Scheana Marie

Scheana is sick of people focusing on her "affair" with a married man as she gets ready to twerk down the aisle.

on Feb 30

The photo shoots for SUR are always fun! We sneak in alcohol (Lisa, I hope you're not reading this) and make it a party. This year was a little different, however, with all of the drama flying around. Watching back I had no idea so many other conversations were happening because I was in my own world. Between Tom and Stassi’s talk and Tom’s conversation with Lisa, it was heartbreaking to watch. Tom was in such deep denial and didn't want to accept the truth. We tried soo hard to make him see these rumors were true, but he didn't want to believe it. Kristen would've taken this to her grave had Jax not saved those texts from her. She didn't want to admit it, but I think she knew deep down that it was the right thing to do so Tom wasn't suffering with the lies anymore. He wanted to believe her so badly he kept coming up with all of these different scenarios that could have happened instead of the truth.

97 comments
kylesbackfat
kylesbackfat

"I'm such a good person!"


If you have to say you are, you aren't.

debbachue
debbachue

Sheana when you told Lisa why give up tips and jobs because of Brandi, that is the price you pay for screwing her husband.  People will let it go if you would stay away from Brandi.  It does not matter if it was 6, 7, or 10 years ago, you still did it, and Brandi will never get over it. Or as you said "Let it go," it isn't going to happen.  One more thing, having a fit about your front teeth, going on and on about it, and then during the fighting seen Lisa had to hold you because you were crying like a baby of what could have happened.  Things can be fixed.  Grow up, you are not 10 years old any more.

pammerkt
pammerkt

Your in a wierd way are right-because he was never going to leave his family for you-you were more like a toy that was easily discarded...

ejeanTx
ejeanTx

Schemas, remember what goes around comes around. With that being said if your husband cheat on you, don't fall apart...Put your big girl panties on and deal with it ! I wish you all the best...

bullybuster
bullybuster

Scheana, I used to be your biggest fan.  However, the way you have been behaving lately has really pushed me away.  I found you very annoying and needy this season.  I want the old Scheana back.  Send the new Scheana, Stassi's follower away, where she belongs.

jilldenise1
jilldenise1

Hello you slept with a married man your not getting a pass on this one your expecting everyone to forget about it, this man had children/wife big difference from your coworkers boyfriend/girlfriend stuff . You think Brandi should be really nice to you if I was Brandi I would not even look at you she has been as nice as she can be you will never be friends with her you were screwing her husband you had a hand in breaking a home up children involved shame on you and btw you can't sing or dress your fake and you knew he was MARRIED

elle3773
elle3773

I normally would never tell someone to quit pursuing a dream but forcing people to listen to your singing is cruel and unusual punishment. And furthermore, everybody knows that you had had an affair with a married man and only a handful of people really care. You will eventually get paid back for what you've done. I'll bet money that Shay will leave you for another man. It's so obvious! 

shelly56
shelly56

scheana i do believe you were honestly sorry for the affair when u sat down with brandi and she spoke to u and it was left fairly good if she comes to your job is it awkward for u to leave all the time yes , do we all have to suffer in life for our mistakes yes we do and u are no different u cant expect this woman to ever really like u , she sat down with u i think thats enough , it does need to be forgotten about but what i do think is your boss lisa shouldnt be shoving you in her face and letting it be a constant reminder of what went down , why does brandi have to be happy for u or anything that happens in your life ? why do u care ???? like dont get it , very strange , its a mistake u will have forever dont give it more fuel and have respect for the woman that was married to the guy u had a an affair with . end of . u made the mistake now suck it up 

usmc0703
usmc0703

It doesn't matter what you think because you were with a married man with children.  For as much as you are all on the internet and your phone's I find it hard to believe you didn't Google him or know anything about him.  Either way yes he ruined his family but he did it with you and other woman.  Woman just walk all over each other instead of being classy and just not doing it..sort of like your friend Ariana.  She should not have messed around with Tom but she is getting off the hook because the other drama is worse.  Just be careful you are now happy like Brandi once was and then her world came crashing down one day.  It could happen to you girls just don't care these days and if it does you have to.forgive the other woman and get over it just like you expect Brandi to do

Just saying

hsewivsfn
hsewivsfn

Though I seriously hope it never happens to you, but I do wonder how you would feel if your husband ever cheated on you with another woman...would you feel very forgiving of her because after all...she didn't cheat on you, your husband did? Very self centered logic!

Cin_Gordon
Cin_Gordon

Scheana....you are crazy! You slept and kept sleeping with a married man!!  Whether or not Brandi's marriage was in trouble or whatever, you knowingly slept with him and wanted him for yourself! I don't know how Brandi even stands to say "Hi" to you! Had it not been for Lisa, I am sure Brandi would have handled it a little different with you! And you say Brandi needs to get over it!? Wow.....grow up little girl  And BTW....you really can't sing! Somebody needs to come clean with you and let you know just how terrible you sound! Sorry!  And all that whining about your teeth!! OMG...enough already!

Terricrista
Terricrista

I'm certain that your affair with EC was the biggest mistake of your life and that your would never repeat it.  Yes, he was the one that took vows and cheated, with several silly women.  You were all just a notch on his belt, I'm sure, but you're no innocent victim here.  You didn't end it when you found out the truth, period.  Think how you would feel as the wife.  I'm no huge fan of Brandi G, but she has been gracious enough to forgive you.  That doesn't mean she enjoys your company and wants to spend time chatting with you.  I have never known the pain of having my husband betray me in such a deeply personal and disrespectful way and I hope you never know that pain either.  You seem to have a big heart and I wish you deeper insight and truly wish you a very happy marriage and life.

opinions4me
opinions4me

Grow up Scheana, you did get involved with a married man, and you did split up a family.  You KNOW this!  We can only pray that you won't destroy the man you are about to marry.  They do say " A leopard never changes it's spots".  You have a lot to learn about life and TRUTH!


Jennacheryl
Jennacheryl

Yes she was wrong for cheating but that was like 6 yrs ago or so.  She would have been around 22 still believing in fairy tales and in the old line that I am separated.  It was wrong but Brandi is the only person who has the right to still be ticked.  I don't know that Brandi would even care anymore but for the fact that she still has to see Scheana. Sorry but that has to suck for B. Other people sorry but get over it you dont have a dog in this fight.  Best wishes on your pending marriage!

hifromhartford
hifromhartford

Scheana, I think you're probably a pretty sweet girl but you also come off as a total idiot. No one wants to read in your blog that you're not guilty of cheating, or watch you on ROBH showing off your ring to Brandi as if she should care. You're not going to talk yourself out of this one and Brandi is never going to care about your happiness. Word to the wise: you should stay away from her and stop talking about it if you want everyone else to stop bringing it up.

charlie_
charlie_

You'll always be(one of)  the (many) other woma(e)n.  Doesn't matter if its only in one person's (Brandi) eyes or many.  Get over it.  You admitted to eventually knowing he was married and continued, but were just one of a long list of "other" women.  I think that is what you can't get over, you were just one of many...that's has to make you sick...blech. Now, go get Brandi a coffee...

balharbour
balharbour

Way to make it all about you at the party after the fight Scheana!  Were you angry to lose a few moments of air time?  To quote a famous playwright : they still call me captain but I gave up the sea long ago - you will always be the girl who slept with that married actor.  Just embrace it and make it part of your story line for your life.  Getting married will never change the past - just the future.  Lots of us were slutty and sexual before getting married - its something you look back on fondly as you approach social security.  I liked the song and your dancing too.

ginger3305
ginger3305

You call what you do as singing??? The real star's that sing do NOT need a track playing in the background! It is like a talent show at a middle school! If you always need a track playing just lip sync!! Why don't you try it sometime without autotune! You seem like a genuine person, but the singing is not good. Let us know when you make the top 20!

missyree
missyree

Due to the fact that you were just one of many Eddie cheated with probably does not make you a home wrecker.  But you were part of the hit squad of chicks  that sabotaged Brandi's marriage. Eddie is kind of like Jax. They will ever change and no one chick should get it in her head they will be true to them.  Eddie like Jax is a cad.

Whine4Wine
Whine4Wine

Sheano I use to love you.  Love those bug glasses and your personality.  But when you were so desperate to get on the Stassi train after all she said about you and put you through I lost total respect.  You more than anyone should have stood by Kristin through thick and thin.  Glad you are getting married will you be leaving the show too?

Andrea36
Andrea36

OMG! The minute you found out he was married you should have walked away. I do not want to here oh but I loved him. Too bad. At that moment you became a home wrecker. Stop whining about it and just live with it. Stop trying to spin it in your favor. Not going to work.

Cooper1995
Cooper1995

Please, please, please stop singing, NOW!  You have a pretty face but your voice is annoyingly whiney and you sing off key ALOT !!   I'm just trying to save you some time.  Find another career cause singing is not going to go very far.  There are about a hundred singers on the The Voice and American Idol who sing SO much better than you.  Seriously, listen to all of he comments below.  I'm not alone on this one.

MEA1963
MEA1963

I am very happy for you and I totally understand where you coming from if you did in fact not know he was a married man. I mean it happens all the time when someone chooses to have an affair and keep it a secret. Brandi is still not willing to look at the fact that you didn't know he was married and not single. Her marriage and family together ended from what she says so she holds you accountable because you were the woman who she believes had an affair with her husband. I wish you well in your marriage I believe you deserve it. Don't try so hard to get Brandi to approve of you because no matter what she is not going to have good things to say about you. She needs to deal with her own issues and blaming you makes it alot easier to not have to look at her part in her failed marriage. I am certain she was no saint. She didn't just wake up one morning and become the poor me, obnoxious lady she is today who has no concern for another person whatsoever other than herself. Being the victim makes her believe she is ok to act this way. I totally would not allow her to be rude whatsoever. Enjoy your time until you get married and congrats to you and yours.

ddbird2l
ddbird2l

I do believe you that you didn't know Eddie was married when the affair started. But you have internet and I am sure you Googled him,you saw at least 100 images of him with Brandi and his boys. So don't play victim. I don't judge you for sleeping w/ him only God can. But, the way you ladies all want to put a scarlet letter on Kristin is deplorable. Stassi was banging Frank while still w/ Jax. This stuff happens and it angers me when women don't support each other more. Forgive her, God has and move on. Stassi just wants to play victim and she uses her puppets to follow her like lovesick puppy dogs. You, Katie and the rest of the girls look pathetic. Stassi and Jax should be together they are both narcissistic and deserve each other.

katt55
katt55

The whole he pushed me boohoo, was very strange and weird.

Whatnow
Whatnow

It seems that you are always in your own world, as you put it.

wowomfgwow
wowomfgwow

If you didn't know he was married, then IMO, it wasn't even an affair on your part.  You did absolutely NOTHING wrong.  How in the hell are people going to twist that into you having an affair?  that is mind boggling!!!!   Now, if you knew after the fact that he was married and was still seeing him, then shame on you, kind of.  I guess its harder to stop seeing someone when you feel for them, and then they tell you, "I have to tell you something, I'm married.  But we're not in love, yada yada yadda."   


I kind of liked you, you are drop dead gorgeous, a little dorky IMO, but guys like girls like that these days.  You're fashionable, and you stand up for yourself which is awesome.  The only thing I didn't like is how you kept trying to befriend Stassi SO MANY times after you knew she was a twat.  Why does EVERYONE want to be on her goodside??  I know you could care less now, but then, it was all anyone would do is try not to piss Stassi off, and it was annoying to watch people kiss her ass. Well, good luck to you and your man, and your endeavors.  

canyoudealwiththat
canyoudealwiththat

You may not consider yourself a home wrecker and it doesn't matter. You are definitely a hypocrite, talking about how terrible it is to sleep with another person's boyfriend. You did what you did with a married man. At least you could woman up and be supportive instead of trolling with Team Stassi. 

krayne
krayne

I don't think you are a bad person - just incredibly naive. Though you didn't know he was married, what you did was still wrong - if you didn't want Brandi to dislike you, you should have been kissing her a**. Now that you'll be married and possibly later a Mom, you'll understand why you probably should have handled your interactions with Brandi a little differently.

CharleneFL
CharleneFL

I call BULLS**T!  And honey in order to twerk it you gotta know how to work it, and that, you do not!

Andycohenismyfavorite1
Andycohenismyfavorite1

Even if he lied to you...after the fact when the truth came out you went on National TV crying about your affair.  He had a wife and children who had to watch that.  That says a lot about your character.


southern_goddess
southern_goddess

Why on earth should Brandi be excited for YOUR engagement?!  SHE DOESN'T OWE YOU ANYTHING!!!!!  Thank goodness she tolerates you at all, after what you've done!  The sad part is, YOU think you're the victim in the entire fiasco!  You're a delusional mess! 

marshmallowjane
marshmallowjane

You each need to update your cast information. Your info mentions or alludes to your dating a married man. It would help people's view of you to rewrite this.

marie.rivas.35
marie.rivas.35

FIRST IMPRESSIONS ARE THE LASTING IMPRESSIONS....On the show you were labeled as a homewrecker wether you knew he was married or not, the audience knew you first off the bat as the "other woman". So it will be difficult to clean that image wether you marry, good girl, etc. The affair should've have never been mentioned in the beginning, you'd never have that black cloud lingering. Like I said, First impressions are the lasting ones.

joegraen
joegraen

The fact that you try to justify your actions I find so funny I laughed so hard I peed a little bit.

carom
carom

I started laughing when you whined about being knocked over. Your friend's life was falling apart at that moment and you, the victim, again tried to put yourself in the center of attention. Shame on you.

ambs2013
ambs2013

Scheana please stop singing its hard to watch.  and you had an affair so deal with it you my dear are no victim.

sholly
sholly

Those shorts were NOT flattering on you at all......jus saying.

Fil007
Fil007

Scheana,


Ignore bitter, botoxed Brandi's ramblings.  


Earlier in the season Brandi said that your breaking your tooth was possibly karma.  Well, following that logic then what did Brandi do to injure her hand/wrist so badly?  Maybe karma for Brandi!


It's easy to bring up the cheating thing to hurt or mock you, but Brandi's husband, by her own admission, cheated on her with many women and he lied to his wife, Brandi,  AND he lied to the women he went out with.  The whole, "My wife and I are separated" thing.    


So ignore the angry, bitter botoxed attention seeking second rate model.  She's just being clever with you to get screen time.



keytothecity43
keytothecity43

You are so naive.  You did know he was married.  You only heard what you wanted to hear, which was anything that made it okay in your own mind to be doing what you were doing. 

I also think you are extremely shallow.  Perhaps that is a product of where you live and the people you surround yourself with.  

edtuo
edtuo

not only are you a homewrecker, but you actually had the nerve to expect the woman whose husband you cheated with to be angry on your behalf that he cheated on you, too. pretty darned disgusting and entitled. if i were you i'd just own it and realize people will always know that about you. from here on out, just strive to do better and not to hurt other people. it's a simple but pretty nice way to live. it is not all about you. you are not a child and should know that by now.

windycitygal5
windycitygal5

Now that you are engaged try to look at things from Brandi's point of view.  It's part of maturity to do so!  You made a mistake and you were young.  Just apologizing doesn't make everything okay.  You can forgive someone but it isn't that easy to forget!

CherylS27
CherylS27

First place, if Lisa asks you to cater, ask if Brandi will be there, if she is, then decline.  She was hurt and regardless you are a part of it and remain as such until either Brandi is off the show and/or you are married.  As for Jax and Tom, something else is going on, Jax being that cool and with no remorse seems to sociopath like, Tom did something in the past to incur this reaction.  As for Kristen, everyone has a right to outraged towards her, Jax did finally tell the truth which is more than what Kristen did after she tried to garner sympathy about what Tom did to her.  The fight was going to happen and it needed to happen, that was Jax taking his punishment, he is somewhat sorry he did what he did but doesn't know how to fix things with him and Tom.  Good luck with the wedding!

regmartin
regmartin

YOU of all the group turned your back on Kristen, just so you can be friends with THAT Stassi, you are NASTY!!!! you are a "HOME WRECKER" and the way you did Kristen, hope KARMA don't bite your marriage in the butt!!!

ginger666
ginger666

YOU CAN'T sing!  Your voice is sooo annoying.  "OH my teeth" really?

mfmendo
mfmendo

I think being the mistress to a married man is abhorrent.  Brandi owes you nothing.  She doesn't need to be nice to you or ever forgive you.  However, that's between you and Brandi.  The others don't need to involve themselves. When I saw you get knocked over I felt bad because I has a similar situation happen except it was an ex who tried to attack me and his friend was holding him back when they fell on me.  I was also bruised for a while.  Women are more delicate and some women bruise easily.  That being said, it did seem like you were being a drama queen at the time (no offense).   But overall, I think you're the most likeable and level headed of everyone.  Good like on your singing career and don't listen to the nay sayers!

missyree
missyree

P.S.  You can't sing. Please  S T O P!

opinions4me
opinions4me

@MEA1963   You sound like someone who is in denial.  She knew he was a married man!  Wake up, don't be a fool.  This happens way too often.

thissharkswims5
thissharkswims5

@southern_goddess I agree. Just because you and Brandi had a talk didn't mean that you were gonna be best friends.  She could probably care less about you and your the last person on her mind

BrooklynLass
BrooklynLass

@sholly Agree.


The shoes were pretty ugly too.


Together, a disaster, especially at an engagement party!

mfmendo
mfmendo

Sorry I meant good luck on your singing.  You seem to be the only one taking advantage of her camera time with someone constructive.