Cast Blog: #PUMPRULES

Scheana's a Great Server

Scheana calls the secret dinner trick "bulls---", talks ring shopping, and completely belives the Jax/Kristen rumor.

Let me just start by saying I had a blast at Peter's birthday before the debauchery. Katie was wasted and when she gets to that point there's no reasoning with her. Working with her after the party was the same as it's been on and off for the last two years. It wasn't a big deal, just annoying. She never works in the lounge with me and of course right after the club that night, she's in the lounge with me.

I loved that Schwartz had my back I'm regards to the "lapdance" -- if you can even call it that. That just goes to show he's a reasonable person with common sense. Katie completely overreacted and was beyond mean to me for no reason.

I really appreciated Katie's apology. I was happy that she was able to own up to her actions and know that she was at fault. I'm a very forgiving person. Sometimes it bites me in the ass but honestly, life is too short to have hatred and anger in your heart. So I accepted her apology and moved on.Stassi on the other hand, I felt, owed me an apology also. We just went out and got past our issues (or so I thought) and she can't even have my back? I don't understand why. Because Katie is her "best" friend and I'm just a friend? Even if Ariana, my BEST friend, was in the wrong I would call her out. After my birthday "fake" apology from Stassi I didn't take this one too seriously -- but sometimes it's easier to just get along. Shay and I already planned on spending his birthday in Cabo with the group so it's easier to just get along and know that I probably won't be friends with all of these people in five years anyways.

I brought up the Jax and Kristen rumor because I wanted more details! This is the juiciest piece of gossip to EVER hit SUR. At the time, yeah, I did think Kristen and Jax were capable of such a thing. It really didn't surprise me if it happened, it surprised me that it came out!

The whole thing with the secret diner was a bulls--- set up. I am an amazing server. Come into SUR and you will see. The table sat wasn't in my section. They ordered the most odd appetizer on our menu -- which I have now tried. I always make jokes at my tables and have fun. They clearly weren't having it. Whatever. I rang in their damn appetizer the second I got their order. It's not MY fault the kitchen sent their order to a different table and it took forever. Katie didn't come to the rescue. I went back to the kitchen several times to check on them and there was a mix up. I am perfectly capable of taking a two-top table in the bar when it's slow while talking to Tom. It was really annoying to see those girls try and say the service was bad and act like I wasn't paying attention to them. Whatever. Come to SUR and you'll see how good I am.

Engagement ring shopping was so fun! We went to a jewelry store back home that a good family friend owns. I knew exactly what I wanted before we got there, I just needed to make sure Shay saw for himself what I wanted. I mean come on, I'm going to be wearing this for the rest of my life so I gotta make sure it's on point! I knew Shay was the one when I lost interest in everyone else. It was like nothing else mattered and I fell so deeply in love. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I can't wait to spend the rest of our lines together!

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Ariana: Tom and I Have Reached Our Boiling Points

Ariana is more convinced than ever that the Miami affair didn't happen.

Right off the bat, I want to get something out of the way: I’m not the smartest person I've ever met in my life (I’ve also never technically "met" myself, so that choice of words is hilarious.). I didn't mean that seriously; I let my frustrations get to me, and I lashed out. There are much better and more clear ways to express my point of view without sounding like a total ---hole. Smooth move, Ferguson.


That being said, when you live your life amid second and third-hand rumors and lies, it's hard to have an objective point of view. Watching conversations that I wasn't present for gives me a much clearer perspective…it’s an out-of-body experience.


Let's be clear: Jax didn't "crack," "reveal," or "admit" anything. He never made a choice between being loyal and being honest, because he has never been either of those things (and I doubt even knows the definition of those words). I was so frustrated that people were interested in the “story” and the gossip and were so desperate for it to be true that they weren't paying attention to the fact that NONE of it made any sense!


Every single time that someone attempts to perpetuate this story about Tom, their story changes, without fail. Each person involved has their own reasons for doing so. While neither Tom nor I have anything to actually worry about, both of us reached our boiling points due to the relentlessness with which this has been brought up. We’ve always told the truth, but because it’s not interesting, people jumped at the chance to buy into the bullsh--. I mean, there are people who still believe that our relationship started as an affair. I don’t have to go on a ridiculous crusade to "clear my name" and then act as though I've been a martyr to truth. But if that’s what helps someone sleep better at night? Hopefully a good night's rest will help them be a better human.


I've been told that I'm pretending to be someone I'm not, that I'm fake, because I'm not interested in petty drama, or because Tom and I don't feel the need to hide our happiness. I've been told I'm shady and mean, because I'm not nice 100% of the time, but when I am, I get called a doormat. Guess what? I’m a three-dimensional human being, like the rest of the world. I’ve got issues: I’m not forthright with my feelings, I have crippling anxiety, cellulite, and my hair always refuses to part where I want. But while I may not be nice 25/8, I try not to be rude to anyone who doesn't deserve it.


2014 was the best year of my life in so many ways, exacerbated by the fact that my 2013 was full of tragedy, struggle, and pain. Tom has always been a good friend to me, and I feel so incredibly grateful for the life we have together. I am so proud of him and proud to be his partner and teammate. Tom always has my back, and I will always have his.
The bottom line is that some people will love you, some people will hate you, but most people don't care either way. I'm doing the very best I can, and that's all I can do. Gossip, rumors, and a flair for the dramatic rank very low on my list of priorities. I'm so thankful for the people who have always been there for me. It's such a great feeling to know that there are wonderful and kind people in this world. I'm truly lucky to know so many.


True love is real. Onward and upward. Live long and prosper. In case I don't see you: good afternoon, good evening, and good night.

 

 

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