judy@judy@london -------I agree with ALL of your posts!!
Heather tells Shannon to leave her house after accusing her of gossiping about her marriage0
judy@judy@london -------I agree with ALL of your posts!!
I am pretty sure Heather and Shannon are not friends and Heather does not owe Shannon anything! You talk negatively about a person and then expect something from them. It is sort of delusional if you ask me. The only person who owes her anything is her friend Tamara who betrayed her trust. Heather Dubrow has always been the person to take the high road. If it were me Shannon would have been standing on the front stoop. You want to discuss your issue but not address mine, girl BYE!
It amazes me that Heather has not apologized or even acknowledged her part in spreading reckless info about someone else's marriage. Tamra was wrong to utter it in the first place and apologized for it, but then like a catty school girl, Heather ran with the juicy gossip. How immature and hurtful. She annoys me beyond belief. Grow up and take responsibility for yourself and own it when you hurt or offend someone.
Shannon, move on from this. You are much better than this. Getting your marriage back in good health is the best revenge. So concentrate on you and your husband and let this crazy stuff go. LOL .. Viewers see what is going on and we know that you have told the truth. Thats all. Let the story line be that you and your husband are partners in your marriage. Show us how you turn this situation around. Get a part time job doing something other than being in this drama. You and your husband have money. You can start a business or write a cook book. I am not sure if you made that stew but it looked really good and we would like that recipe. You have great tips that you can give us like the time you told us that you take pictures of your Christmas settings so that you can put them back the same way. I loved that suggestion and will use it this Christmas. You have talent but getting wrapped up in this drama is not a good look for you.
All this other stuff is nothing. Plan time away from the kids to be with your husband and concentrate on that rather than the negative crap that Tamra and Heather bring to this relationship. Don't make them relevant.
Shannon, I really hope that after having watched all the past episodes you see that it's TAMRA who's manipulated every conversation and has made this feud between you & Heather much worse than it should've been...but you can't see the forest for the trees, my dear..you're so heel-bent on making Heather out to be the villain, you can't see that it's Tamra who's the real villain here...both you and Heather could've both handled your situations a little better BUT wake up & smell the coffee, Tamra's behind all the back-stabbing & gossip. #TEAMFANCYPANTS FOREVER
Leave heather alone, she is a bad spirited, shallow. Stay away from her you have a beautiful family.
Shannon, I wish that in tonight's episode when Terry and Heather start in on you about who told you Terry wants to take you down, I wish you would have said, "I owe you nothing! We're just not friends like that!"
Heather you didn't kick her out like she is saying. You asked her to leave. You did the right thing. I don't think you were out of line. Why should you stand by in your own house and be attacked. I think you handled it well. She is crazy and she is taking out her issues on you because she can't deal with them personally. I think you handled it well and you should not feel bad at all. She is a crazy person.
Shannon, YOU are the one that sounds like a broken record,"oh, the Dubrows said they want to "take us down" "Oh, Heather's talking about me" and " Why don't you want to spend time with me, David" "Why don't you ever validate me"...ugh! Enough! You have to be the most neurotic, whiny, paranoid woman I have ever had the displeasure watching on the HW's...ever. You're even worse than Kim Richards on RHOBH.
Shannon, it should be obvious to you after watching the tapes back that Tamra is really the villian here, not Heather.It was so obvious that Terry & Heather were truly shocked when asked about the whole "The Dubrows want to take down the Beadors" thing, and that Tamra made the whole thing up and then lied about it. Tamra's the one you should be mad at, not Heather. I'm so tired of you blaming her for everything and maybe Heather would "move on " if you'd stop ACCUSING her of things she didn't do.
Shannon was coming to Heather as a woman in pain. To ask her to quit talking about something she knows nothing about other than a gossip line that fell on her ears. Heather is mean but will always attempt to cover by disguising herself as a victim.
Heather is sadly a hurting person who uses control and manipulation to feel secure in her life. That ins't love or security, yet a false security. She hides behind "class and elegance" all the while she is hurting inside. Her actions speak so loudly. She plays the victim always. She can dish it out and cut people but she never listens to others when she is wrong. I fast forward through her parts in the show..... Sadly watching her pain on the tv hurts my heart for her.... snd well I watch reality tv not to be depressed and that's all I get form her is negativity.
Empathy is not a word in Heather's extensive vocabulary because it would actually require her to acknowledge another person's pain. She is so self-involved she could not even see that Shannon was hurting. No one cares about your money if you have no soul. Can we get the selfish Heather disaster off the show and bring someone on that has some personality and something to offer? It's getting boring watching her interact with her husband and staff who are basically just puppets. Maybe next season we can watch as she pays someone to be her friend. Gee..can't wait. (Snore)
Heather DuBrow needs to move to the RHOBH instead of staying on the RHOTOSOTT - "The Real Housewives of the Other Side of the Tracks."
@housewifefan2012 Shannon could make or un-make anyone relevant, but I do agree that she should focus on her bad marriage and also that she should get a part-time job..all the other ladies have kids and they work outside the home too, Shannon's got waaay too much time on her hands.
@Carmen@3 Totally agree. Heather is always in acting mode. LOL
@Fayeth Right On!
@deanaleigh You nailed it!
@Igirl@84 I'm so tired of hearing her enunciate her words like as if she is an English/Grammar teacher! She thinks she is better than everyone and I'm tired of her. I hope she does not return for another season because I don't think I could take it. Heather just stay in your 20,000 sq. foot house, running your house as if you are a drill sergeant and stay out of our homes. Do us all that favor!! And you can take your new friend Lizzie with you because I find her to be boring.
@Igirl@84 Wrong! She and Lizzie are the only ones on that show with any class. Heather had every right to kick that lunatic out of her house.
@36808122 you are right ! Heather is too self absorbed and is not capable or chooses not to be capable in comprehending another person's pain.
@36808122 You said it! I could not have said it better myself!!
@email@example.com Remember how she used to call Alexis phony? Pot calling the kettle black, Heather!!
@erica8123 I think the show is going to be a winner
Maybe they will have an episode where Dr. Nassif gives Dr. Dubrow a Spine implant, so he can finally stand up to his wife and stop being her puppet.
cindy1963 I agree with you ...I find both Heather and LIzzie boring. Lizzie got on the show so she could promote her business.
Haha, could not agree more. What a crock about the rescue dog thing. Shelters have puppies that are hypoallergenic too. She just wanted a designer dog. and God forbid she spend less than a few thousand dollars for one. Such a phony. Bringing toys and food to a shelter does not help as much as actually saving a dog from being put down. and...how about her reason for getting a dog now....she is in a rental home and this way she can do the training there. How low class. So lets let the puppies pee all over the rental home instead of your expensive carpeting Heather. You are the only one who can take a noble act such as rescuing a dog and turn it into your standards for your convenience. go away Heather. We are all really fed up with you little Miss Uppity.
Shannon's not a lunatic! She is real and readily admits imperfections in herself and her marriage and tries to deal with things head on. That's what will keep her on the show. Her ability to relate to all of us and our own life struggles. Correcting people's grammar and scolding people will get you nowhere except alone. Unfortunately, Heather's already there this season. It's painful to watch.
firstname.lastname@example.org I am sad to read your comment about Shannon as a 'lunatic'. Apparently, it seems it would be ok with you if someone is down in their life, to pull them further down instead of lifting them up.
@cindy1963 @email@example.com I seem to remember that it was Tamra who first used the "phony" description regarding Alexis. Tamra, Eddie, Terry and Heather were at dinner. Or was it Terry who first said that word? Not interested enough to go back and look it up...BUT that same show had Alexis bragging about all the spendy vehicles they had AND showed Heather in the back seat biting her tongue.
On vacation, it was Tamra who called out Alexis on being a phony and screamed at Alexis to "just own your truth!".
@cindy1963 I rememer how they all ganged up against Alexis and called her phony. But the leader in that accusation was Heather ! How ironic!
That's right ! Dr. Dubrow is a nice guy and it seems he is almost afraid of Heather and is too scared to speak his mind when he is around her. His conversations with her seem rehearsed. When he tries to joke with her and be spontaneous she is extremely offended.
@Mommysboy She is absolutely ridiculous! My nephew and his wife are very bad asthmatics and have very bad allergies and they went to a shelter and rescued a "purebreed" dog. She just wants everyone to know how phony she is and that it's all about the MONEY with her!! So many dogs that get put down on a daily basis and the majority of them are healthy and good dogs and she has to go to a BREEDER! Take all those toys back that you gave the shelter and give them a nice size check instead! You can afford it if you are building a BRAND NEW 20,000 FT. HOME! So please stop being so pretentious because your children are going to turn out the same way. They learn what they see and hear, isn't that correct, Mrs. "KNOW IT ALL!!" Your husband, who is the one who makes all the money that can give you that lifestyle that you love so much with a Nanny, a Professional Chef, etc. is way more down to earth than you are! What are you going to do next Heather, hire a Professional Dog Walker to walk you 2 new puppies? Don't you see the commercials on TV and see the billboards that say "DON'T BUY, ADOPT!" What am I saying, of course you don't! STOP BEING SO PHONY (that same word that you used to call Alexis) is exactly what you are! Please leave the show because we are getting sick of you and give someone else a chance to make some money!!
anniem80 ~ Agree, unfortunately some people equate using big words and carrying yourself a certain way as having class. Heather is not classy!
@Igirl@84 Wrong..the leader in that accusation was Tamra, Heather just agreed with her, and Alexis WAS so over the top with describing everything that they OWNED, when they actually didn't own any of it, they rented all of their cars & their home...other than that Alexis was a nice lady, but her bragging was obnoxious..No matter what, Heather is not the monster that Tamra & Shannon are trying to portray..
lgirl@84 ~ I agree that Terry is afraid of Heather. I laughted when they sat down to watch Hawaii Five-O together and she scolded him for talking and he just looked at her then shut up right away. I don't totally agree though that he's a nice guy because of the way he told Heather and Shannon he'd give them a chance to talk then he stood in the background listening to everything and on tonight's episode sure does seem like he's yelling at Shannon when gossipy Tamra brings up the "taking down the Beadors" issue! He should handle those things in private, and of course NO ONE should believe anything Tamra has to say at this point! Did you see (in the previews) that Victoria says Tamra told her that story too I can't believe Victoria seems to just sit there and doesn't speak up for Shannon when Terry and Heather are yelling down the table at her! Shannon should say, "I'm sorry but we're just not friends like that, and I don't owe you anything!"
@Igirl@84 I agree, Heather needs to lighten up.
Cindy, perfectly said. PHONY. Each week that goes on I am getting more and more sick of her. Time for her to leave, Ugh
judy@london - Heather also brags about what she has, even her tag line brags about having it all! She brags about how big her new home is going to be, how it's on the biggest lot in the area, how it will be the only one in the neighborhood with a porte-cochere and on and on and on. I think people just tend to overlook it for some reason.
to Fayeth.... I like your comment ... I thought initially that Terry is better than Heather, but as I watch more episodes , I can see that they are both chip of the same block. Both Terry and Heather have a short fuse. Terry completely shut off David as soon as he opened his mouth at the dinner table. Both David and Shannon are no match for the Dubrows or Tamra. Tamra was last night on 'Watch What Happens Live' and tells Andy that last nights episode of OC housewives was ENTERTAINING. Andy immediately told her 'but you are supposed to be real'.....
@anniem80 @judy@london @firstname.lastname@example.org @Igirl@84 Umm yes, that's right @anniem80 ...the HW's are the one's who put their lives out there on a reality TV program, and then they write blogs each week explaining their side of what happened on the show that week, which gives us the VIEWERS the right to comment on what happened..we, the viewers, aren't putting OUR lives out there to be commented on, the HW's ARE...geesh, I don't know how to get this through your head, THEY put their lives out there, so WE have the right to comment and we have the right to our own opinions, whether you agree with them or not. Geesh..
@Fayeth I disagree, I don't think Heather is bragging, by saying she has it all..I think she means that she feels that she as it all- by having a happy marriage and kids, a great career,etc...actually, Shannon has been the one to brag about sending her kids to cotillion, ordering weekly massages tor them, having no budget for her Christmas party, etc.- not Heather.
lgirl@84 ~ I wanted to see WWHL but fell asleep. I heard she was the same obnoxious, clueless Tamra (clueless because she just doesn't seem to get how her behavior comes across)! And I'm glad you brought up how Terry treated David! When David said Terry can't take them down and Terry said, "...I can't take you down because you're so tough!" That was so obnoxious! David was just reacting to what Tamra told them AND Victoria!
@Fayeth No, David WAS being passive-aggressive, and why didn't David stand up to Tamra, when she denied ever having said the "take down" comment, if David had heard Tamra say it, as well? David only agreed with his wife (out on the balcony) and I would imagine he's used to agreeing with her, right or wrong, because he knows how quickly she can come unraveled when anyone says anything other than what SHE wants to hear...I feel sorry for David, what a miserable way to have to live..