you know i look back at tapes. and it bugs me worse. to see debrows act so hurtful. terry saying david was not a FRIEND so wtf. that means. and he new eddie more. cant stand debrows. they are jelly . david hard working contractor and lives respectful and has a good time . with wife. he not a grandstander ., love the beadors there refreshing to have on OC.
It was disgusting to see Terry Dubrow be condescending to the Beadors at Lizzie's party (saying Shannon the way Shannon was acting was "clinical", hello just because he is a cosmetic surgeon doesn't mean he's a psychiatrist!), then flip out at David Beador at Vicki's Bali dinner party (the finale) and refuse to apologize for any of it at the reunion. Terry tried to "justify" his comments that were total put-downs - "You're a construction guy...holler-back at girls...," "You might have to look this up, sardonic..." (referring to David's smile that he called a "smirk"), called David's apology "B.S.", then actually called David a penis? What? Hello all David said was "Spread your legs, get on the bull" when Heather was on the bull because she was on there side-saddle, meaning get on the bull, like everyone else was saying! Terry going on an on about his wife, his mother, and his kids to David but not at all to Eddie was totally ridiculous. As kids, and even for his mother for that matter, the comment "Show us how you ride Terry" that Eddie said surely stuck in their heads more than "Spread your legs, get on the bull." The way Terry went after David (after Heather went after Shannon all season) does make it seem like the Dubrows did want to take the Beadors down. Terry probably did say something to this effect around Tamra - when Andy asked him if he could have said something like that, Terry didn't really answer that. The way both he and Heather had this caveat and that reasoning for their stupid behavior was truly mind-blowing. Can't they just apologize???
I want to call out Terry and his bs excuse on not addressing Eddie also about the vulgar comment he said to Heather...it was weak to say he knows Eddie..no man in his right mind is going to let another man tell his wife...spread your legs..show us how you ride Terry..disgusting and weak. All the money they both have doesn't buy them an ounce of justification...
I do wish to comment on Terry Dubrow...he comes across as very patronizing and a "spin" master. I guess this is one of the compatible personality characteristics he and Heather share...they both seem to think they are word smiths and can one-up everybody with blah, blah, blah. Terry's outrage at David's silly comments is so forced, fake and melodramatic. Furthermore, his defending the comments he directed towards David about some supposed "holler back" (what???) from Construction workers (from a site or whatever, blah, blah, blah) towards women is so ridiculous. I find him to be a fame-monger and narcissistic...a very unattractive and shallow man. Once again, I guess this is why he and Heather belong together.
Vicki suffers from an apparent case of "Tamnesia." No matter how horrible Tamra treats her, they always seem to make up. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Wake up Vicki. Invest time in a friendship with Shannon, not Tamra.
This whole re-union is gang up on Tamra day Yes, she lied and has created some stirrings but please tell me which of these women hasn't done that. I can't believe that the fans watching this aren't smart enough to decipher what really is happening. Tamra is a liar. Heather is condescending, Vicki is still a hypocrite and not a friend to Tamra, Shannon is passive aggressive, a whiner and Lizzie is a trouble maker. Wake up people and see what we have here.
PLEASE LEAVE.........Terry and Heather and do us all a favour and take Tamra with you !!!!!!!!! Shannon you were treated so poorly ........but take heart .......WE ALL VIEWED THE TRUTH IN THE END !!!!!!
Shannon your blog was well written and straight to the point. Heather and Terry are not going to give you the answers you want. It's tough for two self absorbed people to sincerely apologize when they are wrong.
Heather and Terry, both of you acted like a two headed rattlesnake against David. David had class and handled himself well for a "construction guy". Terry, next time something bothers you, resolve it quickly. It was foolish on YOUR PART to wait two months with little sleep because you were upset. Also, both of you should learn to take ownership of your actions, it's a good thing. Heather, your dance with your words was good but alot of us didn't fall for that game.
Tamra, your hook to bring you back to the show was predictable. TIRED OF TAMRA.
Fan of Heather's until Bali part 2 and Bali dinner party - never again. Heather really does twist the conversation(discussion/argument) to fit her. I gave her benefit of the doubt all season until the end - Shannon may come across as goofy flaky but she really saw what Heather' M O is and called her out on it. Unfortunately she trusted Tamera- who feeds on pot stirring and manipulation. I don't believe her fake crying when it came to her son leaving and getting married. It's probably the smartest thing he's ever done.
The way Shannon looked at Heather is really gratifying. They seem to convey these thoughts: I know who you really are now; nothing you do would ever matter anymore because your words and actions do not carry any weight. You and Terry are 'little people'.
Heather tells her husband what to do she is always on acting mode.She is looking at all this like alexis is not here Gretchen is not here,Vicki is having problems with her relationship with Brooks,cant stand that Shannon has her same zipcode plus a lot more money than her. She wants so bad to be the top wife and top couple so that she could then have her own show .We all saw how Terri did not play his role got tired and said D word divorce and she looked like a fool wanted to hide under a rock so please she needs to stop pretending she has the perfect marriage. Tamara is a nut case i felt sorry for her with the whole Simon and Jeanna talking about her but she had to do something to get that from her cause i never heard her say anything bad about her before.
Tamara is always talking about somebody and Heather knows and is pretending she does not, so she can use it for next season as a storyline she is not fooling us.
So Tamra has been calling Shannon crazy all season (maybe justifiably emotional at times but Shannon's far from crazy) but Tamra sure acted crazy on that reunion couch. Thought she was Vicky for a minute they way she was screaming and shaking. I was waiting foe her head to spin.
I think Tamra is an awful person. Season after season there is always someone that she goes after and tries to destroy. It is so sad to this grown woman act in this manner. She held on so tightly to this supposed comment by Lizzie because it was the only thing that she could use to try and get sympothy. As for Heather, I think she has changed so much this season. She used to be the voice of reason, but this season she became so condescending and mean. She and Terry made such a big deal about the comment made by David. They claim that they didn't hear it and that it was repeated to them. Hmmm, I would love to know who told them about David and conveniently didn't mention the rude comment made by Eddie. Despite the mean girls, I do like this show. I think it will be interesting if they make some cast changes and get rid of Tamra.
Tamra, Tamra, Tamra......poor woman, pretty but empty inside.
Love Shannon and Vicky
Can't stand Heather
I think Shannon is a little goofy but the most authentic....everyone else is just doing the one up and trying to be relevant.....
The Dubrows needed to get all the facts about the bull riding...Eddie was very inappropriate as well if not MORE offensive .....they need to lighten up or get out of the spotlight.
After watching the reunion I believe heather and terry are desperate to stay in the show they have become this arrogant and repulsive couple. Heather started in the prior season making a gray display of good manners and "class".... There's none left. ...... Tamra is not the most elegant and educated of the bunch..... It is sad to see Shanon being picked on by these two..... Hope heather and terry don't come back next season
No matter what anyone says about Tamra, and I agree she was horrible to Shannon, Tamra is spot on about Brooks. He is sleazy and with what he said about Briana Vicki proves to look like a desperate, delusional fool to have ANYTHING more to do with him.
I think Terry should be more upset with Eddie's comment that he made in fromt of his 85 old mother and his children, when he stated for Heather to ride the mechanical bull like she rides Terry at night. This comment was worst than Davids comment. Get Heather and Terry off the show they are boring and stupid, sinc they can't think for themselves and can't see throgh Tamara. Tamara is not a loyal friend and likes to stir up lot of trouble. Tamara had been talking behind Heather back to the new housewife all through this season.
how come the Dubrows werent upset about Eddie saying show us how you ride Terry when she was on the bull, but where all over David
After reading all the posts...I have to laugh that the Dubrow's are pleading innocent in their nastiness to the Beador's...Tamra is laughing her azz off knowing the negativity towards the Dubrow's takes the heat off her nastiness this season LOL
I just read Heather's blog. She has clearly gone full strength into damage control after seeing the negative reaction to her and Terry. All I can say is -- "too late lady." Heather and Terry have been consistently nasty and condescending. Terry's arrogance was seen full blown in the finale -- he obviously thinks he can go after a nice guy like David for pretty much no reason and be exonerated by pretending after the fact that it was some kind of misunderstanding. There is no misunderstanding Terry -- we see you for exactly what you are. And what you are is a nasty, petty, miserable little man who thinks he is better than everyone else and who did indeed want to "take down the Beadors."
Heather and Tamara are bullies and mean girls. Terry has been sculpted by one of the best. His actions, behavior and demeanor mimic his wife's. Heather acts as if she is the epitome of composer and class but in reality she is calculated and fake. I wish they would look back and see that they clearly do not treat people the way they expect to be treated. Class is not based on wealth or status, true class is shown by the way you treat someone who can offer you nothing.
I was so annoyed with Dubrow condescending to David because he is in construction. I think engineering and building safe roads and highways for us to drive on is equally as important as having the ability to give someone a boob job or taking Simon's name off of Tamra's finger.
@bearlovesmouse I agree with every word u just wrote!
@bearlovesmouse agree . terry mind set . again. and I guess he cant sleep bc of david ..... he needs to grow up terry . put his big boy pants on. how about the construction workers. so demeaning. I guess he was not in good mindset ..cant stand heather and terry. yes take Tamara.
@kophousewife well said.
@love3sons well said........bravo~~
@Dr.Di Ain't that the truth!
@Barbarajean 'she lied and has created some stirrings but please tell me which of these women hasn't done that.'
I'll tell you one- Shannon!
@Barbarajean All of them are not god people ,maybe is part of the show? or maybe they are just like that, backs stabbers, liars, vane, empty, shallow, and not that classy indeed!
@carladld2 I agree with you on most everything except that I feel Heather hasnt changed at all. The ugly side everyone is seeing now is the same person who came on the show. Heather joined Tamra in the confrontation of Alexis and she barely knew Alexis. Heather has always been pretentious in my opinion.
@KSgirl.59 I think Eddie's comment was disgusting I can't believe he said that , The Dubrows should be upset with him more than Shannon hubby!
@Blunt I agree 100%. Tanmra is aweful, and yes, Eddie's comment was worst. Tamra lies and twist things, same as Shannon, and her husband is terified of her. She surely wears the pants
@Blunt They ALL are guilty of talking about each other behind their backs this season. I disagree that Tamra has talked about Heather all season. She did say things in the beginning about how condescending Heather treated her and so did Vicki. Heather did act a bit superior to them so I can see where they were coming from. And Vicki talked about Tamra behind her back all season long, to all of the other ladies and the camera.
Tamra and Heather are the same people they have been throughout their time on RHOC. Tamra was concerned about Vicki's relationship with Brooks and openly said so. That is being a friend. Vicki decided she wants Brooks in her life and has told Tamra so. Tamra needs to be okay with that and be a supportive friend. If and when the relationship ends, Vicki will need her true friends. What Tamra said about Brooks not being a good guy was earlier in the season and not the worst thing you can say about someone. Get over it.
Eddie did make lewd comments too. Heather and Terry did not know until after the season finished and they watched it. Someone told them what David said but not what Eddie said. Now they know, and I assume it will be brought up at the reunion.
Heather was rough on Shannon. Not everyone clicks. Vicki was hard on Lizzie. My opinion is Lizzie used her great big broomstick to stir the pot all season long.
These shows are all about the conflict. Unfortunately, without the conflict, a lot of people won't watch. For me, I prefer less conflict and more fun. That's just me, though.
@sue.meyerweckherlin Go read Heather's Blog. She explains it all and she makes a lot of sense. I think we as viewers (myself included) forget or don't realize that these ladies aren't privy to the information we see week to week on the episodes. It's all filmed at least 6 months beforehand so Heather didn't even know what Eddie had said.
@carolyn.neis I think Terry took the heat away from Tamra at the party, because the Dubrows were afraid that Tamra would sue them for the fall off the bull.
@1fergie I hope not too!
@Teri_R I really don't see it as damage control. Seems like a perfectly understandable explanation to me.
@hmbrou Indeed ! I call this people Engineers really , the just didn't went to College for a degree but sometimes they make more sense than the real engineers, is least they are not just fixing people's faces based on vanity!
@TeamBravoTN @Barbarajean Shannon, as Tamra says, drinks and gets things twisted. If you want someone to leave your house because they are freaking out and your kids are in the next room (they can be heard in the video) you politely ask them to leave. That is what Heather did. Heather did not say "GET OUT!" "Please leave" is a whole lot different than GET OUT! Being a drama queen Shannon has to get all she can out of what people say so she twists it. Lizzie is good at twisting too. Tamra lied to Shannon once but apologized early on so Shannon has dragged this out to the bitter end. She obviously harbors bad feelings for David and he is her husband. I guess some people think she is a poor little thing. Not me.
@Kimberly07 @sue.meyerweckherlin Sue, what you say is true. the only problem is that once they found out what both David and Eddie said, Terry still says he apologizes for overreacting based on what he was told. He also says he won't apologize for being upset about him saying anything appropriate about his wife. He wouldn't accept David's third apology.The worst was Terry excused Eddie for his comments, because they have a friendship. Well Terry can't be upset that his 80 year old mother and his 4 children hearing what David said but it's ok for Eddie to say. Terry should have just admitted that he was upset that David said anything to his wife. Oh, and let's not forget that Terry lied at the Bali party, when he reference the reason for his anger at the previous party was about this comment, a comment he didn't even know about until another 3 months. Heather can't spin that lie.
@Kimberly07 @sue.meyerweckherlin Heather always finds any excuse to get the pass for all her bad behavior. Both her and Tamra never fail to say no one is perfect and we all make mistakes. Of course but that is not the point. The point is that these two never accept and apologize for their mean actions wholeheartedly, sincerely and bravely. David accepted his bad behavior like a man but Jerry is a coward and a phony.