Sonja Morgan

Sonja gives us the scoop on her masquerade party, and on Ramona and Jill's special relationship.

on May 12, 20110

Ramona cracks me up! "Who better to represent her product then her!" She is absolutely correct, of course. I just love to hear her say it. I taught her the squint, and I'm loving it. I get the belly laughs when I am around her, and it keeps me young -- albeit it silly. I am who I am and so is she. Jill told us if you lipo one area it moves -- so true. So now to Dr. Sharon Giese for a touch up of a different type. LOL! I have never seen someone manage their own photoshoot and model at the same time, but it was over in no time and very efficient -- just the way Ramona likes it.

Jill looks gorgeous. Love the white blouse on her. I also wanted two kids. I lost my second pregnancy. So I really know how Jill feels. Thank goodness, for the one's we have though. Why is Cindy saying Ramona's core is not good? Why is Cindy saying that no one says anything good about Ramona? That's not true. Ramona has hundreds of friends who love and accept her the way she is. Maybe Cindy is being influenced by Jill, LuAnn, and Kelly. I know they always come down on her. I try to see the best in everyone. I meet people to like them -- until they disappoint me to the point I cannot be there for them anymore. I'm also too old to be jealous. I can only try to smooth things over and patch things up when I am with people. I can only try to include everyone and try to make sure everyone enjoys themselves. If they complain, judge and criticize that is their problem. I like to laugh at myself and sometimes I put my foot in my mouth, but I don't mean any harm. I too want to be accepted for who I am and not judged all the time.

Chris March is ahhhhmaaaaazing. He is such a character. He said "Don't you have an elevator in this dump?" I love his sense of humor, and his talent is off the charts.

53 comments
MaryF
MaryF

You've always been sassy. But this year the classy in the sassy is gone. Bring us the Sonja we loved last year.

a viewer
a viewer

Sonja, I owe you an apology for being angry with you for your treatment of Alex. You are truly a peacemaker and they are blessed people. You, Alex and Ramona are my favorites. The other vipers deserve each other.

amyjohn6
amyjohn6

Sonja, You are the best! Down to earth, honest, gracious, warm, kind, and FUN AS HELL!!!!! I would love to spend an afternoon, or night out or in with you, Ramona, And Alex! Go Team Blonde!!!!

Lots Of Love,

Amy XOXO!!!

dee in fla
dee in fla

Sonja You are the only housewives who does not hold a grudge and speaks honestly about each person...always trying to find something nice to say,,,even when the behavior is terrible,

Aloha808
Aloha808

Out of all the RHONY, you have the best sense of humor and have youthful energy. The others are bit like sticks in the mud but not you! Your costume was great. I would love to wear something like that this coming Halloween. So fun!!! :)

Mr. Fabulous
Mr. Fabulous

I am addicted to you. I watch every week. I have to say I am liking Ramona too. You two are very entertaining. Thats good TV! I am on to the others. But I am repeating what I said last week. LOL

Kaite
Kaite

I love you on the show. When you made fun of kelly, with the song you made up on the spot;kelly land doing sand angles...Ect. I died laughing! I love the show. XOXO

maria89
maria89

How did it feel when Jill criticized your party? Now you know how it felt when you did that to Cynthia.

Robyn :)
Robyn :)

I always love your positive posts :)

SammyL
SammyL

You are so great Sonja, keep being who you are!!! And you handle every situation that comes your way so well. I think everyone could learn something from you!!

MaureenM
MaureenM

Nice blog, Sonja! It's so nice to see some positive energy. Also,congratulations on your self confidence about your body and your age! You look fabulous, and if you're comfortable in an outfit, wear it. It's nobody's business but your own. Stay positive!

cladaugh
cladaugh

Sonya - you have guts - oops, we almost saw them too! I love people who do not take life so seriously - I enjoy you! Chris Marsh is awesome anf did wonders for your costume and you - fun, fun fun!

California Breeze Machine
California Breeze Machine

You are hysterical . . . . . Sonja! Explaining to your house guest (oops . . house-boy) to bring you tea in the blue cup and to put it on a tray makes it pretty clear that you love to have fun. I bet he loves being on t.v. too!

I wanna come to your house!

Fan from SF
Fan from SF

I LOVE YOU COME TO SF AND PARTYYYY WITH USSSSS YOU ARE HILARIOUS. END OF STORY.

Love NYC
Love NYC

Sonja! I laughed my arse off! The elevator comment was too funny! They need to clone you and sell you at Barney's...

tork1023
tork1023

Your honest, and fun, and I think although you try to smooth things over, some things just can't be smoothed. I'd love to have a cocktail with you, it would be a fun time!

Viewer in NC
Viewer in NC

Nice booty. The lipo really paid off. Embrace it (as, I'm sure, many men will want to!)

cat tree
cat tree

Love your attitude Sonja. I hope everyone can have friends like you.

talmquist
talmquist

Sonja, You are a wonderful friend and amazing caring person. It is so nice to see someone with light and grace in this dark show of negative women. Cindy, Luann and Jill should all be ashamed of the way they gossip and laugh at the other ladies. I am glad you have no time for their downward spirals. Your party looked beautiful and you included everyone. If it wasn't up Jill's level, then maybe next time her name should be off your guestlist. Good luck with your sanity, I have a feeling they will be trying to push your buttons soon.

Chicago Kate
Chicago Kate

I want to party with you Sonja...what a blast we would have!

andrewnetta
andrewnetta

Sonja, you are a good friend. You are loyal, not manipulative, a peacemaker and love to laugh and fun. All great qualities. We all have faults, though. That pecking order talk was one of them. Their shouldn't be a hierarchy in friendships. We are all equal.

Maybe you should have a talk with Cindy and Ramona. Ramona behaved the way you demonstrated to Kelley at her lunch with Cindy. Ramona didn't understand Cindy's point of view and her actions left a bad taste in Cindy's mouth. Ramona was rude to her.

aunt kiki
aunt kiki

Sonja, Once again you had me cracking up. How could you leave your panties behind?!

islandgrlz
islandgrlz

LOVE you .... bloomer less & all.

Aleina
Aleina

I think you are so right on everything you see. I thought it very sweet of you to host a party .....and personally didnt think it was saomething to put down! It looked fun and that is what parties are for in the first place...to celebrate and have fun...big or small ..they are all for getting ppl together and having some fun conversations and times. I think you are the cutest housewife on this show as to the way you speak and dress and always look on the bright side. You ARE the ice breaker! What would this world be if there werent "Sonja's" around to help break the ice and lighten things up!

Wyn
Wyn

You are silly and fun...and too old to be wearing that costume without bloomers! ha! But your blog was delightful this week! Keep the "haters" in their place!

amabalot
amabalot

Sonja you are a hoot. Keep being you!!

dharness
dharness

You know, I really wasn't sure about you when you firs joined RHONY. I thought I wouldn't like you but I do!! I think you're awesome and say what' son your mind. You have a tendancy to make me laugh hysterically and I love it!!!! YOU ROCK SONJA!!

Marge E.
Marge E.

Sonja, The party was clever! and you are too. Clever enough to know that your panties were not on! Don't be silly, you are too old for that. You are also tooooo old to have you a-- hanging out, not a pretty sight!You are a gorgeous woman, fun, funny ....you do not need to stoop (and show your a-- to everyone)that low to get attention. You seem to be into that this season....attention getting, airtime getting. Just relax and enjoy the ride. You were much more charming last yr.

Sue B.
Sue B.

I see London, I see France, I see Sonja has no underpants. HA! HA!

GGC
GGC

Your masquerade costume was awesome. I laughed so hard when you bent over. I always see you as trying to be the peacemaker between the ladies. I love watching you on the show. You seem to be one lady that lets go of things once they are discussed at lunch, etc... Good for you !!! You are a classy lady and alot of fun to watch. You stay true to yourself, I love that about you.

ShaDonna
ShaDonna

You said it was inappropriate for Jill to confront the bride on her wedding day. If it happened that is so true. It was also inappropriate for Ramona to pull Jill aside and attack her, but of course you didn't mention that. It also seemed like Jennifer was trying to get a little camera time. You should tell Andy that Chris M. needs his own show. The fans love him.

nfacion
nfacion

I love that you only have nice things to say about people, even if they talk bad about you. You have a GREAT ATTITUDE! You are always so positive and up beat. I love watching you and you are so HILARIOUS. Good for you, for not dropping down to others level. Kill them with kindness, that what my mother always told me and you are proof that thats the way to go. You go girl!

caycaye
caycaye

I find you a MOST forgiving person......and I appreciate that SO much about you. Keep being "positive"....Nice of you not to even comment on Jill's rather snobby comment of your "little" party, when she should have been a lot more grateful and gracious.....That showed a lot of class. No one is totally innocent of talking bad about the others. We all make mistakes and speak before really thinking about what we are saying....and to be hypocritical and call someone out for "talking about me" like Ramona did to Jill...when Ramona CLEARLY has bad-mouthed Jill for two seasons...is laughably hypocritical. Stay sweet. We LOVE you.

Anne Levy
Anne Levy

Put your pants on, PLEASE!!!!!!!! You may think it's "cute" and "sexy," but you look like a fool.

Michelle from Orlando
Michelle from Orlando

Sonja- You crack me up! Tonight with the forgotten panties is just too you. Hey ya should feel proud of that behind. Keep that chin up cuz you were rockin it out!

Viewer4365
Viewer4365

LOOOOOOVE you Sonja, Romona and Alex. You are all REAL and the best of the cast!

bratysteph
bratysteph

Sonja love watching you....your so fun and love that you don't take things too serious. Watch out for Jill she isn't coming from an honest place loves throwing anyone under the bus....if she sees you as competition.

Dawnabba
Dawnabba

Hi Sonia, Showing your fanny was absolutely hilarious! It was so you! You accepted the lack of petticoat with grace and dignity. You are absolutely one of a kind! Love watching you!

12055
12055

WOW you look just like Barbara Streisand!!!!

benice
benice

Opp's, you forgot your panties???? Ya right ......Guess getting thrown off your high horse left a mark????

Hope you saw the digs Jill and Lou Lou were giving you about your party? watch your back Sonja. They are very mean to all! I would hang with Ramona and Alex because their better people. Please be nice like last season.

Tannith
Tannith

Oh my gosh Sonja I LOVE LOVE LOVE you in this episode! I so wish I could come party with you!

Real Mississippi Housewife
Real Mississippi Housewife

Sonja, you talk the talk but you sure don't walk it - take all the nice things you said in your blog and live it in your life!!!1!!

Nina Girl
Nina Girl

Sonja, Again.... well said! Loved your costume! Did you really forget part of it?