Does Shannon Beador talk about herself in the third person? Well that’s just what Shannon Beador would do.

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Glasslippa
Glasslippa

Shannons husband David has a very passive aggressive personality that is so strong you can smell it.....Terry is just a guy trying to stay on the good side of his wife....an enabler.....Eddie seems overwhelmed at the drama ...I think he is tiring of it....Christian is hoping his wife will be his meal ticket one day soon and Brooks is smiling like the cat who ate the canary....

ConservativeOCmom
ConservativeOCmom

Shannon as many issues as we can see you have, we do have compassion for you.  Your 7th day is coming and the source of your pain: T-A-M-A-R-A will hopefully soon be a thing of the past (provided the gossip columns are true ha ha).   It's not Heather Shannon--it's been Tamra all along.  Tamra is the source.  She is the one that keeps feeding the fire.  She drinks, she talks, she makes things up, she stirs the pot, then sits back and takes both sides of the fence.  This is her m.o.  Wake up Shannon, you've been manipulated into thinking it's Heather.  I have to say it was systematic and clever especially for Tamra, considering this woman is as dull in the brain cells as they come. Tamra started all the rumors and proceeded to lie to everyone about doing so.  Watch the episodes back with David.  Tamra should be your target, but don't lower yourself to her standards.  Work on the the important things--she is not one of them.  Just let her know you finally see it's HER and walk on.  Put it behind you and be done.  Then let us see this *fun, happy* Shannon you insist you really are.  And one more thing...please don't speak in the 3rd person anymore.  Trust me, this does not work in your favor and does nothing for your case.  Stop doing this, tell Tamra you are on to her and make your viewers VERY VERY PROUD.  Keep smiling...

bearlovesmouse
bearlovesmouse

It seems really hard to believe thatTamra had "no idea" what happened the second half of Lizzie's party..and Tamra trying to "restrain" Shannon,very weird,as was that ambulance comment...

zoezoe
zoezoe

love shannon she so real.  great family.

PAP
PAP

I do not believe that Shannon or Heather are jealous of each other.  I believe there is a third party causing a lot of confusion and hostility between them.  Yes, that would be Trashy Tamara.

marion3232
marion3232

Shannon Beador talk about herself in the third person? Well that’s just what Shannon Beador would do.

 Shannon Beador talk about herself in the third person? Well that’s just what Shannon Beador would do.

 Shannon Beador talk about herself in the third person? Well that’s just what Shannon Beador would do.

kathyren
kathyren

I don't like "Heather Dubrow"  this SEASON. she seems COLD and HEARTLESS!!! Tamera has always been a Pot Stirrer to keep her storyline active (No Surprise)  "Shannon Beador" my advice to you is Ignore them and don't stoop to their level... Yes, it IS easier said than done. But really, think about it! Do you want to ruin your composure, peace of mind and jovial mood by thinking about these jealous people? Why bother? Use your time, positive energy and talents for more productive pursuits, and you won't be able to do that until you learn to detach yourself by ignoring their shenanigans. They are not worth the sweat. Focus on your family and husband... and your TRUE Friends! <3

Clairetr
Clairetr

lol yes Shannon does talk about herself as if shes some great lady in the third person..what a joke..

mamabee99
mamabee99

If I had a house as nice as Shannon's I would kiss my husband's arse every day for giving it to me. I would keep to a budget so I wouldn't lose him. And it would be really important to me to make him happy so he would not leave me for a younger model. Either that or I would gain employment so I could support my own sorry self. Shannon tempts fate in the worst way.

Classyblueeyedblondie
Classyblueeyedblondie

Shannon speaks the truth ... she stands above the other ladies. This is why Vicki was drawn to Shannon at the beginning of the season; which explains why Vicki is still on the show. The "Heather" personality is a dime a dozen ... we all know women like her ... and Tamara has fallen once again.

I'm for Shannon ... Class act!!!

BABYFACE69
BABYFACE69

Shannon has it ALL AWESOME HOME, PRETTY, GOOD BODY, HOT HUSBAND, CLASS, MATURE!!!! so, of course CRAZY  Heather is very, very, obviously JEALOUS of Shannon!!!!! Shannon does NOT need to be on this show fighting with Heather and being stabbed in the back by Tamara. She is much MORE than some "reality" show!!!!! 

pamash1990
pamash1990

I can't stand Shannon! She attacked Heather at the xmas party and then shows up at Heather's house expecting sympathy from her for her marital issues?! Team Heather all the way! And in my opinion Heather did NOT kick Shannon out of her home that is just another way for SB to manipulate the truth and make Heather look like the bad guy, SB is very good at that! 

PeaceMom54
PeaceMom54

Shannon, you DO yell a lot.   Perhaps if you didn't, people wouldn't accuse you of it.

Libie
Libie

I think many people are looking through rose colored glasses when it comes to Shannon. She is a very divisive, manipulative woman. You will continue to blame Heather and blame Tamara, but take a second look at Shannon; she is not innocent!

mamabee99
mamabee99

Shannon has spent too much time alone with her kids and home and forgot how to socialize without being a perpetual victim or seeing others as a problem. She needs to develop interests to share and base relationships on common interest and mutual respect rather than foaming out her insecurities at everyone and blaming them for everything. She also has no respect for her husband, it is painful to watch how she speaks to him. Of course, he's no gem either, but he Does keep her in a beautiful home and lifestyle, one would think she could at least Try to think about his needs once a month or so. She's so lucky he didn't divorce her long ago, the way she treats him like an errant child instead of a man. Men have needs and I don't see any of his getting met, and I'm not just talking about sex. I can't believe how selfish she is without even seeming to be aware of it.

anita7
anita7

Shannon Beador ....please go away......

queenann100
queenann100

I find this fascinating.  Since everyone these days is using pop psychology terms like "gaslighting," they may be interested to know that speaking of oneself in the third person is called illeism.  It is a psychological disconnect resulting in dissonance, either from trauma, or from psychotic episodes of actions that cannot be reconciled with one's own self image.

Gwawah
Gwawah

Shannon...it's too bad that Tamara and Heather will take you down to ensure they are still on for the next season. Between the lies of them both as millions of us see, and their "better than you" feelings about themselves, it seems you have to pay the price.

tikideluth
tikideluth

Shannon,

here are a few words to live by: if you don't want something to be repeated, dont say it in the first place.

judy@london
judy@london

I think it was very telling when lol Shannon Beador admitted that she  she refers to  Heather as "Heather Dubrow" because " I guess that's what I do when I have a problem with someone" ??? Hello! Apparently you have a problem with yourself because you refer to yourself as "Shannon Beador" all the damn time...did anyone else catch that, I thought it was similar to a Freudian slip.

Tammy_c64
Tammy_c64

The way you come off on the show you are never satisfied with anything go out in the real world and live on a working persons salary you would not last a day, get off the show and work on yourself and your marriage get your priorities straight. As I watch you I wonder if you are a distant cousin to the Kardashians.

Tangela
Tangela

Hi Shannon. I watched the most recent show and it looks as if you were blaming the wrong person. You seem like a good person, but it looks as if you were angry with the wrong person. You really should be angry with Tamra because it was she that betrayed you and gossiped about your marital problems behind your back. She has done this to someone on every season that she"s been on the show. I have watched all seasons from the first one. Tamra is not to be trusted. She is not interesting and it seems that she is keeping messes going in order to stay relevant to the show. Yes, it was wrong for Heather to repeat what Tamra said, but you told Tamra, not Heather. You shouldn't believe anything Tamra says, ever and you should never tell her anything that you don't want others to know!

PAP
PAP

Shannon, I think you ROCK!!!!  I know you find yourself in unfamiliar territory with Tamara and Condescending Heather but you will catch on quickly to their games.  Please never sink to their level and always be true to yourself. 

judy@london
judy@london

@kathyren WHAT composure??? Lol This lady asks a question and because she doesn't like the answer, she goes screaming & flailing her arms like a lunatic...and I've yet to see this "jovial mood" you speak of, all I've seen is whining,complaining, and acting like a professional victim.

Brenda.Maria
Brenda.Maria

@Clairetr

 Shannon keeps talking about herself in third person shows how disconnected she truly is to herself.  She isn't entirely sure as to what she wants or really how to get it.  Her constant nagging of her husband.  Of course marriage isn't perfect, but you shouldn't always nagg at your husband for how you want him to behave.  One must remember, we cannot change a person because we simply want them to, a person will change on their own.  

Brenda.Maria
Brenda.Maria

@mamabee99 I think Shannon is very ungrateful and spoiled.  Her appreciation for her husband is nonexistant.  It is only tell they reach the bottom, does she realize that a man does not want to be nagged all the time or told that they can't do something right.

Brenda.Maria
Brenda.Maria

@Classyblueeyedblondie Vicki wasn't drawn to Shannon because she stands above the other ladies.  Vicki is drawn to her because she is sympathetic towards Shannon's marital problems.  Let us not forget that Vicki was always with Tamra is breaking apart Heather/Shannon.

marion3232
marion3232

@BABYFACE69 This is ridiculous Heather Is very  stable in her marriage career she communicated very well with her husband,How did you see Heather been jealous, seems like Shannon has problem with husband.

When a person is unhappy in a relationship, she/or he starts disagreeing with almost everything his partner says...You should ask why she signed to be this show IF SHE is much MORE than some "reality" show...

bravolover10
bravolover10

@BABYFACE69

Heather has a good marriage, a happy home, a fun career, and her sanity.  Why on earth would she want anything Shannon has or be jealous of Shannon?  I do not agree.

judy@london
judy@london

@BABYFACE69 "Crazy" Heather isn't the one running through the house, flailing her arms and  screaming like a lunatic, now is she? No, that would be Shannon. I would agree that she has an awesome home and a nice looking husband though, too bad she doesn't appreciate it, and is constantly whining & complaining about something..David will move on eventually, as he's already stated that he's not happy with her..and who can blame him?

Libie
Libie

Take the rose colored glasses off; Shannon is new to the show and has created a story line by causing conflict with Heather and showing her troubled marriage to all the viewers. She is the one who consistently draws others into her conflict with Hearher.

Brenda.Maria
Brenda.Maria

@pamash1990 If I was in Heather's situation, I wouldn't have even let her in my home.  I'd immediately tell her that her issue is with Tamra and because she doesn't think highly of me, it shouldn't matter what I would say to her anyways.

Brenda.Maria
Brenda.Maria

@pamash1990 Yeah she tried to use the "mother" card to gain sympathy and she sure has won it.  However, I don't like Shannon.  She made her own bed and how she has to lie in it.

cars121
cars121

@mamabee99 It seems as though SB is 'unaware' of a plethora of things. Mentioning that she doesn't know (or care) what her 'budget' is, spoke volumes that SB is beyond clueless.  Not just regarding what things cost, but the concerted time, effort, energy, drive, determination, & SACRIFICE that is required to earn ANY kind of living, much less the over the top, self agrandizing activities she views as non-negotiable essentials.  Despite being raised in 'entitled' families, many people develop a sense of how most of the rest of the world lives.  Not SB.  Not only can't I imagine SB ever volunteering at a charitable soup kitchen, or the like, I can't imagine her having the ability (or desire)  to locate or get to one.  I don't believe the concept has EVER even crossed her mind. THAT'S sad.

cars121
cars121

@queenann100 For the lay version interpretation, see SB's video.  She calls herself out on having a problem with herself without intending to.  Yet another in a series of.....let's all say it together now.....misunderstandings.  LOL

CrazyKoolaid
CrazyKoolaid

@tikideluth    Put a techno high-five to your comment!!!   Most honest and accurate words (IMO) have been spoken.   Unfortunate that Shannon didn't initially recognize that, to later blame others for her (Opps...can I take it back) mistake.

mamabee99
mamabee99

Professional victim, I love that.

queenann100
queenann100

@judy@london @kathyren Actually, good point.  I'm not sure I've seen a "jovial" Shannon one entire time this season.  She's usually miserable, taking shots at her husband, or running away and screaming/crying.  I have yet to see this woman in a good mood.  

judy@london
judy@london

@Brenda.Maria @Clairetr  You're right,the only thing we can change is the way we react to their behavior...It would serve Shannon well to implement this in all her relationships..

mamabee99
mamabee99

Too bad she will figure all this out after it is too late, like many of us...

mamabee99
mamabee99

Love what you wrote! Especially, non-negotiable essentials! Love yor statement about not having the ability or desire to locate one. Great minds think alike!

CrazyKoolaid
CrazyKoolaid

@cars121 @judy@london    cars121 - We are usually of 'like viewpoint' in regards to Shannon.   Most instances, would 'like' your comment, but please educate me.   I know, should goggle (but not in the mood).    What is  - ICAM -?     Appreciate!