SONJA, THAT'S SUCH AN HONEST AND SINCERE BLOG! SO GLAD RAMONA CAME THROUGH FOR YOU AND FOUND SOMEONE RELIABLE TO ASSIST YOU--YOU'RE GOING TO GET OUT FROM UNDER THE MESS. IT'LL JUST TAKE TIME AND THIS PROFESSIONAL'S HELP! NO KIDDING-KELLY WAS OUT OF LINE!!! BEST TO JUST NOT GET BETWEEN MOTHER AND DAUGHTER-ESPECIALLY AT A SWEET 16 PARTY! OH KELLY.... I THINK YOU ARE HOLDING YOUR HEAD HIGH, AS YOU SHOULD BE. YOU HAVE A MOUNTAIN OF STRENGTH...REMEMBER THAT!

Good luck with all your financial problems. Hope that things work out for you.

"I believe in myself and the goodness in others". I admire you for being this way. It is a shame that more of the New York cast doesn't believe the same.

I love the way you think......I totally agree with you... Love, love, love You and Ramona....you are a true friend and a total sweetie.I hope only the very best for you!

So glad you have someone to help you sort through the legal mess! You are a very classy lady and a good friend.

Love reading your Blog

Hang in there Sonja!

xxoo♥♥

I agree that everyone should stop the comments, have they not learned anything from previous seasons. It's not worth the face time on tv just to be prideful and have an opinion. Live and let live for goodness sakes!!!

Stay strong. Maybe you will get a large settlement from your X that will pay everything off for you. As long as you are able to do good by your daughter I'm sure you will be willing to live without the rest need be. Right?

Sonja you are a Delight and 1 reason to watch NYHW.Keep that lovely chin held high! Regina in Arkansas

Hi Sonja, cropping Cindy from the pictures was not right, but funny. Now to tis week. I love your way of not making excuses for your decisions. Ramona has been a great friend and you were right to suppoer her. good call. Have a wonderful week and I cannot wait for next week.

Sonja, You are such a positive person while some of the other women are so venomous and catty! You are the sunshine among this group of mostly petty, argumentative women.

You are BY FAR my favorite NY housewife!!!

You rock , Sonya! Hang in there!

HANG IN THERE SWEETIE, THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL.

Hang in there Sonja we love you.

Best of luck to you, Sonja! The first season I absolutely adored you & then this season it was a bit rocky because I thought you were coming across very snobby & as a fan of you who is really struggling financially it bothered me but I just let that slide. You need support from fans & you have mine fully!

After watching last night's episode, my heart went out to you. I agree with Ramona, you will be OK!! Chin up! It seems like years and years that your divorce has been pending. That must be exhausting, along with your failed movie venture, which are all scrutinized on, of all places, YOUR reality show, a choice you made in which to participate. Any regrets? All would be a lot more private if not for RHONY and the attention the show brings to all the ladies' lives. You seemed so sad last night, as you said, heartbroken, and I truly felt for you. Despite your problems, your world is still intriguing...albeit more of a macabre enigma than a glamorous glimpse into a fabulous New York social life. I'm so sorry....

Love you Sonja! I completely agree with your peaceable viewpoint on the girls and their parties. It shows how much you truly want to see others succeed and be happy and how much you look for the good. I think you are the least competitive girl of all of the housewives. I love that quality! I hope you get things worked out quickly and efficiently when it comes to your finances.

Best of luck with your financial issues and the best part about it being out there...my season 3 Sonja is back! We missed you so.

Oh and I suggest you go back and check seasons 1 and 2 to see that Jill has always had a beef with Simon. Spurned the saying..."Holy catfight, what'd you do now?"

Sonja is so refreshing and grounded, she trust her own instincts, knows what works for her, she learns and grows, what more is their to life?

Hang in there Sonja. You're sincere - outspoken at times and humble when you should be.

Mostly you are kind, and that doesn't go unnoticed.

Sonja, I love u on the show from the first day. U come across as a very sweet person.

Love, love, love you. Love your style, your self-deprecating humor, but most importantly, you are not critical of your castmates. You keep an open mind and are fair in most situations, I appreciate that about you and Alex, and Ramona for that matter. I sincerely feel if I was in the same social circle as you, you three would make a friendship with you effortless. Love ya

Team Sonja.....u are always right on!!!!! Everything will be good for u - we need to take control of our lives and make better decisions! U remind me of me - sooo much!!!! Stay positive and strong!

You must have had a IRONCLAD pre nup - and he left you.....what a fool! I think it is so great of you that u do not bash/gossip @ the Morgans - they did nt deserve such a great woman in their family! Stay strong - like u do.....u r a great example for your daughter!

I so enjoy you. YOu are my favorite housewife on this show! You are true to yourself, always, and one of the strongest women I know. Hang in there, things will get better. You are so right...why do people always have to tear each other down all the time. Talk about negativity. You are very refreshing and will come through this with flying colors!

You are such a class act. I wish you the best of luck straightening out your issues.

Sonja we looooooooooove you!!!!!

Be strong. We all go through difficult times. Some of us are blessed not to have to do so on TV. You are wonderful!

Sonja - I believe in you and you have the right attitude for the challenges you are facing. Keep your daughter secure and the rest will shake out!

Sonya, Every week I write to you to tell you what a bright, sun shiny, person you are! Being from the west coast I don't really know what's going on in media or gossip in NYC, so I had never heard of you. Yet, the first time you were on RHONY, I thought to myself, what a beautiful, loving, calm, mature, lovely woman! You are simply the best. Your kind heart & your happy way of being uniquely you, will always bring in good things. I love Sonya!!! xx

Sonja, You seem to have given up make-up in the last couple of episodes. Why?

The thing that is so endearing about you and your honesty about yourself!!! You seem to lead such a charmed life, but your honesty about your financial problems is so refreshing. So many people want to appear to be perfect (is there really such a thing?), but I feel you are so much wiser to keep it real. Thank you for sharing your WHOLE life with the viewers and I hope things are settled soon!!!

Love how you were checking out the plumber's A**..

Hang in there Sonja- everything will work out just fine. !!!

Sonja - We are all wishing you the best, and that things will come right for you soon. I am liking you more and more, and as one lady says in her comments, you don't seem to be as catty and venomous as some of the others. I think you genuinely do try to be a nice person most of the time (we all have our "little" faults). So far, I am definitely "TEAM BLOND" and glad you are a part of it. At least two of the brunettes seem to spend a great deal of time talking about others behind their backs and other petty things. It is Cindy's first season......I'm still giving her the benefit of the doubt......she might learn a lot before the season is over, unfortunately.

I love you Sonja! You are the best on the show. Please be careful of Jill, she will forever tell everyone how she helped you with your financial situation, over and over and over again. Please stay true to yourself and you Ramona and Alex continue the friendship you have... Lots of luck to you

You are THE class act. Generous, kind, empathetic, compassionate and intelligent. You give the Housewives -all the series- hope and something to strive for. Money CAN'T buy you class, you were born with it!

Love love love you Sonja.

My mother always said "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" you should take that advice.....I know I am...

love you keep your chin up!!! Keep it real Sonja!!

Either you are lying in the show or in your blog. You said on the show you went to Ramona daughters party because of the adult section aka so you could drink. Why not be real.

I love you Sonja!! You make me laugh!! Take one day at a time and this to shall pass!!

You are the only one who is a PARASITE! And you have proven this numerous times being friends w/ one and then another...you aren't REAL! You are playing to the cameras, PERIOD! DISGUSTING!

You have been quite brave in going on camera with all your problems. It must be hard, and I feel for you. I've been a fan of yours since last year, though must admit found a lot of your behaviors this season to be so, ummmm, tacky and baseless. Given your bankruptcy, I now better understand why you might have been tipsy in many episodes and had a need to moon us your bottom on more than one occasion...

Last year you would not have been so self absorbed and gone to both parties out of respect to your friends. This year you have become class-less and I wish last year's Sonja would come back.

Warning::: Jill likes the underdog

You are a beautiful woman, hostess, "straw that stirs the drink"-kind-of-gal. I am sorry for all your problems. You've looked so sad these past several episodes, starting with Morocco, and especially this episode which unveiled your huge financial struggles. I am so sorry, but it does explain your erratic behaviors, I suppose.

We love you Sonja!!!!! We love your relationship with Ramona and it seems genuine! Good luck to you!

Sonja I just love you. Last season you were growing on me but you really turned into a class act. you are that comic relief that was needed after bethanny left. I'm not a huge fan of Cindy and LuAnn...they are just boring. Keep working in your master plan..i know you can make it through this. love ywatching you !!!!!!

Things will get better! Keep your head up! :) xoxo

Sonja, you are at turns both tough and tender with the other housewives. Be your own self; it works!