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We Finally Know Why the RHONY Ladies Are So Wild About Harry Dubin

Ramona Singer explained it all on #WWHL.

By Laura Rosenfeld
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Long before Tom D'Agostino was the apple of nearly every New York Housewife's eye, there was Harry Dubin. The Real Housewives of New York City pal was famous for not only being the ex-husband of alum Aviva Drescher but for also having dated Sonja Morgan and Luann D'Agostino in the past. 

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It was actually pretty fitting for Harry to attend Ramona Singer's cocktail party showing off her newly-renovated apartment during Wednesday night's RHONY since it turned out to be chock-full of exes. Not only were Ramona, Sonja, Luann, Tom, and Harry there, but Tom's ex Missy also made an appearance that included a bit of an eyebrow-raising chat with Harry. We also learned that RHONY newbie Tinsley Mortimer goes way back with Harry, having known him when he used to hang out with another alum, Kelly Bensimon, in Miami. (Don't worry; we have a handy-dandy flow chart to help you keep this all straight.)

So what is it about Harry that makes him so irresistible among the RHONY set? Ramona explained during Wednesday's Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen After Show that these Manhattanites love him because "he's extremely charming and personable and fun to be with. And he's kind-hearted and warm and generous." 

And for the record, no, Ramona has never boarded the Harry train (if you know what we mean), and no, she would never date him. They're just friends, you guys.

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Ramona also explained that she basically couldn't avoid having all those exes at her party, either, especially since many of these former flames have remained friends over the years. "You know what, it's a really small world, the Upper East Side," she said. "And Missy is actually a good friend of mine. In fact, she's coming to the Hamptons to spend the whole weekend at my house." 

It keeps all the RHONY happenings interesting, that's for sure. "I have to say, it's one of the reasons I love the New York Housewives, 'cause you do all truly travel in the same circle, and the insestuousness of it is one of the things that makes it so amazing," Andy Cohen weighed in on the After Show. 

We couldn't agree more. 

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