene you are in cause i know its gonna be blah,blah,blah. You are so hurtful and rude. Who raised you??? I'm so surprised you actually have a husband. Hes gotta be an idiot. Who in Gods name would put up with you. Jill tried so hard to have a conversation with you and you would not SHUT UP!!!!! You are truly an annoying classless woman

COFFEEMOM3
COFFEEMOM3

HEY RAMONA! GOOD FOR YOU! I AM GLAD YOU POINTED OUT LUANN WAS WEARING YOUR EARRINGS & LOVED THEM! THOUGHT IT WAS GRACIOUS OF YOU TO LEND THEM TO HER AFTER HER SNOOTY COMMENT EARLIER IN SEASON ABOUT A "MARY KAY" PARTY WHILE YOU WERE SHOWING YOUR JEWELRY LINE....I BELIEVE YOU WHEN YOU SAID YOU WERE NOT TOLD DINNER AT 8. ONCE AGAIN, YOU WERE GRACIOUS AND SAID PERHAPS YOU FORGOT. YEAH, GET IT, LUANN, REALLY UPTIGHT ENTIRE TRIP. LUANN, DARRRRRLING, WAS NOT SO MUCH A DARLING HOSTESS. SHE ALWAYS TAKES SIDES WITH JILL, FORGET FACTS. DON'T WORRY: JILL CAN RINSE AND SPIN ALL SHE WANTS ABOUT WHY SHE & BETHANNY DID NOT MAKE UP BUT WE KNOW WHO OWNS THAT, JILL. NERVE OF HER. GOOD FOR YOU FOR REMINDING HER TRYING TO BRING THEM TOGETHER IN YOUR APT. AMBUSH JILL DECLARED! GLAD TO SEE ALEX AND SONJA HAVE YOUR BACKS, BUT YOUR RIGHT: LUANN NO WAY AND DON'T TRUST JILL EITHER. SHE'LL STAB ANYONE TO COME OUT ON TOP FOR SURE. ENJOY YOUR SUMMER!

Deb_C
Deb_C

Ramona,

I don't think either of you listened to each other in the Jill fight. You put your feelings out there and Jill did offer an apology, but when she put her feelings out there you were rather dismissive. I'm not taking sides, but I think there was a real disconnect in your interaction. There is much to like about you, Ramona, but I agree with Jill that you've left a trail of dead bodies. Both Alex and Sonya have managed to reach your "inner coconut", as Kelly calls it, and have found a true friend. Clearly, you and Jill are not as close as you used to be, but relationships do evolve over time. Agree to disagree, be friendly and polite, enjoy each other's company when you are together, and leave it at that. I do agree with you about Luann, however. She and Kelly were mean and condescending to Alex. Luann pulled the plug on Jill's reconcilliation with Bethenny and she appears to be doing the same with you and Jill. Her "concern" about the state of your marriage based on the words of a psychic came across as calculating and insincere. Beware of the countess.

Carol w
Carol w

You and Sonja are the ones I would hang with , you seem like the fun crowd . I loved to see you sonja and Alex having fun , You go girl , You do not need miss snooty countess . They try to discredit you by insinutating your an alcohlic and your husband is cheating on you because they are jealous of your bubbly personality

PeterScholz
PeterScholz

How many glasses of Pinot do you have a day?

Dawn from Minneapolis
Dawn from Minneapolis

I'm a blonde and the blondes on this show make us really look like 'dumb blondes'. Be nicer to people especially people that your interviewing for jobs.

housewivesarecrazy
housewivesarecrazy

Romona You are the only genuine person in the NYH Alex too but she is so busy trying to freind everyone she makes her self look foolish sometimes. But know most of us out here in TV land see what is going on very clearly. So sorry for Jill lack of ownership. You tried so very hard to get her to understand. You have always gotten it right! I loved that you did not let Jill interfere in St John trip. You are really a good freind. Stay True!

realnyhousewife
realnyhousewife

Ramona,u may never get any awards for diplomacy but I applaud ur honesty.Most of the ladies on this show wouldnt recognize honesty if it slapped them in the face.If u hav to b in the same room w/these phonies bec of ur contract w/Bravo...say "hello,how r u?" & walk away w/out waiting for the answer,cuz lets face it,we dont really care! I know u dont wish any of them ill,but u must keep ur distance(otherwise u may catch what they hav,& wouldnt that b a real shame?).Good Luck!

Viewer
Viewer

I signed up to get your newsletter and you've mentioned the fun you're having meeting fans and being invited to special events. I'm really impressed how you're giving back to the organization that support abused women. That confirms for me where all the venom is coming from Jill. She is jealous of your success just like she was with Bethenny. Jill does not wnat your fans to like you. Remember she told you and Alex to not film with Bethenny and why should oyu all help he show? This is the kind of person she is. Jealousy turns into danger when a person tries to destroy. If i were you;I would take a lesson from Bethenny and stay away from Jill. Just DON'T TALK TO HER!

vickyg
vickyg

Hi Ramona, Don't let the likes of Jill and Lu Ann get u down.

Viewerlisa alonso
Viewerlisa alonso

it seems to me this whole season has been an attack on you my dear Fun,Sweet,Outgoing Sillygirl ! these women are Roosting you . they are so phoney ! Jill lies ,Kellie is just weird ,Louann thinks she has CLASS LOL! its as if the the bad girl click has issues with your success . They walk around thinking they look so smart ,I wonder if they know just how stupid they look ! All in all kid chin up ! Those women havnt a clue !

getagrip
getagrip

As others have said, your true friends are Sonja and Alex, forget the others. You are correct that Jill was projecting on to you what she herself does. Don't worry about it and don't expect too much from Jill. Next time you have a problem with her just let it go as you'll get yourself into the same situation and I don't think Jill will change; can you say Bethenny? :-)

ViewerSierraview
ViewerSierraview

That was a nice blog. Stand your ground with these snakes (Luann & Jill). You have really been their scape goat this season. I love that you do not let them push you around. Luann was vicious to Alex and unfortunately Alex let her push her around. You don't. Good for you.

SHERRI WELLS
SHERRI WELLS

RAMONA ,YOU ARE SO REAL AND HAVE A GREAT MARRIAGE- THE "READING" IN MOROCCO WAS RIGGED BY LUANN. IT WAS A SET-UP. WATCH HER, SHE IS OUT TO GET YOU. I THINK SHE IS JEALOUS

Viewer31316
Viewer31316

You and Alex are the BEST on this show. The other "females" have no class and are so rude I could not believe how they were acting. At no time on the show did they tell the "blondes" that supper was at 8:00. You rock girl!!!

Mr. Fabulous
Mr. Fabulous

OMG I missed the episode. Finally caught up. Love you guys. You, Sonja and Alex are the best. You help me get through the week just knowing that you are real and suffer like everyone else. Though you girls sure know how to have fun. My mom is laughing all the time watching.

URockRamona
URockRamona

You're crazy, funny, and I just ADORE YOU!!! Keep doing what you're doing, and don't worry about ridiculous Jill, or lacking much class, Lu Ann...

Lisa K
Lisa K

Ramona,

My heart breaks for you each time I see LuAnn's hurtful and rude behavior toward you. Jill's"mean girl" ways are so hurtful towrad you. YOU DON'T NEED HER! YOu are light years ahead of her in every way and have other people that love you. Move on and don't look back. Alex is a great friend to you and I hope that Bethany is still firends with you and Alex - even though she is so successful now. I hope she does not forget the friends in you and Alex. You, Sonja and Alex are great gals and need to stick together. Keep your distance form Jill, LuAnn and Cindy. Kelly - well Kelly is funny....a little bizarre, but that's what makes me laugh. Keep it together. I loved the way you were so calmly trying to talk to Jill, while she looked like a raging maniac, screaming and flapping her arms around like a shrew! Love you, Ramona - you're great!

Lady P
Lady P

Ramona, while I can appreciate all the love you are receiving, has it occurred to you that when you and Jill were trying to have a talk, you didn't let Jill finish a sentence about the way she felt about being dismissed when on St. John. You kept interrupting her. I was so frustrated. Sorry, you criticize Jill but you are no better than she is. You talk to much and you lack self control.

Sherie Ann
Sherie Ann

Stand your ground, Ramona! Be you, wonderful you! You Rock! Don't let anyone bring you down. You are a wonderful lady!! enjoy your Pinot Grigio, your daughter, your husband & REAL friends, forget those adult woman who act like children tying to bring you down!! You are awesome!! A real inspiration! STAY REAL!! =)

Viewer  Eve
Viewer Eve

So glad you and Alex have remained friends...I think you see the loyal genuine person in her. Jill Luann and Kelly are hypocrites as they are behaving in a manner that they condemn. Stay true to yourself!

jenji
jenji

You Rock Ramona !

cindyloudo
cindyloudo

Don't let them get to you! I think you are funny! I hope that everything is ok with your marriage because I do agree i think they are just jealous!

RickiOh
RickiOh

Ramona, I admire your accomplishments and your message of financial independance within marriage. With that being said I understand what Jill is talking about when you dont take accountability for the hurtful things you say to people. it seems like everyone allows you to continue your rude behavior by just saying oh thats just Ramona and that is not ok. you can be fun, outgoing, and even sometimes caring. But from what I saw on the screen, the way Jill spoke to you that night is exactly how you speak to people all the time.

ViewerKC14
ViewerKC14

The blondes rock! They actually rock in Morocco!

You are great Ramona and you and the blondes were totally fun to watch.

Donna60
Donna60

Hi Ramona,

Girl just keep being as sweet and kind and true and don't let Luann and Jill try to put you down. You are an inspiration to all of us housewives. I will be happily married 32 years this year and do not allow anyone with drama in my life with my husband and I. Just keep doing your makeup, jewelry and wine lines and love you family. Enjoy life. Donna

Kim89
Kim89

I enjoy you! You, Alex, & Sonja rock!!!

chris25
chris25

Ramona you are so right about how rude Kelly and Luann were to Alex .If you get a chance on the reunion show, please inform kelly that her constant shutting people down when they are trying to speak is sooooooooo annnoying. She did it on scary island and she did it to Alex in Moracco. She has to realize that that world does not revolve around her and if something is happening around her that she is not comfortable with, she should remove herself from the situation and not try to control everyone.

pinotgrigio
pinotgrigio

Thanks to you I recommend pino grigio to all my friends and strangers, ya hOb be beeb! YOU ROCK GIRRRRL!ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU WORK THE RUN WAY.

Mila7
Mila7

Go Team Blondes!!! Love you Ramona - you're the best!

Neenerneenerneener
Neenerneenerneener

If I was in Morocco, I would have wanted to hang out with you and Sonja and drink wine. I thought you behaved great and I think you owe Alex a big thank you for trying to defend you!

fnesse
fnesse

You know what I love about you...? I love that you are real. There are no false pretences with you and I like that. It's very unfortunate that your friends, the housewives, spend so much of their time putting on heirs. Just continue to do "You". You don't have to apologize for who you are...I'd hang out with you!

Florida_Gal
Florida_Gal

Hi Ramona

I enjoy watching you and Sonja because you both like to have fun and don't take yourselves too seriously. Keep on having fun.

bravo fan
bravo fan

Ramona, you go girl! Team Blondes all the way!!!!

interested
interested

Ramona, I love, love, love you!! I hope that you realize that Jill is really not a true friend to you. You deserve so much better in a friend. Stick with Alex and Sonja, these two ladies really have your best interest at heart.

Allison G
Allison G

Ramona, you are my favorite!!! Your an awesome person and I just wanted you to know that YOU ROCK!!! You make me laugh, your a gem :-) :-) :-) Best of Wishes to you!!!

Viewer am hwviewer
Viewer am hwviewer

Ramona, Ignore the negative and just be you! Loved how you and Sonja went to take a sneak peek at the dresses. Could picture myself doing the same thing. So tired of hearing Luann talk about proper manners and behavior. What about letting your hair down and having fun!!! Keep doing what you are doing, and you look great!