Golnesa "GG" Gharachedaghi

GG recounts her frenemy's many almost apologies.

on Nov 26, 20130

I've been super busy flying to Never Neverland and eating salami, but I'm back now and ready to dish it out for y'all. Let me start by saying i'm very happy for my boy Mike for making such an effort to make his business grow. I know starting a new business is tough, but with hard work and determination anything can work!

Watching Lilly express herself to Asa makes me realize that I too should have said something at the dinner table. I am friends with Lilly, and I wish I could have been more supportive. It's just difficult because everyone is always getting on my case about being involved in drama, so I decided to sit back and let them hash it out. Both girls know that I'm their friend. So, for now, I'm not picking sides.

Time to go camping!!! I've been going to EarthTrek Expeditions for 14 years now. Its truly one of my favorite places in the whole world. Camping is my favorite thing to do, and I always feel my best while in nature. I still owe Reza a friendly kick in the ass for bringing MJ out of nowhere. But because I know he did it with good intentions, I guess I'm not that mad. Seeing the diva MJ at the camp ground acting too cool for school was quite annoying. Even if you've never been camping before, just shut your mouth and try to participate in a positive way, especially when you know you're there on someone else's family trip. The first time I spoke with MJ she claims she was sorry. Then she said what she did was funny and shady. And now, here we are again talking about it and she's saying she's not sorry at all. I don't know about you guys, but i'm getting motion sickness from all these turns this bitch is taking with me.

For a mere moment I actually thought that MJ would be able to let down her ego and pride and just admit that what she did was hurtful and wrong. But she keeps trying to justify herself and somehow thinks that she's going to convince me to believe her. It's also not very helpful that her cheerleader Reza laughs at everything she says, making her believe she is funny for being such a bitch to me. Who knows if the friendship between us will ever be the same. All I know is that I was hurt by one of my dear friends, and she is sitting back laughing about hurting me. 

I always come camping to get away from the drama in my daily life and to center myself. With MJ's presence and lack of understanding, that purpose was lost. I am, however, happy Reza and MJ got a chance to experience (what I consider to be) such a fun white water rafting trip. Perhaps in an ideal world, we can all get back to a happy place and come back here next year and have an authentic good time together... without the "sorry, not sorry" attitude!

70 comments
TaterTott
TaterTott

Reza is a complete hypocrite who pretends to be a good friend... and talks so much crap on everyone. That annoying whiney voice when he cries! OMG.... shut the F up! Shave that Adams Family mustache for heavens sake!!!

TaterTott
TaterTott

GG looks like a troll or some sort of rodent. Not attractive at all and her personality makes it all the worse. She wonders why she can't keep a man... she is a mess. MJ constantly seems incoherent... ugh and must she make her breasts tough her chin everyday? Gross.  they are FAT SAG BAGS that need a hoist to lift them.  The entire cast is a bunch of bumbling fools with too much time and money... and alcohol. Their country must be ashamed!

 

Rebeccactn
Rebeccactn

You are 100% right GG.  If I were in your shoes I wouldn't even know what to do.  No way I could ever trust a friend like that again.  MJ had no right to do that especially the kind of friend you were to her when everyone turned their back on her.

moroccanbabe35
moroccanbabe35

I, for one, am getting sick and tired of hearing everyone, under the sun and moon, complain of GG's behavior.  I absolutely despise Asa, Reza and MJ for being the manipulators they are.  Sure, Lilly comes off as slightly conceited but she is NO backstabber, GG has a temper (and in MOST cases her temper is justified), but she is NO backstabber, Mike is an upstanding, decent guy, but he is NO backstabber.  There are only three backstabbers on this show and they manipulate and destroy everyone's lives around them.  They cause the real damage.  Regardless of whether or not, people knowingly annoy GG to get her to fly off the handle is not the issue.  I like her because she FEELS and is passionate and yes, there are men who tolerate women like her, if she is HOT and wouldn't look twice at a nice girl who never has a temper but is ugly...so let's cut the crap - BOTH MEN AND WOMEN put up with the worst qualities in members of the opposite sex, IF they are good-looking.  Her temper does not drive men away.  Having a partner boils down to destiny, serendipity, sheer luck and some hard work (in terms of being willing to date others and actually go outside of your house).  I've seen men and women with the worst personalities, happily married.  So let's stop being superficial about GG's temper.

 

In every situation, GG has gotten angry, she WAS justified.  From one girl with a temper, to another, I understand fully where GG comes from.  Asa used to mercilessly judge GG.  Asa's "nose" comment was a DIG and her H&M comment was a way of politely insulting GG as if to say: "if you didn't have daddy's money, you'd be shopping at the poor man's store".  Asa kept judging her based on her clothes, money, whether or not she had a job, her nose...and btw, Asa is NOT invested in the Persian nose business.  She is lucky she wasn't born with a big nose and that's why she can brag that she never needed to take any cartilage out of her nose.  Asa steals from other cultures all the time including Nigerian, Egyptian, Indian, Native American, in combination with '80s style fashion.  She is a self-hating Persian who claims to be original but can't keep her hands off of other cultures (which does come off as racist at times), so who is she to criticize GG.  MJ is jealous GG can even cheat on a man if she wanted to and jump from guy to guy because MJ CANNOT GET A MAN HERSELF!!!!!!!  She wants GG to be alone like she is and MJ is turning out to be as vicious as her mother is.

 

I never understood why people got involved in other people's business.  I knew a girl that did that to another girl - told her she should dump her boyfriend because he's a "bad boy".  Even if he was, it's not her place.  Clearly, the girl envied her friend's boyfriend and wish she had a better quality man otherwise why would she care.  It's not about helping - it's all about getting people to agree with your point of view and that's the ultimate sign of IMMATURITY...forcing other people to see only your viewpoint.

 

GG use your temper WHEN necessary, otherwise, dump these so-called friends.  You are the only person, like Lilly, who is very loyal and expects others to reciprocate the kindness you show them.  Unfortunately, not all people are nice and it's naïve to think that everyone will be...that's where GG needs to change her perspective on humanity.  The only criticism I have for you, my darling, is to WORK and make your own money, it teaches self-respect and responsibility and you can be free of your father in not relying on me.

 

It's time for people to start validating GG.  Her emotions are usually right.  She takes things seriously because she has more loyalty and empathy than most people and sees what is right and wrong.  In a weird way, she has morals but Asa, Reza and MJ don't - they are the types of people that poison society.

luree15
luree15

GG you have changed soooo much!!! Love you!!!!!

 

PetraG
PetraG

I must be on a different planet.  Im not sure why people have anything negative to say to GG regarding "this topic".  A friend, when seeing you make hypocritical, poor, rash decisions regarding your love life (no ones business),  will pull you aside later and want to talk to/ counsel you in a better place than a bar. MJ clearly, barely knowing Sean anyway, whispers in this mans ear her bff's indiscretions, and for what reason?  She has an investment in his happiness over her friend of many years?  Did she think Sean would be pleased with GG when told?  Im not buying the snake oil MJ is selling that she did this for GG's own good.  Just doesn't make sense.  It is clear to me, that MJ had a chip on her shoulder when GG appeared to be on Lily's side during the rsvp, not rsvp sit down dinner birthday-gate.  MJ took her chance to get even with GG when she got wiggy over butt googling.  Immature for sure on both their parts. But ya know. Give GG a break.  Her sister has her back, literally telling MJ she was wrong and she wouldn't be friends with that.  I really liked seeing that btw........  Meanwhile by the fire, GG is having a talk with her father about the knife in her back, and her father completely dismisses her.  Zero validation, and appears to automatically assume what GG thinks is the opposite of truth.  I wonder if that wouldn't drive anyone crazy, let alone someone as passionate? as GG.  I think she spends a lot of time defending herself because she is um, explosive and a bit colorful that no one takes her seriously.  Even when she is right. I find it hard to believe that anyone wouldn't feel betrayed if done the same.  Ahhh Bravo is great for the amateur psychiatrist!

tobey
tobey

MJ is not worth having as a friend.  She, like Reza, change with the tides. They only have eyes for each other because they enjoy talking bad about their people and others all the time. I am glad you are growing up GG, you have made great strides and I am beginning to like you. 

piperbeau
piperbeau

Why don't you put a link to your extension line on this blog??!! I notice Lilly has a link to her line?! 

bridgeportexec@sbcglobal.net
bridgeportexec@sbcglobal.net

GG you have sooo many apologies to extend but don't ,can't you see the hypocrisy you display oops I forgot who I was writing to? Seriously you need the help you keep speaking about, and someone has to encourage your lovely father to stop spoiling you it's doing more harm than good way more! Go to work and have the self esteem you don't!

luvs_frogs
luvs_frogs

LMBO! Seriously, you're going to flip out on your b/f for checking out a nice rear end - when you're making out with someone else - LOOKING vs. Touching? Hmm. - It's okay for you to cheat - and he can't look? How stupid does that sound? -  Let's get real too - Your NOT Mad at MJ - you're mad that your man now knows what kind of person you truly are. - Hopefully he's smart and keeps walking.

cinchy
cinchy

"For a mere moment I actually thought that MJ would be able to let down her ego and pride . . ."

 

Heh, don't hold your breath.  People like that NEVER admit they're wrong.  

 

Gotta give major credit to GG for sticking up for her friend and for being able to (mostly) keep cool.  She's made lots of progress. 

erica8123
erica8123

I could never have a friend with a temper like yours.  However, you are entertaining to watch

biancashines
biancashines

Tough chick, just lose that, and you would be perfect.

methinks
methinks

Have you ever noticed that the people who accuse their love interests of indiscretions (without good cause), are most likely committing far more serious indiscretions themselves?  I wouldn't be happy watching it either.  That being said, it wasn't MJ's responsibility to "teach you a lesson". 

lachihuahua
lachihuahua

I have enjoyed watching you so far this season. It is clear you are really working on your anger and perhaps, other things. Good for you!

cwp801
cwp801

I used to love watching this show, but GG is so sickening to watch and makes my blood boil!  She is so BiPolar and what ever meds she is on is NOT enough; that is for sure!  Who ever heard of an almost 30 year old grown azz woman that can not work in the work place because she can not get along with other adults?  Her father needs to wake up and cut her loose or she will never change and will never get married, because NO man will ever put up with her the way she acts now!  It sure seems like she is only happy when she can totally have her way about everything and is bossing everyone else around!  How sad!  Life doesn''t work that way honey!  Reza sure amazed me with his comment about "white people being hillbillies" while they were on the camping trip!"  I thought better of him than that!  Asa sure seems to think she has evolved into something above everyone else... problem is no one knows WHAT that is!  What is with the head dress and crap she's wearing across her nose?  When in Rome... You do what the Roman's do honey!  (Come back to reality!  singing a song didn't make you some star or someone famous!!!)   Dressing in your THRIFT store style and calling yourself a Pristiss does not make one someone famous in THIS country, let me tell ya!!!  

Monababy
Monababy

Move forward from the MJ thing, it is useless.  Just know that most of your viewers can see the reality of this situation and she is embarrassing herself by choosing this to stick to. MJ has learned very well, from her mother, how to not apologize or forgive; it is sad really.  Keep it classy like you are!  The camping trip looked really fun.

Blond13
Blond13

MJ and Reza both owe you an apology. MJ wasn't even at the birthday party!! She didn't see a thing, yet, she took what Reza said about you and Shayan and did what any mean chick would: put your indiscretion on blast in front of Sean. MJ and Reza are like 2 bratty siblings; they love each other, they hate each other, but together they hate on everyone else. Keep up the good work GG, you are truly making progress with your behavior and I feel distancing yourself from Brat 1 and Brat 2 will only help you more.

TK810
TK810

Great job this year so far. We can tell ur trying and helping ur sister. I think that since ur sister got hurt, she needs ur help and you were in a position to give her comfort. This is great for ur relationship b/c she was too much like a mother to you last season.  Ur mother seems very childlike (funny though) and ur father is focused on earning $ for the fam. I feel like ur sister took on a mother role she shouldn't have - she loves u so she did, but thats not going to help. I think ur family needs to make you take more and more personal responsibility. Since last season u hit rock bottom - u have realized u need to work, which is great! MJ is just like her mom - she needs to work on her issues too.

Andrea91745
Andrea91745

Get over it.  If you guys were "on a 2 day break" then what does it matter if MJ told or not?  Not only that but you get mad when he looks at someone's butt but you can make out with another guy.  Do you see her point?? The sad part is she's too confused to state her case as well as I did for her.

shysharon
shysharon

too bizarre to be true! and she can't apologize? Can't be real!

DesL
DesL

GG, I feel like this whole mess is pay back for you not having MJ's back with LJ over the whole RSVP thing. I could be wrong. In that regard, you were quite definitive that you were right and did not have her back and now she is taking that same approach. 

 

Beyond that does MJ owe you an apology, yes. She is/was your friend and told your current boyfriend some very sensitive information. Now, do you have some responsibility in this equation, yes. MJ was not there the night this whole "cheating" went down, so you had to have told her or confirmed it, and you did do it. Had you not participated in the act you would not be in the position, girl code or not. It is always nice to play victim and blame the person that "betrayed" you but remember the easiest way to steer clear of these situations is not create them. 

 

Moving forward, MJ will not apologize. That is clear and it is getting old. Either forget about and move on (it is not like this dude was your husband and we have seen you date lots of guys already), or decide you're not friends and move on. Either way, let it go. 

piperbeau
piperbeau

MJ should just apologize! Period! However you and her do make for great reality television! I hope in the end you'll will have each other's back!! I though Reza took a great risk bringing MJ to the campground he's definitely has cojones! But like I said before it makes for great t.v.

shopper
shopper

In this case you were completely right in your position with MJ. She's completely playing you and actually acting EXACTLY as her mother treats her. It's not her place to get involved in your relationship even though you should not have a double standard of expectation from anyone whether lover or friend in regards to what happened at the club and what you did at Lily's party. But that being said is still none of her business to get involved period. Don't let her get over on you. She's just maybe doing it to to mess with someone because her mother does it to her and like Reza said she thinks you will fall for it.

AddictedToBravo25
AddictedToBravo25

You are doing remarkably well in your life GG. Don't let these other so called friends interfere in that. You don't need them. Time to take care of you. Best wishes!

EastofHeden
EastofHeden

GG,   I want to applaud you for what I see as really trying and making strides at working on some of your issues.  We all have them and to see you address yours and observe you sincerely working to overcome yours is inspiring and a positive which seems to be lacking in this genre of entertainment.  Keep your head up and stay strong.  Youre a beautiful, smart lady with a lot going for yourself.  Don't let other's issues get in the way of working through your own.  It was sad to watch you try to work things out with Mj and see both MJ's and Reza's reactions.  It was as if they wanted to set you up to fail.  It would not appear that either of them are a friend, I'd seek out Lily's friendship.  She's more where you are now.  G'luck with everything.

lucky8
lucky8

GG, I hope this gets posted!  You were a very strong person to accept Reza bringing MJ to your family camping trip.  Is it just Persians or is Reza really that stupid for bringing MJ????  Good intentions for who (you, him or her?????)!  In his interviews he makes digs at how you will stab someone in the stomach while talking to them in their face - - He laughs at whatever MJ says or does - - doesn't he remember how much he said he hated that bitch and her mother is a bitch too!!!  Now that he is back on good terms with MJ, Mike is left hanging at the door.  The next thing you know, he'll be forcing Mike out of his office and bringing MJ back!  Back to the point, you are 100% correct in stating that if you made out with whomever, it was none of MJ's business to tell your "boyfriend"!  I don't care if you two argue a lot or not, it's still none of her business.  You think that maybe, just maybe, she felt a little jealous seeing you with a boyfriend since she can't seem to keep one.  Someone needs to tell her to lose some weight (particularly in her fat face) - she is not sexy or attractive!  And will someone please tell her to start wearing her size and not Lilly's size!  For God sakes, can't she see that she can't fit her clothes.  Her mother was right to get on her case.  I hope that you and Lilly become friends so it will irk the hell out of MJ and Reza!  Reza is a two-faced twit - reminds me of gay friend of mine!  I love gay guys (for real), but they are worse than women!!!!  Lastly, there have been so many times I agreed with the opposite side, but this time, I think you know that everyone has your back except MJ!!!!!  She has a lot of growing up to do!!!!

captmerka
captmerka

GG it was interesting to watch you 'deal' with MJ showing up at the camp with Reza.  Despite your surprise/shock you seemed to carry on without blowing your stack. congrats. What I do not understand is why you and MJ continue to "dance" together...each of you playing off the other's weaknesses.  By now each of you should be aware of how you operate and where the dysfunctionalism is....it's like you two 'need' to beat each other up with expectations and disappointments.  The things that were not met by your parents or hers cannot be fixed this way.  I guess when you decide that you comprehend "how" she functions and what her LIMITS are...you will stop 'dancing around in circles' ?? hopefully..??  It's easy for folks who watch the aftermath....to wonder what the point of continuing this painful unfulfilling 'friendship'.   Finding a good therapist and really being HONEST...like when you hurt, NOT to cover it over with anger...but instead to do the rational thing...to ADMIT YOUR PAIN.  What's wrong with owning it?  see who listens or supports you shift to honesty..Your move to honesty will trigger others to be honest or 'get off the pot'.....wishing you better and happier relationships. ( i noticed that when you've been drinking alcohol you lose your grip and get into trouble....so you more "choices" to make...).   good luck and best regards 

leuenberger2010
leuenberger2010

Hey GG!

Know where you are coming from with MJ and the thing is she will never say she is sorry cause in her mind she didn't do anything wrong.Your best bet is to move on from this and just know for future reference that she really isn't what you thought her to be friend wise. Don't waste anymore of your time on this situation cause in some weird way she is winning and this gives her the upper hand. She knows you want an apology and I think beating around the bush on purpose. She def had no right to get in on your relationship and if this was a new friendship I would've kicked her to the curb but since it has been years for you two, chalk this up to you both agree to disagree. You know you are in the right and that is all that matters in your heart. Just tread lightly from her on out with her.

Dreid123
Dreid123

I'm so over it!! Your crew does nothing but back stab each other.

avalis
avalis

Gigi,

I can understand your resentment and hurt feelings toward MJ.  She was totally out of line in divulging any information about you to your boyfriend, especially if it was of a negative nature.  I think we are seeing another side of MJ this season and I hate to say but it isn't very flattering.  It's clear that her renewed closeness with Reza has emboldened her and gone to her head.  She now thinks she can treat others with horrible disrespect.  I guess she learned nothing last season when Reza and Asa disrespected her horribly and called her all kinds of names.  You need to stay away from her, don't let her shenanigans get to you.  I would keep her at arm's length and also Reza.  I'm glad you are close with your sister and it's her and your other genuine friends that you need to cultivate and stay close to. 

nida614
nida614

GG, 

 

You are 100% correct. Your relationship is NONE of MJ business. She was way out of line and the fact she can not see how wrong she was is very telling of what kind of friend she is. The other thing I caught was how she was judging you for making out with other guy. A real friend has your back and helps you when you need it, someone you can confide in and someone who will tell you the truth when you ask for it.

 

She really needs to get off her high horse, wonder how she ever got up there in the first place, she's nothing great, not pretty, skinny or nice. Ugly thru and thru.... Keep it moving and find a friend who will not throw you under the bus for their own amusement or entertainment.

Skullzgirl6
Skullzgirl6

Reza had no business bringing MJ to GG's vacation, especially when there is so much drama with them.  This plot line w/Reza has made this show look scripted and fake. You have lost as loyal viewer. Reza has come off as just another catty gay guy, and not a loyal friend.  MJ on the other hand, is a low class, slob, who looks like she is "acting" this drama out, which proves my theory that this situation is fake. I see GG acting better and attempting reason before anger, but this really has lowered my opinion of the show.

 

We also have not seen any business going on with Reza & Mike.  I had a feeling Reza was promising Mike a fruitful union, but has made no efforts toward this.  Reza speaks cherto pert & mozakhraf!!

 

Why can't I post on Shahs '  FB page?  I see other posts, but there is nowhere to post....have I been blocked? Please answer this for me.

 

 

tobey
tobey

GG, I love the way you're changing.  MJ treats you awful, with friends like her, who needs enemies?  Run the other way when you see her, she is bad news. I don't respect Reza either, he is a two-face too.  You, however, are becoming the lady Mike always knew you were.  Keep going strong, props to you. I like and respect the way your sister stood up to MJ too.

Cindy81
Cindy81

MJ is a loser...I can definitely say that you were not in the wrong this time.  You did not deserve what she did

 

On a side note you should not be cheating on your bf though lol

damond123
damond123

You're my Girl!!!!  You keep it so real-luv u!!! Please let go of SHAdy MJ and Reza--two deserve each others....

Adoniat
Adoniat

GG Joon,  I loved seeing you camping.  It's like a totally different girl!  That is really your element!  I am so impressed with the way you have handled MJ thus far.  I would have lost it back at the dinner party when she kept playing with your necklace while you were trying to have a serious talk.  She was purposely disrespecting you and pushing your buttons with that.  Don't bother with the apology, she is NOT your friend.  In fact Reza & her both are nobody's real friend...they change with the wind.   

shelly3630@gmail.com
shelly3630@gmail.com

GG, no matter if what you did was right, wrong, this or that, it is no ones business but yours to discuss. But first can I say, you are a beautiful women, there are other beautiful women out there, you looked at that women's butt, why wouldn't your man look at her butt? You would be more beautiful to a man and to all if you would be more secure, with yourself. And I get it, you have been cheated on, who hasn't, for god sake, Pamela Anderson has been!! I have been there, but let me tell you something, I am 40 (from what I am told, don't look it at all), my better half, who gets hit on all the time, I mean all the time, he is 6'7, 280 lbs, dark and beautiful, but guess what, I can go out and the same goes for me, but what he honestly loves more then anything about us, is I make our live uncomplicated, I enjoy beauty, and it is natural to look, or I will point it out, it is just a look, it is not the look he gives me. There will always be a women with a better butt, boobs, this or that, they are with you, because of you, own it, love it, and you will find a relationship, that is real, fun, and honest. Something MJ, knows nothing about, and couldn't even imagine. The reason that poor excuse for a friend, women, and adult, is because you allow her to behave like that, you don't stop it, she is a child, and needs to be put in her place. You didn't say anything at that table for Lily for one reason, because you were afraid, of the bully, that hight school lunch table, that was going on, was disgusting and I get it you didn't want to be the out cast. But, if you don't want to continue to be her whipping girl, you need to get a set of balls, and show her, you are more of a women they she could ever be, and her side kick, can go get a life to, because the best revenge is becoming really happy, with some real friends, real love, something those two don't have. Take a step back, notice they are just going in "circles" and not getting anywhere, just buying "stuff" to fill the emptiness to fill their empty lives. I don't have half of the stuff they do and I am richer then they will ever be!

9judgenot
9judgenot

Gigi, this time I'm on your side.  I have always wanted to like you but  your first impression (last year) was not good and it seemed like you needed a lot of therapy for your anger issues and how to deal with them.  I must say I'm proud of  you for not going crazy completely and making yourself look like a psycho.  This time however, I think your showing a lot of growth and handling the situation with MJ like an adult and MJ is acting like the child in class who wants to impress her peers by being a bitch to you (She then appears important).  No doubt about it, MJ was wrong for outing you with your boyfriend and then not apologizing for it.  Her lame excuses were just plan dumb.  She is enjoying every minute of this to me.  Looks more like she trying to impress Reza, who seemed to have put her up to it.  I thought MJ wasn't even at Lilly's party, so how could she know who you kissed or made out with.  True girlfriends don't act this way.  Unfortunately, for MJ she doesn't know how to be a friend in a healthy way without putting a knife in your back with a smile.  Thick skin my *ss.  I hope you don't fall into the pit that is being set-up for you.  When people are use to you acting a fool they tend to push your buttons negatively, so you can give the result they're accustom to seeing (out of control anger).

 

cheeks78
cheeks78

Dare I say that although I am not a fan of your past behavior, I agree with you about MJ. She has a problem admitting when she is wrong and I think her comments to your BF, whether true or not, was totally out of line and none of her business to disclose. She may have been trying to help you and I kind of see that, but she did it in the wrong way. Sometimes it's hard to be friends with a woman who can't seem to keep a man. She seems like a lot of fun to be around but not the kind of girlfriend that you share private things with because she has no self control...especially when she is drunk and that seems like....all the time! I still think you have a temper issue, but take a deep breath before you react and just take MJ for what she is...a nut case! Kind of like yourself, but completely disloyal!

wiscfan
wiscfan

I don't know how you held your temper.  Proud of you, girl!  MJ is clearly in the wrong and just too stubborn to admit it.

Phillygirl2011
Phillygirl2011

Keep taking the high road. MJ is mess. She is jealous and pathetic.

Jaywill
Jaywill

Yes, why won't she apologize?...GG, you and your sister are ABSOLUTELY right- I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who would try to sabotage myrelationship which was obviously done out of jealousy.  You are doing a GREAT job with controlling your anger.  Last night you made your points calmly and clearly, good for you!!!! Why is your relationship her business?  If she had a problem with what you were saying to your bf she should've pulled you aside. She wants you alone and lonely like she is. You are 1000% percent right and though it may be painful, sometimes we have to let go of people who hold us back in the place we are trying to get away from.  They want to keep you in your "dark" place so they feel better about themselves.  Set MJ free and you might want to consider Reza also.  Honestly the two of them run around giggling at the silliest things like a pair of middle school teenage girls.... PS The "better" you become, the "better" people you'll attract in your life!

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

why MJ called you out makes no sense is it because you like Lilly and she is wants Lilly off the friend list

bootsie
bootsie

GG, proud of how positive you are trying to be don't let these people bait you into acting crazy

janshell
janshell

MJ's behavior is deplorable! Don't trust Reza haven't you been watching the last few seasons? He will stab anyone in the back just for a few laughs! He really has some self hate issues going on don't involve yourself in that mess! You are right about MJ! Something is wrong with her!

ccollier08
ccollier08

Seriously, i do not see how you do it with MJ. Her and Reza deserves each other..

Irishgirl2
Irishgirl2

You actually make sense. Therapy is working obviously. Now lets get MJ there ASAP!

cinchy
cinchy

 @shopper "She's completely playing you and actually acting EXACTLY as her mother treats her."

 

I hope MJ realizes that soon. 

PrincessPeach
PrincessPeach

@lucky8 Well, it's your lucky day....your comment got posted (as you say). So many exclamation points almost made me miss your references not only to MJ being fat but Reza being gay! (!!!!) Of all the dishonest, petty, entitled things the people do on this show, what you object to is their weight and sexual orientation? I hope Bravo widens your worldview a bit. But, if you figure out how to lose weight specifically in the face, please let me know.