Happy Monday! I hope everyone had a great weekend!
Emotions are certainly running high in this episode, so I'm just going to jump right in...
First, let me say that I like Meghan. I appreciate the fact that she is very strong-willed and stands up for herself. I know it takes a lot to take on Vicki. However, I think this is a very sensitive subject. We are talking about a life threatening illness and the love of Vicki's life, Brooks. I don't have someone in my immediate life battling cancer, so I don't know how I would personally react if someone wanted to tell me how I should be treating cancer. I understand that there are alternative ways to treat cancer and there are very individualized treatment plans out there. I can see how it would be personal to someone.
Vicki and Meghan were both very upset after their argument at Heather's lunch. I am not here to tell anyone what is right or wrong or who is right or wrong. The fact of the matter is that Meghan did overstep her bounds, into a personal situation with Vicki and pushed the wrong buttons. I don't think Meghan was concerned for Brooks' health, she wants to prove Vicki wrong. She even called Vicki a con artist to her husband Jim and said it was her job to bring this to justice. You know what, if Meghan doesn't believe Vicki, that's fine. I will not fault her for that. It's her opinion. I just think in the long run it would be more honorable and straightforward to come out and say, "I think you are lying!", instead of pretending to be concerned for Brooks' health or blaming it on a psychic. I think Vicki can sense that and feels like Meghan's concern is not genuine and doesn't feel like she is coming from a good place.
Tamra and Eddie's sex party was entertaining to say the least. Tamra looked super hot and they were both great hosts. I think their sex tape, workout video was brilliant and original. Tamra and Eddie are a great couple and a lot of fun.
I think I speak on behalf of all the girls when I say that we could all feel the tension between Vicki and Meghan at Tamra's party. I have to give Meghan credit, she did not start the drama at Tamra's party. At this point I do think that Vicki is overreacting and making the situation bigger than it needs to be. I wish they would both just let it go. Now, we are throwing out all kinds of insults and I don't agree with that. When Jim got involved in the conversation I have to be honest, he made more sense than anyone. Jim was the voice of reason. He was very clear and diplomatic and I think he gave great advice.
I said in my blog last week and I will say it again, I can't let myself believe that anyone would lie about something as serious as cancer. I think we should trust our friends and be supportive of them especially in very difficult times. I think there is a time to talk and a time to step aside and let people handle their own business. I think Meghan needs to let it go.