Katie Maloney

Katie is appalled by Kristen's betrayal and lies and thinks Tom is delusional for sticking by his girlfriend's side.

on Feb 40

Preparing for any photo shoot is a daunting experience. I hate dieting so I have to up the work out. I had discovered Shape House LA and thought it was an amazing way to help shed some water weight. I knew Stassi would love it because she just needed to lay there and watch TV. She is really more of an indoor low endurance kind of girl.

For this shoot I really needed to add in some meditation in order to deal with all the drama floating around. It wasn't as bad as I had anticipated. I think it was most awkward for Tom, but he did a good job of holding it together.

They way I see it is, I am only getting older and one day my looks will fade and my body will be unrecognizable from today, so why not do a risqué little shoot. I was with my closest friends and with world renowned photographers. It seemed a better time than ever! I knew if Lisa saw she would be upset, and of course she had to walk in right in the midst of it! Luckily, she didn’t hold it against us.

Lisa and Stassi telling Tom to face the truth was necessary. I think they both approached it in very supportive manner. Tom was caught up in his own doubts and in the semantics of the truth, trying to rule out any possibility that the rumor could be true. But the proof was in the pudding. The unearthing of this revelation was earth-shattering for everyone, especially Tom, and I suppose he needed to take his time, but he also needed to face the harsh truth.

At this point, I had accepted the fact that Tom and Kristen were never going to break up and they were just going to continue torturing each other for eternity. If Tom was going to not only believe Kristen but also have her back, then they are so far from reality that no one could help them.

109 comments
dobnerk
dobnerk

Katie, I wish that you would step back and look at Stassi the way almost everyone else can see her.  You are too close and can't see past the control and manipulation.  She is either suffering from such low self esteem that she has to hide it with an air of self-importance and arrogance or she is a complete narcissist.  Perfect example: Look at the way that she behaved when her all-important birthday celebration was interrupted by something so insignificant as a woman having her boyfriend throw a drink in her face.  You would have thought that Christ, himself, was born on her birthday.  Step back, Katie!  Look at the craziness that surrounds your "friend," Stassi.  One thing is for sure, although your other friends clearly have issues, you can't throw any stones until you clean up your own life.  Get some backbone and stop following Stassi, like a puppy.

speakingup
speakingup

you ARE a follower of Stassi and can not think on your own,  weak I say weak!!

Mayabee
Mayabee

Katie, did stassi suck your brain out?  Do you have one of your own?

You have nothing to offer this show, that is why you follow Stassi like a puppy dog

Southerngal15
Southerngal15

I don't think any of them really can point the fingers at one another-- this season was basically a hot mess of lies and swearing on mothers lives, their own lives, hand to God even was said-- if I were them I would have looked for lightning to come down with that one. It is horrible how the majority of that circle can look loved ones and best friends/good friends eye to eye and lie right to their faces without a second thought and with a calm steady gaze wow. I cant get over how some in that circle felt no remorse for hurting friends/loved ones. It was just unreal this season with all that went down and how most were so busy calling others out yet they had tons of dirt in their own backyard. Katie at the reunion you said how watching yourself was basically a wakeup call to the behavior you did not like about yourself and I hope that is true and I hope you did learn from everything that went down this season and grow from all of it-you cant cry over spilled milk as the saying goes so all a person can do is own the wrongs they did, try and make it right if you can and keep it moving and be a better person. 



darlene.demeritt
darlene.demeritt

oTom , I would be glad to be rid of that relationship .  The reason she can't believe you is because she cant tell the truth ! She cant keep her legs closed. She put all of you through hell . She looked so bad on tonight's show Her ugly was showing through> IM telling you watch the episode she is EVIL.  Vindictive and only care's about payback Young dumb and full of cum !  Its funny because none f this is going to matter later on!

partee1
partee1

You were a part of Stassi's posse, you believed everything she told you and followed her like a little puppy.  Keep listening to Stassi and you will lose Swartz too.

djbrowning60
djbrowning60

I have a question that hasn't been answered; how did Katie know about Kristen and Jax? After all, she was the one who told Stassi at Peter's birthday.

Charming24
Charming24

You need to do some soul-searching.

shelly56
shelly56

still dont know why or what your doing on this show talentless katie ..snore and your bf snore ... we need you two out and two new fresh faces seriously 

hsewivsfn
hsewivsfn

HAHAHA!!! She thinks like a normal person!!! HAHAHAHA!!!

Hulali
Hulali

Where is your responsibility in all this??? Kristen was your BEST friend and told you something extremely personal in confidence.  She obviously regretted being with Jax immediately after by trying to cover it up and pretend it never happened.  You betrayed your best friend during a drunken rant you don't even remember.  You have ruined your friend's chances at a TV show and tore up Tom's heart.  Yet you just tag along with Stassi (who really has no standing in this matter because she was not with Jax anymore) to torture Kristen


Kristen made a huge mistake one night, but you not only betrayed your friend, but teamed up against her later!  Shame on you!

Luv_Ashia
Luv_Ashia

Please, stop drinking, find a new group of friends, get a new job and marry Tom.  Then I think that you may be ok.

YouTellHerBrandi
YouTellHerBrandi

It's none of your business drunk, nasty Katie. Go drink some more and get drinks poured on you by your boyfriend. If you were a good friend to stasis you would have told her sooner. You are boring and when you go on your rants you are pathetic.

debmerc888
debmerc888

Hi Katie: You are being awfully hard on a one-time friend aren't you? Have you ever heard the saying don't kick someone when they're down? Following someone like Stassi blindly does not serve you well. Maybe Stassi is gone now, but will you follow another person like her, or will you have a backbone and think for yourself?

And I don't think Tom standing up for Kristen in her time of need is delusional. That's called being a goood person. Katie, you have beauty, a great boyfriend, and a lot more I'm sure, don't you think some compassion would be in order?

sakibetty
sakibetty

Everything you said in your blog, NAILED IT! You're not a bad friend at all, you're just tired of Kristen's bs. Her drama, pathological lying, and constantly dragging you into her issues -only- to push you away when you were honest with her (in Cabo)... is all self-serving. Selfish people are better off with themselves. Keep your head up, you did the right thing but cutting that crazypants loose! You just have a couple more people to let go...

Sensa
Sensa

Katie, I find you to be more intelligent than the others. Don't worry about being a bad, loud, drinker. I know you're not. But I do see that your relationship with Tom is unhealthy. It's hard to find your calling and to gain respect in a positive way, but perhaps your duty is done for the show and it's time to think about your next steps out of the limelight. I think you should use Stassi to your advantage but with a clear perspective on your objective for the future. Once you decide what that is, I think you will be successful. Otherwise, without a goal to do good in this experience will keep you in the background as a nominal character like Scheana. 

Jennacheryl
Jennacheryl

PS I love how Kristen is just standing there when the assault began that Jax deserved.

Jennacheryl
Jennacheryl

Katie, I am not going to trash you.  I think you were in a crappy situation knowing the truth but being forced to keep that secret. I was once in a similar situation except that there were babies involved. Lying to your friends via omission sucks and it is always a loose loose situation.Ignore the haters.  I will say Tom did do the right thing by standing by Kristen as she told Stassi.

candy1586
candy1586

Katie first of all i don't know what your definition of "best friend " or Friends is because if you and someone are friends especially best friend you don't turn your back on that person when things get rough or try to kick them when their down even if they were wrong or right , u listen and try to be there for that person as much as possible,Kristen did nothing to you and you are old enough to have a mind of your own and not follow Stassi and try to turn everyone against Kristen, being there for the good times only doesn't make you a true friend it makes u a fake one. Being there for Kristen doesn't mean u condone what she did it simply shows you were a true friend to her. GOODLUCK BECAUSE YOU'RE GONNA NEED IT , WHEN YOU DIG HOLES FOR PEOPLE YOU USUALLY HAVE TO DIG 2! what goes around comes around. 

rozzy7
rozzy7

Katie, shut up! You are a follower and nasty to boot.

harriecharlie5
harriecharlie5

You're right Tom shouldn't show any kindness to his girlfriend - maybe he should have thrown a drink in her face...? Grow up.


fortunegirl
fortunegirl

Katie is only second to Stassi's high level nasty!

premmie1
premmie1

Katie....you are a mean drunk and in desperate need of REHAB...bet you didn't think Kristen would have so any supporters...you kissed the wrong ass doll!!

balharbour
balharbour

We didn't really need you to tell us you the dieting dear.  You were a horrible friend to Kristen and you should be ashamed of yourself.  Why don't you do her a favor and just stay away from her?

Yazz
Yazz

Katie get off the Stassi train.  She has had a problem with everybody on this show.  Who will she "bring down" next season.  There's only one girl left Katie...... Just saying

Whine4Wine
Whine4Wine

I think your boyfriend needs to move on.  Nobody likes a sloppy drinker with a motor mouth.  You tear people down one minute and act like kissing cousins the next.  With friends like you who really needs enemies.

meristel.shaw
meristel.shaw

A month at the Betty Ford Center would do you a world of good honey!!

MEA1963
MEA1963

Aren't you the one who was drinking one night and actually told Stassi about this to begin with? That is how all of this began, correct? Really you guys are all good friends but your all very judgmental to each other whether you call that being supportive or not. Your all very guilty of this. You cannot control what another person does nor can you think they are stupid for staying with someone just because you would like to believe you would leave like immediately if you found out something such as what Tom found out. You may do the same thing as each one of these people have done before and you might stay until you are ready to leave.

Zaworski
Zaworski

Sure, Kirsten cheated on Tom and lied to him, but Tom also cheated on Kristen, more than once, and also lied about it. They both made mistakes, and they should probably go their separate ways romantically, but not because you and their other so-called friends say so, but because that's the only way they can stop their cycle of getting back at each other for the hurt the other one caused. 

Your boyfriend clearly has major anger issues towards women, and you aren't very nice whether you're drunk or sober, so maybe you should be focusing on your own problems, instead of kicking Kristen while she's already down.

tarotlady2
tarotlady2

You need to grow up, get sober, and start thinking for yourself...then...and ONLY then...can you start to express opinions about another person's behavior...you are truly pathetic...and hypocritical.

lorelye
lorelye

You and the others really should learn to think for yourselves and stand up to Stassi.  She is not all that you all think she is.  You all shouldn't be persecuting Kristen. None of you are without sin. Remember that.  Leave Kristen and Tom alone to deal with the mess they both made of their relationship.  

@kitkat75
@kitkat75

You are pathetic, and you are so far up Stassis ass you cannot see how ridiculous, and mean you really are and lets not forget self righteous. When Stassi turns on you which she will everyone will be against you as well. Your relationship is far from perfect, you are noones friend, it is just a matter of time when you feel what Kristen is feeling. Yes she did wrong, but what makes you the holier than though person to persecute her. I would never want any friend like you, you drink too much and make no sense. Very sad person, grow up.

trayruots
trayruots

You are a total hypocrite.  You and Stassi are the ones that deserve to be together because youre relationship is creepy.  You have not right to judge anyone let along your supposedly best friend.  All of you on this show have no idea what it's like in the real world.  You are all spoiled brats, but at least Tom has learned from this experience and I see him moving on from this into healthier relationships with people other than you guys.  If you honestly think your relationship with your BF or Stassi is healthy, take a look at past episodes and see how they talked about you behind your back. 

joegraen
joegraen

So if Stassi told you to jump off of a bridge would you? Do you have any thoughts of your own going on in that little head of yours?

miss_molli_mermaid
miss_molli_mermaid

You have zero story line on the show other than being Stassi's puppet and acting like a drunken fool.  Your best moment was when your boyfriend threw a drink in your face - you will always be

synonymous with that.  Keep that in mind next time you want to judge someone else's relationship.

Eurogirl
Eurogirl

Why do you care? You obviously don't like them because Stassi told you to, so who are you to judge someone else's relationship?

keytothecity43
keytothecity43

Your blog is hilarious!  Kristen is a horrible friend, that is for sure.  Although, Stassi isn't much better.  I think you would probably be doing yourself a favor to distance yourself from her.  I think you are awesome though. 

tinydancer55
tinydancer55

I'm with the others who don't get it.  You and your co-workers crying foul, that it IS your business to get involved and have an opinion. And damnit, those people better do what you want them to. (break up). 

And you mention 'Shame', something none of you clearly have! If you did, you would check your behavior before the camera rolls.  Yes, I know, that's not what the show wants. 


So in light of that, please, continue on! It's great mindless entertainment and I have no expectations of 

common decency when I see you and the rest of the cast!  But, look out, what goes around, will come around.

Looking forward to Karma kicking your ass....       

biggins4me
biggins4me

I totally agree.  Lisa babies Stassi not sure why Jax chased her so long not worth the effort.  Lisa needs to wake up and smell her pink flowers.  Stassi has complained all season she is worthless when is Lisa going to see that? I have to stop watching it is nothing but a bunch of cry baby back stabbers..

YouTellHerBrandi
YouTellHerBrandi

@Yazz I would love to see stasis bring down Katie the klown and that quiet one who talks about everyone behind their backs and then looks like who me? when everything starts happening.

rbaro
rbaro

@Whine4Wine Your right.  In this blog she is talking nice about Schenna.  I guess whatever Stassi likes she likes. 

YouTellHerBrandi
YouTellHerBrandi

@MEA1963 They are all horrible people. I hope Lisa wakes up and fire the lot of them and doesn't bring this trashy show back.

imk505
imk505

@Zaworski  You are right about her boyfriend. It takes very little to set that guy off. Just because he is nice in front of others or says the right things afterwards means absolutely nothing, in fact, thats how these (abusers) type of guys usually behave. No one suspects them until its too late. He seems to be waiting for an opportunity to attack girls, like he did with Kristen when she went after Stassi. 

YouTellHerBrandi
YouTellHerBrandi

@trayruots It's none of anyones business that Kristen slept with Jax. They should both tell everyone to fuc* off.

YouTellHerBrandi
YouTellHerBrandi

@tinydancer55 Me too. It's Katie the klowns turn next and then someone is going to give it to stasis and that will be the best.

YouTellHerBrandi
YouTellHerBrandi

@imk505 @Zaworski I didn't see that part. I wanted Kristen to beat the hell out of stasis. Tom Swartz hit a girl? Oh, is he one of stasis's girls now?