Shocked by Lea's Secrets

"...He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her."  - John 8:7

I was in shock to learn that my friend of seven years never even told me her real name, and I was even more shocked to learn that Lea had a secret marriage that she hid from her friends and business partner at that time -- as the People Magazine titled "Love and the Law" -- clearly states.
 
How ironic is it that she has been calling me a liar and crucifying me for not disclosing my marriage to her and yet she did the same!? I understand that she had her reasons at the time for not disclosing her marriage to anyone, and I would never criticize her for that. However, it baffles me that instead of being understanding of my reasons, she was the first to cast a stone at me...that is just the "pot calling the kettle black."

Despite all her blatant attacks against me and my family, I still made sure my son remained friends with her son -- I believe kids should never pay for their parents’ mistakes. She had been inappropriately texting my son directly and asking him to come over -- I found that very disrespectful! My son was only 13 at the time and he doesn't go anywhere without my consent. However, when she showed me some respect and called me asking my permission, I gave her my word my son would go to her son's birthday party.

I had my bridal shower that same afternoon, but I made sure Frederic took Alex early enough to set up for RJ's birthday party, and I left my own shower early to be able to be at there for her son's birthday. Although I was still feeling anxious and awkward around her due to the way she treated me the previous time she invited me into her house, I still was happy to be there for her son and to see my son wish a happy birthday to him.
 
Wishing you a great week full of love and peace!

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