Cast Blog: #RHOC

Not Settling

Tamra: Lizzie's Obsessed With Me

Shannon Settles the Score

Lizzie: Tamra Doesn't Fight Fair

Heather: Why Hate?

RHOC Reunion GIFs: The Gloves Come Off

Lizzie on That Kentucky Fried Nickname

Shannon on Heather's Double Standard

RHOC Reunion GIFs: Psychics, Opinions, and Shade

Heather Weighs in on the Dinner Party

The Difference Between Shannon and Heather

Lizzie Forgives Tamra

Vicki Wants the Best for Tamra

GIF Recap: RHOC Season 9 Finale

Vicki: I'm Tired of Tamra Causing Problems

Recap: 13 GIF-able Life Lessons from Bali

Tamra: Lizzie Is the Worst Kind of Person

Lizzie: Tamra Has it Out for Me

Shannon: There's No Hope Tamra and I

Tamra: Lizzie's Out for Blood

Heather: Can't Friends Disagree

Lizzie: What Tamra's Doing Isn't Right

GIF Recap: Kayaks, Crowns, and Elephants

Shannon Was Shocked Tamra Would Betray Her

Tamra: I Was a Fool to Defend Vicki

Heather: Newsflash It's Not All My Fault

Vicki's Warning to Lizzie

Shannon Isn't Putting Emotions onto Tamra

Lizzie: I Thought Tamra Was My Friend

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Lonely Birthday Dance

Tamra: I'm Going to Be a Tam-ma!

Vicki: This Episode Was Hard to Watch

Heather: I Did Owe Shannon an Apology

Shannon: Tamra Is Stirring the Pot

Lizzie: Tamra Is Stirring Up Sh--

GIF Recap: What Does Tamra Remember?

Vicki Is Trying to Stay Neutral

Shannon: Tamra's Lies Are Mind Boggling

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Dinner Party Disaster

Vicki Advises Shannon to Keep Communication Lines Open

Lizzie: "I Take Sun Kitten Swimwear Very Seriously"

Not Settling

Vicki reflects back on her mindset at the start of Season 7 and what's changed since then.

As Season 7 comes to an end, it’s only natural for me to reflect back on this past year. As we say, the curtain has closed to yet another un-predicted, crazy ass year.

When I started filming Season 7, my daughter was single and hoping to find love, my friendship with Tamra was rock solid, my new relationship with Brooks was evolving and my divorce was still moving forward and very amicable with Donn. Life was good, non-emotional and I was at peace where everything was in my life.

Looking back, my hope when I started filming this season was to demonstrate to all of you the transition I was going through from becoming Mrs. Donn Gunvalson to Ms. Victoria Gunvalson. I was and am coming back stronger, healthier, and happier than I have ever been. My motto is "I'm not settling" in any areas of my life, and my passion to live every day to the fullest is my mission. My goal also was to "introduce" Brooks to all of you, in hopes that you would fall in love with him the way that I did. Unfortunately, some of you (as well as my daughter) have chosen not to accept him, which obviously is your choice. What you don't always see is a very genuine man, not pretentious, an amazing brother, son, friend, and father that he is.

Time will tell where our relationship goes, but as of now we are very good for each other and at the end of the day we are taking it slow with all eyes wide open. Briana has a very strong opinion, and sometimes we clash heads, but at the end of the day we love each other and won't let anything or anyone come in between us. Michael went to the Kentucky Derby with us a few months ago, and he had a wonderful time with Brooks. Mike is a very good judge of character, and it was good seeing them spend time together with no drama and ended up really enjoying Brooks.

Continuing to reflect on this past season, I went through a whole host of emotions as you saw, and there were many days that I felt like I was in a bad nightmare. The fear that Briana had cancer made my world stop and it was very difficult trying to continue to film during all of that. Only a week after her surgery, she surprised me with by eloping to Vegas, which almost took me into a state of depression.

My daughter (who in my mind) would NEVER do anything like that, shocked my entire family and friends, and was yet another series of emotions for me. I think the hardest thing for us to understand, was she never told me how serious or even "in love" she was with Ryan. I remember praying in the hospital while Briana was in recovery, for God to completely heal her and for her to find true LOVE and happiness. We all laugh about it now, and say "Be careful what you wish for." She’s now happy, she’s in love, and she's healed. . .so what more can I ask for?!?

After their fourth month of their marriage, Briana announced to me that she was pregnant. Again. . .another emotion that I thought I didn't have in me to endure. Our family had hoped that they would have waited longer to have some time alone as a married couple, but at the end of the day I couldn't be happier for them. I am going to be a grandma, and am thrilled to have this new previous life enter our family. I have been fortunate enough to go to their ultrasound visits and our little bundle of joy is growing healthy and even waved to his momma last week. Yes, she’s having a boy!

I have a lot of travels coming up this summer, and I'm sure some of you do as well. I’ll be in MN, AZ, Las Vegas, Grand Cayman, Chicago, and NYC. If you see me around, be sure to yell my infamous "Woo Hoo." I hope it puts a smile on your face as it does mine.

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In closing, I want you to know how much I've appreciated all your love and support through this tough year. If any of you have ever gone through a divorce, or having your child have health issues (Slade I can only image what you have endured) you know how hard it is. I may have acted a quirky at times, a little silly, a little emotional. . .but at least you can say I’m not boring or dull. . .right?

I hope all of you have an amazing summer. Enjoy each day that we are given, surround yourself with people who love and encourage you, keep learning, keep laughing, and at the end of the day relax with a glass of wine from your membership at Wines By Wives.

Warmly,
Vicki Gunvalson
VickiGunvalson.com

Lizzie: Tamra Doesn't Fight Fair

Lizzie thinks Tamra's comments about her children were meant to deflect from her own problems.

Happy Labor Day!!! I am going to make this blog short and sweet. It’s a holiday and I am going to be spending the day with family in Newport wearing a Sun Kitten and a smile. I hope you all are having a great holiday weekend.

To be honest, the second half of the Reunion was hard to watch. I think it got too ugly. I am not going to insult any of your intelligence in explaining this episode. We all know that misery loves company, and "projection" is as easy to spot as a $2 dollar bill. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that everything miserable that comes out of Tamra's mouth is a direct reflection of what is going on in her life. In my opinion, children are off limits. It's quite apparent that Tamra does not fight fair and when all else fails she will throw your kids, marriage, and even your body under the bus in an attempt to hurt you. We filmed the reunion for over 10 hours and after listening to so much ugliness my heart just couldn't take it anymore.

I do not regret telling Shannon all the things that Tamra said about her. Everything I shared with Shannon was something that happened and was said on camera. I didn't take anything and create unnecessary drama. I would do it again in a heartbeat and I would think my friends would do the same for me. I simply did not know the truth about Tamra. Danielle told me all the things Tamra said about me. That is why after my birthday I was so hurt by her. It's hard for viewers to understand because these things weren't in the show. She could have called me and said she wasn't coming. I called her after sitting on the bus for over an hour. The next day she made fun of me to Danielle, in addition to asking plenty of questions looking for negative details regarding my party.

On that one-year free membership to Cut Fitness: Let's delve into this shall we? I was the one that contacted Tamra days after my party. She did not contact me to give me present. I had invited Tamra, Eddie, Danielle, Joe, Heather, and Terry to the Kentucky Derby and Tamra was the only person that had not sent in the RSVP. It was past the deadline and it was getting borderline rude at this point. Tamra, in fact, was making fun of the Kentucky Derby and the charity event that would be hosting us to Danielle. So, I reached out to Tamra regarding the Kentucky Derby and she texted me back saying, "I want to give you a free membership to CUT for your birthday." Tamra knows I am already a member to a sports club and that was the last I heard of this "free membership." I never received any kind of certificate or card for membership. I suppose she thought I would have the gall to show up and say, "I got a text message from Tamra for a free membership!" It's almost laughable. Needless to say, I don't go to her gym and she didn't attend the Kentucky Derby with me.

There is nothing else to say regarding the Shag, Marry, Kill game that I haven't already discussed in great length in any of my previous blogs. I said the word "marry" and that's that. Tamra even glared at me on the way out of the Valentine's Party and repeated it. "Marry you?" Tamra has said multiple times she couldn't even remember because she drank too much and there are even text messages where she says it too. Her story changes continually, like the words that come out both sides of her mouth.

During the Reunion, Tamra said many more hurtful things that you didn't see. She went on to talk about my son Preston and my marriage. We all remember the episode in the park where Preston hit me on the head with his elephant. He was asleep in the car and he had a mini temper tantrum. He was three -- it happens. I would assume most mothers have had it happen at some point. In addition, my husband and I got in a fight on my birthday. I feel awful about it, yet it made us closer. I just wanted what every woman wants -- to feel special because of her man. I am a big time believer in learning from your mistakes and that won't ever happen again. However none of those incidents had anything to do with Tamra. But on her quest to hurt everyone, she managed to drag in some irrelevant topics. I know it's all to deflect from what's going on in her life and to make someone else look bad. . .but it does hurt nonetheless. My babies and my marriage are my life so I guess her goal was to attack the things closest to my heart because she can't fight fair.

I hope you enjoyed this season and I hope you had a fabulous summer!!! The fall is my absolute favorite time of year, so I say bring on football and cooler weather.

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