Celebratory Dinner! Seriously so much fun! Everyone was in a great mood and laughed a lot! Especially after Tamra's gift of disguises and Lydia's fun party poppers!
Terry's toast was so sweet and meant so much to me. He really came through with everything he promised and allowed me to have my moment. It's all I asked for, and he delivered big time. Hitting the "pause" button on our recent issues was definitely the right idea. We had a great evening and enjoyed each other and our friends immensely!
I'd like to say a special thank you to some VERY special friends of mine. Joining us for the show and at dinner after were Lisa and David Heil and Nancy and Mike Bello. They are the best of the best and I'm so proud to have them in my life.
A big thank you to Betty White, Wendy Malick, Valerie Bertinelli, Jane Leeves, Suzanne Martin, the producers, crew, and everyone at TVLand for the amazing experience.
OK, I know this is starting to sound like an awards acceptance speech, so forgive me -- but a final shout out to Bravo and the amazing RHOC crew for their hard work coordinating a very complicated shoot.
You did a great job on the show, you definitely are a good actress. You have a wonderful family and a husband who loves you. I know you want terry to be serious but let him be him. I would much rather come home to a husband that makes me laugh than one who is serious all the time, that would be no fun.
Heather, you are adorable and I, like many other viewers, respect the fact that you seem to be honest about the complications of adult relationships. You are a voice of reason. The love between you and your charming husband is very apparent. Also, Hot in Cleveland was great - I hope you have many more roles to come!
Heather, you have a lovely family, beautiful children, nice home and a husband that works so hard to give his family everything they need. You should consider yourself lucky and blessed. So don't blow it! Stop being too self-centered. So you can act and you are good at it, but there are many others that can do the same. You acted like you have won an academy award and wants the whole world to know it. You are showing so much euphoria about it. It is the viewers that will determine your success. So be careful if you don't want to be disappointed.
Heather! You did not win the Nobel Peace Prize...you had a few lines on a sitcom for heavens sake! Get a grip. It seemed absolutely EVERYONE had to put their lives on hold to celebrate your very minor role. Your demands for the focus being on you went on and on and on. So boring. Take a lesson in humility.
squirl38 HAHAHA. Maybe some of the Housewives DO post on here. Sure seems like it sometimes and they must be watching a different show! It seems like some of the posters are taking pot shots at each other for opinions that are not exactly like their own. Maybe we should just stick to skewering the Housewives and leave each other alone. Lord knows we have enough going on just on the show itself!
karenmom squirl38 Good post. I could care less if someone agrees or disagrees with anything I post. However, I keep seeing the same individuals all over the blogs sniping at anyone that has expressed an opinion not in line with their own. I don't get why they care so much about someone else's opinion, but it is annoying to see them attack other posters with whom they disagree.
You do not show any respect toward your husband whatsoever. Its alllllll about ME ME ME. Disgusting.
I would love to just cuddle up to Terry and give him a big kiss, you are like a porcelain doll, unhappy unless someone is looking at you praising you for your perfection as a woman, mom, actor, wife.....blah, blah, blah. The waitress at a restaurant has more respect for Terry than you do, I feel so sorry for him. He's become what most of the men on this show have become, useless, unloved, unwanted, I guess it sucks to be one of the women on RHOC.
Curious how you would feel if the tables were turned and YOU had to walk on eggshells around Terry? He'd likely be compared to Tamra's ex, Simon...control freak and an a**!
Heather your husband took you out to a nice dinner to say sorry for all his bad little jokes and for using the D word and all you could do was make that fishy look with your lips WOW ,, Terry makes the most money he should not have to kiss your behind or he should not have to ask you want he needs to wear cause he is afraid you will have one of your little fits ,,, maybe if you treat Terry with RESPECT more he would give you some back ,, but as of right now you deserve very little
Thank you so much for such a positive episode....it was wonderful to see you enjoying yourself returning to a career you are so very suited for with your amazing talent! Even better...it is so heartwarming to see a very dedicated wife and mom in action. My daughter has four little ones and she, very much like you, handles the challenge admirably, but it is very true....support from the hubby and extended family is VERY important! Bless your husband for acknowledging your need and being there for you!
Let me just start with "Wow!!!!" Heather, you really need to somehow get a grip on reality. First, your opening quote about how fun you are is a testament to how out of touch you are with reality. You're about as fun as a dentist appointment. I'd say that you would better be described as stiff, uptight, arrogant, superficial, rude, disrespectful and judgmental. I've thought this from the beginning, but didn't leave a comment because you weren't lashing out yet. It wasn't until you chose to join the mean team that I felt you had opened yourself up to some feedback. For someone so pompous, you really have a lot of work to do on yourself. I'm sorry that this may seem harsh, but if you can't take it then don't dish it out. You basically asked for it when you decided to be so honest about your feelings with Alexis, who is ten times the person than you are.
Heather....I love how you and Terry actually communicate and talk through issues. You're one of my favs on the show.
Great job Heather!!!! You & Lydia seem to be the only 2 RHOOC to have their act together & a good balanced life!!! I hope that some of your confidence & talent can rub off on poor Alexis, because she wants everything that you have!!!!!
having a husband that can afford for you a lavish life, to be a mother to your 4 kids and not worry about income...does not mean you given some up to be there. Your perception that you 'gave up' something to be where you are is atrocious. It only proves that money did not make you happy. You trying ot have a career is because you feel unhappy. It is not enough to say you are 'grateful'...it takes living with the sense of exuberance that you are can afford to concentrate on your kids and not worry about what it takes to feed them. You are masking a need to build career because you are not comfortable with being a wife and a mother. And you don't love your husband...I been there,...i know why women seek career...because they are not happy and not in love
Like everyone is talking about the obvious: Heather is no longer the person we all thought she was. She criticizes others for putting on the poor little rich girl antics yet she's a pro at it. How many women wish they had a beautiful family and home like she does, yet all she does is complain. wow, I really don't like Heather at all. She is a spoiled brat.
@sunnysoflo Just putting my vote in ; Nay on the home, Nay on the beautiful family......Pretty happy with my own beautiful home and family, despite all the problems a home and family bring. Heather's or mine, ALL families and homes have issues. Heather IS the person I thought she was, works for her, fine with me LOL
So, since I am not a fan of Heathers, I will just say, I hope to God she learned some wonderful manners about how real women act and conduct theirself....please, bring good manners and niceness back to the O.C.....
I really liked Heather in her first season but she has become a mean girl especially the way she treats her husband, so cold. She needs to lighten up a little bit, too damn serious.
Od34t1na Her husban apologized to her at 25 time in one episode.
I have never heard a demand that a husband HAS TO APOLOGIZE, it is a way to manipulate, control , demean a person for a little joke. Heather does not knwo how good she has it. If she wanted career, she should not of made 4 kids in a short period of time. It is her choice...not her husband how to manage her career and motherhood. I don't think Heather loves her husband. She loves using him and abusing him. To make man apologize 25 times is beoynd a reason. It is just mean
I thought she was a mean girl during her first season. She instantly lept right in there with her superior attitude, rude comments, & attacks on Alexis. She was an expert at being "nasty nice" by slicing Alexis to the bone & pretending that she was doing it as a favor to her. In my neighborhood, we call that a "B*tch"!
Od34t1na I thought I was going to like Heather when she first joined the show but right away she started coming across to me as arrogant, condescending and anal retentive. I didn't even make it to the end of the season before I could hardly stand watching her. I so would love to see her recast on the Married To Medicine show. She would fit right in with those other self-absorbed, narcissistic doctor's wives who like her seem to not give a second thought to publicly humiliating their husbands. It would be fascinating to see how she would interact with those cast members, Somehow I think she would check herself a bit more.
Heather I liked you right away last season. I understand and share your sense of sarcastic humor.I felt you were supportive of other women and I liked how you and Vicki seemed to have mutual respect for each other. You and Terry have a beautiful family and your marriage appears to be genuine like the rest of us. I have been disappointed this season with your treatment of Alexis. You seem to have joined in with Tamra and Gretchen who are really quite immature for women their age. I hope that you take a step back reevaluate the way you have been siding with those women and go back to being the smart, mature and really great woman we saw last year. I wish you well.
HadToDoIt I don't agree, he is the husband, and he is aloud to ask for onion rings and just because Heather doesn't want any, too bad...make them for your husband and friends and family and just don't eat them, what is wrong with Heather!!!
Motorcitywife Sisterbrat HadToDoIt Motor - they can care about what they want to care about. What you may find trivial may push someone else's button. They see it from one perspective, you obviously have a different point of view. How you handle situations with your husband is your choice and your business. It doesn't make you right and them wrong, or them right and you wrong. It would be nice if you could try to respect that it is ok for other viewers to have a differing opinion and filter yourself instead of rudely attacking.
I don't think onion rings was the look she was going for at her
fancy lawn dinner. It's so 'short order'! :-)
Terry knows how to get her going!
Thank you!!! I can't believe so many people thought he was really upset about the onion rings! Clearly, he was pushing her buttons - she even said it. LOL
elicat HadToDoIt Heather is the one who made a production of the onion rings issue. She could have just ignored it when he made the comment the first time and that would have been the end of that.
Motorcitywife squirl38 Yes, she was just being a good wife, defending her husband for making a hurtful remark, instead of saying "I'm sorry that my husband's a hurtful remark and that it got back to you because of Tamra' s lack of manners". Really, Motor, you are reaching! LOL
Holy tamoly don't sweat the small stuff. I love you guys. Get. A nanny to help get the wrinkles out when you start. New routine. Instant destresser. Remember to use 2% milk lol. I made a funny
I don't get all the Heather haters. Being a stay at home mom with 4 kids is tough, yes he's a surgeon so what she has to bow down just because he is a good provider? Terry comes off so likeable and funny, and he's a doctor so women are drooling thinking Heather is ungrateful but they are equals in a marriage and both have faults, I don't get all this anger toward Heather.
I don't think it's "anger" per se....I think some of us just see her as condescending and bully-ish. At least that's what I see!
@luvnhwsfan I don't get it either. They seem to be suggesting she should be licking his boots and or shivering in her pumps lest someone comes in and snatches him away. Like she should not have a say because he provides. Just shut it and smile. I am kind of appalled. This a relationship. They agreed to the terms - she has every right to expect him to live up to the terms they agreed to.
Reba39forever luvnhwsfan Nobody is suggesting Heather lick his boots...they are suggesting that she should stop demanding that he lick hers.
@luvnhwsfan------ I have absolutely no anger towards heather, its just that watching T, G, and H be judgemental of another housewife, then proceed to have an intervention to inform said housewife of all of her faults, and then turn around and be found guilty of the exact same things you had just accused her of.... Now that is what has got the fans angry, and frustrated!!!
luvnhwsfan I can only speak for myself but when Heather first joined the show I had high hopes that it would be a refreshing break from the repulsive behavior of the other cast members. Instead, it turns out she only brought us more of the same. I haven't seen any comments calling for her to "bow down" to Terry, but to watch her publicly humiliate him, making him offer apology after apology and grovel to the point of tears was sickening. She has been arrogant, condescending and when not openly aggressive she has been passive-aggressive, not just to her husband, but toward others as well. Her diva fits over someone eating a cake decoration, being teased a little about serving onion rings and a few poorly timed bad jokes is just over the top. She is a huge disappointment and turn off for me. I have been an RHOC fan from the beginning and I really hate the direction Bravo has allowed these women to take the show. At least the blog comments are entertaining.
The acting was mediocre. I'm also not a fan of this sit come its not a patch on the golden girls its far too crude and noisy. Too much canned laughter and no funny jokes!
Just goes to show how selfish you really are, that everyone has to be 100% focussed on you all the time. Your houlier than thou attitude is a real turn off, for not only me but most people. I'm glad to hear the cast treated you well, and were great and friendly towards you, as they are adults just acting like adults, hopefully you learnt how adults act. Unlike your reality TV show where you, Tamra and Gretchen act like high school mean girls, experts on everything and are never wrong..........lol thats Gretchen being Gretchen out to benefit herself, we all know that, but you should have too! as you know everything.